| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by healthserve(m): 11:25pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
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| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by patobiora1979: 11:26pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
My humble advise is speak with you regarding dad or mom about it to advise you or seek a marriage counselor in your church .. any other advise u get from this hmm might be biased...but that's what we all sign up for in marriage.you never predict what side of the coin a wife turns into once she's married.but above all this can be resolved...... Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.
She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.
She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.
Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.
I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.
Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Liposure: 11:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
communicate with your wife or beta still go 4 marriage counselling. |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Mutemenot(m): 11:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
You seems to be a good husband but you have chained yourself by showing how much love and care you have for her.
I learnt this lesson earlier, treating a Nigerian woman like a princess from day one isn't the best idea cos you must treat her same way until death. Any day you change, she 'll tag you a bad and cheating husband..
Just use this opportunity well, you can create a scene or allow her do so by the time you table the case for reconciliation, you can then make it clear you are going to apply principles in the marriage. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Josh44s(m): 11:31pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.
She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.
She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.
Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.
I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.
Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala Welcome to my world bro. Me! I don end my marriage today. I can’t die just because I married. A prestige customer who has brought nothing less than more 20 customers called me today, my wife picked the call and abused her so badly, threatening me she will start adultery outside our marriage. Women of the generation are different specie. I nor do again. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by aaking(m): 11:32pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
LOGOBELT:
You have really tried discovering her faults.
The next thing is to study her... Like what are the things that makes her angry? What are the things i do that piss her off? Most importantly, what does she want?
The matrimonial bedroom is not just a sleeping room... Wake her up at night, talk to her solemnly, once again i said solemnly...
As for your chat with your ex Biko, end it "its better to stay off Ex especially when you are married, to prevent Family Palava"
As for driving her to the market, antenatal and church, boss its your RESPONSIBILITY as the husband.
We men only show love to our partner before marriage, once she is in, you find it difficult to continue what you started.
Like I said, yoy have discovered her faults, next is to study her......
After that, next is to wake her up at night, say sweet and emotion capturing words to her, then when she fall for it.... Hit her with the words " Dear, i want to discuss something with you" while you caress her. Talk to her about it, and am sure she will listen.
Women aren't that DIFFICULT you just need to ADJUST a little, so that ONE TROUSER CAN FIT YOU TWO You have said the true word 
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| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by franchasng: 11:32pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
healthserve:
He cane dey wait for am. He will log out and meet his reality when he finished here. Na him matter pregnant woman go tell man stool down raise your hands and close your eyes. How a woman will smash a phone and I won't beat her till she turns purple surprises me ah, this is not good at all, don't pls! I can't imagine myself laying my innocent hands on an human being oh lol |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by GamalNasser: 11:32pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Any woman wey dey break phone fit kill ooo |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Hairdo666(f): 11:33pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
bluefilm:
The men who don't live long are usually those men wey allow their selves to carry woman palaver for head.
Me, I no even get time for any form of woman wahala. That's why you won't live long. |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by luminouzzzzzz(m): 11:33pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
LOGOBELT:
You have really tried discovering her faults.
The next thing is to study her... Like what are the things that makes her angry? What are the things i do that piss her off? Most importantly, what does she want?
The matrimonial bedroom is not just a sleeping room... Wake her up at night, talk to her solemnly, once again i said solemnly...
As for your chat with your ex Biko, end it "its better to stay off Ex especially when you are married, to prevent Family Palava"
As for driving her to the market, antenatal and church, boss its your RESPONSIBILITY as the husband.
We men only show love to our partner before marriage, once she is in, you find it difficult to continue what you started.
Like I said, yoy have discovered her faults, next is to study her......
After that, next is to wake her up at night, say sweet and emotion capturing words to her, then when she fall for it.... Hit her with the words " Dear, i want to discuss something with you" while you caress her. Talk to her about it, and am sure she will listen.
