nero2face:
she loves u so much mehn, I wish for such a loving jealous wife, she only want u for her self alone...endure it and try turning it into fun, laugh at her when she do those things and let her know u love her and won't chest on her...u can device a fun means of cajoling her whenever she act up

bros pls can you be more realistic , your comment is like a movie script.

She loves you
Calm down and be understanding.
Talk to her about your issues.
The most important thing is to calm down.

when a woman love, she love for real, their must be a reason for every action, check yourself

olril17:

you have to be hard when u have to be hard..women spots men weakspot and take them for granted

This is so true. It is naturally in their DNA

frozen70:


Are you that weak or you are too soft to take a decision that will give you freedom and happiness

I laugh when men says women don't have brains

Am average woman knows how to handle her man

She choses not to drive so that you will always be there for her

Smart woman, that's what she is

If you can't take a bold decision now, once those kids gets to teenage age, it will be extremely difficult to pull out

You think you are doing favour to her, Mr man, you are creating burden for yourself not yer

She is on her game and she has mastered the act

Why are you afraid of her reporting you to your family

Is it that you want to remain with it or that your family will disown you

Use your brain that's why it's in your head

If you don't know, fear women, they must do things to their advantage

Amadioha will bless you!

You hit the nail on the head!

True but bitter

Just one question Bro
Why do you still have your EX number on phone??
There's every propensity you will cheat on your wife with your EX
85% Sure
So stop claiming Mr.Faithful Man
You are a potential cheat

olril17:

you have to be hard when u have to be hard..women spots men weakspot and take them for granted

Guy if u aren't married, shut da Bleep up man

nero2face:
she loves u so much mehn, I wish for such a loving jealous wife, she only want u for her self alone...endure it and try turning it into fun, laugh at her when she do those things and let her know u love her and won't chest on her...u can device a fun means of cajoling her whenever she act up

My brother what many are praying for another is rejecting hmm. I will just smile and give her another phone to smash. Kia wish my bae can be jealous like this mennh two weeks am a married man

LOGOBELT:
You have really tried discovering her faults.

The next thing is to study her... Like what are the things that makes her angry? What are the things i do that piss her off? Most importantly, what does she want?

The matrimonial bedroom is not just a sleeping room... Wake her up at night, talk to her solemnly, once again i said solemnly...

As for your chat with your ex Biko, end it "its better to stay off Ex especially when you are married, to prevent Family Palava"

As for driving her to the market, antenatal and church, boss its your RESPONSIBILITY as the husband.

We men only show love to our partner before marriage, once she is in, you find it difficult to continue what you started.

Like I said, yoy have discovered her faults, next is to study her......

After that, next is to wake her up at night, say sweet and emotion capturing words to her, then when she fall for it.... Hit her with the words " Dear, i want to discuss something with you" while you caress her. Talk to her about it, and am sure she will listen.

Women aren't that DIFFICULT you just need to ADJUST a little, so that ONE TROUSER CAN FIT YOU TOO

shuo, na govt work.

Why not? I did attend antenatal with my wife but I'll just be on one side

Emodeee:






Your hubby did same for you?

Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

I don't know why men allow women to take control in the family, my dear if you can't learn how to drive you go enter transport come house or take transport to wherever you want to.

I have an uncle even if his phone is ringing beside his wife she doesn't look at it. All she says is Hun your phone is ringing.

If you make yourself too available that's when the woman will want to control you, I guess you were all lovey-dovey during courtship season.

Some women are wife, some are knife

Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

ogbeni for your sanity, give am red card.

marriage no be do or die na

Cheato64:
Abu m onye igbo

No, you are yoruba. No Igbo woman can check her husband's phone. You see, the problem with you afonjas who claim Igbo is to learn Igbo ways. By your actions, I can tell if you are yoruba not Igbo.

Sorry o, but oga why na, se na by force to get married to that one?

Hahaha your wife is really dramatic i love people like that she is very funny to me it only shows she loves you so much and she does not trust you but just sit her down and explain things to her beg her to trust you, but you are even a patient and calm person for you to be tolerating all these

Oga, your wife is jealous because she loves you and don't want to lose you. I once regretted because I lost someone for being too jealous and over protective. She has her reason(s) for being over protective. The best way to handle such people is to open up to them before they find out themselves.

You are already living in serious fear and bondage.

