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Because the relationship was built on sex.

Now I see why Buhari went to London to complain about naija youths
Can you imagine the long epistle you wrote about fallacy but I’m sure u can’t write three lines about what you want to be in future......

Mcslize:
Sex bond a girl to a guy. The problem is not about asking for sex. If you are there forming a gentle man by not instigating things to get down with her, trust me, another guy will be helping you in that area while you form a gentle man. Don't be surprised when you call and she busy your calls or switch off her phone. She is simply with another guy being serviced. When she is done she will call you back that she went for a church service and she was just coming back or she went to visit her grandma before when you called and her phone went off. No where to charge it.

Of course, you will believe everything she tells you. There is nothing like when you love a girl you will not ask for sex. In this era? Form a gentle man to a girl and she will use you to play a Table tenis while another guy is shining her Congo. So one of the agenda when you meet a girl you like ,after a couple of meetings is to have her bleep you. It is very necessary because we have heard so many stories when a guy will be forming a gentle man by not getting down with a girl, and trust me she starts bleeping in his back cuz more like she sees the guy as the gentle man type that just want tonplay the gentle man role. You are now the husband material she will keep for marriage because you do not ask for sex but you are spending on her while she is frolicking around being bleeped by another guy. You will truly be a husband material. But don't be heartbroken when you find out she has been fvcking with another guy in your back. Shine your eye if you are a guy. These kinda loyalty doesn't exist in the world of a woman. If you like do not have sex with her she will still be bleeping another guy. Las las you will still think she is a good girl after all as far she do things codedly. If a guy wants to form a gentle man it's not for sex aspect. To act impotent to a girl is not hard o but she will be fvcking with other guys during that period you are forming a gentle man who doesn't want to bleep. If you don't bleep her, another sharp guy will do the job and she will start loving that guy that bleep her. Thats when you will know you've fvcked up for not bleeping with her. Fear ladies bro.

excessmon:
Now I see why Buhari went to London to complain about naija youths
Can you imagine the long epistle you wrote about fallacy but I’m sure u can’t write three lines about what you want to be in future......

What I want to be in the future? Do I look like an adolescent who is still trying to figure out what he wants to be in the future? I am already who I want to be.

Go and talk with your mates and discuss what you want to be. You think everyone here is like you?

chigoizie7:
Because sex was the reason why the relationship started in the 1st place.


Sadly, na for naija ee plenty pass.


Girls will only have sex with you if you deceive them into relationships. Especially if you are not paying for it.


[/b]Where I currently live, if you see a girl and fancy having sex with her, strike a convo, tell her what you want, if she feels same, she will have sex with you. And everyone goes their way.[b]

So, if I see a girl I want to nyash, the only thing for me is to start a relationship with her, nyash her and go my way. Simple.

may I know the location?

Lightangel65:
Annoying? How by stating facts

how are your opinions fact?

I generally ghost on any female after sex because of stinking pussy.

I have even ghosted on a girl before sex because we were chilling on a couch and she sat down near my head, and I could smell the pussy-rot.
Na so I jus begin tell am say I dey very tired.

Stank pussy is such a terrible thing.
For a lot of girls, sex is all they are good for.
So to now have stank pussy on top again is literally a travesty to her existence. She had ONE job!

Your orientation sucks. Not every girl is crazy about sex.[s]

Mcslize:
Sex bond a girl to a guy. The problem is not about asking for sex. If you are there forming a gentle man by not instigating things to get down with her, trust me, another guy will be helping you in that area while you form a gentle man. Don't be surprised when you call and she busy your calls or switch off her phone. She is simply with another guy being serviced. When she is done she will call you back that she went for a church service and she was just coming back or she went to visit her grandma before when you called and her phone went off. No where to charge it.

