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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 1:34am On Dec 31, 2019
I lost my grandpa this year
Lost my time on a relationship I thought will lead 2 marriage. Lost some money on foreign online sham store..

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by ymstar(m): 1:35am On Dec 31, 2019
Realtalk20:


Long story

Was offered a job abroad , work permit and accommodation I had to make some down payments for all . Was alot of 7 figures

Smh I just tire bro

Hit me so hard financially.. I believed I was relocating to start a new job... Based on international work resources grin

Sold off my assets , gave alot of stuff out like.santa claus

Liquidated everything I owned

Put off my.wedding to my fiancee all in excitement grin

She warned me and I shouted her down telling her how this was for us and how she didn't want me to go to the next level

I accused her of being selfish and just wanted us to do a wedding when she knew I needed to send money abroad to this company to finish processing

So I put everything into this, allmy savings , out combined funds,wedding money, sold my car , I was expecting I was making initial mortgage payments on a home grin

And paying for fast tracked working permit and all grin

Look I don't want to remember allthis

Omo I nearly commuted suicide

She broke up with me after it turned to be a scam we did get back together briefly after some months but it was never the same and we ended it

Life huh?
Ah, I'm so sad about this, u will rise again I believe that cry

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by andsboy29: 1:38am On Dec 31, 2019
When I saw all these complaints, is it the person that lost both parents and job same year! embarassed Chai What is life?
Like the bible says Man is Born of a few days but many troubles, indeed it is.
I can only say Thank You Lord For all that you've done for me. For me this year alone I was arrested and kept in the Cell, from there to EFCC bcuz of something I know nothing about, got suspended at work since July till now, no salary, lost the Love of my life, She actually broke up with me after fixing wedding date, my home, my savings to a failed business, etc


In all I give God Thanks, Cuz in the midst of this storms God was there for me, he never left me, I had to chance to serve him well this year and this same year even if I still don't have a job I give him the glory still.
Thank you Jesus.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Nobody: 1:39am On Dec 31, 2019
VICTOR4U2C:
My Bitcoin Got hacked $4650 Nov 26 embarassed

I have been hearing lots of people complain about their Bitcoin been hacked.

The thing I keep telling people is that 'on no account should they leave their coin in online wallets other than Blockchain and even self if you are using blockchain,use the 3-factor authentication code and don't click on any link sent to your email address(in the spam folder);it's a fishing mail.I received one 2days ago that 'my blockchain acct has been block and that I should click a link to secure it and bla bla',I just hissed and reported spam.

Those are how the yahoo guys hack into your blockchain acct and clear all your money online.

The one that happen to me on Luno 3years ago of $800 was done by a hacker from Sweden and I knew it was an insider who got all my details their and compromised my acct to clear all the funds.I just loaded airtime and called their UK office and threaten to sue them if my money wasn't returned in 3 days.Guess what!it was returned to my blockchain acct after i gave them the new address to forward it to.Since then,I didn't use Luno and always warn people not to keep money there.

So,always secure your fund online.Tho, whatever will happen will surely happen reason is that,the same money that was refunded from Luno,I invested it in one company in Canada and not more than 3 days after I invested it,the company folded and that was how it went.

Anything that will be will surely be#KEYNOTE#

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by KennieKingOba(m): 1:47am On Dec 31, 2019
its funny i had to wait for a client for a whole six month so as to be able to set up a yoghurt factory for him. At last he still owe me salary. But while waiting for him, i decided to enlarge my social media fan base 'kaptainchef'. Hoping by next year im moving to puting out my own product GREEK YOGHURT even if i have to start with 10k. Hoping i will see investors sha that will help me enlarge my business.
Moral: do not let anybody waste your time

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by damosade(m): 1:59am On Dec 31, 2019
I got married April this year, lost my job Nov this year

