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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Bobbystanley(m): 3:49pm On Dec 15, 2019
For the past 10 years,I don't think you can count 20 days out of it that I didn't Masturbate.It has become a daily routine.Some days if I'm home,I could do it up to 6 times like you stated.The addiction no be here and I'm 25 as well.

I decided to leave with it when I realised that it has no negative side effects on my health and the addiction has stopped me from fucking any kinda girl I see to satisfy my sexual urge.

Bro it's going to be difficult cos I'm in that shoe as we speak.But I believe We can do it.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by shomutuski(m): 3:50pm On Dec 15, 2019
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soberdrunk:
Kneel!!!! I hereby knight you Sir Wanksalot of Masturbadia!!! First of his name.....

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Toscarel: 3:52pm On Dec 15, 2019
wordbank:
If your preek will lead you to death, cut it off

all these mumu holier than thou people, he's seeking advice , get off your high horse and give something reasonable or shut the F up

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by JoyAda1234(f): 3:52pm On Dec 15, 2019
Give your life to Christ and pray to God about it.HE will help you.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by aishatmusah(f): 3:53pm On Dec 15, 2019
horpigee1:
I have solution for you if only you can do it... it sound crazy and funny..don't do it if u tink u can't stop masturbating.
(1) take ur bible or Quran, open the middle of the Bible/Quran, then say it loudly that God I don't want to be masturbate again and if you do, all the curse in d bible/Quran shall be on to you.... pls don't do this if u know u can't stop this masturbate of a thing.
(2) step on cutlass or any iron sheet, then say to urself that... if i masturbate after today, make Ogun kill u.
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pls don't do any of the two if u know u can't stop masturbating...may God help u bro


Oga Ade, u just wan kill d young man.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by bmdmixer: 3:53pm On Dec 15, 2019
Nwodosis:
Don't bother yourself about looking for solution on how to quit masturbation, it never works!
It is only ageing, regular sex or denying youself the privacy of being alone when the urge comes that can put an end to masturbation.
Masturbation is harmless unless from the religious angle. Even when it comes to religion, if you can masturbate without thinking about sex, it is not a sin.
How you can achieve that fit of masturbating without thinking about sex is left for you.
Finally, think about this before self guilt kills you that nature is in support of masturbation, have you ever wondered why you can't tickle youself but you can excite your sexual organs?
wen u tink of doing it, take a walk, or go to the next room, try reducing it to once or twice daily, follow by 1 once a day then 3 times a week and a whole week dont
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Hypnotise: 3:53pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
bro lost of weight no matter how l eat, tiredness, unnecessary nervousness while in means of opposite sex, anger and depression after l am through.
You lose weight because you're calories deficient. Do you know about weight gainer shakes?
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by GAZZUZZ(m): 3:53pm On Dec 15, 2019
ceeroh:
If you're not in Lagos, move there. Get a job in a toxic work environment that takes 12hours of your day. Then coupled with traffic. By the time you get home, you no go even remember where you keep your vaseline.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Bloggersp: 3:54pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.
are you a Christian ?, if yes, Fast and Pray For Three Days And Thank Me On The Fourth Day grin

it works like magic
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by jaxxy(m): 3:54pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.

ITS JUST A HABIT.

I will tell u a little secret it’s all in ur mind. U need to have control and discipline of ur mind and then ur body. U have formed a serious habit and it simply requires serious habit breaking skills. Both mind and physical body discipline.

Nothing shud have so much control over u, and what Ure facing is just a strong habit cycle dats all and u need to break it. It will take u sm physical and mind endurance skills. Smtn like joining the army in physical training or boot camp. Are u ready to break the habit??

If ur spiritual, spiritual training and development can help also bt the physical and mindset training brings quick measurable results.

