It is very obvious that she doesn't love u

The one wey man marry for house still they fvck upandan 85% of Nigerian ladies are useless and secretly promiscuous na one-day their useless secrets they leak out full time Do you even know how many she has bleeped in living in that house before you discovered that guy.forget naija ladies they are a wayward bunch.corruption and cheating dey their blood and they lack moral values mentally but pretend outside

DoubleEngine007:
Just imagine.I made similar mistake some years ago. Money wen you for use package urself,mama and sisters.... No too think am my brother. People wey dey go church go say "its well" Its well with you my brother,receive power

If ur boys beg that money that time, u go say u no get

Blissbath:
It is very obvious that she doesn't love u

Even with love they still cheat the problem with Nigerian girls this days is that they believe they can cheat and get away with it and so continue to enjoy the secret sex till it explodes into limelight i have experienced this countless times you.times have changed

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

Congratulations. U are a millionaire. U de do keke, u still de pay woman house rent

DaddyNimo:

when they tell you people not to spend on girls, you will say no o yu have to be a man, you can't be in a relationship and not spend, it's your responsibility blah blah blah, sebi you see yourself now. I'm glad you have have sense.

U are blessed

in vector's "voice carry go strong" take heart bro 🤣🤣

Everybody shout hallelu.... Hallelujah, maga don pay oOo

I just want to know,,,
What name did she use to save your number on her phone, Mugu 1 or Maga 2 ?

Myself2:
I just want to know,,,
What name did she use to save your number on her phone, Mugu 1 or Maga2 ?

lmfao. You sir you have no chill.

lexy2014:

If ur boys beg that money that time, u go say u no get

this hurt. And it's true. So many times your homeboy will tell you he doesn't have money but be spending on some hoe. I always cut off guys like that. I don't need them in my life.

AreaFada2:

Can he marry a fellow man? He clearly had feelings for her.
If he helps a man now Na you go first suspect am of being a gay lord.

On a serious note many guys see it as an investment towards the future, if it leads to marriage later. I guess men should just be wise and give out what they can genuinely give out as charity. Nothing more.

so if ur paddy get issue u wont help him because im no get toto? abeg guy do away with this mentality.if u too believe that its only opposite sex u will help babes go chop u and waka.

Like your mother?

Lightangel65:
You guys keep seeing news of how bad ladies are why do you people still trust them. They are bags of money seeking sluts.
Take heart bro that are all like this

Another nigga whose mother is a hoe.

ubunja:
this hurt. And it's true. So many times your homeboy will tell you he doesn't have money but be spending on some hoe. I always cut off guys like that. I don't need them in my life.

That's how it is bro. I used to do that. But now sex matters to me. If I don't sex, I back off. I can't have a girlfriend and jerking off while another dude is riding the underground rail road.

Midas01:
Another nigga whose mother is a hoe.

what makes your own mother special? Was she a virgin when your father married her? Do you know her body count? Don't make me laugh. All women are hoes.

Bro's, I feel ur pain, having been dere b4 I completely know how u feel. But let me tell u dis, even if u were sleeping with her, she wud still av cheated on u. So do not allow dis change you, just be patient and seek God's face for ur OWN partner.

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

She cheat on you after all this? No problem. Keep playing the nice and caring guy, tell her how passionate you feel about her, get her into your bed and bang your spending back on her. Keep at it until she starts forming love, then dump the bitch..Thats what girls like this deserve

My brother no sex before marriage is a scam. Many of oloshos are now using that trick to scam guys now.. Beware

Midas01:
Like your mother?

Like your own mother sister and aunt bunch of sluts

lefulefu:
so if ur paddy get issue u wont help him because im no get toto? abeg guy do away with this mentality.if u too believe that its only opposite sex u will help babes go chop u and waka.

Well not all investments pay off. Just like shares or stock, you can lose all the money invested. Women are same. So wisely invest only what you can lose relatively painlessly in women.

Now your fellow dude asking you for money can be doing so to go use your money impress a girl. You will never know.

I have given good sums of money to male friends at various times. Sums I can Never ever give to any female not related or not business partner. Guess what? Some never paid a penny back. Money too big for me to lose.

My mindset that a guy will Hustle or invest well to repay me was wrong several times. It ended up souring many friendships. And I will never do it again. Everybody should go and Hustle.
For a girl, you might be her Hustle point. A girl can also be your hustle point.

The truth be say, if u wanna hlp a girl do it without intention... never help a girl n her family just because u wanna marry her. Those set of animal don't think with their brain b4 they act. they just act and blame the devil for the consequences.

akdjr:
Did she call it a quit with you after having sex with the guy? If she didn't and you love her bro put that behind you and go ahead with your plans. But if she has found a new love I the guy she had sex with I will advice you to move on...My uncle who is seasoned womanizer once told me that irrespective of the number of times you sleep with a girl, the person who she eventually marry and had children for is the one who has achieve the greatest gift on Earth from a woman. d

Wait o, I don't understand....So he should forget she slept with another guy and put it behind him?
It's guys like you that make ladies think all men are foolish

Nkan nbe

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

and u never broke her leg and eye yet?

eni4real:
This is a very different context oo..
This girl did not only cheat the guy, she made a complete fool of her..
That guy may never be respected by the girl again..

To her, he is a just a sponsor!!

Is the same context, you know the truth but you don't want to agree.

kingkakaone:

Bros can you please not comment on this issue anymore?

Whoever cheats should be discarded, at least that's my code.

You can't stop me not to comment, that's my own advice to him, since am not replying your comments, just read it and pass by.

CAPSLOCKED:


I COMETH WITH TWO DRUMS FOR THINE TEARS, OH KIND MAN.

..lol..u are crazy

kingkakaone:

Like seriously?
You should be the on to read what you wrote again because it was all shades of wrong.

Are you sure you are a man.

That's your own business, that's my stand, because she cheated, you are castigating her, she's not the first to cheat and she won't be the last, if the guy wants to forgive her, is up to him, my comments is not a must for you to accept it or not.

Enemyofpeace:
how you go buy gari without putting small for mouth to test.

i can never sympatize with a fool especially when i realised the idiot is a man & anyone out there claiming a gentleman for a lady is doing that at his own expense,sincerely speaking i feel like flogging this guy with a bike trottle cable if at all it will invoke sense into his head

ubunja:
It is well. One more guy awakes.

On Nairaland, Ubunja is god!

... In Ubunja we trust!