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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by jaxxy(m): 10:52pm On Dec 17, 2019
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.

He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.

He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.

I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.

So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".

I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.

He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.

Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.

At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.

I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.

So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.

I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.

I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.






If he can’t take u out or show u off not to people bt in public causally he don’t love u. He only like the private moments of probably passion and lust. No love. Even if he actually doesn’t like the beach as he claimed even tho he went there with sm1else why didn’t he suggest some other place?

Once Ure indout and the other person isn’t making it clear enough to you in words or actions my sister it is what it is. Frnds with benefits and don’t get me wrong it’s not a crime bt it’s only fair u let the other person know it’s not that serious and in fairness I think he told u so however after misleading u or leading u on initially bt he told u afterwards. Now it’s left for u to set the boundaries of what u want... frnds with benefits or platonic. And let him respect which is fine for u.

Yes u love him and have feelings for him bt he clearly doesn’t have same feeling for u. If U keep giving him he will keep taking it and for free. If ur ok with that good if not stop it and be firm and look/wait for ur own man. It cud even be the fact he gets it easy and free that makes him indecisive.


Don’t beg, Move on cos u didn’t exactly do anything wrong by knowing and confirming his status and neither is he committing to the relationship so see this as a needed break unless u want to go back to settling for frnds with benefits. If he loves u he will open channels to reconcile and commit. Cheers

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by benjijosh(m): 10:53pm On Dec 17, 2019
He aint dating no girl believe that but also, that nigg*h aint gonna be loyal anytime soon.

He is passing time.

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by stasius: 10:55pm On Dec 17, 2019
Ibroleesky:
plss stop blaming d guy alone, av u heard d other Syd of d story? wat if d bae too is nt loyal, no abuse plss just giving my own opinion

Exactly. Because it takes a hoe to know a hoe! I bet you if you are not a player, or if that guy is your first love you will believe everything he tells you hook line and sinker. It's only an experienced person that will clear you.

So I think both the girl and the guy are players.
Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Munzy14(m): 11:00pm On Dec 17, 2019
BronzeMajik:
take this from me dearie, I've dated a chronic liar before, it's not difficult to recognize one, that young man isn't into you.

if you value your peace of mind leave right now, but if you're ready to enjoy the roller coaster then stay and lose yourself.
It takes a liar to catch another.... cheesy
Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Carlyboi(m): 11:02pm On Dec 17, 2019
I’m guessing your attraction to him is very strong and I’m guessing he is a big boy too probably classier than you.....it’s a levels game he’s playing with you and don’t think you’re his match cos he only sees you as a bootycall....you need what todo....and that’s block him not only Whatsapp tho but totally out of your life unless you want him to pass your gist around!he would just mess you up with nacks if you ever try to get back with him!and afterwards you would look worthless and valueless in his eyes!

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Jaqenhghar: 11:04pm On Dec 17, 2019
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.

He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.

He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.

I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.

So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".

I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.

He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.

Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.

At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.

I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.

So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.

I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.

I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.




I see the signs. That guy is a lying manipulative piece of shít. Nothong good will come out of it. Im sure he was only after the cookies. His blocking you is an answer ti a prayer. Never have anythong to do with such....


But I know you women na those kind men una like. If he sends message apologizing now you will accept him happily

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by kushercain: 11:09pm On Dec 17, 2019
Op has been dickmatized, and is easily manipulated emotionally by her "boyfriend" who no send am

Alswaysachick better let go, no go kill yourself, save your headache for real marriage issues when the time come

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by chocboi78(m): 11:10pm On Dec 17, 2019
All y'all quoting d entire text just to reply, wetin b una own sef angry angry grin

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Culin(f): 11:11pm On Dec 17, 2019
Quick question, how do you know a guy who's a virgin?
Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Culin(f): 11:12pm On Dec 17, 2019
Carlyboi:
I’m guessing your attraction to him is very strong and I’m guessing he is a big boy too probably classier than you.....it’s a levels game he’s playing with you and don’t think you’re his match cos he only sees you as a bootycall....you need what todo....and that’s block him not only Whatsapp tho but totally out of your life unless you want him to pass your gist around!he would just mess you up with nacks if you ever try to get back with him!and afterwards you would look worthless and valueless in his eyes!

You've said it all.
Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by lomprico(m): 11:13pm On Dec 17, 2019
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.

He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.

He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.

I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.

So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".

I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.

He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.

Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.

At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.

I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.

So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.

I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.

I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.





coming from.a guy, he is a frigging liar! move on! he is not into you.

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Slynation(m): 11:14pm On Dec 17, 2019
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.

He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.

He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.

I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.

So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".

I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.

He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.

Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.

At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.

I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.

So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.

I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.

I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.




I'm still looking for a suitable word to put this sentence to you without hurting you either positively or negatively....

"You have been used and dumped"

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Carlyboi(m): 11:14pm On Dec 17, 2019
Culin:


You've said it all.
Thx babe!
Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Dextre(m): 11:22pm On Dec 17, 2019
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.

He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.

