Madlov3:
I broke up with my EX some 2 weeks ago, But I feel like sharing my story with y’all guys so y’all will learn and be careful especially with Nigerian girls.
So i dated this girl for roughly 1 year and 10months. She appeared as a wife material but i never knew she was a devil incarnate.
Am a young guy living very well, own a nice ride and have my own apartment and work in a very noble profession. Am relocating to Canada very soon and my plan was to get married to her before traveling abroad then send for her after settling down.
There was this guy in her former lodge I was always warning her about. According to her they were just friends but my instinct wasn’t comfortable with him.
Before now, say like 7months into the relationship, I bumped into her whatsapp messages and i read her chat with a guy where they were discussing different sex positions and our sex life.
I drew her attention to it and she cried all night begging me for forgiveness. I told her point blank that i forgave her because it was only whatsapp chat and there was NO SEX Involved and i would never have accept her back if Sex was involved Because i met her as a virgin.

Fast forward to few weeks ago, I discovered from my sources that she was actually having Sex with the guy in her lodge i warned her about.
I Initially confronted her but she denied but after showing her sufficient evidences, she confessed it was true because she knew i was already well informed and she said they had sex multiple times.

I asked her what i did wrong to her! According to her, she said this particular guy “Tries Childish stuffs with her and am too matured! Am senior to her with over 5years so am too matured to relate childish things with her. I asked her if that was a ticket to open her legs for the guy she said she actually did what she did because SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY.
Honestly i felt disrespected and betrayed. This was someone that I was planning to get married to in 2020 and take to Canada o!
She begged and begged and begged but i told her i will never accept her back even though i forgave her, i just can’t accept her back again.

I will be relocating to Canada in 2020 so i have officially closed my door against Nigerian Girls! I know there are good ppl and bad ppl everywhere but i want to open my mind now to other persons. To Canadians, Americans, Britons etc.
I used to have this mentality that an African man is not complete if he doesn’t marry an African woman but hey, that has changed now! Am now open to love from any continent.
My deal breaker in any relationship is Cheating! We can work other things out but you see cheating?? NO NO NO

So my fellow Guys shine your eyes o! That soft spoken and calm looking wife material girl may not be what she seems to be. She may jus be a devil incarnate

Omar09:


Well, the girl didn't just accept the boyfriend recently, she had a boyfriend and you are just the fall guy and she did this to milk you. You should have bounced when she told you she wanted you as a friend. What stopped her from accepting you initially, should be your breaking point.

Martinez39:
They always appear like angels and wife material before marriage. It's their usual chameleon act. Unfortunately, many guys fall for this believing that their girlfriends are not like other girls only to get the shock of their lives later on. There is no NAWALT or unicorn anywhere.

Bad move! You should have discarded her at that moment.

They will always deny until you show them evidence. After showing them evidence, they will confess (half truth confessions) and bring forth crocodile tears not because they are sorry but because they want your forgiveness and they want you to take them back since you are an ample provider. Funny enough, they would do it over and over again being more careful after you have caught them.

Bullsh!t, if she likes childish stuff why did she not discuss it with you or, in the proper way, break up with you and go with the guy that likes childish stuff? She is just playing.

Oga, female nature is universal. In fact, foreign girls are worse in their countries because they are empowered socially and legally to ruin you, especially if you are stupid or naive enough to get married to them in their country and stay there. Feminism doesn't even help matters.


Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, Omar09, healthserve, AstroG

Madlov3:
...I asked her what i did wrong to her! According to her, she said this particular guy “Tries Childish stuffs with her and am too matured!

Am senior to her with over 5years so am too matured to relate childish things with her.

I asked her if that was a ticket to open her legs for the guy she said she actually did what she did because SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY...

Moralgladiator:
No offense taken. Our experiences form our opinions. I actually have two daughters from two women. And as far as I recall,I am actually the problem. Trusted women blindly.
The first ran off with my kid and money because she thought I was going to leave her. Trashy?
The second one took in by another man while I was away and tried to pin it on me. Trashy?

Third?