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by guru90: 2:08am On Dec 31, 2019
Germany denied me Visa.
Immediately I saw new wife of Ned in Germany via in Nairaland just for vacation... I began to cry in my mind saying see as she traveled there freely.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Preetychina22(m): 2:10am On Dec 31, 2019
Sad comments.
I lost $36,000 to my cousin in a business deal in February. He was to take a 10% cut ($3,600). I don't know if he's still in Australia. His mom passed on due to a liver disease and he didn't show up for the burial in September.
I forgive him, I just hope he's alive and ok.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by ussv: 2:24am On Dec 31, 2019
I downgraded from full time to part time work at the beginning of the year because of school and because of the financial constraints, i had to trade in my GL450 for a smaller SUV because my part time work could not pay the car note amongst other things. The thing still dey pain me because at the end of the day, the school sef i no kuku finish am . But my goal is to go back to nursing school this year.
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by AdewaleKean(m): 2:31am On Dec 31, 2019
BeamProfitGlobal
Amerittrade

Lost over 4m to these scammers � cry

Got denied too in the USA embassy cry

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Earljosh: 2:36am On Dec 31, 2019
My fiance lost her mom 3 months ago, last month book haram killed her only surviving brother at the battle field. She's the only child left!

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by ohem007(m): 2:45am On Dec 31, 2019
Mine was just yesterday...

I played four first goal scorer..(for those who play betway you will know what I am taking about) to win 1 million...


Buh the devil didn't want me to

Only 1 game spoiled everything

My new year would have been the craziest new year ever
�����

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Mourinho24: 2:45am On Dec 31, 2019
[color=#000099][/color] cry
Lizme21:
Lost almost all my late dad's hard earned goods and properties in our house to thieves in march. And this happened in an estate that has security oo, only because no one was in the house for almost 6mths. The thieves stole almost everything from beds, to inverter battery and wires, to cloths to generators, to our cooking pots, to ceiling fans, to tvs, blender, list endless... Still praying n hoping they get their rewards soon because the things they stole were of values. How can human beings be so heartless?? To say they cleared a whole house and till now, no one can tell how it happened.. Its well
The estate securities are most likely to be the accomplice.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by mariellasmenu: 2:46am On Dec 31, 2019
I lost my older sister january 16th this year. She died 6 weeks after giving birth to twins. She has waited for 15 years praying and fasting for the fruit of the womb. When they finally came, the doctor ruptured her intestines and the mismanagement of the fistula made her contact sepsis. I had to care for the twins until they were 9 months. Then my mother took over. Her husband is like a mad man till date. I still cry about it everyday. She was my best friend.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by chinchum(m): 3:05am On Dec 31, 2019
Hmm, these losses can be quite depressing to read. I pray for recovery and fortitude to bear the loss for everyone who suffered loss. Life is ephemeral, and we must not forget that

In retrospective of the outgoing decade 2010-2019 , at the start of decade, was the most trying period of my life, i really praise God for continuos recovery of my losses.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Funjosh(m): 3:12am On Dec 31, 2019
Let me pour out my mind so that I can let it flow with 2019. I lost my sister a week after giving birth to her first child in May, just 10 months after getting married. Her death left me so heart broken till date don't even know how to puts words together, is it the joy of hearing she deliver a baby girl, to the news of her not breathing well, to needing more blood, to getting of oxygen because her survival depends solely on it, to rushing from blood bank to the ward, to pharmacy, to lab, moving from one end to the other of LUTH, before they eventually decided she will be moved to ICU, to know space in LUTH to moving her to one life at Bolade where I watched her breathing through the matching, Afolashade watching you just responding with moving of your hands and legs whenever I call hurts me so much. I was broken when the doctor called that your heart stopped working. I cried, wept uncontrollable when you were been packed and moved to the Morgue, can't believed my eyes when you were being buried.


Afolashade Omobolanle Oyeniran

We all missed you
Your husband missed you
And your beautiful daughter you had no chance to carry loved you.
Keep on resting Shaded cry

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Ursulaa(f): 3:21am On Dec 31, 2019
Lost my mum on the 30th of November, buried on the 20th of December... No Christmas for me, Rest in peace mum embarassed embarassed

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Sashafm(f): 3:26am On Dec 31, 2019
I lost a promotion I worked hard for.

