ubunja:
femininity is not about appearance or being attractive. You can be a Masculine woman and be drop dead gorgeous. Femininity is energy. Attitude. Mannerisms. Behaviour. How you carry yourself. How you speak. How you engage with the world.

Are you hard or tender. Do you compel people to your will or are you vulnerable enough to inspire them to bend to your will.

Men use the fist to get people to act right. Women use tears. A woman crying on the street has the same power as a man carrying a gun. Both will get everyone concerned and doing their will. Femininity inspires obedience. Masculinity demands obedience. Both get their way. But from different directions...

Masculine and drop dead gorgeous never go together. Another dumb analogy. This is what happens when your mother is illiterate. People end up being dumb like this

Michellekabod2:
so when I said qualities men find attractive you interpreted it to be physical alone?

well you mentioned your appearance

Digmygold:

Train them indeed. Like it isn't common knowledge who the children spend more time with. Better to have kids with an intelligent woman. Dumb mum dumber kids. Let the eye of that illiterate open small, i tell you you will forever regret going near her.

I won't argue with you. To each his own. Good night.

ubunja:
well you mentioned your appearance

You are yet to answer me,by not being compelled by others and acting on my will I have become masculine?

ubunja:
well you mentioned your appearance

Don't trip. You replied her. It's left to her to re-read if confused. Energy attitude mannerisms conducts are the answers and every you typed earlier...

Digmygold:


You ended this way because you were evidently born by a stack illiterate. Its glaring. No direction, everything about you reeks of dumbness. Genetics are quite strong. Aint they?

Quit the whining and blackmail and fvck off

Digmygold:


Masculine and drop dead gorgeous never go together. Another dumb analogy. This is what happens when your mother is illiterate. People end up being dumb like this

Ubunja, please don't engage this moniker. Being emotionally charged, her aim is to invalidate all our arguments by all means, logical or illogical. Already, like a piece of scum, this moniker has thrown a subtle punch to your mother to enrage you and elicit an emotional response from you. This is reminiscent of the remarkably stupid Lilwetd!ck. Don't fall for her childishness. Ignore!

This moniker is desperately hunting for your attention.

Michellekabod2:

You are yet to answer me,by not being compelled by others and acting on my will I have become masculine?

we all have freewill and no one can force you to do what you don't want to do.. But A free mind or mind of your own is not to be confused with freewill.

In relationships "a mind of your own" is the inability to accept the leadership of the male who is supposed to be your head. If you can't let the man make the decisions that control the relationship then you're Masculine.

I didn't quite catch your question earlier.

Martinez39:
Ubunja, please don't engage this moniker. Being emotionally charged, her aim is to invalidate all our arguments by all means, logical or illogical. Already, like a piece of scum, this moniker has thrown a subtle punch to your mother to enrage you and elicit an emotional response from you. This is reminiscent of the remarkably stupid Lilwetd!ck. Don't fall for her childishness. Ignore!

True

Digmygold:


You ended this way because you were evidently born by a stack illiterate. Its glaring. No direction, everything about you reeks of dumbness. Genetics are quite strong. Aint they?

OK ubunja can be an a$$ at times but involving any of his parents is off,they may be totally different from him and not deserve the insults he deserves. Or do you know them? If no then it ain't right to drag them into this

Offpoint:

I pity you, you go do 14 years inside kirikiri maximum prison

I no dey do again.... someone cannot play with you again ni.

healthserve:



It's not a gender war. You can't process the message, it's better to stay on the sidelines till you can get more clarity on issues than argue offpoint. This an offpoint statement madam

Xendra is totally on point. There is no better truth than what he wrote

ubunja:
we all have freewill and no one can force you to do what you don't want to do.. But A free mind or mind of your own is not to be confused with freewill.

In relationships "a mind of your own" is the inability to accept the leadership of the male who is supposed to be your head. If you can't let the man make the decisions that control the relationship then you're Masculine.

I didn't quiet catch your question earlier.

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Michellekabod2:
OK ubunja can be an a$$ at times but involving any of his parents is off,they may be totally different from him and not deserve the insults he deserves. Or do you know them? If no then it ain't right to drag them into this

Please go back to his posts and re-read where he called ALL women gold digging hoes . Until then please get outta my mentions.

Digmygold:


Please go back to his posts and re-read where he called ALL women gold digging hoes . Until then please get outta my mentions please.

exactly,what if his parents preaches that all women are queen and you arent aware of it?

Whop his own ass for his misogynistic statement but not his parents. They may be feminists

Digmygold:


Train them indeed. Like it isn't common knowledge who the children spend more time with. Better to have kids with an intelligent woman. Dumb mum dumber kids. Let the eye of that illiterate open small, i tell you you will forever regret going near her.

Your argument that illiterate mother breed dumb kids do not hold water. Have you not heard of so many straight A' students raise under poor and illiterate mothers.

Michellekabod2:

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No sane woman will ever make the likes of Ubunja head.Being the head takes a lot more than the tiny match stick in between your ties.

Now tell me Ubunja how it feels to be born by a stark illiterate. See how it affected your entire existence negatively?

