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Tallesty1:
The solution is to try and get sense bro not quitting being a nice guy because if everything you wrote here is true then you don't have sense.



No offense.

It like u av neva fall in love with the wrong person once before abi, or u dont know what true love can make a man do. True love is very powerful it not just about the sex. It happens to both gender.when the time for you to love is come Pray you dont fall in love with the wrong person.if you do, you are doom. But the op did not get redpilled , he could have manage it risk.

akdjr:
Ladies don't see men as fool. You can make ur comment without insulting. But I would like you to understand one fact that even the girl he might eventually dump this one for has her own story which will be unknown to him. You're a guy I presume, and you can't tell me you have never had affair with someone else girlfriend that eventually settled down with the main guy. quote author=PerfectlyPerfect post=84895137]
Wait o, I don't understand....So he should forget she slept with another guy and put it behind him?
It's guys like you that make ladies think all men are foolish

I didn't insult you, I guess you saw it as an insult, neither did I saw ladies see all men as fools. I said what you said makes ladies THINK all men are fools. My point is that any guy wey sabi will know that a lady who cheats will always cheat. Also, guys who know their worth will never settle for less, and settling with a cheat is the lowest of the low. If I've had an affair with someone else's girlfriend and he decides to settle with her after finding out, that's his cup of tea

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Take heart bro

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

Guys should get smarter these days when dealing with naija ladies. You've learnt your lessons...hope you'd get wiser henceforth.

Take note of this: Before you help any naija lady (aside your mum & blood sisters), ensure YOU get MAXIMUM satisfaction, enjoyment & superb pleasure from the naija lady first in any way you can. Afterwards, you can then consider whether to help her or not.

Most guys get carried away with fake love & emotions from ladies that's why guys are usually hit hard in relationship matters in Nigeria.

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

Aren't you happy?
What will you have done if this happened after marriage?

You can't turn a woe to a wife, never.
Quit the relationship bro and forget about her expired poozy.

irumole1975:
One hoe that just leave my crib now told me "men are meant to worship pussy and slave for pussy till they' die". She irritates me and I had to send her away only to call another girl that have sense. Ubunja once Said if " you once bleeped a girl for free, no need paying for sex going forward". I applied this And she left without me giving her a dime. girls have taught me lesson

That is what they call loose bitch. your action will reset her brain to some extend. Oil dey ur head

irumole1975:
One hoe that just leave my crib now told me "men are meant to worship pussy and slave for pussy till they' die". She irritates me and I had to send her away only to call another girl that have sense. Ubunja once Said if " you once bleeped a girl for free, no need paying for sex going forward". I applied this And she left without me giving her a dime. girls have taught me lesson

Social medias, showbiz, scrap love song will keep misleading unlike days of old when marriage was marriage.

ridbell01:
My brother no sex before marriage is a scam. Many of oloshos are now using that trick to scam guys now.. Beware

I dont believe any guy can fall for that no sex till marriage scam o. Ao come no entrance wen the door is already open wide. Even a ten years old can't buy that abeg.

maximusprime2000:
That is what they call loose bitch. your action will reset her brain to some extend. Oil dey ur head

To even imagined she was the one begging me to be serious with her and limit the number of women I dey rush. I tried to yield to loving her when I saw commitment From her side. The moment she noticed my love for her has skyrocket, she started displaying stupidity and manipulation. as someone who understands Better, had no choice than to send her from my place this' morning after getting me angry with stupid demands. Nonsense

maximusprime2000:
I dont believe any guy can fall for that no sex till marriage scam o. Ao come no entrance wen the door is already open wide. Even a ten years old can't buy that abeg.

my brother Na mumu guy go fall for that

irumole1975:
To even imagined she was the one begging me to be serious with her and limit the number of women I dey rush. I tried to yield to loving her when I saw commitment From her side. The moment she noticed my love for her has skyrocket, she started displaying stupidity and manipulation. as someone who understands Better, had no choice than to send her from my place this' morning after getting me angry with stupid demands. Nonsense

That is what we call fake green lights..but thank ur God u neva lose guard. Like rude boy says "na person wey won chop u dey beg to stay" in a quest for power they all wanted to be in control of their suppose relationship thereby throwing tantrums, is a tricky way of looking for mumu buttons in a man.its every gold diggers code. If u fall for it u will cry later. Neva loose ur ego for d loose trap called pussy. Ur ego is ur final strong tower, if u lose it u are finished.

maximusprime2000:
That is what we call fake green lights..but thank ur God u neva lose guard. Like rude boy says "na person wey won chop u dey beg to stay" in a quest for power they all wanted to be in control of their suppose relationship thereby throwing tantrums, is a tricky way of looking for mumu buttons in a man.its every gold diggers code. If u fall for it u will cry later. Neva loose ur ego for d loose trap called pussy. Ur ego is ur final strong tower, if u lose it u are finished.

