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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Originalsly: 8:49pm On Dec 29, 2019
Hmmm.........the majority of failed marriages is because the wife was not an illiterate. I learn something new today. I want my marriage to succeed.... let me head to the North.... it is easier to find my wife there.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Martinez39(m): 8:50pm On Dec 29, 2019
Michellekabod2:
I thought most men are claiming sapiosexual and you dudes are crying about the fact Nigerian ladies have nothing to offer upstairs. You guys keep lamenting ladies have a two digit IQ. Isnt this contradictory?
I am not against smart women. The problem is that once a modern woman attains what I mentioned, she develops certain attitudes and ego that makes her "undateable."

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 8:51pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ariza:
And this dunce keep forcing another's identity on me . Dude we don't clash, God forbid I clash with one who couldn't reason beyond what he sees.grin grin . For once I will reply you this: I am not defenderalert or littlewetdick! C'MMON I'm more creative in coming up with monikers than that! undecided




BTW oga healthserve you took that opportunity too fast, like you were waiting for someone to save your ass. grin


Manshitty vs Sheffield. Perhaps in another lifetime since I'm deactivating and not returning over the next couple of days. Ciao

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 8:52pm On Dec 29, 2019
Preshy561:

You should know that romance land is filled with underage. Just tell one of them to post his pics, you will stop replying these kids.
I tell you, later they will start creating threads asking where romance section ladies are.

I just don't understand why guys on this section just refuse to have sense. Even if it is small grin

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 8:54pm On Dec 29, 2019
healthserve:



Manshitty vs Sheffield. Perhaps in another lifetime since I'm deactivating and not returning over the next couple of days. Ciao
Why do you want to deactivate BTW? Hope all is well.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by crackhaus: 8:55pm On Dec 29, 2019
healthserve:

Bro you've Ben outta the street for a while. Trust me. If I wasn't preempted to conduct a survey when I saw the manager of a multinational prostituiting at lekki at nite I wouldn't have properly understood what was going on. It's a lengthy manner. However I maintain, while education ought to refine and build up, it's doing the opposite of its objective with our ladies. Yes there are exceptions, however the norm is too many are destroyed by their fakeness. I conducted real life surveys even supported by women to the facts I publish here. Not just speaking from boredom. You know me
Okay I figure maybe I need to clear up the exact type of education I base my assertions on.

@bold text:
Formal education in itself which is based on proven principles, have no direct link with the untoward behaviors of the modern woman.
The faux education however being given to these women on the platform of modernity, encompassing feminism, gender equality, social equality, etc, this is what is actually responsible for the problems we are facing, because it not based on any proven principle.

But I certainly get your point.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 8:56pm On Dec 29, 2019
healthserve:



Cry ke. Women na point and kill. Men maintain the upper hand. Our money points us to our desires who have no choice but to follow
Sadly not I.


I have no issue with anyone having a spec or a choice. I respect men and women choices and not try to sham them for their choices. There is nothing wrong in a man choosing to marry an illiterate,its his spec,we should respect it and not interfere or sham him for his choice. There is nothing wrong in a lady deciding to built herself and her career....its her choice,no one should bully her into dumping her career or call her unattractive to men. People should create and follow their path and not what is expected of a gender.
A woman wants to pursue academia and her career,that's fine. A woman wants to be a good home keeper,nurturer,that's fine as well. Neither are bad choices.
The problem here is people trying to influence her choice based on how she will be viewed by a man. She wasn't created for a man,she was created for herself and her choices/paths. If she tunes herself to be attractive to a man,its OK,if she tunes herself to be attractive to herself,its cool.
Opt for less educated ladies if it fits your spec but don't go deciding what people should choose.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by leonard002(m): 9:02pm On Dec 29, 2019
this is wrong from all possible dimensions

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Preshy561(f): 9:02pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ariza:
I tell you, later they will start creating threads asking where romance section ladies are.

I just don't understand why guys on this section just refuse to have sense. Even if it is small grin
grin Nne, the thing no tire You?