Ishilove:

Nigga puhleeze. You just registered two days ago. You think I don't know who is behind this moniker? Smh

Quit the satanic generalisation. Nuf said.

AussiePlayboy:

Wise man.. I think we need to re educate man thinking foreign women are better. It's a whole different load of troubles

uruba23:
Don't take this as an insult ,but if you want to play the moral game you should have waited before marriage to divide her red sea. More so you noticed tendencies you didn't address it properly,worst of is to think sex is the basis of the relationship. Tell me apart from sex and the fact you meant her as a virgin are there no other qualities you cherish.. Anyway congratulations at least you don chop clean mouth, and you do be expecting someone else to start where you finish... Well your life your decision and her body she isn't married to you yet,so technically she is a free bird.

bmdmixer:
someone cheated cause she wanted to test d water out side n u tell d one with her he should have waited, guy ur advice is like dat of d one advising buharis brain




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Martinez39:


In the Netherlands, there was a bill passed that divorced men were going to pay alimony for 5 years instead of the usual 12 years being from 2020. Guess what? Netherlands witnessed a record breaking number of divorce cases in December 2019.

yanabasee:
You dated a Nigerian girl that is childish and haven't been heartbroken by different men...

You can't get the best from her..... if you must know, they can only be serious and ready to settle when they'd be approaching 35yrs of age....

Madlov3:
I agree with you except in the last part. It’s the reverse Bro! Ask guys that are based abroad! They are very careful with the type of girls they bring from Nigeria if they decide to marry from Home. Most Nigerian girls become wild when they get abroad! They capitalize on the fact that the system favors them to ruin the guy. Unlike in Nigeria where a guy can put the wife away when she messes up with no fear of legal consequences, abroad is different.
I know of a guy that married from Nigeria abroad, when the girl got there, she started misbehaving ! She connived with her mom to create hell for the guy. They eventually had a divorce and as usual half of his property was given to the girl according to USA law.

PS: they had a child and till today the guy is still paying child support

luminouz:
You know the guy for real?

Riele:
Guess what?

No one cares .

Because one girl frustrated you , you're done with Nigerian girls ?.

gregyboy:


Yea me too am done ,nigerian ladies scares me this days.....all of them

yanabasee:
You dated a Nigerian girl that is childish and haven't been heartbroken by different men...

You can't get the best from her..... if you must know, they can only be serious and ready to settle when they'd be approaching 35yrs of age....

KevinDein:

Whoa, it's almost like these women are only interested in men's money.

Jewessgratitude:


Oh...its paining you? Let it not pain you my dear because its a norm. Why?
Now listen..

Before you condemn someone, be sure you yourself are 100% perfect.
I'm not saying what she did was right but hey both of you are guilty cos you initiating and subscribing to sex before marriage already opens the door for such women to come your way.
Any girl you ask to sleep with during dating or courtship and she doesn't kick against it, you shouldnt expect any better.
The problem is most of you always rush the girls that open their legs for you and then you'll say aahhh...this one na Sorji babe, I'll marry her but look ignore some of us who say no sex in courtship. But then as she doesnt see anything wrong in giving you to test, that is how she'll not see anything wrong in giving another guy to test as you guys are a testing spree. Also as these days nobody sees anything wrong in premarital sex cos the rate at which every tom dick and Harry engages in it and have the boldness to come discussing it openly shows it has become a common thing and hence not regarded as sacred even among married people flirting.
As long as you consent to premarital sex, those are the kind of girls you'll continue to meet. Like begat like. So why are you angry.

Keep yourself and You'll get yourself a decent woman.

HOW TO KNOW AND AVOID THEM

You dont need to tell them you dont want sex otherwise they'll pretend and play along.
Just make sexual advances at her, you'll easily know those ones cos they'll not put up any resistance and will let you have them but the disciplined ones will say no. Even from your discussion with them you will know those that will allow you and other men to test. But men...una long throat nor go gree una get sense as you feel the one who give it to you is the best for you.
Learn from your own lesson and zip up before you make the mistake of your life.

