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Mcslize:
Sex bond a girl to a guy. The problem is not about asking for sex. If you are there forming a gentle man by not instigating things to get down with her, trust me, another guy will be helping you in that area while you form a gentle man. Don't be surprised when you call and she busy your calls or switch off her phone. She is simply with another guy being serviced. When she is done she will call you back that she went for a church service and she was just coming back or she went to visit her grandma before when you called and her phone went off. No where to charge it.

Of course, you will believe everything she tells you. There is nothing like when you love a girl you will not ask for sex. In this era? Form a gentle man to a girl and she will use you to play a Table tenis while another guy is shining her Congo. So one of the agenda when you meet a girl you like ,after a couple of meetings is to have her bleep you. It is very necessary because we have heard so many stories when a guy will be forming a gentle man by not getting down with a girl, and trust me she starts bleeping in his back cuz more like she sees the guy as the gentle man type that just want tonplay the gentle man role. You are now the husband material she will keep for marriage because you do not ask for sex but you are spending on her while she is frolicking around being bleeped by another guy. You will truly be a husband material. But don't be heartbroken when you find out she has been fvcking with another guy in your back. Shine your eye if you are a guy. These kinda loyalty doesn't exist in the world of a woman. If you like do not have sex with her she will still be bleeping another guy. Las las you will still think she is a good girl after all as far she do things codedly. If a guy wants to form a gentle man it's not for sex aspect. To act impotent to a girl is not hard o but she will be fvcking with other guys during that period you are forming a gentle man who doesn't want to bleep. If you don't bleep her, another sharp guy will do the job and she will start loving that guy that bleep her. Thats when you will know you've fvcked up for not bleeping with her. Fear ladies bro.

Mcslize:
In this era bro, don't think you can keep a girl without her bleeping in your back if you are not bleeping her. Even the most reserved bleep a lot. So all these no sex na wash. As a guy, I can keep to a no sex relationship but the problem will always be that such girl might be bleeping in my back. So it makes no sense. No na just dey bleep dey go to know each other sexual compatibility a long the line. When you do not make out with her, las las you've been fooled cuz she has been I taking it from another guy who is fulfilling her secret naughty fantasies. Guys don wise up. All these no sex relationship no dey work for where girls dey. They still bleep behind.

Mcslize:
Sex bond a girl to a guy. The problem is not about asking for sex. If you are there forming a gentle man by not instigating things to get down with her, trust me, another guy will be helping you in that area while you form a gentle man. Don't be surprised when you call and she busy your calls or switch off her phone. She is simply with another guy being serviced. When she is done she will call you back that she went for a church service and she was just coming back or she went to visit her grandma before when you called and her phone went off. No where to charge it.

Of course, you will believe everything she tells you. There is nothing like when you love a girl you will not ask for sex. In this era? Form a gentle man to a girl and she will use you to play a Table tenis while another guy is shining her Congo. So one of the agenda when you meet a girl you like ,after a couple of meetings is to have her bleep you. It is very necessary because we have heard so many stories when a guy will be forming a gentle man by not getting down with a girl, and trust me she starts bleeping in his back cuz more like she sees the guy as the gentle man type that just want tonplay the gentle man role. You are now the husband material she will keep for marriage because you do not ask for sex but you are spending on her while she is frolicking around being bleeped by another guy. You will truly be a husband material. But don't be heartbroken when you find out she has been fvcking with another guy in your back. Shine your eye if you are a guy. These kinda loyalty doesn't exist in the world of a woman. If you like do not have sex with her she will still be bleeping another guy. Las las you will still think she is a good girl after all as far she do things codedly. If a guy wants to form a gentle man it's not for sex aspect. To act impotent to a girl is not hard o but she will be fvcking with other guys during that period you are forming a gentle man who doesn't want to bleep. If you don't bleep her, another sharp guy will do the job and she will start loving that guy that bleep her. Thats when you will know you've fvcked up for not bleeping with her. Fear ladies bro.

hotwax:
Because relationships are based on lies.

I dumped a lady last month too...after sex.

She told me she only had sex once in her life. Infact the day she was disvirgined was the last sex she had.

When we had sex last month, her hole was so wide I was wondering if she has gave birth before.