One minute: Nigerian girls are dumb and have nothing to offer

Next minute: We want our women dumb and lazy. We are intimidated by a smart and hardworking woman, we reject to be subdued under intelligent discussions cos we Nigerian men are dumb mofos that have nothing to offer other than rotten smelly dìck? cry

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Preshy561(f): 9:03pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ariza:
Why do you want to deactivate BTW? Hope all is well.
Can they ever face the heat from an intelligent black woman?
That boy is a kid, you should know better. He's peeing under his 2weeks torn panties.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 9:09pm On Dec 29, 2019
Preshy561:

Can they ever face the heat from an intelligent black woman?
That boy is a kid, you should know better. He's peeing under his 2weeks torn panties.
Hain! Ogini why are you wicked like this. grin 2 weeks torn panties? Lol. grin



Jokes apart, I don't think so. I read Ubuntu convincing him not to deactivate on the first page. grin

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Martinez39(m): 9:09pm On Dec 29, 2019
healthserve:



Very well. I'm off to flex. We'll talk later. Maybe you should join in let's write the book together
I will make out time for it.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Preshy561(f): 9:11pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ariza:
Hain! Ogini why are you wicked like this. grin 2 weeks torn panties? Lol. grin



Jokes apart, I don't think so. I read Ubuntu convincing him not to deactivate on the first page. grin
Haha. His red pill has expired sis. grin

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 9:12pm On Dec 29, 2019
Preshy561:

grin Nne, the thing no tire You?

One minute: Nigerian girls are dumb and have nothing to offer

Next minute: We want our women dumb and lazy. We are intimidated by a smart and hardworking woman, we reject to be subdued under intelligent discussions cos we Nigerian men are dumb mofos that have nothing to offer other than rotten smelly dìck? cry
I think they want dumb,smart, hardworking and lazy woman then grin all in one package. Confused bunch.

This is what happens when they type something online but act differently offline.Lol there will always be a collusion. grin

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 9:13pm On Dec 29, 2019
ubunja:
that's why my baby mama and me are set on a collusion course when within a few years I start schooling our daughter on these life truths. Act dumb and act weak around high value men and the sky will be the limit. You'll never die poor.
you mean you will not make her make her wealth but get it from a man?like men are the only source of wealth on the cosmos? If she has got a beautiful voice that will make her better than Beyonce she should act dumb just to get from a man?

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Preshy561(f): 9:15pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ariza:
I think they want dumb,smart, hardworking and lazy woman then grin all in one package. Confused bunch.

This is what happens when they type something online but act differently offline.Lol there will always be a collusion. grin
Hahahaha. No mind those unserious kids.
Most times I see there posts, I just laugh cos they will still log out and face reality. grin

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 9:19pm On Dec 29, 2019
crackhaus:

Okay I figure maybe I need to clear up the exact type of education I base my assertions on.

@bold text:
Formal education in itself which is based on proven principles, have no direct link with the untoward behaviors of the modern woman.
The faux education however being given to these women on the platform of modernity, encompassing feminism, gender equality, social equality, etc, this is what is actually responsible for the problems we are facing, because it not based on any proven principle.

But I certainly get your point.



Sharp. We're on the same page

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by ubunja(m): 9:19pm On Dec 29, 2019
Michellekabod2:
you mean you will not make her make her wealth but get it from a man?like men are the only source of wealth on the cosmos? If she has got a beautiful voice that will make her better than Beyonce she should act dumb just to get from a man?
same story different paths. Even if she gets a good job still she's getting money from a man. Who runs businesses? Men.

If she marries for money she gets paid for nothing. Like Regina Daniels. That's the path I'm carving for her. The road im putting her on. Soon as she hits 10 I'm finding someone to teach her how to apply makeup. Her femininity will activate at that point.

No daughter of mine will struggle 9-5 in a world of dumb rich simps. Never. I know too much to let that happen.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 9:21pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ariza:
Why do you want to deactivate BTW? Hope all is well.



Following banter like this I was violated and disgraced and accused of things I didn't do because of people who felt intimidated others jealous, I tried to appeal to the mods offline by sending mails. For three months stretch I kept been smeared by folks who envied me. So I decided I need a better experience than this where. Mods would just give in to libels and smear campaign. The plan is to permanently leave the entire Nigerian cyberspace for Quora Dec 31st. Out of respect for Ubunja I will keep the account up and reply only him but will leave the forum. I'm ashamed by time quality of men the nation has produced.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 9:25pm On Dec 29, 2019
Preshy561:

Hahahaha. No mind those unserious kids.
Most times I see there posts, I just laugh cos they will still log out and face reality. grin
Preshy561:

Haha. His red pill has expired sis. grin
They serve as a good source of entertainment sometimes, other times I feel sorry for them.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 9:28pm On Dec 29, 2019
Michellekabod2:

Sadly not I.


