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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Vick4rill(m): 12:55pm On Dec 15, 2019
fixedhollies:
Bros, make i advise you... the first step out of it is to escape boredom. Find something doing, learn new things that would take ur time.

Always stay among people, don't stay alone. If possible, don't sleep alone in a room. Anytime d urge starts, enter street, go play, play football do things dat will keep u among people.
thank you

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Gustavofringe: 12:56pm On Dec 15, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
6 times a day kill you there.. who you think you fooling? e no even dey possible


It is more than possible. Some people do more than that number.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Callertunez: 12:57pm On Dec 15, 2019
6 times Is that possible Anyway,


Check out this channel on YouTube... 'Kreative vein' ... They got good stuffs on quitting porn and no fap...


Have mercy on your little man please
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Vick4rill(m): 1:01pm On Dec 15, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
6 times a day kill you there.. who you think you fooling? e no even dey possible
you don't get it bro, masturbation is not all about using hand and Vaseline, just lieing down pressing my genital on the carpet or floor with sexual image makes me release. if it is issue of hand and Vaseline it would have been easier

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by ArticleBeast: 1:26pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
you don't get it bro, masturbation is not all about using hand and Vaseline, just lieing down pressing my genital on the carpet or floor with sexual image makes me release. if it is issue of hand and Vaseline it would have been easier
Hmm... U have high sex hormones and you to get a gf and she must love sex more than you.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by jagaban002(m): 1:35pm On Dec 15, 2019
You may not want to believe me but the first very best step is get off any browsing phone or any phone that allow you to browse or watch videos , that will limit your porn. Step 2, get am hustle and and archive a goal within 2 months u will be happy u stopped this because it’s makes someone feel useless at times

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by horpigee1(m): 1:43pm On Dec 15, 2019
Ikennablue:
why will u be asking him to commit suicide?
lol bro... is that a suicide??
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by horpigee1(m): 1:44pm On Dec 15, 2019
ArticleBeast:

It will not work... Coming from a retired general in the field, it is like cocaine you withdraw gradually. From 6 to twice then once... Masturbation is not bad forget the religious innuendo. He should get a girlfriend that likes sex and with time it will pass. Above he should get busy
well, I'm speaking from experience

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by tyup(m): 1:56pm On Dec 15, 2019
ArticleBeast:

Then u don't know addiction.... Toilet no dey office

I swear.....ceeroh never sabi what real addiction means, when I was on training at FAAN ikeja I'll wake up 4:30am prepare bfr 5:30am I'll be on my way to ikeja, reaching work at about 7am

would be busy all thr the day till around 6pm with traffic and everything I'll be reaching home 10pm coupled with headache and body pain

Bro the truth is those stress din stop me from wanking o embarassed embarassed

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by MISTAICEY02288(m): 1:57pm On Dec 15, 2019
Village people at work

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by zexy2030(m): 1:59pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction. the minimum time l maturbate in a day is four times. atimes six or seven . l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite been an extrovert. Am a porn addict . most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old, l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help nairalnders this thing is killing me.
My Friend, masturbation is what most males(98%) experience during puberty even some lonely females, it's natural for your hormones to ravage and seeks to be tested for instance, wet dreams ( some release of sperm while sleeping at night), sexual urges( this makes you curious to watch porn), early morning erection. These and more are signs of puberty, the management of these reactions will depend on who you confided in.
Now daily masturbation which is now an habit was likely influenced by your most influential individual in your life.
Firstly, cease to be friend with that person.
Secondly, intentionally destroy pornographic materials in your possessions.
Thirdly, notice: aside porn and masturbation what other thing gives you equal joy, concentrate effort on that. You may enjoy reading, talking with others or teaching or helping weak people.
Fourthly, talk about it with people to stop it and proffer solution to stop the habit.
Fiftly, masturbation makes you develop strange body odours, this should make you stop.
Sixtly, pray, it could be transference of dirty spirit by a dirty soul laying hands on you.
Sevently, never ever condemn yourself but tell yourself you are not masturbator anymore.
Eightly, practice a new constructive habit, like learning musical instrument, learn a app.
Nintly, approach a lady for a serious relationship, lessen talk about sex.
Tently, set a goal to observe your quitting strength.
I overcame it, my dear you can.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Sabby1(m): 2:04pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
Am a porn addict, most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong.

