Skepticus:


I agree with you.

I don't understand the "she is very intelligent", " she is super smart " and other simping nonsense these thirsty nairaland boys give this girl. Nigerian boys and their penchant for misbehaving when they see a girl or girls.

There is nothing genius or special about what she did. Anyone with common sense wouldn't allow a scammer who's stories don't match on approach, to come close talkless of visiting.

Her only saving grace is that she met a scammer more stupid than she is and she should thank her stars that she wasn't visited by a sadistic fool.

Your comment is appreciated still.

Curvinus:


Shut the fvck up. You only accepted to help him because you genuinely believed he had a contract. I bet you would have fvcked him too if he really had some money to throw around or if the deal was legit.

SAD TRUTH!

Chai, guys like this make things difficult for good guys like us


See as I saw this maynation now on the Liverpool thread (Huge Liverpool fan), and decided to check on her a bit, found out about her diary, saw very interesting things there and her clever write-up, her love for video games and solitude... and I was like, ok, this is a friend I would like to have, sent a dm, only to browse further and see this

I can imagine my dm would be in the trash now but that's ok. Ladies, especially the good pretty ones, really try. The amount of arsehole guys that approach them on a daily, I just can't imagine how they deal...

Well, believe it or not, there are good guys out there that just wanna be friends and talk. I'm not saying I'm one o but you can go through my post history and have an idea of who I am. If you still wanna have a harmless friendly fun interaction, cool, you can dig my dm outta your trash and reply, if not, do have a good day and don't change your personality based on an experience with the one guy...

Oya guys come and finish me

airminem:


SAD TRUTH!

Lol.
To each is own.

Flashaldrin:
Chai, guys like this make things difficult for good guys like us


See as I saw this maynation now on the Liverpool thread (Huge Liverpool fan), and decided to check on her a bit, found out about her diary, saw very interesting things there and her clever write-up, her love for video games and solitude... and I was like, ok, this is a friend I would like to have, sent a dm, only to browse further and see this

I can imagine my dm would be in the trash now but that's ok. Ladies, especially the good pretty ones, really try. The amount of arsehole guys that approach them on a daily, I just can't imagine how they deal...

Well, believe it or not, there are good guys out there that just wanna be friends and talk. I'm not saying I'm one o but you can go through my post history and have an idea of who I am. If you still wanna have a harmless friendly fun interaction, cool, you can dig my dm outta your trash and reply, if not, do have a good day and don't change your personality based on an experience with the one guy...

Oya guys come and finish me

@ The boldened
Thanks for reading and appreciating my write ups.
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Lol. @ your DM will be in my trash by now.
I actually don't have access to the email again that's probably why I haven't replied.

maynation:


@ The boldened
Thanks for reading and appreciating my write ups.
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Lol. @ your DM will be in my trash by now.
I actually don't have access to the email again that's probably why I haven't replied.

Lol. Diaries are cool. Especially for those that prefer the sound of their own thoughts. I actually had one of my own going on here, but the nature of my work will never allow for any period of concentrated writing...

I understand the email thingy, mine is also an old email but I still check on it from time to time. Its flashaldrin@yahoo.com though, just in case you actually felt like replying just hala.

I can assure you that I'm not an arsehole though...

Flashaldrin:


Lol. Diaries are cool. Especially for those that prefer the sound of their own thoughts. I actually had one of my own going on here, but the nature of my work will never allow for any period of concentrated writing...

I understand the email thingy, mine is also an old email but I still check on it from time to time. Its flashaldrin@yahoo.com though, just in case you actually felt like replying just hala.

I can assure you that I'm not an arsehole though...

Lol. Alright.

wow did i just read 30 pages ! @Maynation, pls dont be so open and trusting to strangers u dont know too well. That guy doesnt deserve ur kindness. Just be more careful next time.

Jalal:
wow did i just read 30 pages ! @Maynation, pls dont be so open and trusting to strangers u dont know too well. That guy doesnt deserve ur kindness. Just be more careful next time.

Thanks advice taken.
But wait, You read 30 goddamn pages?

maynation:

Thanks advice taken.
But wait, You read 30 goddamn pages?

lol yea, followed you up from another thread, glad that the story didnt take another turn though.