It really pained me to the extent that I was depressed.

I have moved on now and looking toward to the new year for better opportunities.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by YelloweWest: 3:51am On Dec 31, 2019
viva1103:
Its very difficult to type it but i lost my darling mum today.
It's painful, I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mum too some 11years ago. She was just 49...
Be strong ok, it is well.
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by anuma1(m): 4:04am On Dec 31, 2019
I lost my laptop to a friend I Squatted. I Lost a pot of soup to Him as well. I spent money on him on feeding, Transportation, and other bills plus other things I did to make sure that he got a Better Job. Only for him to tell me that I am part of his problem.I have to send him parking. No time for charly boy.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Richdad50(m): 4:15am On Dec 31, 2019
Of the many sad and touching stories of loss I read, I find yours breaking the walls of my heart.
I watched my parents mourn a child and I vowed to God I will never bury mine. It's a devastating experience.
kingzoul:
Losing my beloved daughter was the most tragic I had all my life...it still does pain for real - the pain was real. Haven't gotten over her. Not an hour goes by that I dont think about her. She is evergreen in my mind that I wish I can turn back the hands of time. I loved her with all my life

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by deybholar(f): 4:24am On Dec 31, 2019
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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by fendorf(m): 4:32am On Dec 31, 2019
Lost my dad in April 2019.rest on dad

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Realtalk20: 4:48am On Dec 31, 2019
ymstar:

Ah, I'm so sad about this, u will rise again I believe that cry
Amen bro
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Realtalk20: 4:55am On Dec 31, 2019
ymstar:

Ah, I'm so sad about this, u will rise again I believe that cry

Amen bro, it was like a Hollywood movie

Like being moved from first class to economy class in the twinkling of an eye

And the sad thing is , it wasn't God that did it, it was all me, I wanted to fast track to the next level, I had everything others dream.of but was never satisfied.

Moral of the story is , sometimes contentment isn't such a bad thing..

I should have done my wedding and maybe I wouldn't have had enough to follow through with this hence being saved from the worst night mare a man can have

I should have listened to her , sometimes women we what we don't see

Anyways it's all good

She had a miscarriage due to the whole stress and all , that also added to us ending everything. Sometimes a couple going through tough times together doesn't make them closer sometimes it splits them up.

Omo this year was a year I would rather forget

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Realtalk20: 4:56am On Dec 31, 2019
ctleurocollege:


Omo!
Repasted:it was like a Hollywood movie

Like being moved from first class to economy class in the twinkling of an eye

And the sad thing is , it wasn't God that did it, it was all me, I wanted to fast track to the next level, I had everything others dream.of but was never satisfied.

Moral of the story is , sometimes contentment isn't such a bad thing..

I should have done my wedding and maybe I wouldn't have had enough to follow through with this hence being saved from the worst night mare a man can have

I should have listened to her , sometimes women we what we don't see

Anyways it's all good

She had a miscarriage due to the whole stress and all , that also added to us ending everything. Sometimes a couple going through tough times together doesn't make them closer sometimes it splits them up.

Omo this year was a year I would rather forget

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Realtalk20: 4:58am On Dec 31, 2019
Sleevia:
the person wey go scam me, dem never born am, especially for this travel matter.

Bro never say never

If I was told this would happen I would have laughed it off

I did several video calls with them

She approached mevia LinkedIn as an international career consultant , blah blah blah, my resume is impressive she has helped alot of professionals from EMEA etc

Omo guy just pray they don't see you

Always listen to your fiancee or wife ... I didn't say girlfriend o, I said fiancee or wife

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Realtalk20: 4:58am On Dec 31, 2019
JOHNSONSOLAFUNMI:


What a loss
You’ll be fine sir, trust yourself

Amen bro, it was like a Hollywood movie

Like being moved from first class to economy class in the twinkling of an eye

And the sad thing is , it wasn't God that did it, it was all me, I wanted to fast track to the next level, I had everything others dream.of but was never satisfied.

