₦airaland Forum

Is she fine or do you consider her attractive enough to call your attention sexually? Politely ask her what is her motive of demanding so much money from you as though she is your girlfriend. Depending on her response, then you can insinuate what she is up to. If you don’t find her attractive, tell her it is all over and no more money. If you find her attractive, then tell her you admire her but not her approach because her husband is your friend. Let her know giving her money is not your responsibility and so will not be continued.

Oblongata:
Send the money to her husband.

wisdom

Awoo88:
Make sexual advance at her, if she is a good woman she will stop. But your could also.loss your friend

I don't need that. I have my own wife.

baby124:
You are the one talking crazy. Even he doesn’t know the facts and you are making crazy assumptions saying she’s greedy. If he knew it all he won’t be here on NL trying to understand. YOU decided she was greedy and started judging her. Facts that you made up. Stop rambling you seem unstable.

You don’t know the OP, the couple or what is going on. Kindly STFU and stop making up stupid shit here. You have no experience in life and you are talking facts yet diving to conclusions, making a fool of yourself online. Lunatic.

I am so sorry for quoting you.... Seems you are frustrated..... Its obvious you are on this table too, begging all around for money, na why you take this matter cardiovascular.... So, I no see wetin warrant lunatic on this matter.... You go dey alright eventually....

dochenaj:
You should also consider the possibility that the man is not very responsible, and doesn't care so much about his family. I have seen cases of such men. Doing well financially, spend a lot of money outside, but spend so little on their family.

We must have to ask for the facts from the op.

While begging money is not commendable for a woman, it puts you in the bad light. But we don't know what she needs the money for, so we cannot conclude she is greedy. Shameless, I could agree on a little bit.

well, we both agree on shameless.... I concluded she is greedy because even if her husband is irresponsible, she could have asked the op for money and used it to set up herself, instead of calling constantly to ask for money and even sending text when the person didn't pick your calls... That is entitlement, and should not be encouraged....

hazel01:
well, we both agree on shameless.... I concluded she is greedy because even if her husband is irresponsible, she could have asked the op for money and used it to set up herself, instead of calling constantly to ask for money and even sending text when the person didn't pick your calls... That is entitlement, and should not be encouraged....

Asking for fish every other time instead of asking to be taught how to fish, doesn't translate into greed.

We don't know these people actually, nor do we know their prevailing circumstances. Hence while we speculate and hypothesize, we must ensure that we are not overly judgemental.

What led to her asking you for money ? just asking

dochenaj:
Asking for fish every other time instead of asking to be taught how to fish, doesn't translate into greed.

We don't know these people actually, nor do we know their prevailing circumstances. Hence while we speculate and hypothesize, we must ensure that we are not overly judgemental.

I agree..... But she never told the op any negative thing about her husband, just keeps demanding from him...... I concluded based on that... Maybe I am being judgemental sha, I have issues with entitled people, so I might be biased in a case of clear entitlement....