Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

Let wait for the elders.

just wear dark shade glasses , try again in glasses

u will notice that no one is looking at u

Guy bone, nobody dey reason your matter. I get this ish before Just try to be comfortable in your own skin, try first by holding her at night, after sometime try doing it somewhere far from where you stay, forget acout people around you focus on her, try looking into her eyes(dont stare) each time you hold her hands or hug her, it will help make you more relaxed.

Too many girlfriends everywhere...u are only applying caution.

referandum:
Guy bone, nobody dey reason your matter. I get this ish before Just try to be comfortable in your own skin, try first by holding her at night, after sometime try doing it somewhere far from where you stay, forget acout people around you focus on her, try looking into her eyes(dont stare) each time you hold her hands or hug her, it will help make you more relaxed.

Not so easy Bro, anytime she calls to Meetup like this ,wahala don come.

donbachi:
Too many girlfriends everywhere...u are only applying caution.

That's not the Issue Bro, if it's that I wouldn't have come out the first place

AdioGunner:

That's not the Issue Bro, if it's that I wouldn't have come out the first place

u just owned up to it...u came out and applied caution...caught u.

The problem is that you have the illusion that people are watching you. Nobody gives a damn about what you are doing and don't be surprised that nobody even notices you. Now go and have mad fun with your girlfriend. You both deserve it.

Relationship is about compromise

face your phobia and watch it disapear... nothing is wrong with you , you just seem like a private person, and if your girl wants public display of affection abeg lock up and show it to her because an happy girl is a blessing to a man



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itsme01:
face your phobia and watch it disapear... nothing is wrong with you , you just seem like a private person, and if your girl wants public display of affection abeg lock up and show it to her because an happy girl is a blessing to a man

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Go work on yourself. How will you even be successful in life if you are the shy type?

AdioGunner:
Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

You are not only shy but also afraid of what people might say.

If you are old enough to be in a relationship, then, you need to do away with shyness.

- Start by doing her hand in less public places.
- Conquer your fear, and just do it. Once you start, you'll see that people will even love you guys more.

I won't blame her if she decides to quit because of that. If you don't face it now, it will affect your relationship.

Baba..
Nothing do u Oo..
Tell..the babe u no too like public affection as an introvert u are..i guess she's an extrovert..
Make..the babe understand that yo love for her is not to impress the public..

OP, ji masun!

get high, smoke weed

AdioGunner:
Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

It seems you don't like public display of affection.

Nothing wrong with it.

Some people outgrow their disdain for it and feel comfortable being affectionate in public.

Or are you virgin?

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itsme01:


Relationship is about compromise

face your phobia and watch it disapear... nothing is wrong with you , you just seem like a private person, and if your girl wants public display of affection abeg lock up and show it to her because an happy girl is a blessing to a man



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She's ugly then

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Oduduwa707:
OP, ji masun!

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I was like you and I finally lost her because of it.
Now no girlfriend because of thesame issue.

Guy just try harder.

AdioGunner:
Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

Be yourself

Nothing is wrong with you, you're a good lover.

Those who show public affection their relationship don't last... check dem oyinbo relationships.



The only woman I can hold hands while walking is my mom

That's who u are and notin is gonna change it..am jst like u bro

Offpoint:
Nothing is wrong with you, you're good lover.

Those who show public affection their relationship don't last... check dem oyinbo relationships.



The only woman I can hold hands while walking is my mom

Guyyy

generationz:



It seems you don't like public display of affection.

Nothing wrong with it.

Some people outgrow their disdain for it and feel comfortable being affectionate in public.

Or are you virgin?

I thought something's Wrong with me ,I'm not sure this one will be outgrowned , The issue don tey

Techcrunchng:
get high, smoke weed

Set Awon weyrey

BigDick70inch:
Baba..
Nothing do u Oo..
Tell..the babe u no too like public affection as an introvert u are..i guess she's an extrovert..
Make..the babe understand that yo love for her is not to impress the public..

Hope she won't take it The wrong way, I'm planning on telling her that .Thanks �

CopyJoe:
You are not only shy but also afraid of what people might say.

If you are old enough to be in a relationship, then, you need to do away with shyness.

- Start by doing her hand in less public places.
- Conquer your fear, and just do it. Once you start, you'll see that people will even love you guys more.

I won't blame her if she decides to quit because of that. If you don't face it now, it will affect your relationship.

Thanks for your concern ,I'm very old enough ,the Arugbo Ojo type I'll try that too I think I'm always conscious of the surrounding when I'm with her
Next Time i go turn Marlian

scaramucci:
The problem is that you have the illusion that people are watching you. Nobody gives a damn about what you are doing and don't be surprised that nobody even notices you. Now go and have mad fun with your girlfriend. You both deserve it.

Life's too Short
Thanks Guy �