I've lost my ego once. I ain't gonna lose it again

If you con burn her now, dem go say guys cruel oo take heart bro

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

The idea of not f*ucking your girlfriend/boyfriend before marriage, is one of the dumbest things to do! Only inept people do that!

Sex is the major problem in many relationships. Sexual compatibility is essential in a long lasting relationship. How could anyone, in their right mind, marry without knowing if their potential life partner is sexually compatible with them?

You f*ucked up big time. I don't blame the lady for f*ucking someone else. She sees you as a m*oron.

maximusprime2000:
That is what we call fake green lights..but thank ur God u neva lose guard. Like rude boy says "na person wey won chop u dey beg to stay" in a quest for power they all wanted to be in control of their suppose relationship thereby throwing tantrums, is a tricky way of looking for mumu buttons in a man.its every gold diggers code. If u fall for it u will cry later. Neva loose ur ego for d loose trap called pussy. Ur ego is ur final strong tower, if u lose it u are finished.

This is golden

emmaodet:
Because they believe such people are rear and should be kept for marriage/marriage material why they enjoy their own fantasy to the fullest secretly.
Also, they believe by sleeping with him, he would have gotten what he wants and sooner or later will stop giving them the necessary gifts, money or quit the relationship just the way most husbands are not really romantic after marriage because they feel relaxed and know the woman is going nowhere again.
Just like the way a guy will keep his virgin gf for marriage because she is a marriage material why destroying other ladies vj for his own fantasy.
It is a crazy and selfish world dear

Is this not plain stupidity if you can't even be truly yourself to the person you want to marry.

Why don't people look for a partner who would appreciate the whole package? Sound mind, good body, purpose driven, family oriented, spiritually inclined and crazy in bed?

victorian:
It's true.

I understand where u are coming from.

That's why I'm always reluctant accepting money favours from guys I know I won't date or marry.

If doling out money to me, means u want sex or marriage, and probably I don't find the guy attractive, no chemistry whatsoever. Then it's no use.
Keep your money.

I had an accident with my leg, last year. It was not healing after series of drugs and injections. A guy on my neighbourhood wanted to help me by bringing his own doctor to check my leg and he was ready to pay for everything, with continuous dressing of the wounds but on one condition. He's in love and wants to marry me.

But to me, I see him as a friend, I have no feelings at all for this guy. And I know he's a kind guy but unfortunately I don't see myself waking up everyday seeing his face first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Even when. He wanted to hug me, I felt repulsed. And he notice. Then he said look Vicky, I know I'm not a dashing handsome man and I know I'm not the ugliest man on earth, neither will I be the only man with an ugly face. But please I sincerely love you, lemme help you with this leg.

I was holding back my laugh, as I winced in pains. I sighed and I replied : I cannot marry you. I'm sorry. If you want to help me with this leg, fine but don't expect marriage. He sighed and said he will still help.
His doctor checked my leg and prescribed some expensive drugs to take and dressing thrice a week until it heals. I calculated everything, the money was much. The next day I sent his nurse away And told him not to worry. Cause he's already calling me his wife. Which I don't want to even imagine, how much more to hear it from his lips.

Thank God I have my own money but it wasn't enough at that time , So my dearest Funmi came to my rescue, out of the blues to see me and footed most of the bills, without asking me for sex or marriage or anything. She's a female like me and she's no lesbian. But she paid for everything , even though she's a corper and a nairalander


So that's life. We can't have sex with all our helpers in life!

Nice one I wish girls can learn from this, what is the point of collecting gift and favour from a guy you don't intend dating, yes I know the economy is really bitting hard on us, but when you see such kind of favour gift while not make it clear to the guy, that you are not interested and save yourself your dignity.

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

Na wetting fit the guy. Learn

MedicH:
This matter pain me i don't know what to say. Oga u don wise up be that.

It pain me too, but it will surely pass. Wicked people like dat are the ones that makes relationships complicated complex like a jigsaw puzzle. evil begoting evil, and no trust again in our society.no one is ready to love thereby having option A,B,C,D,E...but like seriously infidelity is a big crime in asian countries punishable by law. but Nigeria is a jungle where even layers r mauled in their own backyard.

victorian:
It's true.

I understand where u are coming from.

That's why I'm always reluctant accepting money favours from guys I know I won't date or marry.

If doling out money to me, means u want sex or marriage, and probably I don't find the guy attractive, no chemistry whatsoever. Then it's no use.
Keep your money.

I had an accident with my leg, last year. It was not healing after series of drugs and injections. A guy on my neighbourhood wanted to help me by bringing his own doctor to check my leg and he was ready to pay for everything, with continuous dressing of the wounds but on one condition. He's in love and wants to marry me.

But to me, I see him as a friend, I have no feelings at all for this guy. And I know he's a kind guy but unfortunately I don't see myself waking up everyday seeing his face first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Even when. He wanted to hug me, I felt repulsed. And he notice. Then he said look Vicky, I know I'm not a dashing handsome man and I know I'm not the ugliest man on earth, neither will I be the only man with an ugly face. But please I sincerely love you, lemme help you with this leg.