Ur mind is playing tricks on u. U can break any habit if u learn how to. Stop overdoing urself

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by iajour(m): 3:55pm On Dec 15, 2019
6 in a day is too much bro. I do it jst once in a week n m okay. 4 dose saying it is demonic spirit bla bla bla n it's a bad thing, wat of fornication, is dat gud also(avenue 4 std hiv), bro try n work on d number of times u soapy n get a gf asap. dats all

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by seanwilliam(m): 3:56pm On Dec 15, 2019
The best solution is, dont stay alone, but it doesn't totally stop it.. mastubation is a spirit that doesn't leave totally... I still mastubate till today.. but my own no dey pass once a day cos I get exhausted immediately.. u. U cant do without it bro, u can only reduce it.. dont be fooled by hypocrites on here.. also try to get yourself a sexmaniac girlfriend...but make sure you dont stay alone all the time, this would reduce the urge..

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Famous4real(m): 3:57pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.



Sorry for your encounter, i know how it feels because when i was in Jss3 a friend introduced it to me and since then i have been struggling with it, i initially don't know what i was doing but the more I grew up i realised it's called masturbation and it's bad for me i started feeling guilty each time I did it and still i found it difficult to stop, it's makes me lean, it disturbed my health and cost me some memory problems, I'm an extrovert but i dont feel sexual urge when I'm with a girl, i derived pleasure from masturbating more than having real sex....i thank God for my life, I'm gradually overcoming it , not completely but i do it now once in a month and I believe soon I will stop it finally, it's a process... prayer works but it won't get you out of it....be strong and determined, you can't stop it once but little by little.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by eyickson(m): 3:58pm On Dec 15, 2019
6 times a day?
I advice you draw closer to God and avoid staying alone
Look for somebody that can be sending you daily devotion and read it out loud in the morning.
Whenever you start feeling the urge of doing it begin tonpray in your mind
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by MisterKings(m): 3:59pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.

Almost every guy does this. But some of us get addicted. I said us because I was once like you.
See this thing is like a spirit, you will just keep doing it over and over till you have no friends, no girlfriends and that is Because guys group up as pals and gist when girls are involved most times.

I got rid of my own habit when I made a decision to stop. I just decided one day oga this has to stop plus I usually felt one winsh was taken away my destiny with it. grin

Secondly get really busy with productive things. It can be ur work, studies etc. Just get busy. It's only an idle mind that becomes a haven for soapy. When you have exhausted ur energy on an activity to do am go dey Taya u and little by little you will outgrow it.

Fight bro. Just lock up ur mind on it. You can do this. It not only has a psychological impact but also health and social impact as well
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by horpigee1(m): 3:59pm On Dec 15, 2019
niaralandtopuser:
most foolish advice on nairaland
ur papa

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by KillamanJoe: 4:00pm On Dec 15, 2019
Sorry about this. However, I woul suggest you cut down the practice to once a day, then further cut down to 3 times a week then to once a week. It might help you, also, try to always stay engage.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Monday60655(m): 4:00pm On Dec 15, 2019
Cut off the rod in between your leg and be free
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by horpigee1(m): 4:01pm On Dec 15, 2019
aishatmusah:


Oga Ade, u just wan kill d young man.
he needed advice, and I gave him
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by fredopareto(m): 4:02pm On Dec 15, 2019
horpigee1:
I have solution for you if only you can do it... it sound crazy and funny..don't do it if u tink u can't stop masturbating.
(1) take ur bible or Quran, open the middle of the Bible/Quran, then say it loudly that God I don't want to be masturbate again and if you do, all the curse in d bible/Quran shall be on to you.... pls don't do this if u know u can't stop this masturbate of a thing.
(2) step on cutlass or any iron sheet, then say to urself that... if i masturbate after today, make Ogun kill u.
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pls don't do any of the two if u know u can't stop masturbating...may God help u bro
paw paw talk.story for d god ooo
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by northvietnam(m): 4:03pm On Dec 15, 2019
soberdrunk:
Kneel!!!! I hereby knight you Sir Wanksalot of Masturbadia!!! First of his name.....