Women aren't that DIFFICULT you just need to ADJUST a little, so that ONE TROUSER CAN FIT YOU TWO Lmaoooo... Why not kuku enroll the guy into the school of solemnity? Jesus, did you even read what you wrote up there? Anyways...na troll thread as usual. |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by donchyke1975: 11:33pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Sit her and talk to her concerning her not trusting u,then u on your part try to do things that will make her not to trust u,come to think of it why must u call ur ex,is she the only one who can do d job.put yourself in your shoe,if she is the one that calls her ex for assistance. |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by healthserve(m): 11:34pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
franchasng:
ah, this is not good at all, don't pls! I can't imagine myself laying my innocent hands on an human being oh lol My brother. Many women never respect a man that doesn't beat them. This one needs beating to remember her boundary and reset her brain |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Preditor: 11:34pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
nero2face:
she loves u so much mehn, I wish for such a loving jealous wife, she only want u for her self alone...endure it and try turning it into fun, laugh at her when she do those things and let her know u love her and won't chest on her...u can device a fun means of cajoling her whenever she act up dat ll be forcing yu to go to places yu hate and refuse to learn driving on purpose so yu can take her everywhere... Hmmm |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Sheriman(m): 11:34pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
franchasng:
Oluwa thank you oh for the wonderful and understanding sexymoma of a wife you gave me, I am forever grateful, praying she remains this way forever 
Op you are finished  ...this was one of the things that scared me about marriage before I got married; when I read or hear married men complain about it, but luckily for me, I escaped it....I have the best lady on earth as wifey, she gives me peace of mind, she gives me my freedom, and she is so friendly and open minded, mhen, some ladies are angel in human form oh, ladies like my wifey  I don't trust you buddy because I know you never marry |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by luminouzzzzzz(m): 11:34pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
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| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Preditor: 11:37pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
healthserve:
My brother. Many women never respect a man that doesn't beat them. This one needs beating to remember her boundary and reset her brain at least reason from the woman's angle, she's jst jealous, overprotective and doesn't know he doesn't lyk it or probably does but is too busy trying to preserve her marriage by making sure her husband remains faithful |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Barzinime(m): 11:37pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Don't let some idiots give you stupid ideas.. She wants you so much, but I think she is too protective of you & I think you are doing some things that isn't giving her peace of mind, like giving other female attention & all, it's good for her to be on her toes but don't over do it cos she might be obsessed with you which is dangerous Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.
She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.
She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.
Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.
I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.
Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by franchasng: 11:37pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Sheriman:
I don't trust you buddy because I know you never marry Hahahahahaha, God forbid, I am happily married my brother, have left you guys at the singles club....next is fatherhood |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by franchasng: 11:38pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
healthserve:
My brother. Many women never respect a man that doesn't beat them. This one needs beating to remember her boundary and reset her brain To the best of my knowledge, that's not true. Maybe it depends on the lady, maybe 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by healthserve(m): 11:39pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Preditor:
at least reason from the woman's angle, she's jst jealous, overprotective and doesn't know he doesn't lyk it or probably does but is too busy trying to preserve her marriage by making sure her husband remains faithful Till the demon in charge forces her to overdo and kill him. Watch how she'll beat him badly after seeing this thread tomorrow 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by healthserve(m): 11:39pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
franchasng:
To the best of my knowledge, that's not true. Maybe it depends on the lady, maybe Trust me. She's reverse-calling him to control her but he doesn't realise it yet |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by franchasng: 11:42pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
healthserve:
Trust me. She's reverse-calling him to control her but he doesn't realise it yet Anyway, the guy must have noticed this during courtship or dating and ignored it, that's his cross to bear now....he should find a way to handle it. Wish him the best |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by sisisioge: 11:42pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
MedicH:
This is family section where issues affecting the homefront is discussed you get that?
If you are interested in knowing how your zoological president is dragging the zoo to hell u can proceed to the politics section. No vex sir...sometimes I get the sections confused ni 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by healthserve(m): 11:43pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
franchasng:
Anyway, the guy must have noticed this during courtship or dating and ignored it, that's his cross to bear now....he should find a way to handle it. Wish him the best One thing I've learnt is not to indulge toxic character but to detoxify it. I can only have tolerance for little time. God help him. 1 Like 1 Share |
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| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by sprints1: 11:47pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.