I was holding back my laugh, as I winced in pains. I sighed and I replied : I cannot marry you. I'm sorry. If you want to help me with this leg, fine but don't expect marriage. He sighed and said he will still help.
His doctor checked my leg and prescribed some expensive drugs to take and dressing thrice a week until it heals. I calculated everything, the money was much. The next day I sent his nurse away And told him not to worry. Cause he's already calling me his wife. Which I don't want to even imagine, how much more to hear it from his lips.

Thank God I have my own money but it wasn't enough at that time , So my dearest Funmi came to my rescue, out of the blues to see me and footed most of the bills, without asking me for sex or marriage or anything. She's a female like me and she's no lesbian. But she paid for everything , even though she's a corper and a nairalander

So that's life. We can't have sex with all our helpers in life!

Lol! dat guy must be way ugly pass monkey o. And u are a trap Queen lol

It will never be well with any lady that has selfish motives..manipulations at the back of her mind when entering a relationship

Tallesty1:
The solution is to try and get sense bro not quitting being a nice guy because if everything you wrote here is true then you don't have sense.



No offense.

simply put

When he has family members he's spending money on one girl

What a fool

Sorry bro, you just learnt the hard way


One wanted me to sponsor her in school
I declined firmly and immediately she withdrew her love for me.
I don't even care, I'm done with her in my mind.

Would have been knocking her on a steady, but I don't want to risk getting STD

dave4rella:


Sorry bro, you just learnt the hard way


One wanted me to sponsor her in school
I declined firmly and immediately she withdrew her love for me.
I don't even care, I'm done with her in my mind.

Would have been knocking her on a steady, but I don't want to risk getting STD

Neva go into relationship with broke girls they are parasites

victorian:
It's true.

I understand where u are coming from.

That's why I'm always reluctant accepting money favours from guys I know I won't date or marry.

If doling out money to me, means u want sex or marriage, and probably I don't find the guy attractive, no chemistry whatsoever. Then it's no use.
Keep your money.

I had an accident with my leg, last year. It was not healing after series of drugs and injections. A guy on my neighbourhood wanted to help me by bringing his own doctor to check my leg and he was ready to pay for everything, with continuous dressing of the wounds but on one condition. He's in love and wants to marry me.

But to me, I see him as a friend, I have no feelings at all for this guy. And I know he's a kind guy but unfortunately I don't see myself waking up everyday seeing his face first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Even when. He wanted to hug me, I felt repulsed. And he notice. Then he said look Vicky, I know I'm not a dashing handsome man and I know I'm not the ugliest man on earth, neither will I be the only man with an ugly face. But please I sincerely love you, lemme help you with this leg.

I was holding back my laugh, as I winced in pains. I sighed and I replied : I cannot marry you. I'm sorry. If you want to help me with this leg, fine but don't expect marriage. He sighed and said he will still help.
His doctor checked my leg and prescribed some expensive drugs to take and dressing thrice a week until it heals. I calculated everything, the money was much. The next day I sent his nurse away And told him not to worry. Cause he's already calling me his wife. Which I don't want to even imagine, how much more to hear it from his lips.

Thank God I have my own money but it wasn't enough at that time , So my dearest Funmi came to my rescue, out of the blues to see me and footed most of the bills, without asking me for sex or marriage or anything. She's a female like me and she's no lesbian. But she paid for everything , even though she's a corper and a nairalander

So that's life. We can't have sex with all our helpers in life!

That is the thing with some guys, If u wan help babe make sure u don't want any reward like sex or friendship. If u know u don't ve the cash to throw away guy stay for ur corner o!

victorian:
God is my witness. I have helped men I have never thought or had interest in dating.
And I gave out money and remove eyes. I didnt pressure any one of them to date, sex or marry me. I did it out of the freewill of my mind and also out of the saying that goes a giver never lacks!

Which is very true.

All my female friends are givers with a heart of gold, likewise me. That's why we feel blessed having each other to count on. And our friendship will grow tight for many many years to come.
God bless all my female friends who have been there for me through thick and thin . God bless you all. Amen.
God bless one male friend I have especially one special one in nairaland , he knows himself, A nairalander too. His name starts with To He has not set his eyes on me before except on video cam and he's a giver. He's based abroad. He's also an angel sent from above. God bless him real good too in Jesus name Amen.

It's good to give and help people. Your good deeds always come back to you in other ways and means.

R u sure?

Luminary1:

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Ok

Omo this nice guy thing sucks!
I was dating a girl earlier this year, would always play nice and gentle(never asked for sex), I occasionally buy her gifts and all that only for me to realize she has been sleeping with a guy that hasn't given her a dime...
Mehn! For one week my head no clear

#NoToSimping
#EndSars

CAPSLOCKED:
I COMETH WITH TWO DRUMS FOR THINE TEARS, OH KIND MAN.

haha..

Brother Being Nice Guy Doesn't pay oooooooo
it's for the weak
keep yourself