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It all depends on the 2 parties involved.

If they are Pdp and Anpp they ain't gonna last but if they are Pdp and Apc, they'll last.

In your case, please let him go dear... the right person will come around

Dunno but I doubt it does.

Thanks

dawnomike:
It all depends on the 2 parties involved.

If they are Pdp and Anpp they ain't gonna last but if they are Pdp and Apc, they'll last.

In your, please let him go dear... the right person will come around

Mine ended up in marriage, but sometimes you wont know the real character of your spouse until after wedding.

Was it worth it?
Any regrets?

Zombiekiller010:
Mine ended up in marriage, but sometimes you wont know the real character of your spouse until after wedding.

Currently in one.

Well there's more to sudden change of his mind.
To me I prefer the distance relationship..

Perhaps some part of you smelled like obalende under bridge when you guys touched. Perhaps you weren't up to par as he thought that's why he never smashed your punnna mercilessly.. Don't you think I have a point






Pukes

He encouraged you to start one , after seeing you he changed his mind. The answer is simple he wasn't impressed with you.
It's better it's still early to change direction.

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Heyyounotyou:
Lol .. Funny you ..
He was all over me.. I won’t want to go into details.. Maybe my instincts were right and that was why i didn’t give in to his sexual advances !

Oh really? But i hope you're not one of them sha The put a ring on my finger first or konji go kill you hoes

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Lol .. like I said my instinct were right..
We move !!

iTearHerToto:
Oh really? But i hope you're not one of them sha The put a ring on my finger first or konji go kill you hoes

Cool
Do you have any doubts?

XploreLife:
Currently in one.

Heyyounotyou:
Lol .. like I said my instinct were right..
We move !!

You move or he moved

Heyyounotyou:
I don’t think so ....I won’t want to start boasting of how pretty I look .. beauty they say is in the eyes of the beholder .... But I asked him and he said it was all about the distance and nothing more.. it’s not asif I don’t have admirers o.. I just like this guy naturally!!..He was all I ever wanted ..

Have you heard of beauty is in the eyes of the beholder?besides it's not about beauty.he wasn't just impressed. I'm not saying you are bad but to him you don't fit in.

Maybe !

Yxxx:
Have you heard of beauty is in the eyes of the beholder?besides it's not about beauty.he wasn't just impressed. I'm not saying you are bad but to him you don't fit in.

Heyyounotyou:
I know he’ll see this but Idc .. na love I love I nor kill person
Met this guy sometime ago.. we started on a good note..
Texting and chatting... Video calling and all that ..
Said he was interested in me, but I had my doubts.. I shared it with him and asked if this relationship thing was going to work .. He assured me and said if two comes together and agree on something it will definitely work ..
He clearly stated that afterall people that are close also have relationship issues ..

I believed him and we continued the charade .

He came to my state of residence inside this month .. I went to see him ..we were both happy to see eachother.. There was no sexual activity involved just kissing ..

So when he went back.. we were chatting and he said he didn’t think about this whole distance relationship thing properly and that don’t I have doubts.. I then told him I had but he has cleared it by assuring me that we will make it work !

He said it wasn’t going to work .. I was like why lead me through all this .. This’s someone I’ve already started seeing our future together and praying for his betterment cause he was always complaining of his financial and family predicament..

I was ready to keep myself and hold on to him !! But he just came up with this long distance relationship ..
He could’ve thought about it from the onset nau.. why put me in my feelings??

I feel hurt and don’t even want to hear about LDR no more .. I’ve blocked and unblocked him on all social platforms but he’s always in my mind.. I’ll move on tho .. Na only time e go take !

Any thoughts about LDR or he just doesn’t like me again ?

Mayhap he didn't see what he was expecting of you. One man's food is another man's poison they say. Just move on sweedy you're too special to get yourself stressed out for some guy who doesn't give a crap about you ok?

Op's thread is what happens when all these ugly girls that uses filters upandan finally meet someone

Lol ..

Dicktion:
Op's thread is what happens when all these ugly girls that uses filters upandan finally meet someone

Heyyounotyou:
Lol ..

I hate that. And its not just me. Why ladies so full of deceit yet expect men to treat them right. Why

Heyyounotyou:
I know he’ll see this but Idc .. na love I love I nor kill person
Met this guy sometime ago.. we started on a good note..
Texting and chatting... Video calling and all that ..
Said he was interested in me, but I had my doubts.. I shared it with him and asked if this relationship thing was going to work .. He assured me and said if two comes together and agree on something it will definitely work ..
He clearly stated that afterall people that are close also have relationship issues ..

I believed him and we continued the charade .

He came to my state of residence inside this month .. I went to see him ..we were both happy to see eachother.. There was no sexual activity involved just kissing ..

So when he went back.. we were chatting and he said he didn’t think about this whole distance relationship thing properly and that don’t I have doubts.. I then told him I had but he has cleared it by assuring me that we will make it work !

He said it wasn’t going to work .. I was like why lead me through all this .. This’s someone I’ve already started seeing our future together and praying for his betterment cause he was always complaining of his financial and family predicament..

I was ready to keep myself and hold on to him !! But he just came up with this long distance relationship ..
He could’ve thought about it from the onset nau.. why put me in my feelings??

I feel hurt and don’t even want to hear about LDR no more .. I’ve blocked and unblocked him on all social platforms but he’s always in my mind.. I’ll move on tho .. Na only time e go take !

Any thoughts about LDR or he just doesn’t like me again ?

the change of mind is definitely not related to distance relationship but other unseen reasons which he might not give you, everything nor be about fine,

No dear .. it isn’t about my looks.. we videocalled even when I haven’t had my morning bath .. so it isn’t about deceit !!

Dicktion:
I hate that. And its not just me. Why ladies so full of deceit yet expect men to treat them right. Why

I knew it wasn’t about the distance..!prolly he has found himself a new toy !

Ceenelly:
the change of mind is definitely not related to distance relationship but other unseen reasons which he might not give you, everything nor be about fine,

Heyyounotyou:
No dear .. it isn’t about my looks.. we videocalled even when I haven’t had my morning bath .. so it isn’t about deceit !!

maybe it's something else he found out or you aren't stating. Any which one forget the bobo. Life's too short. You can get a new LDR right here on NL you know that right? So why kill yourself

Take the hint and move, he has seen you and probably thats not what he wants, allow him.
Generally distance Isn’t a challenge for any relationship.

Let's put it bluntly, you probably fell short of expectations. Anyway, even those with genuine love have issues with LDR. It's better you find someone within your place and date. Too much headaches involved in LDR.

Heyyounotyou:
I knew it wasn’t about the distance..!prolly he has found himself a new toy !

And I'm here tryna to see if I can make you my new toy but you running away. Now tell me why we should complain when people run away from us like he did It's kinda our nature.

Lol .. Yea it is !

Jiggerboiy:
And I'm here tryna to see if I can make you my new toy but you running away. Now tell me why we should complain when people run away from us like he did It's kinda our nature.

Thanks
I’ll do just that ..

Gaggi:
Let's put it bluntly, you probably fell short of expectations. Anyway, even those with genuine love have issues with LDR. It's better you find someone within your place and date. Too much headaches involved in LDR.