He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.

I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.

So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".

I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.

He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.

Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.

At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.

I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.

So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.

I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.

I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.







What exactly is wrong with you?what on earth are you trying to apologise for..like seriously? Apologise?. Dat nigga dead ass cheating on you, full blown,and full grown cheater. You beta move on,men full ground. This idea of apology vex me sha. Wetin love no go cause like this

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by foleskay(m): 11:22pm On Dec 17, 2019
So a guy u used to get intimate with blocked you on WhatsApp for three days incommunicado, and you still thinking he loves you? Wft. He never loved you from the onset, he just wan use you as body count ni.

Move on sis. But it seems the guy is classy more than you, hence your clingy.

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by livebyday(m): 11:25pm On Dec 17, 2019
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.

He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.

He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.

I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.

So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".

I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.

He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.

Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.

At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.

I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.

So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.

I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.

I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.





Wow

Everything about you screams low self-esteem,you should work on that.

Fact : he just used you to pass time, the whole two weeks intimacy should have been a clear sign

He was never looking for anything serious with you
But trust me any day he gets Hot and no other girl is around he definitely call on you

To him you are just a flavor of the week .. and that week is over at least till he needs an easy lay again.

Apologies if I sound harsh but sometimes the truth smarts

Cheers

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Collins4u1(m): 11:27pm On Dec 17, 2019
He loves getting intimate with you, that's the only thing he loves about you.. He'll still come again for it watch out.

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Alwaysachick: 11:29pm On Dec 17, 2019
foleskay:
So a guy u used to get intimate with blocked you on WhatsApp for three days incommunicado, and you still thinking he loves you? Wft. He never loved you from the onset, he just wan use you as body count ni.

Move on sis. But it seems the guy is classy more than you, hence your clingy.

I'm far from clingy. Let me tell the truth he has a super job, but has never given me a penny. I most times sort him out when he or we are stranded. Though he pays back after reminder. I've even given him a Christmas present before all this drama.

He has his good part no denial, he can be selfless when he wants to be. Nobody is perfect I know. But what I didn't expect were the lies and him being clingy when he isn't sure of what he wants.

I have told him off severally, and this is not about the sex, we rarely did it.

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by francisisking: 11:30pm On Dec 17, 2019
This is super story.... I really enjoyed reading your story, now I have been cured of my insomnia... thanks.

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by kurlz(f): 11:32pm On Dec 17, 2019
Virgin my left yansh.
What an heartless freak!

Wise up girl.

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by LosC: 11:45pm On Dec 17, 2019
Alwaysachick , are you ready for marriage?

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by odinga1of: 11:47pm On Dec 17, 2019
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.

He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.

He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.

I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.

So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".

I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.

He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.

Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.

At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.

I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.

So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.

I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.

I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.





Intimate in 2 weeks May God airpus ooooo
Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by chyckxx(m): 11:53pm On Dec 17, 2019
Ryan03:
its Christmas, many heartbreaks grin
you’re quite right. cheesy

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Chrisbeks: 11:55pm On Dec 17, 2019
move on

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Nobody: 11:59pm On Dec 17, 2019
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.

He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.

He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.

I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.

So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".

I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.

He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.

Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.

At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.

I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.

So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.

I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.

I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.




Nigaa is playing mind games with you. Fashi that guy. He's a time waster. Nothing good will come out of hanging around him.

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by PecLauren: 12:01am On Dec 18, 2019
I hope you know that you've been used sha!!!
Well bleep happens in life sometimes, dust yourself up, get busy...
Thank you

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Nobody: 12:02am On Dec 18, 2019
Alwaysachick:


I'm far from clingy. Let me tell the truth he has a super job, but has never given me a penny. I most times sort him out when he or we are stranded. Though he pays back after reminder. I've even given him a Christmas present before all this drama.

He has his good part no denial, he can be selfless when he wants to be. Nobody is perfect I know. But what I didn't expect were the lies and him being clingy when he isn't sure of what he wants.

I have told him off severally, and this is not about the sex, we rarely did it.
When someone tells or shows you who they truly are, believe them.
Even if he's not cheating (I think he's actually cheating), he has no long term plans for the relationship. His instability, hot-cold behaviour proves that. In other words, YOU'RE WASTING YOUR TIME.
Even if he recovers and begs you, stand your ground. I wish you well.

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by ChEkWaSIyKe(f): 12:03am On Dec 18, 2019
DM me now good thing is coming your way. Is not a joke

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by PecLauren: 12:03am On Dec 18, 2019
odinga1of:


Intimate in 2 weeks May God airpus ooooo

Lol...
As in eh!
May God really airpus...
cheesy grin grin

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by BlackPantherCri: 12:14am On Dec 18, 2019
So boys are now using I'm a virgin as a ruse. Babes, guy man guy you chop your kitten for free

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by 2023Election: 12:17am On Dec 18, 2019
If you are ready to settle down next year, I'm ready. DM me

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Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by 4lorunsho(m): 12:24am On Dec 18, 2019
Move on but I am available

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