Martinez39:
Don't kid yourself. Female nature is universal. Foreign women over there are worse than Nigerian women here even though both are brutal, ungrateful, and greedy vultures. The divorce story you mentioned happens so frequently with foreign women. All women will capitalise on the system when it suits them. It so often happens that when men bring a supposed well cultured and traditional lady from his place of origin as his wife to developed countries, the women change when they become familiar with the system and feminism. There is no unicorn anyway. Stop watching Hollywood. All girls are the same.

In the Netherlands, there was a bill passed that divorced men were going to pay alimony for 5 years instead of the usual 12 years being from 2020. Guess what? Netherlands witnessed a record breaking number of divorce cases in December 2019. (Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Omar09, healthserve, AstroG) Tell me again how foreign girls are different. The reason why I said Nigerian girls are better even though all girls are the same is because, unlike foreign girls, they don't have the tools to wreck you the way foreign girls would and feminism is not yet political in Nigeria.

We can agree to disagree. As long as you are committing your heart to women and entering into relationships and marriage, there is a limit to which you can be careful with women. Besides, you can never know which is a good girl, even if they existed, because you are not a mind reader and women are capable of great chameleon acts.

bukatyne:


Very funny

Ishilove:
These ones just come online to write rubbish. They have one bad experience and suddenly all Nigerian women are terrible, meanwhile ask them how many Nigerian women they have interacted with and they won't be able to give you any reasonable answer. Arrant nonsense.

emmaodet:


My God !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
At that age, who do you expect to pick up an Old over used woman? That is just looking for a retirement and pension plan.
God forbid.
I will rather buy a dog to be sleeping with than such a woman.
If you are not under 25 to me, you don expire.

WE PLENTY WEY GET MENTAL PROBLEM HERE SHA.

Madlov3:
I broke up with my EX some 2 weeks ago, But I feel like sharing my story with y’all guys so y’all will learn and be careful especially with Nigerian girls.
So i dated this girl for roughly 1 year and 10months. She appeared as a wife material but i never knew she was a devil incarnate.
Am a young guy living very well, own a nice ride and have my own apartment and work in a very noble profession. Am relocating to Canada very soon and my plan was to get married to her before traveling abroad then send for her after settling down.
There was this guy in her former lodge I was always warning her about. According to her they were just friends but my instinct wasn’t comfortable with him.
Before now, say like 7months into the relationship, I bumped into her whatsapp messages and i read her chat with a guy where they were discussing different sex positions and our sex life.
I drew her attention to it and she cried all night begging me for forgiveness. I told her point blank that i forgave her because it was only whatsapp chat and there was NO SEX Involved and i would never have accept her back if Sex was involved Because i met her as a virgin.

Fast forward to few weeks ago, I discovered from my sources that she was actually having Sex with the guy in her lodge i warned her about.
I Initially confronted her but she denied but after showing her sufficient evidences, she confessed it was true because she knew i was already well informed and she said they had sex multiple times.

I asked her what i did wrong to her! According to her, she said this particular guy “Tries Childish stuffs with her and am too matured! Am senior to her with over 5years so am too matured to relate childish things with her. I asked her if that was a ticket to open her legs for the guy she said she actually did what she did because SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY.
Honestly i felt disrespected and betrayed. This was someone that I was planning to get married to in 2020 and take to Canada o!
She begged and begged and begged but i told her i will never accept her back even though i forgave her, i just can’t accept her back again.

I will be relocating to Canada in 2020 so i have officially closed my door against Nigerian Girls! I know there are good ppl and bad ppl everywhere but i want to open my mind now to other persons. To Canadians, Americans, Britons etc.
I used to have this mentality that an African man is not complete if he doesn’t marry an African woman but hey, that has changed now! Am now open to love from any continent.
My deal breaker in any relationship is Cheating! We can work other things out but you see cheating?? NO NO NO

So my fellow Guys shine your eyes o! That soft spoken and calm looking wife material girl may not be what she seems to be. She may jus be a devil incarnate

CAPSLOCKED:


WE PLENTY WEY GET MENTAL PROBLEM HERE SHA.