DoubleEngine007:
Mr nice guy... It usually doesn't end well.. Be careful ,cuz a word is enough bro..

Why must he send her away? He should marry her if she’s available

Na small thing na just take her out drink some wine with her and pretend as if u are drunk then begin to call her baby before u get home. When u get home pull her close and try, but if she resist just sleep on the chair like say u are too drunk, that is if u will ever sleep if u fail.

in my head in Patorankin's voice



ma je ki oja burst si e Lori o

CircleOfWilis:
Make her ur bestie

Gbam!

This is one hell of a poorly cooked bullcrap

Lol,

But brother, why are you now travelling almost all the time?

Another cooked up lies

Jaaruma things at work. Enyia ur problems r just about to multiply

Hmmmmm, you are causing problems for yourself o, since you have a steady relationship, why bringing in ladies you don't even know where they came from into your house? If you are not careful, you will bring in someone you will regret later in life, you better stop that attitude and be focus with the woman you have presently, it's either you tell the lady in your house to go and find elsewhere to stay if not you will surely make love with her, body no be wood o.

ElonEmpire:
I met this girl online, we happen to come from same LGA, We got talking and later became friends.

Months later she complained about having accommodation Issue. Now, me am hardly around because of the nature of my job so I felt is OK letting her go stay there at least to keep my apartment warm and clean.

Though this is not the first time am doing that,
For over 5 years now it has been people staying in my house because in a year I don't even sleep more than 2 months in my house.

The last person that stayed there was also a lady the few times I go home during her stay we are OK, more like brother and sister. In fact neighbors actually thought we were.

Now come this new girl I don't know her before, infact she has spent like 6 months in my house before I went back.

During those times she was catching feelings for
me weda she is serious about it or not I don't know but I told her point blank that I'm into a serious relationship and she should maintain her boundary when ever I come back.

Months later i travelled and see her in person..
To say that she is beautiful is understatement, she is definition of beauty. She is irresistable.

I have traveled couple of time after the first time and each of this time I try so hard to maintain my dignity, self respect and not to misbehave.
We sleep on same bed, though i have decide to be sleeping on the floor or another room. She changes in my presence.

I'm seriously going crazy right now about this girl..
Infact I see my self getting Jealous about the guy she is seeing recently.

I don't know how to hand the situation, I can't afford to misbehave because, 1st she call me brother.

2ndly considering the circumstance that brought her to my house I can't afford to misbehave because am this one person who don't like taking advantage of women.

And lastly I can't cheat on my girl.
But I can't ask her to leave because for now she have no where to go.

Please how do I handle the situation?!

Op please studies her well before asking her out.

I wanted to comment but at the last paragraph I decided not to say a word again. I am also sure am not alone on this

You better stay with yr girlfriend if not, you go just dey regret has Nigerian dey regret say them vote buhair

Op, I have this two proverbs for you .
Having a Female as a Best friend is like having Chicken for a pet, You will eat it some day.
A man who hangs around a beautiful girl without saying a word ends up fetching water for guests at her wedding

Op, what do you mean by she has no where to go? is like your lust for her has blocked your reasoning

Mtchewwww awwwww


Mtchewwww awwwww





(Till fade)....

Sent to bring you down, watch it

happney65:
You and girl sleeping on the same bed..Not once,not twice o..she changes in your presence too abi no be so?

Laughs in spiritual powers.Lol

. .....and there are other rooms in the apartment o.Izza serious something for the bros.

What kind of apartment do you have that you have to sleep on the same bed ? One room? .


The story sounds fake.

Thegeneralqueen:
You should try using your evil potato maybe it can work

Thegeneralqueen:
Since you have a honest paying job that can sustain the both of you and you can meet up to her needs as the saying goes better soup nah money kill am cause she's actually beautiful all I can say now is that you should marry her.......marry her bro she's your GOD sent wife......You'll leave to regret it when she slips off your finger for another man.....Just make sure you work hard to meet up to her needs and that of your future children when they eventually comes......You don't value what you have until you've lose it


TAKE MY ADVICE IT'S THE BEST SO FAR

in your mind abi? What happens to his girlfriend?

Since you don't want to cheat on ur gf

Jst dey ur dey

Look at this young man digging his grave, in the name of luv one day you would invite a witch into your home and that would be the beginning of endless problems in your lifetime, people are yet to realise that we live in a very complex and a dangerous world, many men have gone in search of this called love from a woman I laugh in Swahili..

I'm still trying to understand why and how "the guy she's currently seeing" is ok with his girl living with another man. ..And how your own girl is ok with everything.

