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Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by crackhaus: 5:11pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Lol.. Some people will decry caesarean sections due to risks but be shouting about legalizing abortion up until late-term pregnancies. Madness... |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
bukatyne: I don't really see anything that can be done. It's just another price both parents have to pay for having children. And to add even more salt to the wound, at that point, the woman would have gotten to the stage where she sees sex as a chore anyway, so she is even less likely to be creative and satisfy her husband in other ways. 1 Like |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Prognose: 8:17pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
bukatyne: Lol, no. It's not a requirement for post-delivery . A loose vagina is not an illness. If there's a tear we repair it. Sometimes we repair generously. If there isn't a tear you go your way. Kegel exercises are also good. Vaginal trainers. A knowledgeable and understanding husband. All these are alternate solutions. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Prognose: 8:22pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Some ceseareans are performed on request. It doesn't have to be absolutely necessary. Why will the "husband stitch" cause pain? Are u talking about during the stitching or after it? We are not going to suture a woman without any anlagesia madam. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Prognose: 8:27pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Caveat: in case you're a google child. The "husband stitch" we're talking about is not the one that involves the levator ani muscles. And we definitely do NOT do it without the knowledge of the mother. Such articles that describe it like that are biased and innacurate in the generality of cases. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by bukatyne(f): 8:51pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Ginaz: I hear you ma'am. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Prognose: Prognose: Are you Dr Google? You sound like one. In case you aren't Dr Google I thank God I have doctors in my family because some of you can't be trusted. @bold You must be joking. 3 Likes |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Prognose: 11:11pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Ok. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by SilvaBullet: 11:38pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Ginaz: If the OP has chosen her husband's pleasure as a top priority for her, then she has her reasons. She hasnt stated she's going to put herself or baby at risk because of her very natural and normal concern. It's not your call to choose for her. You can either supply the answer to her curiosity or take your bitter, lovelorn feminist ass to the Arctic region and try freeze out that part of you that is toxic. 7 Likes |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by cerpvad(m): 5:15pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Vagina is like a motor vehicle. If you park your vehicle for a long time without use, it may be difficult for you to get it started. The same can be said of vagina. It is a 'use it or lose it' apparatus. If you don't use your vagina for a long time, it will get so tight that penetration will be difficult. That's why women who remain virgin till like 30-35 years of age do not find it easy at all by the time they are having sex for the first time. Therefore to answer your question, after child birth, you can wait for like six months or longer before having sex again. That is if your husband will be able to cooperate with you. But know that the longer you stay without having sex, the tighter your vagina. Jadeobee: 1 Like |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by chidooh1: 8:24pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
After child birth the vagina has a natural way of coming back to where it used to be. The only thing that distroys the tightness of vagina is that big and monstrous preek that goes in and out of it regularly. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by frozen70(f): 9:02pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Jadeobee: I don't know why you should be bothered about this You can opt for a CS and put your mind at rest |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by descartes400: 1:02pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Aaah we with small abunna, wetin go happen to us na? are we going to experience black hole? This brings me to the movie....American Gods...were Bliquis swallowed a whole man with her vagina...awon small priickers...na our fate be this?
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Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by bukatyne(f): 4:19pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix: And adultery starts. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by bukatyne(f): 4:20pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Prognose: Ok, good one. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
bukatyne: Sometimes. Most days it's not worth the drama involved in keeping a side chick when you are married and have kids, so you manage the wife and pretend that you still enjoy it the same way. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by bukatyne(f): 6:08pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix: That is a horrible way to live long term. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
bukatyne: So what do you suggest? Divorce and remarriage to a new woman after every child birth? That's an even more horrible life long term. 2 Likes |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by bukatyne(f): 6:48pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix: Husbands insisting on better treatment. Wives doing better. Parents teaching their wards better. That is what I focus some of my threads and posts on. A sexually frustrated/unsatisfied husband cannot give his maximum potential to God, himself, his family, his vocation and his society. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
bukatyne: You're losing focus here. Check the topic again and tell me how you think the wife can do better with inadequate equipment. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by bukatyne(f): 6:57pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix: Our discussion had evolved. As to your question: if the wife is interested in the husband's satisfaction, she would search for solutions: I know Hausas have some stuff for tightening, we have kegels, we have experimenting different styles that give better friction, different cultures also have special treatment for women who have birth etc. |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
bukatyne: Haven't you been reading the other comments? Including those from medical officers. The available 'solutions' don't work as well as the original. Once the vaginal walls are loose, they can't be tightened without invasive surgery. And it's not that it's not enjoyable; it is; otherwise no one would have more than one child. It's just nowhere like before. It can be managed. As I said, most men are willing to pay the price to have kids. Which makes it even more painful when all 4 kids turn out not to be his, after DNA testing. 2 Likes |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix:But women has been managing 4 seconds men, amù mkpùrù akì, bend prikks, those that look like milipedes, those that hardly charge. Now men are managing vjs that pushed out their children, right? 4 Likes
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Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by highbee02: 7:56pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Gaggi: "Vagina" is a technical term, it's one of the biological jargons. Even as a graduate of biology, I still misspell some of these words. So, don't blame op |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by highbee02: 8:06pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
cerpvad: Thanks for the analogy, this is what we called SECONDARY VIRGIN. Ask those women who have reached menopause. 1 Like |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
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Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Nobody: 6:03am On Dec 28, 2019 |
sassysure: That is not the main reason for women marrying. As long as the wife's financial future is secured, her husband need not even have a penis at all. She will find alternative ways to satisfy herself. Men marry for regular sex as well as to secure their bloodline through children, so the quality of sex they get is important. Of course, men are getting shortchanged these days. They neither get quality sex post wedding, nor are their bloodlines secure, considering how many fail DNA paternity tests. That is why many men are opting out of marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by armyofone(m): 7:24am On Dec 28, 2019 |
please allow me laugh chidooh1: |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by armyofone(m): 7:31am On Dec 28, 2019 |
amu gini laugh wan kill me this night!! sassysure: 1 Like |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by CHoccolaTE: 7:58am On Dec 28, 2019 |
U RisenPhoenix: While I agree that women do not get married primarily for sex I don't think that sexual fulfilment not important for women. You mentioned many women cheating and having kids from infidelity a number of times, ok so why do you think they cheat or have sex outside to the point of getting pregnant and having kids for other men? Fine they sometimes look for other means like intimacy gadgets to satisfy themselves when the man is not doing that but it's just because society is very harsh on promiscous married women and overlooks infidelity in men. Remove the stigma cheating wives face and you will be shocked by the number of married women that will seek quality sex outside instead of sticking to 2 inch prick 30 seconds sex husbands. Many men just love complaining, your wife cannot kill herself because she aged and her vagina became less tight, at least when you have sex with her you can still have orgasm. Many women don't even know what orgasm feels like but they don't blame men. 5 Likes |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Nobody: 8:00am On Dec 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: I do. 1 Like |
Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by mrsteel: 8:14am On Dec 28, 2019 |
Ginaz:U are just making unnecessary arguments because u think the op is placing too much importance on her man? Na wetin dey pain u abi?As humans we plan for the future, u can never be more concerned about safe delivery than her carrying the pregnancy, so she is very conscious of dat fact. life doesn't end after child birth. If she is concerned about sustaining a healthy sexual state with her hubby after child birth by sampling opinions, I see no reason u should be the one making noise. |
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