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So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Pascopele: 1:12pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
I've heard several complaints from the ladies that it amounts to emotional deceit for the men to straight up ask for a relationship when what the men want is a fling, one-night stand, or no-strings-attached relationship. I don't know, but I feel it all comes down to this: as a guy asking a lady for a relationship is the only way you're guaranteed sex, if it ever happens. These things are not written in black and white. Just going straight to tell her that you only want access to the cookie will make you seem like you were the worst idiot to ever inhabit earth. So, ladies how will you feel if a guy straight up asks you for a fling, a one-night stand, or a no-strings-attached relationship? |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by IyaTola: 1:15pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Well, deceiving her just to get the cookie makes you a bigger idiot and an emotional thief. Don't you think? I think both genders just need to realize and appreciate their differences. Every girl should have it at the back of her mind that when a guy approaches her, it's first a sexual attraction before anything else! It could develop into something solid with time. Men should also understand that women are more emotional beings. Most will not say yes to you, if they don't want something more than sex. Emphasis on most... Some will... Then a clear definition should be put in place before anything... And men should imagine that "that Woman" is their sister and treat her right... Let love lead 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Nobody: 1:16pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Nothing there just a simple No and that's it. However I would be concerned if I get this often, that means something is wrong somewhere. 2 Likes |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Nobody: 1:21pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
I will tell him to Bleep off 2 Likes |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Nobody: 1:27pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Bola146(f): 2:16pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
I will tell those rude once to go and climb theirs mothers , to the normal guys, I'll tell them NO 1 Like |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by IyaTola: 3:16pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
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Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by meobizy(f): 5:18pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
I guess engaging one’s hands is always the safest route. My hands never gave me STDs. 1 Like |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by chigoizie7(m): 5:37pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Like I have said earlier. Two things are involved. 1. If you ask her for a fling and she say NO. 2. Toast her, if she accept you, then Bleep her and move on. Either ways, one is going to be heartbroken if you go for number, but if she accepts number 1. No heartbreak will be involved. The choice is yours. I had thought option 1 is ideal for mature adults that knows what they want. However, because of the way our society is , I always go for number 2, my only regret is that the girl in question, ends up being hurt or heartbroken. But , it is what it is. Life goes on 5 Likes |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by lavylilly: 3:38pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
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Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by MedicH: 3:57pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
First question they ask is does he have money? I was with my colleague one day and his girlfriend we were just hanging out and shortly another colleague with a top of the line avalon 08 ltd stopped by and had some drink then he offered to take this girl home it was raining. We knew what was about to go down anyway because the avalon boy is a casanova. He asked this girl for a fling i suppose and then later in the night the girl called my guy and said " pls that your friend that took me home, is he rich"? My guy was plain in his answer, yes he is and the avalon boy moved in on the girl and had his cut. The guy shared her picture to another niggar a andanova too and this guy owns a Lexus es 330 with tinted glasses, top of the line. The lexus guy started stalking this girl. He met her on the road oneday and pulled over and she entered. He started a conversation with the girl about her hair where she makes it, the style she likes and all that. This guy told the babe he owns a fine beauty shop in the heart of the city of Owerri. I am sure u all are getting the right ideas now. He said all you need is to walk in, drop my card in there with the note on it and they will give your hair a touch pf class. This guy is just doctor and owns nada. The girl went for the kill, did as he was told and got what she wanted. Then the lexus guy called the Avalon boy and said its about to go down. We were all in a clinical session and the girl called. She said she was in so so and so hotel that he should come out. The guy was about to leave when the avalon boy called him and said look man this girl is the girlfriend to this guy seating right beside you. The guy was moved anyway and out of pity he called off the arrangement. The guy just immediately broke up with the girl and the mother threatened to disown this girl if she doesnt get back to the guy. She wanted her LovePeddler to marry a young fine doctor. The guy just jump and pass. If you're loving any girl just think about this. It's not worth it. Save yourself the stress. 9 Likes |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Nobody: 4:23pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
MedicH:she is just a runz girl at heart ..nothing more nothing less 3 Likes |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by MedicH: 4:26pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
lefulefu2: She was 18 then. My guy was looking for a girl to marry. U know catch them young. 1 Like |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Nobody: 4:31pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
MedicH:that catch them young doesnt work anymore .there are girls these days who start their runz racket right from an early age.at the age of 15 or 16 them don be pro then at 25 they already veterans in the trade .holding a girl at a young age is no guarantee that she never bad . 1 Like |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by chigoizie7(m): 4:31pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
MedicH: Na all these stories de scare the shit out of me. No one knows who is who anymore 1 Like |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by MedicH: 4:33pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
chigoizie7: Me too. I am scared. There's no way out. 1 Like |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by MedicH: 4:51pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
lefulefu2: What shall a just man do? |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Nobody: 4:55pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
MedicH:just get a good girl and have peace of mind .most girls wey dey too tear eye for material things never make good partners 3 Likes |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by AfroKnight: 5:34pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
chigoizie7: Well said bro. Many ladies will tell you to tell them your true intentions, upfront. But na lie. They will always tell you “No”. They are always setting themselves up for heartbreak. Some want the fling too but they’ll be forming good girl. 3 Likes |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Alexaonfleek: 5:50pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
chigoizie7:SMH,life goes on when you break a girl's heart. Very selfish of you,i must say!!!!! |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by vicben27(m): 5:55pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Pascopele:it happens, back when l was still balling, 3 of my ex'es came unto me, and we had fun for some months, distance was always the separating factor thou 1 Like |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Tajbol4splend(m): 5:55pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Bola146: This is uncalled for |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by chigoizie7(m): 5:59pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Alexaonfleek: You think it was being selfish? I do not think so. It is the society we live in. We frown at the truth and embrace falsehood and lies . We are always scared to accept the truth. We live in denial. The truth about who we are lies in our true lies. We are humans. We have needs and wants. I see a girl for the 1st time, we both like each other, I opened up to her, she turned me down, simply because she thinks the society will frown at it. But deep down, she is dying in silence because I never came back to toast her again, now she saw me with another girl and termed me heartless for not trying harder. This is akin to what I explained before. There is always a two option to getting sex( you might say what is sex, but the truth is virtually everyone indulges in it , married or not, let’s not be hypocritical here). Coming out to tell a girl you like that you would want to go down with her sexually, no strings attached. Or getting into a relationship with her to get the sex, the end point here is to achieve one thing, have sex with her. Which would you go for? We must’ love everyone we come in contact with. Likewise, all relationships mustn’t lead to marriage. Some are just experimenting. 3 Likes |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Alexaonfleek: 6:22pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
chigoizie7:If it's simply konji you're trying to cure,you have ashawo for that. See,the fact remains that nowadays if u want a no strings attached relationship,you can easily get it cuz women are becoming more bold nowadays.Las Las it's money you'll give her No matter how you try to justify such action,the fact remains that it's really selfish of you to seduce a girl who's deeply in love with you and after sex you dump her. And I sincerely hope you're not one of those guys that will be searching for virgin when you want to marry 1 Like |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by chigoizie7(m): 6:32pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Alexaonfleek: I still have choices don’t you think? It mustn’t be an ashawo. It is about seeing what I want and going for it. However I go about it as long as I didn’t commit any crime to get it, I think all is fair and square. Why would I be looking for a virgin when I am not a virgin myself?i don’t play like that. 1 Like |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Nobody: 6:39pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
So sorry for your guy, sounds like what went down in "MX town" sometime this year, the more reason I always prefer ladies who have gone through it all. MedicH: |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Alexaonfleek: 6:41pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
chigoizie7:It's about what you want,why aren't you considering the other person too? Anyways,good day,we'd probably end up going back and forth on this. 1 Like |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by chigoizie7(m): 6:48pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Alexaonfleek: We are 1st of all selfish as humans. On the onset, it is what I want, then I could decide to consider what others want . 2 Likes |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by jackals(f): 6:49pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Ariza: What if he's good looking? lol 1 Like |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by MedicH: 6:57pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Grayjoy: U are ready to put up with anything? |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Nobody: 7:01pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
"The truth about who we are lies in our true lies" It will take me alot of work to successfully digest this line, you deserve a glass of my drink gentleman, seeing this for the first time in life seems it will make alot of sense. chigoizie7: 2 Likes |
Re: So, Ladies How Will You Feel If A Guy Straight Up Asks You For A Fling by Nobody: 7:19pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Didn't get the "anything" in this context, can you explain please? MedicH: |
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