Just Pray make she no DIE for ur house...........


...... Nollywood...........

Dude congrats!
He who finds a good second wife..... Let wise people complete it for us.

Only one thing is sure: at least one person in your budding love triangle is going to be hurt.
Question is whether it's your gf, the person you should are most about, or the new girl that is tortoriing you with her beauty.

If you are not into your gf anymore, set her free honestly as and focus on the new girl.

Otherwise it has become a matter of yam and goat with your lodger now. You will eat before you know it. Good luck.

Guy I need accommodation

Yustash001:
Why am I finding it difficult to believe?
You and a strange lady living in the same room and nothing happens between you two

I'm not doubting him coz I'm someone like that to

ElonEmpire:
I met this girl online, we happen to come from same LGA, We got talking and later became friends.

Months later she complained about having accommodation Issue. Now, me am hardly around because of the nature of my job so I felt is OK letting her go stay there at least to keep my apartment warm and clean.

Though this is not the first time am doing that,
For over 5 years now it has been people staying in my house because in a year I don't even sleep more than 2 months in my house.

The last person that stayed there was also a lady the few times I go home during her stay we are OK, more like brother and sister. In fact neighbors actually thought we were.

Now come this new girl I don't know her before, infact she has spent like 6 months in my house before I went back.

During those times she was catching feelings for
me weda she is serious about it or not I don't know but I told her point blank that I'm into a serious relationship and she should maintain her boundary when ever I come back.

Months later i travelled and see her in person..
To say that she is beautiful is understatement, she is definition of beauty. She is irresistable.

I have traveled couple of time after the first time and each of this time I try so hard to maintain my dignity, self respect and not to misbehave.
We sleep on same bed, though i have decide to be sleeping on the floor or another room. She changes in my presence.

I'm seriously going crazy right now about this girl..
Infact I see my self getting Jealous about the guy she is seeing recently.

I don't know how to hand the situation, I can't afford to misbehave because, 1st she call me brother.

2ndly considering the circumstance that brought her to my house I can't afford to misbehave because am this one person who don't like taking advantage of women.

And lastly I can't cheat on my girl.
But I can't ask her to leave because for now she have no where to go.

Please how do I handle the situation?!

Bruv....
You sound like who doesn't know what he wants....
She already sees u as such.....I ll suggest to keep ur distance....this kind of relationship ends disastrously

ElonEmpire:
I met this girl online, we happen to come from same LGA, We got talking and later became friends.

Months later she complained about having accommodation Issue. Now, me am hardly around because of the nature of my job so I felt is OK letting her go stay there at least to keep my apartment warm and clean.

Though this is not the first time am doing that,
For over 5 years now it has been people staying in my house because in a year I don't even sleep more than 2 months in my house.

The last person that stayed there was also a lady the few times I go home during her stay we are OK, more like brother and sister. In fact neighbors actually thought we were.

Now come this new girl I don't know her before, infact she has spent like 6 months in my house before I went back.

During those times she was catching feelings for
me weda she is serious about it or not I don't know but I told her point blank that I'm into a serious relationship and she should maintain her boundary when ever I come back.

Months later i travelled and see her in person..
To say that she is beautiful is understatement, she is definition of beauty. She is irresistable.

I have traveled couple of time after the first time and each of this time I try so hard to maintain my dignity, self respect and not to misbehave.
We sleep on same bed, though i have decide to be sleeping on the floor or another room. She changes in my presence.

I'm seriously going crazy right now about this girl..
Infact I see my self getting Jealous about the guy she is seeing recently.

I don't know how to hand the situation, I can't afford to misbehave because, 1st she call me brother.

2ndly considering the circumstance that brought her to my house I can't afford to misbehave because am this one person who don't like taking advantage of women.

And lastly I can't cheat on my girl.
But I can't ask her to leave because for now she have no where to go.

Please how do I handle the situation?!

Get a bed, foam and prepare the second room to make your self conformable, don't misbehave, keep your dignity and stop sharing same bed with her. Stick to your relationship

[color=#990000][/color]Bro, just take your move now before its late

ElonEmpire

I'm very conservative but I'll still say something.

If she dresses in your presence, it may signify grenlight. "Brother"may be her keeping it safe but not being pushy. It shows she has bi respect for you and which every man wants and is slso a divine requirement for ladies to have for their husbands.

A way to know if she's interested is pretend you are interested in dating a certain girl.on the phone. Try and notice her body language:if she is bitterly jealous, it will be easily evident.

Forget all I've written above, if you're interested, simply ask her out. Stop beating about the Bush. Before you do, ensure you want to marry her.