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Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by crackhaus: 7:47am On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken:Lol This woman... So now you agree you have been having so many issues with your husband. Yes, that's the clarification I wanted. Apparently, you have a tendency to want to correct and teach him which he does not like, and if you're very sure this is the only reason the issues started, then I wonder why you haven't stopped doing what he does not like. Unless there are still things you haven't shared yet. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Graxie(f): 8:58am On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken:please ignore that guy, do yourself a favor and do that. He has a female partner here, all they do is ridicule women and make light of their pain. You just ignore them. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by bukatyne(f): 12:12pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
crackhaus: Hahahaha. Lay all cards on the table and we know where to chook mouth. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 2:26pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Graxie:Thank you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by crackhaus: 5:18pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
bukatyne:Exactly |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by crackhaus: 5:22pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Graxie: 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Isoduwa(m): 10:07pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: Send me he phone number let me call and ask him about your personal problem |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by futurism: 10:08pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: Lol... The kind of people that get married these days eh. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 10:21pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
The worse he can do is poison their minds now but when they grow older everything will begin to add up... keep being who u are. Kids are very sensitive toe their environment and happenings around them. What u think they don't see now is in their memory bank.. Don't get to his level. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by OlujobaSamuel: 10:22pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
I know you are lying but kontinu... |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by tchidi066(f): 10:24pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by philip0906(m): 10:26pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
crackhaus:Very intelligent post!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by greggng: 10:29pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: The truth is that you are not in control of your kids...children tend to support their mum more than their dad cos mum is always there for them. Check yourself properly |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by sleekone: 10:29pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Question. Who has more responsibility for the children? If it's you then don't worry about it. Children tend to listen more to the person they spend more time with. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 10:30pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Judging with your replies on this thread, I can sense that you are humble and calm. Kids are very sensitive and the best stage to win their hearts is the childhood stage. For your husband to threaten you with that statement, it shows that he is confident and can do it. You don’t know what happens to the kids when you are not around. This matter is beyond nairaland, I will advise you to train your children in the ways of the lord. Let them go to sunday school or ilekeu, these church/mosque section have a way of teaching children morals and instilling the fear of God into them. If you can find a way to teach them in the way of thy lord (Do not force them) Even If the husband wants to turn them against you, the word of God will lead them right. Plus you need to work on your husband cos I don’t understand why a man’s heart will be as hard as a stone to the extent that he finds it hard to forgive. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by DMerciful(m): 10:32pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
You did nothing, your husband just said it from nowhere? Women always tell stories to suit their narrative. You always respect your husband, your parents, and yet he just preemptively say if you do something you've not done, this will be his reaction? Fear God o Modified You said he wanted you to stay in the village with his mum and sisters? Was it to permanently stay there or for a why until he settle? Was he traveling for work? Why did he ask you to stay in the village? How long did you guys date? ebyjoyken: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Lasky2000: 10:33pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
I think you need to find out why his behaving this way,firstly why his not concern about your family and why he could ever think of using your kids against you.His very possible one of your secret or a word u said behind him has bin revelead to him 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 10:36pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
healthserve: People rush into marriages with near total strangers....because they feel time is running out on them, because the other party has money, etc. Some ladies go so far as using juju to snare hapless men into marriage & of course in such cases the day juju expires is the day wahala starts. This is a fùcked-up society with fùcked-up values 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by luminouz(m): 10:38pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Seems its women day today. All marriages are under threat. Will I marry like this? See how grown men and women act so goddamn immature. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by iammiracle1(m): 10:38pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: Madam learn to tune out, don't let his words break you instead channel your prayers to God to help protect your children's heart, a husband like urs can even go diabolical to poison their minds when grown, learn a skill and be independent, may God help you |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by luminouz(m): 10:39pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Jesu! Take it easy naaaaaaa..... |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Onyeomaigbo(m): 10:40pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Do you have or make out time for your kids? Are you a good mother? Ask yourself these questions |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Drakkernoir: 10:40pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: See, feminists minded people...what he said is totally right...there have been soo many posts like this today and it's all one sided.... There are always two sides to a story darling....always learn to read BTW the lines n don't jump to conclusions...in every relationship, there are always grey areas...the hubby may have his own reasons for saying such...we don't live with them.... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by iammiracle1(m): 10:40pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
DMerciful: Bro trust me there are terribly wicked men in this world, if not that I have seen such men b4 I won't believe. I advice men to be good o, cos God never sleeps 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by luminouz(m): 10:41pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: You didn't even get the real joke!!! He meant the husband can never succeed in turning her kids against her. Your blood is hot today,wetin happen na? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by luminouz(m): 10:43pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: Naso... Oya take one coldstone ice cream to cool off. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by vickydankal(f): 10:43pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
xoftcore: I believe you. I think the husband is not honoured adequately. It is like a tank. Not just respect but honour. Make him your king. In my village the best way to control a man (Husband) is to allow him to be the man, honour him, respect, and submit to him totally. Then he will unconsciously hand over the kingdom to you. Check between Vasti and Queen Esther in the bible. Honour was what dethroned one and enthroned the other. Have ever heard 'His wife is controlling him' this is one of the keys to do that. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by D1zion: 10:43pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
If he make them disrespect you they'll not spear him too when the time comes.its going to be law of karma. I urged you to still draw them closer to you,love them more than you do before & always seat them down yo peptalk them & don't even make them to hate him but love him the instead.God will help you out if this delima you're going through now. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 10:46pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Men will always be the devil in marriages, especially black men, they are cursed |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Goldenheart(m): 10:46pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Things are getting out of hands |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 10:46pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
vickydankal:Are u intelligent at all. Listen to the trash u r spewing 1 Like |
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