Mokason28:
You are quite wrong bro as an elder spokesperson in the industry allow me school you a little bit

If a gals p***y is wide doesn’t mean she might have been sexually active a gal that has a juicy p***y might seem to be wide
While most gals with 3kids will still be tight because they tend not to be too juicy down there.... Am telling you outa experience as an elder in the industry with over 46 years experience

Jgoldie:
no wonder sex is so cheap

bro be careful..cape town is streaming with HIV

don't let them infect you with their freebies

ksbusari:
fucking does not not pussy wide. some pussy need just one Bleep and they get wide. Ur excuse is not reasonable. your father cheated too. it's in ur blood.

Lightangel65:
A man who truly loves you won't ever ask for sex.

Most men just want to hit and go

frozen70:
So many factors could be responsible for this

For a lady, he may not be romantic after all

His skills may not be upto what you expect

Some men don't know the power of fore plawamd the buttons or areas to concentrate on

He may have a small dick

He may be a 3 minute man

He may have unpleasant odour that's so irritating

As for guys,

She may be lousy, guys don't like lousy girls

She may not be connecting as expected during sex

She may not be responding to the touching from the guy

She may be the type that is not soo demanding tgat because the guy has over spent on her, may wish to just have her and dump her

She would have been too difficult for him to get and by the time she accepts the guy is only planning to go in with one way ticket and that's all
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emddi:
my own is,If I have sex with you,I would become attached to you.So if we have sex,better be thinking of marriage already.

GrabHisBalls:
The reason why they leave after sex is that you misunderstood their intentions which is something that would require a soothsayer to uncover 'cause no one knows what the mind thinks. Sex was God's idea to bond couples. So, going by that, sex is meant to create a lasting bond. If someone leaves after sex, then that was what they came for of which you missed out on. In the cause of relationships, other things happen other than sex that results to breaking up. Forgive me if you don't believe in the bible or God.

ehinorlive:
you mean God created sex so that the bond of fornication portray as relationship will last Longer. i like the fact that you bring the bible into this but dont used it to defend sin.

BOFREJO:
congrat man! Well deserved thesis....Phd......

Jgoldie:
i once dumped a guy....i liked him very very much,i was always wet when i went to his place.
one thing i noticed everytime i visit was he was always drinking "afato" ,koboko",dadubule",
The d day eventually came and he didn't last 2 minute.
I was so disappointed, i didn't pick his call afterwards and i started avoiding him.
He tried his possible best to get us on track ,we had it twice again and was still the same scenario but mehn i lost interest,I am so sorry gbenga...i didn't want to hurt your feelings ....

pls don't quote me o" i just survived lagos traffic"

Lightangel65:
That's where you got it wrong sex and love are opposites, and if all women are like that then it's better to stay single forever

maya007:
I like ur response ild love you to help me with this.....av been on of with somone I actually like for 3years,he used to stay with his frnd so there was no room for sex or anything but now owns his own place....
The thing now is he wont ask me to come over till I press it to happen...and when I finally go his either on his phone ,or picking numerous calls,and den watching insta clips while am trying to have a convo with him....when it's time to sleep he lays on the other side/edge of the bed n wouldn't make any physical contact with me....
When we wake in d morn his all bubbly and playful without body contact still o....till I leave....
He calls me evryday and somtimes acts like he has sense but when were in person deres no physical connection but still yet he talks and always acts like he really wants the whole thing...
Pls note* av not had sex with anyone within this period cause I keep telling myself this is who I want to have sex/b serious with..... I realized am just being a mumu for somone who was getting it from somewhere and just keeping me around for whatever reason is my decision right?

Lightangel65:
A man who truly loves you won't ever ask for sex. Most men just want to hit and go

Lightangel65:
A man who truly loves you won't ever ask for sex. Most men just want to hit and go

GrabHisBalls:
I did state 'Couples'. You missed out on that part as I didn't justify sin/fornication in any way.

SalafRider:
Who still stand at front line fighting when the battle has been won already. It ends because it wasn't love at first sight but lost

themonk:
After ejaculation your mind goes back to factory settings. Any reasoning fueled by need for sex evaporates.

I call it post-ejaculation wisdom.

Men get the most of the post-ejaculation wisdom, they start asking themselves, "was it worth it? All the Pizza wey I never buy for myself wey this girl chop for my hand, e worth am" I call this the "Calculator phase" you start computing profit and loss as a man and belive me you will never arrive at profit except that woman has been instrumental in your day to day hustle or she paid you for sex.

Another reason is that women feel entitiled after sex, they feel they have given you a million dollars and think they deserve you to worship them, but your post-ejaculation wisdom tells you it is not true and conflict ensues.