Digmygold:


Please go back to his posts and re-read where he called ALL women gold digging hoes . Until then please get outta my mentions.

Like your moniker doesn't affirm the "hoe digging", or rather typifies the arguement. Yeye hoe

Very silly post. All dem millionaires in main market go school ba?


Low self esteem at its lowest. You flow with an articulated educated lady cos of ur low self esteem and you want others to join u? Lol

indoorlove:
So why are the children of illiterates mostly intelligent, or have you not heard of so many A' students who grew under poor and illiterate mothers.

Never heard of any. Most of them end scoundrels and street urchins. A relatively large number also end up.like Ubunja.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Very silly post. All dem millionaires in main market go school ba?


Low self esteem at its lowest. You flow with an articulated educated lady cos of ur low self esteem and you want others to join u? Lol

Thank God say you na illiterate. I'm cumming for you in Jabi. Expect me o.

healthserve:




Like your moniker doesn't affirm the "hoe digging", or rather typifies the arguement. Yeye hoe

Do i look like your sister, mother or daughters you just described?

Miner13:
excessive salt in a soup make it unsalivating likewise excessive knowledge in woman make her unmarriageable BUT A CULTURED. AND ILLITERATE WOMAN MAKE HOME A SWEAT ABODE

The bolded is what a sane guy should look out for in any woman he hopes to settle down with.The issue with unruling women is the lack of informal education (home training, etiquette,morals etc) not the presence of formal education (literacy).

Before Western education,there have been broken marriages, relationships ,ties and all sort of human relations caused by either or both of the genders (men and women). There are cases marriages break because of the woman's misconducts. In situations like that, it is glaring that she wasn't given or didn't take proper informal education and not that she had too much formal knowledge because it doesn't exist then.
A bad woman will be a bad woman irrespective of what goes through her while a good woman will be a good woman irrespective of what she posses.

What I see happening on this thread is Male manipulations. Men know the power and opportunities Western education/civilization give to women.Their long hold over women has been made free and they (men) are fast losing their grip. Offline they react by refusing to send female child to school, make wives choose between career and them, fight against Western education (how Boko Haram started) etc. Online they can only try to promote dumbness, mediocrity and laziness among women by typing eye popping Epistles. But only a shallow mind can be fooled, the world is gone beyond that!. I must say though, Men of value do not want or seek maniquines as wives.This thread speaks a lot on the type of guys we have here.

Ariza:
The bolded is what a sane guy should look out for in any woman he hopes to settle down with.The issue with unruling is the lack of informal education (home training, etiquette,morals etc) not the presence of formal education (literacy).

Before Western education,there have been broken marriages, relationships ,ties and all sort of human relations caused by either or both of the genders (men and women). There are cases marriages break because of the woman's misconducts. In situations like that, it is glaring that she wasn't given or didn't take proper informal education and not that she had too much formal knowledge because it doesn't exist then.
A bad woman will be a bad woman irrespective of what goes through her while a good woman will be a good woman irrespective of what she posses.

What I see happening on this thread is Male manipulations. Men know the power and opportunities Western education/civilization give to women.Their long hold over women has been made free and they (men) are fast losing their grip. Offline they react by refusing to send female child to school, make wives choose between career and them, fight against Western education (how Boko Haram started) etc. Online they can only try to promote dumbness, mediocrity and laziness among women by typing eye popping Epistles. But only a shallow mind can be fooled, the world is gone beyond that!. I must say though, Men of value do not want or seek a maniquine as a wife.

God bless you. You are on point.

This lets the likes of Ubunja realise that no matter what crap he wastes his time and life writing. Some of us will forever rise above his low vile.

Digmygold:


Do i look like your sister, mother or daughters you just described?

Your moniker gave you up. Blame it on yourself. And stop throwing tantrums lick a suckling and say what you want.

indoorlove:
Your argument that illiterate mother breed dumb kids do not hold water. Have you not heard of so many straight A' students raise under poor and illiterate mothers.

Don't mind that moniker. An incorrigible stupidity is fully at work in that moniker.

healthserve:



Your moniker gave you up. Blame it on yourself. And stop throwing tantrums lick a suckling and say what you want.

I don't bandy with your kind. Moniker gave you away sounds like yen yen yen to me.

healthserve:



Your moniker gave you up. Blame it on yourself. And stop throwing tantrums lick a suckling and say what you want.

Go back to the tantrum chief Ubunja and let me be

Digmygold:


I don't bandy with your kind. Moniker gave you away sounds like yen yen yen to me.

Yawns. Try cooling off and come back with intelligent mindframe and let's discuss. Don't bother chatting me up again. Your energy's toxic, too toxic for sane engagement

Digmygold:


Go back to the tantrum chief Ubunja and let me be

Hoe fvck you. I said get your cvnt off my mentions

healthserve:



Yawns. Try cooling off and come back with intelligent mindframe and let's discuss. Don't bother chatting me up again. Your energy's toxic, too toxic for sane engagement

With your "intelligent mindframe" be intelligent enough to understand that illiterate women are a huge minus any day any time. Ask Ubunja.