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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by hollyslim(f): 10:56pm On Dec 31, 2019
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Gforce2019: 11:07pm On Dec 31, 2019
My Broda, this is life is short. Go kuramo Beach or club house , or some nice motel. Then go arrange fine olosho for you. Tellam say you want marry her and give am some money for upkeep. Before you go try this trick for 6 months, you go don get one lady to tie down with pregnant. And after then you continue to maintain her and build your family .
All our ladies dey look for already -done food so that they will not need to contribute.


Bleep them and dump them like old rags.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by tolguy(m): 11:17pm On Dec 31, 2019
empirebosscrew:
I met her father. He didnt seem to have problems with me. It was after the meeting that I discovered her mother is the main issue to contend, who is not backing down on her stand. Well all i am doing for the lady is to encourage her and go for what she wants. Las las if we are meant to be together, nothing will stop it
thank God the problem is from her mother not father just visit her and give her cash you go see wonder. I'm very sure, try it
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Typhoonsbane: 11:18pm On Dec 31, 2019
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..
With a mentality like this your chance of making it in life is almost nonexistent.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Island01: 11:19pm On Dec 31, 2019
empirebosscrew:
Good day everybody. So I have lived with poliomelythis for more than two decades now. I have strived so much to achieve alot for myself because I never allowed my situation deter me from achieving my goals in life.

Everything has been going on smoothly: Education up to MSc level, a job, a car and things a man can acquire and say he has reached a level of comfort.

The one thing I'm yet to get is to be in a stable relationship. 99% of the girls I've dated never took me serious and we never lasted long. Some will even take advantage to chop my money and bail after a while. It got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man.

It wasnt until earlier this year when I met someone who changed the horoscope. Like she is so down to earth and actually loved me for me, without even looking at my paralysis. Things were going smoothly until she started becoming aggressive and emotional over little issues.

It took a while but she was able to open up to let me know how her family vehemently told her they dont want to see her with someone like me. They also threatened to disown her if she insisted on being with me.

Currently, we decided to stop seeing each other for the sake of peace to reign in her family. We do keep communication on a 100. We both love each other genuinely and we do not want us to split just like that.

What do we do?
Get her pregnant
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by NathaFlow(m): 11:35pm On Dec 31, 2019
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..
You are dull........who raised you?
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Onyi22(f): 11:35pm On Dec 31, 2019
Offpoint:
Let the rich get married to the rich
let the poor get married to the poor
and let the disable get married to the disable...

Stigmatization has been part of humanity since God knows when.




The world will never accept your indifferences, no matter how hard you'll try.
You have to realize this else you'll constantly hurt yourself.


We live in a world where by:
Graduates believe they're of more important than non graduate.

Uni grad believe they're of more important than Poly grad.

Rich believe they're of more important than the poor.

The whites believe they're better than the blacks

The tall believe they have more advantages of getting laid than the shorts.

The fair skin believe they're more attractive than the brown skin.

The long dîcks believe they can please women than the short dîcks.


let me stop here, conclusion is we live in a fück up world.
I realized this long ago and I've stop giving a fück about people.

If they denied you their daughter, look else where... women ain't gold, they're everywhere like MTN network.

You can never be accepted by all
U nail it....
Bitter truth
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Azord(m): 11:49pm On Dec 31, 2019
Offpoint:
Let the rich get married to the rich
let the poor get married to the poor
and let the disable get married to the disable...

Stigmatization has been part of humanity since God knows when.




The world will never accept your indifferences, no matter how hard you'll try.
You have to realize this else you'll constantly hurt yourself.


We live in a world where by:
Graduates believe they're of more important than non graduate.

Uni grad believe they're of more important than Poly grad.

Rich believe they're of more important than the poor.

The whites believe they're better than the blacks

The tall believe they have more advantages of getting laid than the shorts.

The fair skin believe they're more attractive than the brown skin.

The long dîcks believe they can please women than the short dîcks.


let me stop here, conclusion is we live in a fück up world.
I realized this long ago and I've stop giving a fück about people.

If they denied you their daughter, look else where... women ain't gold, they're everywhere like MTN network.

You can never be accepted by all
Offpoint making real Sense.












But I don't get
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Typhoonsbane: 11:50pm On Dec 31, 2019
Majid1990:
What is poliomyelitis? Doctors in the hus
Google won't hurt you
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Newlife247:
Offpoint:
Let the rich get married to the rich
let the poor get married to the poor
and let the disable get married to the disable...

Stigmatization has been part of humanity since God knows when.




The world will never accept your indifferences, no matter how hard you'll try.
You have to realize this else you'll constantly hurt yourself.


We live in a world where by:
Graduates believe they're of more important than non graduate.

Uni grad believe they're of more important than Poly grad.