Send her to driving school, for 3 months, pay and get the 'L' sign indicating she is s learner for her.

Then hand the car keys to her. Just do comprehensive insurance as most trackers are unreliable and can be dismantled too.

Then, put off light when sleeping, security wise, it is NOT advisable at all.

Why will your wife be controlling You?Since you say you are the one driving her always, I sense she is the breadwinner .

I don't see how a successful, busy, hardworking man will be turn to a driver by the wife, minus Saturday's and Sundays outings.

jaxxy:



I don’t like people who overreact for anything. U need to let her know she can’t behave just anyhow because of minor issues, that her overreaction and jealousy is becoming an obsession which isn’t healthy. Ure probably a good guy husband. Sm[b] Yoruba demons[/b] wudnt make it funny for her at all. She will get tired and relax unless she doesn’t like her peace of mind.

Now I believe that Yoruba's are superior to ibos. What obsession with Yoruba's??

Oluwa thank you oh for the wonderful and understanding sexymoma of a wife you gave me, I am forever grateful, praying she remains this way forever

Op you are finished ...this was one of the things that scared me about marriage before I got married; when I read or hear married men complain about it, but luckily for me, I escaped it....I have the best lady on earth as wifey, she gives me peace of mind, she gives me my freedom, and she is so friendly and open minded, mhen, some ladies are angel in human form oh, ladies like my wifey

TheFacelessMan:
Deep down...you wouldn't find it amusing if she was in contact with her EX.

EVERY man knows this, let's put pretence aside.

Disclaimer - haven't read your post.

Modified - I wouldn't take phone smashing lightly.... but man, 2 kids in the space of how long ?

You need to be neutered.

1 kid expecting another by April

Cheato64:
am firm but but don't want to be to hard and make an irreversible mistake

M brother shut up and listen to advice, be firm and not be wicked, be firm but love your wife. Please you can get more from a woman for being firm than for being a lover boy. women are strange creatures

superability:

Guy if u aren't married, shut da Bleep up man

I am not responsible for your misery...
otherwise you will make your point cogently without having to insult another unknown individual....peleee

fredrick9:

My brother what many are praying for another is rejecting hmm. I will just smile and give her another phone to smash. Kia wish my bae can be jealous like this mennh two weeks am a married man

Hmm, you're praying for a jealous woman, Na your death sentence you wan sign so. Check out those women who killed their husband 80 percent suspect their husbands were cheating, though some where right. So, do you deserve a death sentence because you cheated?

humblemikel:
Just one question Bro
Why do you still have your EX number on phone??
There's every propensity you will cheat on your wife with your EX
85% Sure
So stop claiming Mr.Faithful Man
You are a potential cheat

True talk that. Ur wife loves u and is proud of you. Yet you see it as been wrong bro you are a potential cheat

daddytime:
Lol

Una no date before marriage? You couldn't have missed some of these traits even though some people are good at hiding their true characters while dating.

When some men ask for faithful and caring women, it also comes with other extras

When love or infatuation is involved, some red flags definitely go undetected or overlooked

sassysure:

Yes o.
Everything u can think off.
He didn't go to antenatal during my first pregnancy. I didnt go at all but all the hospital visits he was there asking questions. Subsequent, he attended.

I only talked about the pregnancy and antenatal.
But, I can as well talk about her obsession.
Either that 1, she is afraid she will lose you as she never expected somebody like u will come her way,
2, she has insecurity problem. Refer to 1. People she trusted has been disappointing her.
3, she has low self esteem, still refer to 1.
And u are making her fear come true by contacting your ex.
As for the aggression, refer to her background.
In all its about, communication, assurance and promise.

Good luck.

I love dis ....
Best so far

your username sef is cheato.

you cheated and wer caught so you are doing what she wishes so she wouldn't report you to your parents for cheating on her.

still on still, if she doesn't believe you are a changed man then let her pack or go.

she go run you mad oh if this continues

Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

She smashed your phone and you let her get away with it?!

Guy ur weak

OgunLaakaye:


Amadioha will bless you!

You hit the nail on the head!

True but bitter

Thanks, it has to be bitter because he made himself a hired slave in his marriage

An average woman is a manipulator

The man has lost his crown at home as an African Lord at home..
Now Christianity has come with ONE MAN ONE WIFE all hell has let loose. Polygamy humbled women. Whenever a woman become noisy , the man will add another wife to her then she will cool down