CopaMike:
Ten years is much considering the fact that diminishing return sets in within one year of sticking to one partner. No matter how much am attracted to a girl at the initial moment, once I start having sex with her, within a month I get tired of her and desire another girl. I do wonder how I will be able to remain faithful to my future wife...

Don't marry for sex. Love and friendship should be the basis of your marriage that is why people are advised to marry their best friends

but you're right anyway

LJ1759:
lolzzzz guy u funny die

THUNDER4real:
Sex sex sex, u cannot com and kill yourself ......This is the reason you should marry your friend, friendship don't die off....Marriage is not all about sex, u will get tired one day no matter your libido level..

Friendship sef dey fade if you behaviour no right. Want a good marital life, be a better person to yourself and your partner. You will always get attention

AroOkigbo:
Simply because you are getting older.

This answer shows you know nothing about sex. It is familiarity that reduces the urge and makes sex less frequent.

hush15:


That's not true. Truth be told, it depends but with the right attitude, one can have a good sexual relationship post marriage.

You can't tell me nada, men are very difficult creatures.

Footballer sef deh hang boot.... Good things don't last !

bulls eye man, you are right, its just natural

sisisioge:
Well...I think doing things the same way all the time plus hormonal depreciation causes it. I know a guy who can't imagine getting some every other day like I think it should be, he thinks you should get it every goddaam day . I know he won't feel that way after ten years of constant getting from same source . Its just natural.

If you have sex in mind before marriage, Your marriage would be finished anyways, so don't bother. Keep Fucking around

If you have sex in mind before marriage, your marriage would be finished anyways. So don't bother. Keep Fucking around

Unmarried folks here giving advice it never fades unless you married your spouse for money.

Oyindidi:
You can't tell me nada, men are very difficult creatures.

While women are nagging creatures.....

guru90:


While women are nagging creatures.....

Men nag more than women. Fact

IyaTola:
Why does sex slowly die off in a Marriage after 10+ years??

Situations warrants such to happen

Child bearing comes with responsibilities that you won't know or understand until you have those kids with you

Providing for families have become a problem instead of a responsible task

Men are not finding it easy and women, only few understands especially those that works too

Men normally have times 10 of a normal woman sex urge

When a man is faced with

School fees
Feeding
House rent
Extended family wahala
Work pressure
Lack of work
Little or No source of incomes


All these are just enough to make a man's dick flacid

Women too attach emotions to sex and the domestic work load can affect her sex urge

The only way is to have few kids so that you will have little to worry about

Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

I can see you're still less than 16, in a few years time you will certainly be wiser

Oyindidi:
You can't tell me nada, men are very difficult creatures.

I know that attitude and that right there is the reason why sex dies in marriage.

" You can't tell me NADA".... Smh, women

hush15:


I know that attitude and that right there is the reason why sex dies in marriage.

" You can't tell me NADA".... Smh, women

are you married?

Try eating only rice and beans for 10+ years....

donbachi:
New year lie...mine is 12,feels like its yesterday.

yinmu

The answers given clearly shows the most common factor in society is the most misunderstood.....sex!

Oyindidi:
You can't tell me nada, men are very difficult creatures.

yinmu

i believe this is just how God created man, man can never be satisfied with one thing for ever. but that doesn't mean you should cheat when you get tired of your wife. that is why its good to marry your friend, someone you have a close relationship with without sex been involved because after so many years of marriage, so many things fades eventually. feelings, beauty, sex libido, smooth skin, tight pu..sy, strong di..k. in the end, only friendship keeps you going.

Enemyofpeace:
yinmu

Face front, I lie?

Taywon:

Are u speaking for ur husband too....

if you have a healthy sexual life with your partner won't you know ? this is about me not me.

When i get there i will know what to answer

frozen70:


Situations warrants such to happen

Child bearing comes with responsibilities that you won't know or understand until you have those kids with you

Providing for families have become a problem instead of a responsible task

Men are not finding it easy and women, only few understands especially those that works too

Men normally have time 10 of a normal woman sex urge

When a man is faced with

School fees
Feeding
House rent
Extended family wahala
Work pressure
Lack of work
Little or No source of incomes


All these are just enough to make a man's dick flacid

Women too attach emotions to sex and the domestic work load can affect her sex urge

The only way is to have few kids so that you will have little to worry about

you sure got it right

stealmatic:
my own mariage never reach 4yrs i find it hard having sex with my wife,sometimes we go for weeks without sex

Dis is not true, it only depends on the partners attitude and mindset.

GoodFaith:


Kids, bills payment and working life
How to get to the next goal
We all need to pay some attention to our marriage more

True

darlenese:


if you have a healthy sexual life with your partner won't you know ? this is about me not me.

Alright ma, keep the fire burning...

Fisher007:
Lol, Well because humans are nature of change.

We always want change or evolution.

You can not like or want the same things, feelings, object etc of 2,5 or 10 years ago.

Although you can grow with someone but your interest or mindset change over the years, only if both of you are on the same frequencies. Which is never the case in most marriages because most partners fail to communicate or power struggle come in.

In some cases external influences such as friends, colleagues, ex lovers etc affects ones sexual satisfaction over the years. Some couples go.back to the past by searchingfor nostalgic sexual satisfaction with ex- lovers, friend,colleagues or school mates, which doesnt or can never be the same.

Wait what do I know. Psshh
I am not even married. Please ignore my comment and wait for the Elders.

they'd think you're not making sense. But sense full this your small writeup.

At the alter you got married to Cynthia
After marriage Cynthia becomes mama David.

Try to bring back Cynthia.