Rich believe they're of more important than the poor.

The whites believe they're better than the blacks

The tall believe they have more advantages of getting laid than the shorts.

The fair skin believe they're more attractive than the brown skin.

The long dîcks believe they can please women than the short dîcks.


let me stop here, conclusion is we live in a fück up world.
I realized this long ago and I've stop giving a fück about people.

If they denied you their daughter, look else where... women ain't gold, they're everywhere like MTN network.

You can never be accepted by all
Very true.
Same thing happened to me some years back.
The lady, now my ex-wife, tried to convince her parents to give their consent to our marriage, which they reluctantly gave after 3 years.
Few months after our wedding, my business took a nose dive and all hell broke loose.
She started sleeping around knowing fully well her parents wouldn't express their displeasure about it.
We eventually ended the marriage after 2 years and her parents were most happy.

Please and please, get someone whose parents wouldn't object to your union. they are your support.
Or better still, get someone like "us".
I'm a polio survivor as well.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by sayisayi(m): 12:13am On Jan 01, 2020
got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man
40% sorry, 75% of naija women
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by sayisayi(m): 12:16am On Jan 01, 2020
Definition of Acid bath
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Offpoint: 12:24am On Jan 01, 2020
Newlife247:
Very true.
Same thing happened to be some years back.
The lady, now my ex-wife, tried to convince her parents to give their consent to our marriage, which they reluctantly gave after 3 years.
Few months after our wedding, my business took a nose dive and all hell broke loose.
She started sleeping around knowing fully well her parents wouldn't express their displeasure about it.
We eventually ended the marriage after 2 years and her parents were most happy.

Please and please, get someone whose parents wouldn't object to your union. they are your support.
Or better still, get someone like "us".
I'm a polio survivor as well.
Many are crucifying me for my message, but I'm a realist I said things they're in reality.
Never tried convincing anyone who doesn't understand your world to accept it, it's like covering a deep hole with camouflage. The hole is still very much there, but deceptive to the eyes. soon or later, it'll review itself.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by andycom(m): 12:42am On Jan 01, 2020
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..
Its 2020 boy you need to stop being stupid.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Skmoda360(m): 12:43am On Jan 01, 2020
empirebosscrew:
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Na God I take beg you please talk your mind oooo
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Gudlite: 12:46am On Jan 01, 2020
Sir,it is not your fault, but what some don't understand is that,a non disabled person can become one tomorrow through accident.
Just continue to pray about it, if she is your wife, you guys will marry but if not,
Please and please there is a wife for you just waiting to connect at the right time Good luck
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by ruffyjolly(m): 1:06am On Jan 01, 2020
We have some bunch of dullards and under age beings here. You play with sensitive issues as if life does not mean anything to you. Do you know your comments can make or mar the concerned person? After all you will start typing RIP. BRO I am a special person like u married with four kids., two already in universities. The Lady is not meant for u if she leaves. Move on with life and yours will surely come. I married one of the most beautiful woman. I have polio too. BEST OF LUCK.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Rapmoney(m): 1:17am On Jan 01, 2020
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..
You don't reason like someone whose brain is still intact.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Abcruz(m): 1:28am On Jan 01, 2020
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..
This topic is obviously beyond your level of assimilation. Now run along with your toys little kid before the elders knock off your skull
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Magicdon(m): 1:30am On Jan 01, 2020
Lexusgs430:
Simple solution : Might sound cruel...... Look for a lady with polio....... Equation balance.......... wink
Immature comments, you are big fool.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by dbonks(m): 1:33am On Jan 01, 2020
Keep the communication intact, keep calm and pray... whatever will be, will be.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Magicdon(m): 1:34am On Jan 01, 2020
YomiFash86:
Bros, my simple advice is that if your girlfriend truly loves you, she would put her feet down and tell her family who she wants. Disability is not an issue the days. Even, the governor of the State of Texas in USA is on wheelchair. If she cannot do that, then you keep searching. Never you feel dejected. Cheer up. Better days ahead.
Whaooo, God bless you. Dis is really encouraging. Best comment so far
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by InvertedHammer: 1:51am On Jan 01, 2020
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Why do you want to get married?

Stay single and enjoy yourself.

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Thegoodone13(m): 1:57am On Jan 01, 2020
Offpoint:
Let the rich get married to the rich
let the poor get married to the poor
and let the disable get married to the disable...

Stigmatization has been part of humanity since God knows when.




The world will never accept your indifferences, no matter how hard you'll try.
You have to realize this else you'll constantly hurt yourself.


We live in a world where by:
Graduates believe they're of more important than non graduate.

Uni grad believe they're of more important than Poly grad.

Rich believe they're of more important than the poor.

