Bola146:
I will tell those rude once to go and climb theirs mothers , to the normal guys, I'll tell them NO

chigoizie7:
Like I have said earlier.


Two things are involved.

1. If you ask her for a fling and she say NO.

2. Toast her, if she accept you, then Bleep her and move on.


Either ways, one is going to be heartbroken if you go for number, but if she accepts number 1. No heartbreak will be involved.


The choice is yours. I had thought option 1 is ideal for mature adults that knows what they want. However, because of the way our society is , I always go for number 2, my only regret is that the girl in question, ends up being hurt or heartbroken.

But , it is what it is. Life goes on

MedicH:
First question they ask is does he have money? I was with my colleague one day and his girlfriend we were just hanging out and shortly another colleague with a top of the line avalon 08 ltd stopped by and had some drink then he offered to take this girl home it was raining. We knew what was about to go down anyway because the avalon boy is a casanova. He asked this girl for a fling i suppose and then later in the night the girl called my guy and said " pls that your friend that took me home, is he rich"? My guy was plain in his answer, yes he is and the avalon boy moved in on the girl and had his cut.

The guy shared her picture to another niggar a andanova too and this guy owns a Lexus es 330 with tinted glasses, top of the line. The lexus guy started stalking this girl. He met her on the road oneday and pulled over and she entered. He started a conversation with the girl about her hair where she makes it, the style she likes and all that. This guy told the babe he owns a fine beauty shop in the heart of the city of Owerri. I am sure u all are getting the right ideas now. He said all you need is to walk in, drop my card in there with the note on it and they will give your hair a touch pf class. This guy is just doctor and owns nada.


The girl went for the kill, did as he was told and got what she wanted. Then the lexus guy called the Avalon boy and said its about to go down. We were all in a clinical session and the girl called. She said she was in so so and so hotel that he should come out. The guy was about to leave when the avalon boy called him and said look man this girl is the girlfriend to this guy seating right beside you. The guy was moved anyway and out of pity he called off the arrangement.


The guy just immediately broke up with the girl and the mother threatened to disown this girl if she doesnt get back to the guy. She wanted her LovePeddler to marry a young fine doctor. The guy just jump and pass.


If you're loving any girl just think about this. It's not worth it. Save yourself the stress.

lefulefu2:
she is just a runz girl at heart ..nothing more nothing less

MedicH:


She was 18 then. My guy was looking for a girl to marry. U know catch them young.

MedicH:
First question they ask is does he have money? I was with my colleague one day and his girlfriend we were just hanging out and shortly another colleague with a top of the line avalon 08 ltd stopped by and had some drink then he offered to take this girl home it was raining. We knew what was about to go down anyway because the avalon boy is a casanova. He asked this girl for a fling i suppose and then later in the night the girl called my guy and said " pls that your friend that took me home, is he rich"? My guy was plain in his answer, yes he is and the avalon boy moved in on the girl and had his cut.

The guy shared her picture to another niggar a andanova too and this guy owns a Lexus es 330 with tinted glasses, top of the line. The lexus guy started stalking this girl. He met her on the road oneday and pulled over and she entered. He started a conversation with the girl about her hair where she makes it, the style she likes and all that. This guy told the babe he owns a fine beauty shop in the heart of the city of Owerri. I am sure u all are getting the right ideas now. He said all you need is to walk in, drop my card in there with the note on it and they will give your hair a touch pf class. This guy is just doctor and owns nada.


The girl went for the kill, did as he was told and got what she wanted. Then the lexus guy called the Avalon boy and said its about to go down. We were all in a clinical session and the girl called. She said she was in so so and so hotel that he should come out. The guy was about to leave when the avalon boy called him and said look man this girl is the girlfriend to this guy seating right beside you. The guy was moved anyway and out of pity he called off the arrangement.


The guy just immediately broke up with the girl and the mother threatened to disown this girl if she doesnt get back to the guy. She wanted her LovePeddler to marry a young fine doctor. The guy just jump and pass.


If you're loving any girl just think about this. It's not worth it. Save yourself the stress.

chigoizie7:


Na all these stories de scare the shit out of me.

No one knows who is who anymore

lefulefu2:
that catch them young doesnt work anymore .there are girls these days who start their runz racket right from an early age.at the age of 15 or 16 them don be pro then at 25 they already veterans in the trade .holding a girl at a young age is no guarantee that she never bad .

MedicH:


What shall a just man do?

chigoizie7:
Like I have said earlier.


Two things are involved.

1. If you ask her for a fling and she say NO.

2. Toast her, if she accept you, then Bleep her and move on.


Either ways, one is going to be heartbroken if you go for number, but if she accepts number 1. No heartbreak will be involved.