Moral of the story is , sometimes contentment isn't such a bad thing..

I should have done my wedding and maybe I wouldn't have had enough to follow through with this hence being saved from the worst night mare a man can have

I should have listened to her , sometimes women we what we don't see

Anyways it's all good

She had a miscarriage due to the whole stress and all , that also added to us ending everything. Sometimes a couple going through tough times together doesn't make them closer sometimes it splits them up.

Omo this year was a year I would rather forget

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Realtalk20: 4:59am On Dec 31, 2019
Expert17:



Sorry Bro.

No wonder ur name is REAL TALK

Amen bro, it was like a Hollywood movie

Like being moved from first class to economy class in the twinkling of an eye

And the sad thing is , it wasn't God that did it, it was all me, I wanted to fast track to the next level, I had everything others dream.of but was never satisfied.

Moral of the story is , sometimes contentment isn't such a bad thing..

I should have done my wedding and maybe I wouldn't have had enough to follow through with this hence being saved from the worst night mare a man can have

I should have listened to her , sometimes women we what we don't see

Anyways it's all good

She had a miscarriage due to the whole stress and all , that also added to us ending everything. Sometimes a couple going through tough times together doesn't make them closer sometimes it splits them up.

Omo this year was a year I would rather forget

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by bravesoul247(m): 5:11am On Dec 31, 2019
viva1103:
Its very difficult to type it but i lost my darling mum today.
WOW! This thing hit me hard. I'm so sorry, please take heart.. What caused it?
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Realtalk20: 5:12am On Dec 31, 2019
luluosas:
Thank God you overcame depression

My dear I wait and contemplated suicide several times grin

I hit rock bottom bro , imagination can't even begin to

I quit my job with so much gusto based on this
Liquidated everything I owned after sending all the money they needed even for Lufthansa first class ticket or so they sent me. grin

I just dey ball around Lagos telling all my friends we should have on last hoorah before I relocate permanently

It was a five year work contract wages etc calculated fully plus allowances , I could bring my fiancee , after 6 months , men I was already imagining how our kids would be citizens and how they would thank me for not giving birth to them in Nigeria

I was just dashing property left right center feeling.funky like a Hollywood santa Claus grin

That's how I lost everything bro

From living in push Abuja to nothing grin

It's at this point you realize friendship is overrated

The friends I put up with from Abuja to Lagos each milked me for money while I was staying with them till I couldn't put up with it ..

This was how I moved from Abuja to three different locations in Lagos

Till I had no where to stay in Lagos , because excuses where either my wife's family is around or my sibblings came to visit or our home is too small

This isn't a joke bro .. brothers mostly resided outside Lagos and I didn't want to go back to Abuja out of shame and besides no where to stay

And I believed I would get a job in Lagos .. this is how I spent about three months crashing from one odd place to another , I could barely eat .. I missed so many interviews cause I couldn't afford to go and remember I was planning to relocate I gave out suitcases of clothes saying I would buy winter clothes there and summer ones in summer grin

Men it is like a bad movie ... I had been estranged from family for years cause I was doing very well and so was everyone else but worst still is I was a very very rude younger brother.. I virtually insulted all my elder ones at every opportunity to o er the years to the extent that my.elsest brother and I hadn't spoken in over eight years prior to this

I slept in empty shops in Lagos with my bag all my certificates and two pairs of jeans, four t-shirts , a face cap, lighter for company and spent time with a friend who had lost his wife some years earlier

He was struggling financially but I was always good to him sometimes in the past so he managed at some run down hotel in isolo where some nights he paid 2k for a cockroach infested room while other nights we slept in an empty shop on the street

This isn't a movie this was my reality .. and I was so ashamed because from graduation till date everyone always knew me as successful and I was estranged firm my family so which was was I to go?

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by sokkatua: 5:12am On Dec 31, 2019
I lost a tooth in february,lost my dad in May,lost my job of 13 years in November

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