I have no issue with anyone having a spec or a choice. I respect men and women choices and not try to sham them for their choices. There is nothing wrong in a man choosing to marry an illiterate,its his spec,we should respect it and not interfere or sham him for his choice. There is nothing wrong in a lady deciding to built herself and her career....its her choice,no one should bully her into dumping her career or call her unattractive to men. People should create and follow their path and not what is expected of a gender.
A woman wants to pursue academia and her career,that's fine. A woman wants to be a good home keeper,nurturer,that's fine as well. Neither are bad choices.
The problem here is people trying to influence her choice based on how she will be viewed by a man. She wasn't created for a man,she was created for herself and her choices/paths. If she tunes herself to be attractive to a man,its OK,if she tunes herself to be attractive to herself,its cool.
Opt for less educated ladies if it fits your spec but don't go deciding what people should choose.




Not you ke? Trust me you can't say no to me in reality, trust me.. I'm not armtwisting anyone. Funny enough I never consider myself wise enough to counsel anyone in matters of the heart. I'm just a little biy who only turned 18 today


How are you holding up concerning that issue.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Preshy561(f): 9:32pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ariza:
They serve as a good source of entertainment sometimes, other times I feel sorry for them.
Exactly. grin
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 9:34pm On Dec 29, 2019
healthserve:




Following banter like this I was violated and disgraced and accused of things I didn't do because of people who felt intimidated others jealous, I tried to appeal to the mods offline by sending mails. For three months stretch I kept been smeared by folks who envied me. So I decided I need a better experience than this where. Mods would just give in to libels and smear campaign. The plan is to permanently leave the entire Nigerian cyberspace for Quora Dec 31st. Out of respect for Ubu nja I will keep the account up and reply only him but will leave the forum. I'm ashamed by time quality of men the nation has produced.
Tsk tsk tsk I was right about you after all. You've been taking the wrong pills all these while. I won't fault you, I've been in your shoes and I know how you feel but believe me deactivating isn't the solution. If you deactivate because of people's remarks here, you will come back trying to prove them wrong.Then it would be more difficult and shameful because you will be reminded why you left in the first place. So why not stay and show them they don't worth shiit.

Just do these, don't throw stones at every dogs that bark, learn to ignore and make your mentions very expensive.Before you know it, words here won't have much effect on your.Remember, nobody can make you feel less of yourself if you don't give them the consent to. smiley
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by FromZeroToHero(m): 9:36pm On Dec 29, 2019
You would have simply say if you want your marriage to last marry an illiterate, blind, deaf and dumb lady so that she won't have any say in the marriage which will make you 1000% incharge.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 29, 2019
healthserve:



Not you ke? Trust me you can't say no to me in reality, trust me.. I'm not armtwisting anyone. Funny enough I never consider myself wise enough to counsel anyone in matters of the heart. I'm just a little biy who only turned 18 today


How are you holding up concerning that issue.
Firstly, Happy birthday!

Then,. Your fada! for calling me 19 years old. No be three years I take senior you. undecided
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 9:38pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ariza:
Tsk tsk tsk I was right about you after all. You've been taking the wrong pills all these while. I won't fault you, I've been in your shoes and I know how you feel but believe me deactivating isn't the solution. If you deactivate because of people's remarks here, you will come back trying to prove them wrong.Then it would be more difficult and shameful because you will be reminded why you left in the first place. So why not stay and show them they don't worth shiit.