The choice is yours. I had thought option 1 is ideal for mature adults that knows what they want. However, because of the way our society is , I always go for number 2, my only regret is that the girl in question, ends up being hurt or heartbroken.

But , it is what it is. Life goes on

chigoizie7:
Like I have said earlier.


Two things are involved.

1. If you ask her for a fling and she say NO.

2. Toast her, if she accept you, then Bleep her and move on.


Either ways, one is going to be heartbroken if you go for number, but if she accepts number 1. No heartbreak will be involved.


The choice is yours. I had thought option 1 is ideal for mature adults that knows what they want. However, because of the way our society is , I always go for number 2, my only regret is that the girl in question, ends up being hurt or heartbroken.

But , it is what it is. Life goes on

Pascopele:
I've heard several complaints from the ladies that it amounts to emotional deceit for the men to straight up ask for a relationship when what the men want is a fling, one-night stand, or no-strings-attached relationship.

I don't know, but I feel it all comes down to this: as a guy asking a lady for a relationship is the only way you're guaranteed sex, if it ever happens. These things are not written in black and white. Just going straight to tell her that you only want access to the cookie will make you seem like you were the worst idiot to ever inhabit earth.

So, ladies how will you feel if a guy straight up asks you for a fling, a one-night stand, or a no-strings-attached relationship?

Bola146:
I will tell those rude once to go and climb theirs mothers , to the normal guys, I'll tell them NO

Alexaonfleek:
SMH,life goes on when you break a girl's heart.
Very selfish of you,i must say!!!!!

chigoizie7:


You think it was being selfish? I do not think so.

It is the society we live in. We frown at the truth and embrace falsehood and lies . We are always scared to accept the truth. We live in denial.

The truth about who we are lies in our true lies.

We are humans. We have needs and wants.



I see a girl for the 1st time, we both like each other, I opened up to her, she turned me down, simply because she thinks the society will frown at it. But deep down, she is dying in silence because I never came back to toast her again, now she saw me with another girl and termed me heartless for not trying harder. This is akin to what I explained before. There is always a two option to getting sex( you might say what is sex, but the truth is virtually everyone indulges in it , married or not, let’s not be hypocritical here). Coming out to tell a girl you like that you would want to go down with her sexually, no strings attached. Or getting into a relationship with her to get the sex, the end point here is to achieve one thing, have sex with her. Which would you go for?

We must’ love everyone we come in contact with. Likewise, all relationships mustn’t lead to marriage. Some are just experimenting.

Alexaonfleek:
If it's simply konji you're trying to cure,you have ashawo for that.
See,the fact remains that nowadays if u want a no strings attached relationship,you can easily get it cuz women are becoming more bold nowadays.Las Las it's money you'll give her
No matter how you try to justify such action,the fact remains that it's really selfish of you to seduce a girl who's deeply in love with you and after sex you dump her.

And I sincerely hope you're not one of those guys that will be searching for virgin when you want to marry

MedicH:


She was 18 then. My guy was looking for a girl to marry. U know catch them young.

chigoizie7:


I still have choices don’t you think? It mustn’t be an ashawo.

It is about seeing what I want and going for it.
However I go about it as long as I didn’t commit any crime to get it, I think all is fair and square.

Why would I be looking for a virgin when I am not a virgin myself?i don’t play like that.

Alexaonfleek:
It's about what you want,why aren't you considering the other person too?
Anyways,good day,we'd probably end up going back and forth on this.

Ariza:
Nothing there just a simple No and that's it. However I would be concerned if I get this often, that means something is wrong somewhere.

Grayjoy:
So sorry for your guy, sounds like what went down in "MX town" sometime this year, the more reason I always prefer ladies who have gone through it all.

chigoizie7:


You think it was being selfish? I do not think so.

It is the society we live in. We frown at the truth and embrace falsehood and lies . We are always scared to accept the truth. We live in denial.

The truth about who we are lies in our true lies.

We are humans. We have needs and wants.



I see a girl for the 1st time, we both like each other, I opened up to her, she turned me down, simply because she thinks the society will frown at it. But deep down, she is dying in silence because I never came back to toast her again, now she saw me with another girl and termed me heartless for not trying harder. This is akin to what I explained before. There is always a two option to getting sex( you might say what is sex, but the truth is virtually everyone indulges in it , married or not, let’s not be hypocritical here). Coming out to tell a girl you like that you would want to go down with her sexually, no strings attached. Or getting into a relationship with her to get the sex, the end point here is to achieve one thing, have sex with her. Which would you go for?

We must’ love everyone we come in contact with. Likewise, all relationships mustn’t lead to marriage. Some are just experimenting.

MedicH:


U are ready to put up with anything?