Wow..I have only one question.what if he's like that serial killer they arrested in PHC? This is Nigeria. Stranger? No try that stuff again o. You are very lucky o..

Jalal:


lol yea, followed you up from another thread, glad that the story didnt take another turn though.

I'm glad it didn't too.

OgbeniOptional:
Wow..I have only one question.what if he's like that serial killer they arrested in PHC? This is Nigeria. Stranger? No try that stuff again o. You are very lucky o..

Lol.
Glad he wasn't like the serial killer.
I was lucky, true.

Reminds me of my ex...

maynation:

Lol.
Glad he wasn't like the serial killer.
I was lucky, true.

you were only being human,but thankGod u came out fine

now am seeing some of the reasons pretty girls get all defensive when good guys say hi..cos anyone bitten by bee is always scared of big flies

yet,dnt stop being good,but increase Ur calculative nature and take safety serious..dnt get over protective though so you don't chase good people away

Wow.

It was another thread (https://www.nairaland.com/5580364/intimate-experience-nairalander-maynation) that led me to this one.

I didn't read all the 30 pages but I have the patience to read your story (reply).

I do not have the opportunity to read the guy's story but your WhatsApp screenshot is quite detailed.

Your side of the story, shows (some) maturity, trust and respect.

Also to be frank and honest with you, you also show (some) pettiness in your story.

Yes, you have to tell your side of the story but you can do that without violating your privacy or his privacy by sharing all your convo from day one.

To be sincere, from your conversation as shared by you, you show some maturity and handle the situation to some extent very well.

It is obvious from the story you shared, your friend or ex-friend (Jay) has a different agenda and you also have your own agenda.

I just believe as adults (which both of you are, I presumed), you can or should be able to handle this matter differently.

He his been extremely childish towards the end and lack maturity in the light you painted him from your story.

However, I will suggest you take down the WhatsApp and other private conversation you had when the going was good which you used to tell your story.

If truly, he started a NL thread first to tarnish your image, I would say he his a great disappointment to us (Male) as a gender.

If he had also called to apologize as claimed in your story and you have accepted the apology honestly, I think the best thing to do, is to move on.

On his behalf (I don't know him or his moniker), please forgive him and move on. Also if possible, take down the private conversation, if truly, you have accepted his apology.

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If you feel offended or found any word used in my comment offensive, Ma Binu.

I also hope, for your sake, Liverpool doesn't walk alone in their PL title chase this season.

We have done you (Liverpool) a great favour last weekend by beating Man City, hopefully, Arsenal would be able to return the favour by beating our Noisy Neighbors for your sake.

YOU'LL NEVER WALK ALONE

maynation:



Your comment is appreciated still.

keep doing you joo. So many children out here

In as much as I wud love to give u a thumbs up for ur humanitarian gesture, u took a big risk housing a guy u do not know from Adam.
U are lucky u came out alive. But why me no dey see dis kind of ladies ?.

Xmen149:



you were only being human,but thankGod u came out fine

now am seeing some of the reasons pretty girls get all defensive when good guys say hi..cos anyone bitten by bee is always scared of big flies

yet,dnt stop being good,but increase Ur calculative nature and take safety serious..dnt get over protective though so you don't chase good people away

Thanks for the advice.

jeyselassie:
keep doing you joo. So many children out here

Thanks dearie.

BestAccessories:


Wow.

It was another thread (https://www.nairaland.com/5580364/intimate-experience-nairalander-maynation) that led me to this one.

I didn't read all the 30 pages but I have the patience to read your story (reply).

I do not have the opportunity to read the guy's story but your WhatsApp screenshot is quite detailed.

Your side of the story, shows (some) maturity, trust and respect.

Thanks a bunch.

BestAccessories:


Also to be frank and honest with you, you also show (some) pettiness in your story.

Yes, you have to tell your side of the story but you can do that without violating your privacy or his privacy by sharing all your convo from day one.

To be sincere, from your conversation as shared by you, you show some maturity and handle the situation to some extent very well.

It is obvious from the story you shared, your friend or ex-friend (Jay) has a different agenda and you also have your own agenda.

I just believe as adults (which both of you are, I presumed), you can or should be able to handle this matter differently.