Of course, you will believe everything she tells you. There is nothing like when you love a girl you will not ask for sex. In this era? Form a gentle man to a girl and she will use you to play a Table tenis while another guy is shining her Congo. So one of the agenda when you meet a girl you like ,after a couple of meetings is to have her bleep you. It is very necessary because we have heard so many stories when a guy will be forming a gentle man by not getting down with a girl, and trust me she starts bleeping in his back cuz more like she sees the guy as the gentle man type that just want tonplay the gentle man role. You are now the husband material she will keep for marriage because you do not ask for sex but you are spending on her while she is frolicking around being bleeped by another guy. You will truly be a husband material. But don't be heartbroken when you find out she has been fvcking with another guy in your back. Shine your eye if you are a guy. These kinda loyalty doesn't exist in the world of a woman. If you like do not have sex with her she will still be bleeping another guy. Las las you will still think she is a good girl after all as far she do things codedly. If a guy wants to form a gentle man it's not for sex aspect. To act impotent to a girl is not hard o but she will be fvcking with other guys during that period you are forming a gentle man who doesn't want to bleep. If you don't bleep her, another sharp guy will do the job and she will start loving that guy that bleep her. Thats when you will know you've fvcked up for not bleeping with her. Fear ladies bro.

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themaestro08:
may I know the location?

Cape town

SillyeRabbit:
Your orientation sucks. Not every girl is crazy about sex.[s][/s]

Say that to your boyfriend if you are a girl. But if u are a guy, then you must be the sissy type of a guy and I will suggest you to swallow lots of redpills and read up Ubunja miseducations. Every girl has naughty side and crazy fantasies about sex.

It's about her finding the right guy that is able to evoke her sexual fantasies. I repeat, every girl loves sex but they don't show it like guys do with the exception of those that are circumsized. Ask iLegendd if what I said is not true. I will say it again, every girl loves sex but they don't show it like how guys show theirs.

hotwax:
Because relationships are based on lies.

I dumped a lady last month too...after sex.

She told me she only had sex once in her life. Infact the day she was disvirgined was the last sex she had.

When we had sex last month, her hole was so wide I was wondering if she has gave birth before.

Loud it......JESU!!!

Mcslize:
Say that to your boyfriend if you are a girl. But if u are a guy, then you must be the sissy type of a guy and I will suggest you to swallow lots of redpills and read up Ubunja miseducations. Every girl has naughty side and crazy fantasies about sex.

It's about her finding the right guy that is able to evoke her sexual fantasies. I repeat, every girl loves sex but they don't show it like guys do with the exception of those that are circumsized. Ask iLegendd if what I said is not true. I will say it again, every girl loves sex but they don't show it like how guys show theirs.

of course you're right my man. That girl who tells her BF she doesn't like sex or she's a good girl oftentimes she's a Player's sex slave secretly doing some depraved shet.

And any guy who actually believes his girl is good and meek and pure oftentimes doesn't know some niggah out there is screwing his girl like a po.rn St.ar

Mcslize:
Say that to your boyfriend if you are a girl. But if u are a guy, then you must be the sissy type of a guy and I will suggest you to swallow lots of redpills and read up Ubunja miseducations. Every girl has naughty side and crazy fantasies about sex.

It's about her finding the right guy that is able to evoke her sexual fantasies. I repeat, every girl loves sex but they don't show it like guys do with the exception of those that are circumsized. Ask iLegendd if what I said is not true. I will say it again, every girl loves sex but they don't show it like how guys show theirs.

.. Apt.

Mcslize:
Sex bond a girl to a guy. The problem is not about asking for sex. If you are there forming a gentle man by not instigating things to get down with her, trust me, another guy will be helping you in that area while you form a gentle man. Don't be surprised when you call and she busy your calls or switch off her phone. She is simply with another guy being serviced. When she is done she will call you back that she went for a church service and she was just coming back or she went to visit her grandma before when you called and her phone went off. No where to charge it.

Of course, you will believe everything she tells you. There is nothing like when you love a girl you will not ask for sex. In this era? Form a gentle man to a girl and she will use you to play a Table tenis while another guy is shining her Congo. So one of the agenda when you meet a girl you like ,after a couple of meetings is to have her bleep you. It is very necessary because we have heard so many stories when a guy will be forming a gentle man by not getting down with a girl, and trust me she starts bleeping in his back cuz more like she sees the guy as the gentle man type that just want tonplay the gentle man ROLE. You are now the husband material she will keep for marriage because you do not ask for sex but you are spending on her while she is frolicking around being bleeped by another guy. You will truly be a husband material. But don't be heartbroken when you find out she has been fvcking with another guy in your back. Shine your eye if you are a guy. These kinda loyalty doesn't exist in the world of a woman. If you like do not have sex with her she will still be bleeping another guy. Las las you will still think she is a good girl after all as far she do things codedly. If a guy wants to form a gentle man it's not for sex aspect. To act impotent to a girl is not hard o bumpt she will be fvcking with other guys during that period you are forming a gentle man who doesn't want to bleep. If you don't bleep her, another sharp guy will do the job and she will start loving that guy that bleep her. Thats when you will know you've fvcked up for not bleeping with her. Fear ladies bro.