Just do these, don't throw stones at every dogs that bark, learn to ignore and make your mentions very expensive.Before you know it, words here won't have much effect on your.Remember, nobody can make you feel less of yourself if you don't give them the consent to. smiley



Not when my image, company information was involved. I've never believed men have fallen so low to stoop to smearing just because they find another intimidating or better in some aspects. I feel so ashamed I'm a part of such a forum. I can't deal. Each day I login here I remember how morning till night for 12 weeks they kept coming out with all sort of smear campaigns and the mods didn't think I deserve to be heard or protected. No, I won't come back and won't remain on the forum. Its not my fault I'm blessed. I won't assume responsibilities for people's misfortunes. Men discuss intelligently not attack characters in order to bring the other down. So unmanly. The forum lost every iota of respect I had for it in the altercation

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Hisduchess(f): 9:38pm On Dec 29, 2019
healthserve:
I agree 100%,another scarce wisdom only few can understand. Refined knowledge destroys the female much more than it builds them. While a few exceptions would avail, the popular choice is excessive knowledge makes women unmarry-able. Take this to the bank


Cc Ubunja TheRedpilledguy

Continue following the teaching of that ubu.nja I really pity your type who take some kinda advise here.that guy might be at the door of a female professional,who might even have a PhD begging her for her attention while he comes here to fan his ego by misyarning to peeps like you.he might even be a jobless youth finding consolation on rubbish yarns.just follow him and go and marry an illiterate that will gbanyere gi film. This is 21st century and illiteracy has no space in it.your type will marry an illiterate and keep in the house why you paint the town with literate and posh girlfriends cos you can't show off your illiterate wife to your friends who have smart intelligent wives.Who is now decieving who

NB: THIS IS A FACELESS FORUM AND A LOT OF ARROGANT PEEPS OFTEN COME HERE TO FAN THEIR EGOs,Since no one wants to fan it for them in real life undecided

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 9:40pm On Dec 29, 2019
Hisduchess:


Continue following the teaching of that ubu.nja I really pity your type who take some kinda advise here.that guy might be at the door of a female professional,who might even have a PhD begging her for her attention while he comes here to fan his ego by misyarning to peeps like you.he might even be a jobless youth finding consolation on rubbish yarns.just follow him and go and marry an illiterate that will gbanyere gi film. This is 21st century and knowledge and class works together.your type will marry an illiterate and keep in the house why you paint the town with literate and posh girlfriends.

NB: THIS IS A FACELESS FORUM AND A LOT OF ARROGANT PEEPS OFTEN COME HERE TO FAN THEIR EGOs,Since no one wants to fan it for them in real life undecided


Trust me I'm off the top pest class of males in this country. Never worked for people. Have my company of 40 workers. I meet lots of creamy ladies and while they have good parts they have damaged psyche. I'm not broke. Nor average and can hit any naija queen I want be it money, wits and muc more.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 9:41pm On Dec 29, 2019
Preshy561:

Exactly. grin
Guy is just 18 damnit!
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 9:41pm On Dec 29, 2019
ubunja:
same story different paths. Even if she gets a good job still she's getting money from a man. Who runs businesses? Men.

If she marries for money she gets paid for nothing. Like Regina Daniels. That's the path I'm carving for her. The road im putting her on. Soon as she hits 10 I'm finding someone to teach her how to apply makeup. Her femininity will activate at that point.

No daughter of mine will struggle 9-5 in a world of dumb rich simps. Never. I know too much to let that happen.
Dont decide for her the path to take. Let her decide herself.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 9:42pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ariza:
Firstly, Happy birthday!

Then,. Your fada! for calling me 19 years old. No be three years I take senior you. undecided



grin

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Martinez39(m): 9:43pm On Dec 29, 2019
ubunja:
that's why my baby mama and me are set on a collusion course when within a few years I start schooling our daughter on these life truths. Act dumb and act weak around high value men and the sky will be the limit. You'll never die poor.
True. This reminds of a rich musician called Davido. The difference between his first two baby mamas and his latest (which he recently married) called Chioma is clear. While the first was acting all aggressive and feminist, Chioma humbled herself, cooked for Davido (she is even known as ChefChi), and acted like a real traditional woman instead rubbing shoulders with him. Her submission was demonstrated when she wore a shirt with the inscription "alpha females move behind alpha males." As expected some feminists were upset (lol, what losers) but Chioma has secured the bag while many feminists are working 9-5 for peanuts or even jobless. Davido bought a porsche for her openly, took her shopping to different countries, sang a song for her titled "assurance" and featured her in the video.

This buttresses the point that once a woman submits and acts like a woman to a rich man that still believes in true love, the door to his heart and resources shall be opened to her. This is common sense but the hubris of feminists won't let them tap into this.

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