The truth is the privacy was already violated immediately my name popped up in his thread. The moments he made it look like 10k was a problem to me when he knows it will never be.
I explained to a person on one thread why I had to show some unnecessary part of the conversations.
He made it look like 10k was a problem and since my conversation with him showed otherwise I definitely had to share them.

BestAccessories:


He his been extremely childish towards the end and lack maturity in the light you painted him from your story.

However, I will suggest you take down the WhatsApp and other private conversation you had when the going was good which you used to tell your story.

Walahi I'm not going to take it down, despite having this proofs on here I still have people who are still calling me names, what then will happen when I take down my guard?

BestAccessories:



If truly, he started a NL thread first to tarnish your image,

if truly? Lol. No need to doubt, he actually started the whole thing.

BestAccessories:



I would say he his a great disappointment to us (Male) as a gender.

If he had also called to apologize as claimed in your story and you have accepted the apology honestly, I think the best thing to do, is to move on.

On his behalf (I don't know him or his moniker), please forgive him and move on. Also if possible, take down the private conversation, if truly, you have accepted his apology.

He apologised and I accepted his apology but that isn't how it's done.
The apology wasn't on here, he called to apologize to me on phone while the deed has already been done.
If he had created a public thread to tender his apology then I can say he deserves full forgiveness but since it's just between us then I need to keep my guard up. I know what's up with Nairaland, this is my 10th year on this forum. I know a lot trust me.


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BestAccessories:



If you feel offended or found any word used in my comment offensive, Ma Binu.

Lol. No qualms sir.

BestAccessories:



I also hope, for your sake, Liverpool doesn't walk alone in their PL title chase this season.

We have done you (Liverpool) a great favour last weekend by beating Man City, hopefully, Arsenal would be able to return the favour by beating our Noisy Neighbors for your sake.

YOU'LL NEVER WALK ALONE

Ameeeeeeeeeeennn


Walahi if arsenal could beat Man city all of us go trun arsenal fans .


That's an impossible feat tho.

kunlesmiles:
In as much as I wud love to give u a thumbs up for ur humanitarian gesture, u took a big risk housing a guy u do not know from Adam.

A big risk indeed.
I am glad I have learnt a lot already.

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Jesus Christ, do u mean u did all this for a guy? And the stupid guy still have the gut to send u this type of message cos u are smart enough not to get into his trap?

U have a good heart o. I respect u

moscobabs:
Jesus Christ, do u mean u did all this for a guy? And the stupid guy still have the gut to send u this type of message cos u are smart enough not to get into his trap?

U have a good heart o. I respect u

Dat guy na bastard jonsin idiot, na him type we dey use count skull for deck. But my advice to you is to be careful the way you accomodate strangers, some people just doesn't deserve helping.

maynation:

goodmorning sunshine, how was nite

Balogunodua:
Dat guy na bastard jonsin idiot, na him type we dey use count skull for deck. But my advice to you is to be careful the way you accomodate strangers, some people just does'nt deserve helping.

Thanks

Liposure:
goodmorning sunshine, how was nite

It was fine, yours??

You should have run for safety the moment you realized he didn't have beards.
A typical man child.
Reading through your Chats i was boiling with rage, not at this yeye Jay of a person but at you.
You really can't afford to be that nice, grow some balls Biko.
Doh, thank God it wasn't worse than this.

maynation:


It was fine, yours??

mine was great.dont worry yourself wit all dis mischiefmakers trying 2 tarnish your image

HannahHitler:
You should have run for safety the moment you realized he didn't have beards.
A typical man child.
Reading through your Chats i was boiling with rage, not at this yeye Jay of a person but at you.
You really can't afford to be that nice, grow some balls Biko.
Doh, thank God it wasn't worse than this.

Liposure:
mine was great.dont worry yourself wit all dis mischiefmakers trying 2 tarnish your image

Good to know.
Thanks sweetie.

maynation:



I def won't let it slide.

oboi, over a year relationship.
2018 to Oct 2019.
U must really be a matured chick.
I hope dt Jason no b one of.ds upcoming yahoo boi.
He played a fast one on u and u fell...u shd av get let him stay in d hotel and come to ur house once in a while and not stay in ur house...unless u r already my gf, I won't do dt as a guy. ..the highest is showing up n go bk.
This ur work con sound like medical work.
U b nurse on duty?