The whites believe they're better than the blacks

The tall believe they have more advantages of getting laid than the shorts.

The fair skin believe they're more attractive than the brown skin.

The long dîcks believe they can please women than the short dîcks.


let me stop here, conclusion is we live in a fück up world.
I realized this long ago and I've stop giving a fück about people.

If they denied you their daughter, look else where... women ain't gold, they're everywhere like MTN network.

You can never be accepted by all
you are too harsh but you said the true.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by pattybf(f): 2:04am On Jan 01, 2020
Offpoint:
Let the rich get married to the rich
let the poor get married to the poor
and let the disable get married to the disable...

Stigmatization has been part of humanity since God knows when.




The world will never accept your indifferences, no matter how hard you'll try.
You have to realize this else you'll constantly hurt yourself.


We live in a world where by:
Graduates believe they're of more important than non graduate.

Uni grad believe they're of more important than Poly grad.

Rich believe they're of more important than the poor.

The whites believe they're better than the blacks

The tall believe they have more advantages of getting laid than the shorts.

The fair skin believe they're more attractive than the brown skin.

The long dîcks believe they can please women than the short dîcks.


let me stop here, conclusion is we live in a fück up world.
I realized this long ago and I've stop giving a fück about people.

If they denied you their daughter, look else where... women ain't gold, they're everywhere like MTN network.

You can never be accepted by all
For a moment I thought u were going 'offpoint'
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by oroagba: 2:12am On Jan 01, 2020
empirebosscrew:
... What do we do?
I am disabled, a polio survivor too. I have similar experiences. My woman stood her ground that it's either me or nobody else. Once I was sure of her love, I didn't allow discouragement from any quarter, even my family and friends who felt I should move on. The opposition made our love stronger. God was on our side, and eventually everyone agreed with us. The wedding was grand and the talk of the town. We've been married for over 17 years now, and blessed with wonderful children.

My advice: stay focused, continue to show her sincere love, pray hard. Don't give room to any inferiority complex, you have what it takes as your achievements show. Don't be discouraged.

If she loves you as much as you love her, you guys will prevail eventually. Stay strong my brother.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Nobody: 2:24am On Jan 01, 2020
safarigirl:
you know you can spell it as 'YOU' and there is no difference between YHU and YOU unless, one is wrongly spelt, right?

Your other spellings are good and the advice too, but the yhu and yhur thing is off.
Please leave her, it's not her fault. She is suffering from a disorder called Younopeteisis

It's the inability to spell some certain words.

She might require a surgery, please add her to your prayers.

Shalom.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Nobody: 2:45am On Jan 01, 2020
frozen70:
Is disgrace a new thing to him

Which family will insult a propose spouse of their daughter at first visit

Worst case scenario, they will reject his proposal, it's a 50/50 thing

How are you even sure, her family told her that, she may have arranged that audio report to keep benefiting from him and still blames her family for their rejection

Let him go and see things himself

When I say he should go without her notice but she will be at home, I want him to unravel things

Then how can her family arrest him as a thief for entering their house, in what manner abeg

Make you dey rehears wetin you want write before you post am
You know i was having your exact thoughts, but not to seem paranoid or spoiling the OP's mind when he created the thread, i decided not to say it.

It is always good to hear from the horses mouth even if the horses are pretending.

The devil you know is always better, i suspect foul play.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Amanda4life: 2:54am On Jan 01, 2020
This topic should have been .

My Girlfriend Family rejected me because I'm BROKE
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by KingMicky3286: 2:54am On Jan 01, 2020
You have just shown how disabled you are.
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..
This is very hash.
Disability is in the heart not physically.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Lexusgs430: 3:15am On Jan 01, 2020
Magicdon:
Immature comments, you are big fool.
When i talk now, Mods go ban me.........

Why can't you foolishly make your comment and ignore mine?

Your father is a bigger fool.........
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by joepepsy(m): 4:14am On Jan 01, 2020
For you to spell "your" correctly is a problem,una go dey form unnecessarily
Jodha:
This is really sad....Have yhu met her parents one on one...? If No ..I think yhu should meet them and show them yhur "ability" that yhu can take care of their daughter...and that yhu love each other so much...

If they're still adamant ..then I'm afraid there's nothing much yhu can do ..other than pray....if she's truly yhur wife...God should preserve her for yhu...

On the other hand yhur gf is a grown ass woman and the ball is totally in her court....She has to decide if she's ready to take a bold step like an adult and stick with it...
Her parents are not the one to marry her...neither are they going to stay in the marriage with her..

She's the one wearing the shoe and she should know where it's itching her from...

Just talk to her...Asin heart to heart...pray about it...and leave everything in God's hands...

If she's not yhur wife let her go...yhull find someone better...
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