cheesy
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Monday60655(m): 4:03pm On Dec 15, 2019
Always try not to be alone.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by chewwie(m): 4:04pm On Dec 15, 2019
4 times a day?! 5-6 times! Bros!!! If you really want to stop, go and buy a bottle of Aboniki balm, mix it with fresh pepper so that whenever you feel like masturbating, you rub the mixture on your palms.
On a more serious note, at 25, there should be more productive things occupying your mind, you should have a job (or be in school), have a steady relationship, be responsible not only for yourself but for those around you (parents, younger siblings/relatives). It's not an evil force that's forcing you to go back to porn and masturbation, you love it too much to quit. It's a matter of self determination and discipline! You're a forking man for fork's sake! Get hold of yourself!
Above all, don't engage in an activity you otherwise wouldn't tell your mother about. Good luck!
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by iamsonofthunder: 4:04pm On Dec 15, 2019
locate Jesus Desciple Fellowship in your town, by the time you are taught for two that spirit will be made powerless in your life.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Bradiyung(m): 4:05pm On Dec 15, 2019
horpigee1:
I have solution for you if only you can do it... it sound crazy and funny..don't do it if u tink u can't stop masturbating.
(1) take ur bible or Quran, open the middle of the Bible/Quran, then say it loudly that God I don't want to be masturbate again and if you do, all the curse in d bible/Quran shall be on to you.... pls don't do this if u know u can't stop this masturbate of a thing.
(2) step on cutlass or any iron sheet, then say to urself that... if i masturbate after today, make Ogun kill u.
.
pls don't do any of the two if u know u can't stop masturbating...may God help u bro

LMAO.....MAD OH

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Slimmy0: 4:05pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.


Buy the book "Conquering Controlling Power By Bishop David Oyedepo" its nolonger a habit, there is a force behind it.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by vickydevoka(m): 4:05pm On Dec 15, 2019
Randy100:
You can't quit rather find something doing to take your mind off from it. Lastly, get a girlfriend.
Gal friend is not advisable. The best advice is for him to move to Lagos n get job
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Balogunodua(m): 4:05pm On Dec 15, 2019
soberdrunk:
Kneel!!!! I hereby knight you Sir Wanksalot of Masturbadia!!! First of his name.....
Knight ke grin grin
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by PraiseDLord: 4:05pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.
Surrender your life to Jesus Christ completely and repent of all your sins.
Confess them all to God in Jesus name and make up your mind not to go back to sins (not only masturbation but sin in its entirety) again. Stop pornography as it's LUST which is evil before God!
He will give you grace and you will be free!
Christ has done it for countless people, He'll do it also for you.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Billyanger(m): 4:05pm On Dec 15, 2019
6x daily! Chai! Man you have to take the matter serious oh. I have to tell you fact, i was once there and i had an encounter that made me stop it completely.

The only therapist that can help you is God! call on God with your whole heart amd cry out your pains to him. I can tell you this, believe it or not, there is deep spiritual effects to your vices. You need God's mercy.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Balogunodua(m): 4:07pm On Dec 15, 2019
horpigee1:
I have solution for you if only you can do it... it sound crazy and funny..don't do it if u tink u can't stop masturbating.
(1) take ur bible or Quran, open the middle of the Bible/Quran, then say it loudly that God I don't want to be masturbate again and if you do, all the curse in d bible/Quran shall be on to you.... pls don't do this if u know u can't stop this masturbate of a thing.
(2) step on cutlass or any iron sheet, then say to urself that... if i masturbate after today, make Ogun kill u.
.
pls don't do any of the two if u know u can't stop masturbating...may God help u bro
Oga kuku tell am mke he kill him self na
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by horpigee1(m): 4:08pm On Dec 15, 2019
Mayflowa:


You're wicked. #inside evil
I'm not wicked, at least Im trying to find a solution to his predicament, it better to say something than to keep silent....I had already told him not to do it if he know he can't stop masturbating

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