quirus:

Thank you. Your advice highly appreciated.

Viking07:
What I don't understand is how a supposedly married man will come online to publicly describe how his wife is nakedly demanding for sex.

dview001:
All i see is a MANIPULATED MAN

byna:


I have beat her once and she enjoyed it. Infact she wanted it. She once told me she wants me acting fierce, it turns her on not being too gentle. But me as a gentle man, d thing tire me o

concept65:


OP i don't have time now to read through the replies - not sure if someone has already given you this advice. Your seem to be very emotionally intelligent which your wife totally lacks. She is also very prideful of which you have demonstrated some humility in this post.

Your wife needs you to "man up" and Im not being insultive here, I am talking from her standpoint. Her perception of you is that you are a "softie" and her type needs very "firm" hand. I am talking from experience, you need to change a little bit from the way you usually do things around the house, even if its outside your comfort zone. You need to bark orders once in a while and not ask politely, rough her up a little bit during sex, alternate and have gentle sex sometimes, find ways to keep your wife on her toes most of the time without being abusive. This is what she needs. I grew up around "alpha males" and my ex was an alpha male too. My husband is the sweetest and most humble, gentle man ever, but I am emotionally intelligent enough and mature enough to appreciate that that is how he is, I don't see it as a weakness but I do wish he had some "alphaness in him" though I dare not show him. Be more domineering, you seem intelligent, Im sure you'll find balance.

luminouz:


I see Nlanders comments and shake my head. Are these guys not seeing what I'm seeing?


Red fuqin flags everywhere.

1. Proud, provoking stance
2. Initiates sex first stance

Verdict:

She loves conflict, she thrives on it...it stimulates her and when it gets to a crescendo, she must have sex to have a mind blowing release. Women like that have deep psyche issues. They desire being rough handled, roughhoused, even beaten so as to have some measure of self-worth and to respect you as a man. She likely grew up in a home where her dad beat her mum or was broken in by a violent, slugfest loving guy who dominated her for years. This led to a Stockholm syndrome type of disorder that made her love those who torment her and derive sexual pleasure from such violent acts.

Solution:
1. Divorce her....you will need to be violent at intervals to win her respect and even her love. She is wired that way. No amount of useless counselling or prayers will change shiit. If you deny her sex for awhile and she meets a violent mudafvcker outside, the marriage is as good as over.

2. Be Violent: You are likely a nice guy for you to come online to seek opinions but if you want to have her respect. Be rough with her....when she ails you, beat her or dominate her roughly. That's how she respects you. It is wrong for me but it is what it is. Nothing else would work. Once you discipline her roughly, have sex with her and be rough at it. Then watch her do your biddings with a silly smile on her face. When next she fuqs up, repeat the dosage. That's her cure.

N.B: Your kids are all boys and trust me mudafvcker, they are watching. If you choose option 2, their future wives are in trouble because they will think all women love being beaten. And the Violent Circle Continues....

#Luminouznuggets#

concept65:


I really like this write up of yours - I totally get it.
Please read my two posts advising the OP and tell me if you agree. My advise if a polite version of your option B