Bro, I understand and feel your worry. You need to give it a final push. Pornography is a soul killer and it's addiction is quite difficult to curtail. You really need prayer, self discipline and mortification

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Rilley(m): 2:18pm On Dec 15, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
6 times a day? shocked your prik must be in love with your hands.
Atleast volunteer your pussy, so that he can stop masturbatíng..

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by seanmozilla: 2:19pm On Dec 15, 2019
tyup:


I swear.....ceeroh never sabi what real addiction means, when I was on training at FAAN ikeja I'll wake up 4:30am prepare bfr 5:30am I'll be on my way to ikeja, reaching work at about 7am

would be busy all thr the day till around 6pm with traffic and everything I'll be reaching home 10pm coupled with headache and body pain

Bro the truth is those stress din stop me from wanking o embarassed embarassed
Bro, I just sent you an e-mail. Wanna discuss somethings with you about FAAN

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by gregyboy(m): 2:31pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
bro lost of weight no matter how l eat, tiredness, unnecessary nervousness while in means of opposite sex, anger and depression after l am through.


Try to go 2days without masturbating

Then try to double that two days again ,

Again go for a week

Then two weeks

Then improve it by going longer

While you are doing this you will feel a geat urge of masturbating but try and over come by all means fight it mentally and physically... If you can go two weeks without masturbating your body chemistry will change instantly...
When you can go for a month without it...
That great urge that want to make u masturbate would have been reduced or totally gone ,you sexual organ would return to default...

Even now i watch porn without wanting to masturbate ,i have full self control

You can start by ignoring or delete all sexual content from your phone

Note: former masturbators who quit masturbating have the best sexual control than people who never indulged in it,because there is no sexual climax that could as worse as the ones you bore while recovering

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by greatbrian(m): 2:49pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction. the minimum time l maturbate in a day is four times. atimes six or seven . l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite been an extrovert. Am a porn addict . most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old, l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help nairalnders this thing is killing me.

Op what HV learnt or seen with masturbation is it gets fuelled when u r alone. Forget those tryna be a saint. Most guys HV done it before and most are still doing it. I remember those years before I got admitted to the institution of my dreams. I was in to the act. Infact when I was in a civil uni I wikk engage in the act for like 3 tines a day when my colleagues go for lectures. It was killing me mentally, emotionally etc. Though I must confess it has some good side coz its safe sex to me. (It can even be better than the real thing). But the side effect was there.


After I got the admission into the institution of my choice and I hardly HV time to even sleep maybe 2 hours in a day (first year) dz if my roommate won't even be doing job with me thru the night I lost it for masturbation. Naturally the instinct fled. I hardly think abt it and the little time I HV alone z spend with my colleagues. Those days HV turn to years now and am less stressed in the institution but I realised those years I never masturbated HV quenched the desire for it. Infact last august made it 4 years I touched myself last.


My advise, get smfin doing with your time. Don't even get alone, forget abt deleting the porn. When masturbation hold a grip on you, you might not need porn just imaginations and you are hvin a threeaome with rihana and Beyonce. Taking up a new hobby is another way to avoid masturbation and mostly always try not o be alone. The bible is correct when it says an idle hand is the devils workshop. Try and make friends, spend time burning your energy on things that will bring you profit and channel your thinking. Truth is once u can have a grip on your thinking, you've partially won the race over masturbation. nd trust in God totally to gv you the strength to pull thru. Always remember psalm 37:5 and prov 16:3.



Don't mind the way I type. Every seconds count and I don't wanna blow ofe in this one week to Xmas break

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Uduakden(m): 2:53pm On Dec 15, 2019
zexy2030:

My Friend, masturbation is what most males(98%) experience during puberty even some lonely females, it's natural for your hormones to ravage and seeks to be tested for instance, wet dreams ( some release of sperm while sleeping at night), sexual urges( this makes you curious to watch porn), early morning erection. These and more are signs of puberty, the management of these reactions will depend on who you confided in.
Now daily masturbation which is now an habit was likely influenced by your most influential individual in your life.
Firstly, cease to be friend with that person.
Secondly, intentionally destroy pornographic materials in your possessions.
Thirdly, notice: aside porn and masturbation what other thing gives you equal joy, concentrate effort on that. You may enjoy reading, talking with others or teaching or helping weak people.
Fourthly, talk about it with people to stop it and proffer solution to stop the habit.
Fiftly, masturbation makes you develop strange body odours, this should make you stop.
Sixtly, pray, it could be transference of dirty spirit by a dirty soul laying hands on you.
Sevently, never ever condemn yourself but tell yourself you are not masturbator anymore.
Eightly, practice a new constructive habit, like learning musical instrument, learn a app.
Nintly, approach a lady for a serious relationship, lessen talk about sex.
Tently, set a goal to observe your quitting strength.
I overcame it, my dear you can.
Tanks im also a victim but i hav learn from u. please i will like to get intouch with u

