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Rilwayne001:
I forgot to add to the OP, the dude had a girlfriend that used to come to his house. That never made me assume him to have such irritative spot for guys. Perhaps he's bi or just plainly stupid.

I could not forget a bottle in his head because he's bigger than me, and as well it's his father's house, there was little to nothing I could do except to leave.

What you could have done is to tell him you are not gay/bi and if he persist, you'll report him

Palehair:
If I show you pages on Instagram filled hypermasculine and muscular and bearded gay couples and gay men of all race who are super proud of their sexuality but are masculine to the core, your jaw will drop and you will even be questioning the sexuality of some skinny straight men

A closer look into their history would reveal they weren't always like that.I know some currently macho muscular dudes now in uni who were once flamboyantly effeminate all throughout their secondary school days and below.The critical look they have experienced throughout their lives may make some into putting extra measures to becoming muscular and developing a manly attitude to the point of gyming even more than the average straight dude does.

pocohantas:
I don't support sexual harrassment of any form, but you don't follow a guy to his house and spend the night if you are not planning to have sex. What were you expecting you both to do all night? Bible study?

You say he was so nice to you? Probably buying you isi ewu and Heineken- you were gulping it down. You didn't know you will pay back?

Watch how you sleep in guys houses and chop their money. There is no free lunch, even in free town.

Sorry about your experience.

That's what they say to women

MicroSweet:
Lived together in a University hostel with a bunkmate for a whole session but never noticed that dude was gay, not until I returned from a holiday and saw him being mobbed and beaten to a pulp. Dude was bleeding: he was caught in the act of homosexualism.

And I began to reminisce on how I once caught him applying a medication on his bruised penile cap. I also recalled that he has always been visited by only male students. I was naive and uninformed, and so couldn't connect the dots.

He was top in his class, a first-class material and a force to reckon with in his field of academics. Unfortunately, the shame of that discovery drove him out of the school before graduation.

Eyah

This shit has happened to me good three times, i swear it's not a good experience... d disgusting experience I've had with this gay men have made me never to be comfortable when a guy is too nice to me

Look at them. When you wear your pants sagging, showing your underwear and go about shirtless showing your muscles.

What message are you sending out? Men have blood running through their veins and are moved by what they see.

Dress how you'll like to be addressed.

Body no be firewood.

kamikaz1:
Ok,
First one, I went to visit a friend in school then, at his place. He had this working class dude who comes to visit at weekend. So one of those weekend I was reading for exams at his place, then the dude came to sit beside me and slowly began to run his hands on my laps and acting like a female. I quickly cautioned him off not to bring that shit to me.

The other one, I slept in the same friend's room, he had this big bouncer-like physique dude around, too. Around 12am, while sleeping, I felt a weight on my thigh..then I opened my eyes, I thought I was dreaming the big dude wanted to go for my dick to do mouth action.

Knowing that the dude was big, I screamed(I used gym then too, but the dude was far taller and bigger).He quickly reached for my mouth to cover it so as not to wake neighbours, then he let me go .I realised later that I was the only straight guy amongst the fellaz den.

I got to study them well later on, so I can quickly spot one if I meet one. I have some other new ones as distant friends till today. As long they don't bring it to me.

Ladies' purrie is too sweet to be gay or bisexual.

That friend of yours must have been gay aswell. To have 2 gay friends visiting him can't be a coincidence.

1Sharon:
Look at them. When you wear your pants sagging, showing your underwear and go about shirtless showing your muscles.

What message are you sending out? Men have blood running through their veins and are moved by what they see.

Dress how you'll like to be addressed.

Body no be firewood.

You are damn right!

LegendaryLover:
because it's not been legalized in 9ja. otherwise, they'll come out and openly tell u they are a couple and form r/ships.

Abeg..the ones in the west are like that too. They're always trying it on with guys to gauge who will be interested

1Sharon:
That friend of yours must have been gay aswell. To have 2 gay friends visiting him can't be a coincidence.

Sure , like I said " I realized later that I was the only straight one among them.

kamikaz1:
Sure , like I said " I realized later that I was the only straight one among them.

I guess you live around Lagos?

AccessME:
I guess you live around Lagos?

Yes , but those events took place at OOU, many years ago.

kamikaz1:
Yes , but those events took place at OOU, many years ago.

I see

BeLookingIDIOT:
A closer look into their history would reveal they weren't always like that.I know some currently macho muscular dudes now in uni who were once flamboyantly effeminate all throughout their secondary school days and below.The critical look they have experienced throughout their lives may make some into putting extra measures to becoming muscular and developing a manly attitude to the point of gyming even more than the average straight dude does.

Yea. Gay men always think they have something to prove when it comes to masculinity just to hide their sexuality

AccessME:
pls share the page I wouldn't mind

Pages and I just can't share you one here before Nigerians go carry their anger go there. Email me if you really wanna see it

pocohantas:
I don't support sexual harrassment of any form, but you don't follow a guy to his house and spend the night if you are not planning to have sex. What were you expecting you both to do all night? Bible study?

You say he was so nice to you? Probably buying you isi ewu and Heineken- you were gulping it down. You didn't know you will pay back?

Watch how you sleep in guys houses and chop their money. There is no free lunch, even in free town.

Sorry about your experience.

Lol. Touché.

1Sharon:
Look at them. When you wear your pants sagging, showing your underwear and go about shirtless showing your muscles.

What message are you sending out? Men have blood running through their veins and are moved by what they see.

Dress how you'll like to be addressed.

Body no be firewood.

LMAO You ladies are getting them back.

pocohantas:
I don't support sexual harrassment of any form, but you don't follow a guy to his house and spend the night if you are not planning to have sex. What were you expecting you both to do all night? Bible study?

You say he was so nice to you? Probably buying you isi ewu and Heineken- you were gulping it down. You didn't know you will pay back?

Watch how you sleep in guys houses and chop their money. There is no free lunch, even in free town.

Sorry about your experience.

LOL You are funny ....

khiaa:
LMAO You ladies are getting them back.

so you still here

Martin0:
so you still here

Hi baby.

khiaa:
Hi baby.

What's your sexuality?

MicroSweet:
Lived together in a University hostel with a bunkmate for a whole session but never noticed that dude was gay, not until I returned from a holiday and saw him being mobbed and beaten to a pulp. Dude was bleeding: he was caught in the act of homosexualism.

And I began to reminisce on how I once caught him applying a medication on his bruised penile cap. I also recalled that he has always been visited by only male students. I was naive and uninformed, and so couldn't connect the dots.

He was top in his class, a first-class material and a force to reckon with in his field of academics. Unfortunately, the shame of that discovery drove him out of the school before graduation.

What a pity. Who gained from this incident, no one so why not live and let live.

kamikaz1:
What's your sexuality?

Why?

khiaa:
Why?

never mind.

Palehair:
Pages and I just can't share you one here before Nigerians go carry their anger go there. Email me if you really wanna see it

I've sent u a mail. reply as soon as u see it

psyrizzla:
I traveled from the north to the east just so that I could write post utme there was this babe that me and her had already arranged that I'll be staying at her place for the one week period I'll be in school,turns out she had a minor accident and had to delay for two days so I spent the first day in the general hostel. That same day,an acquaintance of mine told me about his brother's friend who was still in school,so I weighted the odds and felt a room with just one extra person would be better than sleeping in a hostel of about 8-10 people, meanwhile this my friend had already gone back to his brother. In the evening he came and took me to the friends lodge,it's was a fine place and the guy was even nicer, probably more than he should be...my subconscious picked up a red flag...we went in and this nigga kept springing up topics for discussion,we talked and talked and even when I was tired I kept on saying "eh,eh" so that I wouldn't seem rude to my host. Later that night,after we had eaten,nigga asked if I smoked and as a Sabi boy wey I be I said yes,he went and bought one packet oh Bohem cigarettes I couldn't shout how much I hated cigarettes,so I told local man that I don't smoke cigarettes cuz I only do the GREEN guy was suprised, still he went out and bought one pack of AZ,mehhnn we wrapped up and smoked like hell.

>>>fast forward to later that night<<<

So nigga probably thought I was too stoned to ever wake up, firstly I felt a hand on my thigh...I froze...( personally I hate body contact,even my babe knows that so she sleeps on her side of the bed and doesn't touch unless the need be ) so I was surprised as to why I was getting touched,I moved his hand away in the hope that it was all a "sleep inspired" something,not less that two minutes later local man crept his hand on my ass...my freaking bombom!!! That was the straw the broke the camel's back,I turned around and slapped him,nigga woke up feeling macho threatening to deal with me and that totally confirmed everything. I just started shouting, "Oluwatobi is gayyy" , "Nigga,you see all the pussy and nyash and bress wey dey this world and decide say na man nyash you wan kpansh!?!!!!" Local man stopped threatening and started begging me to quieten myself i couldn't sleep again so I just stayed up all night pressing phone,of course we can't fight nature,sleep came and when it did I had to relocate to the floor. Immediately,my alarm rang for 4am I packed up my bags and left the niggas place and ran back to the hostel. Around 2pm later that day,my babe called me that she was back.

have you done thanksgiving for your yansh??

khiaa:
Hi baby.

happy Xmas and happy New

AccessME:
I've sent u a mail. reply as soon as u see it

Ok... Man. Will do that soon. Hope they won't gross you out though?

Palehair:
Ok... Man. Will do that soon. Hope they won't gross you out though?

not at all u don't need to worry about no shit bro

Lamanii22:
The annoying thing about gayism is that they don't have a specific boyfriend they just jump at any guy...

How did u know if you are not one of the gayism?
Mtcwee lemme drink water kip cup

Palehair:
Yea. Gay men always think they have something to prove when it comes to masculinity just to hide their sexuality

Is like you are talking base on experience bro

Martin0:
happy Xmas and happy New

I don't celebrate Xmas but seasons greetings to you.