She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.
She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.
Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.
I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.
Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala sorry if am rude here, your wife has turned you into a tool for her own advantage I can't stand such marriage. If were wife is like that I will just leave and find abode elsewhere won't divorce her but will find a way of living elsewhere so that I can think. Your wife loves you but she having trust issues. A wife that will understand me and trust me is what I want in life. Relationship is built on trust not even love. If the trust is lost forget about the marriage. Please be careful and stop her from checking your phone put fingerprint lock. U can divulge all your secret to a woman it is dangerous that was what ruined Samson.Women are not that evil but they can be easily manipulated. Your wife has become something else. She is suffering from psychological trauma 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by ottersberger(m): 11:48pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
LOGOBELT:
You have really tried discovering her faults.
The next thing is to study her... Like what are the things that makes her angry? What are the things i do that piss her off? Most importantly, what does she want?
The matrimonial bedroom is not just a sleeping room... Wake her up at night, talk to her solemnly, once again i said solemnly...
As for your chat with your ex Biko, end it "its better to stay off Ex especially when you are married, to prevent Family Palava"
As for driving her to the market, antenatal and church, boss its your RESPONSIBILITY as the husband.
We men only show love to our partner before marriage, once she is in, you find it difficult to continue what you started.
Like I said, yoy have discovered her faults, next is to study her......
After that, next is to wake her up at night, say sweet and emotion capturing words to her, then when she fall for it.... Hit her with the words " Dear, i want to discuss something with you" while you caress her. Talk to her about it, and am sure she will listen.
Women aren't that DIFFICULT you just need to ADJUST a little, so that ONE TROUSER CAN FIT YOU TWO I think it will be fair to say that you're pretty inexperienced in matters regarding our opposite sex. Advice no be by force. Btw. how old are you?. |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by tomdon(m): 11:50pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
doitforyou:
This is bad and not sustainable. At some point you have to put your foot down. I suggest after she gives birth you guys have a very long talk. If you have cheated on her before, and she has forgiven you enough to marry you then part of giving you a second chance is to trust you until you prove her wrong again. You guys can’t be doing this, marriage is long.
This is why I can forgive a cheating partner but I can never get back with the person, because I can never trust that person again and it makes for a toxic and draining relationship. What is cheating? Is it having sex with another person other than your spouse. Pls I just wantu know |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by petitejolie(f): 11:50pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Congratulations. Don't mind some people here saying the op is lucky to have someone like his wife cos her jealousy means she loves him so much. That's a mentality of a mediocre. Op is in trouble he doesn't know. They just start. franchasng:
Oluwa thank you oh for the wonderful and understanding sexymoma of a wife you gave me, I am forever grateful, praying she remains this way forever
Op you are finished ...this was one of the things that scared me about marriage before I got married; when I read or hear married men complain about it, but luckily for me, I escaped it....I have the best lady on earth as wifey, she gives me peace of mind, she gives me my freedom, and she is so friendly and open minded, mhen, some ladies are angel in human form oh, ladies like my wifey 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Sydebel(m): 11:51pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
nero2face:
she loves u so much mehn, I wish for such a loving jealous wife, she only want u for her self alone...endure it and try turning it into fun, laugh at her when she do those things and let her know u love her and won't chest on her...u can device a fun means of cajoling her whenever she act up Bros, b careful what u wish for. Word of advise!! |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by NairalandAngel(m): 11:53pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
sophy17:
The anger part (smashing of phone) is very dangerous. I hope she will not smash your life one day out of jealousy.
Women who end up killing their husbands also started like this.
You need to stop this trend now. Don't mind the idiotic weakling |
| Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by petitejolie(f): 11:53pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Ure just starting, continue like dis and u will die untimely God forbid. U better start to nip it in d bud. Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.
She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.
She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.
Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.
I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.
Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala |