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by georgysly(m): 3:08pm On Dec 15, 2019
09075326557 call me I will help because I was like u before someone helped me

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by KrazzyAndy(m): 3:09pm On Dec 15, 2019
Good gracious shocked and I used to think I was the worst person on the planet cause I mastubate 2-3x a week undecided dude the only think I can tell you is that try everything all the people above are saying cause honestly speaking that what helping me now to gradually reduce it to atmost once a week this month alone I have gone just 4 days out of 15 without watching porn or masturbating and honestly it bringing out a side of me I never knew existed wink
So bro please porn kills I even heard there was a a bill passed in the us to combat porn addiction just like the way they combat drug addiction to tell the terrible effect on the balance of the body
I wish you good luck on your journey to quit the addiction bro
STAY STRONG YOU'RE NOT ALONE smiley

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by respect80(m): 3:10pm On Dec 15, 2019
tyup:


I swear.....ceeroh never sabi what real addiction means, when I was on training at FAAN ikeja I'll wake up 4:30am prepare bfr 5:30am I'll be on my way to ikeja, reaching work at about 7am

would be busy all thr the day till around 6pm with traffic and everything I'll be reaching home 10pm coupled with headache and body pain

Bro the truth is those stress din stop me from wanking o embarassed embarassed


Funny some people are not aware that stress is a major contributor rather than a remedy.
If u masturbate and you allow yourself to encounter stress, real sex or masturbation automatically becomes the only way to find sleep cos ur body can only become relaxed and ready for sleep after the release of a hormone known as endorphin whose release is triggered by engaging in sexual act.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Observer007(m): 3:11pm On Dec 15, 2019
This sounds like the usual NL traffic generator.
Is Viagra so easy and cheap to lay your hands on?
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by tstx(m): 3:11pm On Dec 15, 2019
Sorry
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 3:12pm On Dec 15, 2019
Brainiac12:

Ogbeni he needs advice not this you fool
Oga, wetin you dey talk?

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by EmekaBlue(m): 3:12pm On Dec 15, 2019
xvideos.com go sabi u wella sha grin
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by KKKWHITE(m): 3:12pm On Dec 15, 2019
ceeroh:
If you're not in Lagos, move there. Get a job in a toxic work environment that takes 12hours of your day. Then coupled with traffic. By the time you get home, you no go even remember where you keep your vaseline.
Vaseline
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by tstx(m): 3:12pm On Dec 15, 2019
Nwodosis:
Don't bother yourself about looking for solution on how to quit masturbation, it never works!
It is only ageing, regular sex or denying youself the privacy of being alone when the urge comes that can put an end to masturbation.
Masturbation is harmless unless from the religious angle. Even when it comes to religion, if you can masturbate without thinking about sex, it is not a sin.
How you can achieve that fit of masturbating without thinking about sex is left for you.
Finally, think about this before self guilt kills you that nature is in support of masturbation, how you ever wondered why you can't tickle youself but you can excite your sexual organs?


Masturbation is harmful

5 Major Ways Porn Addiction Affects Your Brain


Overindulgence: How Watching Porn Is Actively Ruining Your Life



Very harmful

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by saucemanny(m): 3:13pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.



Get ursef a job bro

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by jclassiq(m): 3:13pm On Dec 15, 2019
Nofap.com
Check it out. Also, google sexual addiction and see what you come up with. Also, repent and ask God to help you. You can start your healing process by fasting for some days. God be with you bro. Sex addiction is evil.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by bid4rich(m): 3:13pm On Dec 15, 2019
That thing is not ordinary bro..... Fight back with all that you have whether physically or spiritually. Where there is a will, there is a way. Engage your will-power, your determination, move with people who have strength in that area and with God, you will overcome.

It's not over until you win

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Rockyrascal(m): 3:13pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.
i feel your pain sir!
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 3:13pm On Dec 15, 2019
Guy, go for an exorcism as you might be possessed by the Demon of Lust
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Goldenheart(m): 3:13pm On Dec 15, 2019
lipsrsealed

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