100% pure undiluted concentrated truth ESPECIALLY AT BOLDED.

And the complication goes even deeper than this.

SillyeRabbit:
Your orientation sucks. Not every girl is crazy about sex.[s][/s]

of course not. But every girl is guilty until proven innocent. And a man is safe as long as he assumes his girl loves sex. Just as a man is safe as long as he assumes every girl has HIV/aids and play it safe with condoms. Same thing.

Mcslize:
Sex bond a girl to a guy. The problem is not about asking for sex. If you are there forming a gentle man by not instigating things to get down with her, trust me, another guy will be helping you in that area while you form a gentle man. Don't be surprised when you call and she busy your calls or switch off her phone. She is simply with another guy being serviced. When she is done she will call you back that she went for a church service and she was just coming back or she went to visit her grandma before when you called and her phone went off. No where to charge it.

Of course, you will believe everything she tells you. There is nothing like when you love a girl you will not ask for sex. In this era? Form a gentle man to a girl and she will use you to play a Table tenis while another guy is shining her Congo. So one of the agenda when you meet a girl you like ,after a couple of meetings is to have her bleep you. It is very necessary because we have heard so many stories when a guy will be forming a gentle man by not getting down with a girl, and trust me she starts bleeping in his back cuz more like she sees the guy as the gentle man type that just want tonplay the gentle man role. You are now the husband material she will keep for marriage because you do not ask for sex but you are spending on her while she is frolicking around being bleeped by another guy. You will truly be a husband material. But don't be heartbroken when you find out she has been fvcking with another guy in your back. Shine your eye if you are a guy. These kinda loyalty doesn't exist in the world of a woman. If you like do not have sex with her she will still be bleeping another guy. Las las you will still think she is a good girl after all as far she do things codedly. If a guy wants to form a gentle man it's not for sex aspect. To act impotent to a girl is not hard o but she will be fvcking with other guys during that period you are forming a gentle man who doesn't want to bleep. If you don't bleep her, another sharp guy will do the job and she will start loving that guy that bleep her. Thats when you will know you've fvcked up for not bleeping with her. Fear ladies bro.

Especially the grandma part

nuggarito:
Most relationships are built on lust at first sight, more relationships last even longer when it's friendship than love at first sight. A man mostly needs few important things to really love a woman

-A visionary ( someone who inspires you alot, you learn alot of things you never knew existed)
-A IndecentStar ( someone to take you to cloud 9)
-A playmate ( once in a while, you need to bring out the child in you)
-A loyal dog( someone who is loyally blind)

If you got all 4, you can never be replaced no matter how ugly you are.

FYI, this is my opinion not a general concept.

SOLID.

I've been wondering, you just met your dream kind of man/woman, first few days you both fond of each other, chatting, calling and texting each other, as a guy everything you say is funny, as a woman you re washed with compliments, sweet talks, you guys hang out and all that. Next thing he invites you over or as a guy you invite her over.
Then the real deal happens, sex!!!!!!!
Then next thing no more calls, even as a lady you no more find him funny, then wide communication gap sets in, next thing is just hello, hi and it ends there.
What exactly could be responsible for this my country men and women??

...because the devil( d**k),,,came to steal n destroy

meobizy:
This guy has said the truth. This realization kept me off dating for the longest time. I decided to Bleep oloshos only because it was straight to point. With time I started taking note of signs that a girl wants the deed. My mind is still not settled on handling relationships yet.

The reason why things end after sex? It means the chase is over and she hasn’t put forward any qualities which show she’s a keeper. Last last both parties will date for three months to one year but anything longer na marriage or wasting-time territory.

But i can't advise any guy to go and bleep olosho, it's a no no for me, instead i ll look for a female friend or an ex to bleep or give me a bj kowei

Mcslize:
Say that to your boyfriend if you are a girl. But if u are a guy, then you must be the sissy type of a guy and I will suggest you to swallow lots of redpills and read up Ubunja miseducations. Every girl has naughty side and crazy fantasies about sex.

It's about her finding the right guy that is able to evoke her sexual fantasies. I repeat, every girl loves sex but they don't show it like guys do with the exception of those that are circumsized. Ask iLegendd if what I said is not true. I will say it again, every girl loves sex but they don't show it like how guys show theirs.

No matter how calm, holy and reserved a lady is, she has her own sex fantasies and sometimes you ll be suprised the holy innocent looking ladies ve more weird fantasies than those slay queens. This is reality.

Manadan0000:
No matter how calm, holy and reserved a lady is, she has her own sex fantasies and sometimes you ll be suprised the holy innocent looking ladies ve more weird fantasies than those slay queens. This is reality.

Exactly, that's the point. But a naive man will think such lady don't know anything about sex. They won't even discuss sex with her to know her sexual imprint with the impression that she might get angry.

Ladies pretend a lot when it comes to sex based on the fact that they don't want to be seen as naughty. But I tell you, they are sexually naughty inside. If you are able to make them comfortable to discuss anything with you, you will see the loads of crazy fantasies they will share with you. All you need to do is make them feel free with u. They will share anything with you. Their sexscapades and loads of other crazy things. Not so many guys know this.

The best way to bring out the sexual side of a girl, is for you to share ur own sexual stories with her. It will loosen her up and also make her to want to share hers with you.

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Mcslize:
Sex bond a girl to a guy. The problem is not about asking for sex. If you are there forming a gentle man by not instigating things to get down with her, trust me, another guy will be helping you in that area while you form a gentle man. Don't be surprised when you call and she busy your calls or switch off her phone. She is simply with another guy being serviced. When she is done she will call you back that she went for a church service and she was just coming back or she went to visit her grandma before when you called and her phone went off. No where to charge These kinda loyalty doesn't exist in the world of a woman. If you like do not have sex with her she will still be bleeping another guy. Las las you will still think she is a good girl after all as far she do things codedly. If a guy wants to form a gentle man it's not for sex aspect. To act impotent to a girl is not hard o but she will be fvcking with other guys during that period you are forming a gentle man who doesn't want to bleep. If you don't bleep her, another sharp guy will do the job and she will start loving that guy that bleep her. Thats when you will know you've fvcked up for not bleeping with her. Fear ladies bro.

I like ur response ild love you to help me with this.....av been on of with somone I actually like for 3years,he used to stay with his frnd so there was no room for sex or anything but now owns his own place....
The thing now is he wont ask me to come over till I press it to happen...and when I finally go his either on his phone ,or picking numerous calls,and den watching insta clips while am trying to have a convo with him....when it's time to sleep he lays on the other side/edge of the bed n wouldn't make any physical contact with me....
When we wake in d morn his all bubbly and playful without body contact still o....till I leave....
He calls me evryday and somtimes acts like he has sense but when were in person deres no physical connection but still yet he talks and always acts like he really wants the whole thing...
Pls note* av not had sex with anyone within this period cause I keep telling myself this is who I want to have sex/b serious with..... I realized am just being a mumu for somone who was getting it from somewhere and just keeping me around for whatever reason is my decision right?

maya007:
I like ur response ild love you to help me with this.....av been on of with somone I actually like for 3years,he used to stay with his frnd so there was no room for sex or anything but now owns his own place....
The thing now is he wont ask me to come over till I press it to happen...and when I finally go his either on his phone ,or picking numerous calls,and den watching insta clips while am trying to have a convo with him....when it's time to sleep he lays on the other side/edge of the bed n wouldn't make any physical contact with me....
When we wake in d morn his all bubbly and playful without body contact still o....till I leave....
He calls me evryday and somtimes acts like he has sense but when were in person deres no physical connection but still yet he talks and always acts like he really wants the whole thing...
Pls note* av not had sex with anyone within this period cause I keep telling myself this is who I want to have sex/b serious with..... I realized am just being a mumu for somone who was getting it from somewhere and just keeping me around for whatever reason is my decision right?

I can relate with this scenario. There is something that is making him never want to make out with you. This may not be totally true but to an extent it may be the reason he is avoiding physical contact with you. There are guys that do not bleep a girl more than 2 to 3 times. It just happens that any girl they make out with, they just loose interest. For this reason, some guys try as much as possible never to want to sleep with a girl they think they will like to keep or marry along the line.

While this cannot be said to be a big problem, a one on one communication with him will reveal the actual reason why he is not instigating things with you.

What you need to do: meet with him, sit him down and discuss it with him. Make him to open up to you. You need to handle it in a friendly way. You can even joke with him about it. You need to know why and he is the one that will tell you why he is not sexually instigating things with you. When next you meet up, bring this up. Tell him to be honest with you and tell you why he is not getting physical with you. He will tell you why and whatever he tells you, be diplomatic about it. Don't be all haywire.

Secondly, men like what they see. When you visit to spend the night, ensure you change to something sexy for him, and wear a good cologne after taking your bath for the night, a kinda dress that will make you look irresistible to him. A pretty bum shot with a lingerie top won't be bad. All these spice things up.

Aside the above, you need to discuss with him and ask him why he is yet to make out with you after a whole 3 years that you've been together.

Mcslize:
What you need to do: meet with him, sit him down and discuss it with him. Make him to open up to you. You need to handle it in a friendly way. You can even joke with him about it. You need to know why and he is the one that will tell you why he is not sexually instigating things with you. When next you meet up, bring this up. Tell him to be honest with you and tell you why he is not getting physical with you. He will tell you why and whatever he tells you, be diplomatic about it. Don't be all haywire.

Secondly, men like what they see. When you visit to spend the night, ensure you change to something sexy for him, and wear a good cologne after taking your bath for the night, a kinda dress that will make you look irresistible to him. A pretty bum shot with a lingerie top won't be bad. All these spice things up.

Aside the above, you need to discuss with him and ask him why he is yet to make out with you after a whole 3 years that you've been together.

lol I have done all these and even more...lol
The last time I was dere I sat him down and asked him wat d problem was all he said was his always tired after work and prefers to sleep off I also asked y he always sounds different wen we talk on phone but once we see he starts acting strange he said plp respond and show emotions differently (toh) 'wic sounded silly to me'
I dont even want to have sex but just that feeling of being around somone u really like,cuddles holding hands,rough plays,kisses etc....
He would prefer we do all d love on phone but once I mention me coming over its excuses upon excuse till I finally get to go, were in same town but we see just once highest twice in a month...and nothing like this has happened to me before cause am used to guys just always wanting sex but this one is soo annoying that av gotten to the frustration stage already... mayb his not attracted and into me....Thanks for your response!

o.p point of correction..rlthships without true feelings ends after sex..I can relate..back then in scl..there was this girl I didn't really feel anything for...i js wanted 2 smash her cus she was damn hot..so d first day she visited..I smashed her and that was d end of it..next day she was calling nd begging me 2 visit her.. texting nd posting updates how much she loved me and all that..i js ignored her...even now I still feel sorry 4 what I did 2 her cus she gave me her virginity....jovita wherever u are I just wanna say i'm really sorry...but that girl clean sha..d cleanest I ever had..both mouth wise nd pussy wise..I almost suffocated her wit kissing nd licking..loool...

1 Corinthians 6:13, Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall bring to nought both it and them. But the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body.
18, Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
19, Or know ye not that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which ye have from God? and ye are not your own;
20, for ye were bought with a price: glorify God therefore in your body.

After a contract, what happens?

hotwax:
Because relationships are based on lies.

I dumped a lady last month too...after sex.

She told me she only had sex once in her life. Infact the day she was disvirgined was the last sex she had.

When we had sex last month, her hole was so wide I was wondering if she has gave birth before.

burst my head

After the reggae play the blues , after the blues everybody go home

Illustrations. If you see a nice shirt and you admire it, the moment you bought it and used it for sometimes you will loss interest in it. Mostly ,its lost not love. You just wish to have sex with her and you have accomplished your mission.