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EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Stories like this makes me so scared of getting married is like almost all ladies these days are all promiscous and extremely very difficult to be satisfied.

donogaga:
Will you keep kwayet?

no

What where you doing there yourself?
You no get house?

You should have greeted them and high fived the man she was with. Afterall , men are polygamous in nature abi?

Your brain is rotten.

Seek help.

Ashawopapa001:
◄ 1 Thessalonians 4:11 ►
SUM PIC XRF DEV STU
Verse (Click for Chapter)
New International Version
and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you,

New Living Translation
Make it your goal to live a quiet life, minding your own business and working with your hands, just as we instructed you before.

English Standard Version
and to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you,

Berean Study Bible
and to aspire to live quietly, to attend to your own matters, and to work with your own hands, as we instructed you.

Berean Literal Bible
and to strive earnestly to live quietly and to attend to your own matters, and to work with your own hands, just as we commanded you,

New American Standard Bible
and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you,

New King James Version
that you also aspire to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,

King James Bible
And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

Christian Standard Bible
to seek to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,

Contemporary English Version
Try your best to live quietly, to mind your own business, and to work hard, just as we taught you to do.

Good News Translation
Make it your aim to live a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to earn your own living, just as we told you before.

Holman Christian Standard Bible
to seek to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,

International Standard Version
Also, make it your goal to live quietly, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we instructed you,

NET Bible
to aspire to lead a quiet life, to attend to your own business, and to work with your hands, as we commanded you.

New Heart English Bible
and that you make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, even as we instructed you;

Aramaic Bible in Plain English
And that you would be diligent, peaceable and occupied with your business, working with your hands just as we commanded you,

GOD'S WORD® Translation
Also, make it your goal to live quietly, do your work, and earn your own living, as we ordered you.

New American Standard 1977
and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you;

Jubilee Bible 2000
and that ye procure to be quiet and to do your business and to work with your hands, as we commanded you,

King James 2000 Bible
And that you study to be quiet, and to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

American King James Version
And that you study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

American Standard Version
and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your hands, even as we charged you;

Douay-Rheims Bible
And that you use your endeavour to be quiet, and that you do your own business, and work with your own hands, as we commanded you:

Darby Bible Translation
and to seek earnestly to be quiet and mind your own affairs, and work with your [own] hands, even as we charged you,

English Revised Version
and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your hands, even as we charged you;

Webster's Bible Translation
And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

Weymouth New Testament
and to vie with one another in eagerness for peace, every one minding his own business and working with his hands, as we ordered you to do:

World English Bible
and that you make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, even as we instructed you;

Young's Literal Translation
and to study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we did command you

you are officially the craziest person I ever met

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Seeing your best friend's wife in a hotel is not enough. You should have stepped over and asked her what she was doing there? Then ask her if her husband is aware she is there? Then from there you'll help either in bursting the racket or knowing the truth. Now you're speculating.

doggedfighter:
What should a married man be doing in a hotel?
Is hotel out of bounds for married women?

No, not at all! And no one said a hotel is out of bound to any gender.

So, I'd ask again, what would a married woman be doing in a hotel with a man who is not her husband?

Please try to educate us this time without needing to deflect. Thanks.

Ashawopapa001:
◄ 1 Thessalonians 4:11 ►
SUM PIC XRF DEV STU
Verse (Click for Chapter)
New International Version
and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you,

New Living Translation
Make it your goal to live a quiet life, minding your own business and working with your hands, just as we instructed you before.

English Standard Version
and to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you,

Berean Study Bible
and to aspire to live quietly, to attend to your own matters, and to work with your own hands, as we instructed you.

Berean Literal Bible
and to strive earnestly to live quietly and to attend to your own matters, and to work with your own hands, just as we commanded you,

New American Standard Bible
and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you,

New King James Version
that you also aspire to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,

King James Bible
And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

Christian Standard Bible
to seek to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,

Contemporary English Version
Try your best to live quietly, to mind your own business, and to work hard, just as we taught you to do.

Good News Translation
Make it your aim to live a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to earn your own living, just as we told you before.

Holman Christian Standard Bible
to seek to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,

International Standard Version
Also, make it your goal to live quietly, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we instructed you,

NET Bible
to aspire to lead a quiet life, to attend to your own business, and to work with your hands, as we commanded you.

New Heart English Bible
and that you make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, even as we instructed you;

Aramaic Bible in Plain English
And that you would be diligent, peaceable and occupied with your business, working with your hands just as we commanded you,

GOD'S WORD® Translation
Also, make it your goal to live quietly, do your work, and earn your own living, as we ordered you.

New American Standard 1977
and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you;

Jubilee Bible 2000
and that ye procure to be quiet and to do your business and to work with your hands, as we commanded you,

King James 2000 Bible
And that you study to be quiet, and to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

American King James Version
And that you study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

American Standard Version
and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your hands, even as we charged you;

Douay-Rheims Bible
And that you use your endeavour to be quiet, and that you do your own business, and work with your own hands, as we commanded you:

Darby Bible Translation
and to seek earnestly to be quiet and mind your own affairs, and work with your [own] hands, even as we charged you,

English Revised Version
and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your hands, even as we charged you;

Webster's Bible Translation
And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

Weymouth New Testament
and to vie with one another in eagerness for peace, every one minding his own business and working with his hands, as we ordered you to do:

World English Bible
and that you make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, even as we instructed you;

Young's Literal Translation
and to study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we did command you

I think he gets the point

konvict0111:
No, not at all! And no one said a hotel is out of bound to any gender.

So, I'd ask again, what would a married woman be doing in a hotel with a man who is not her husband?

Please try to educate us this time without needing to deflect. Thanks.

I wasn't there but I know they could have been there for other things aside sex but since you sound so sure about knowing what they did maybe you should educate us and tell us exactly what went down

hmmm

doggedfighter:
I wasn't there but I know they could have been there for other things aside sex but since you sound so sure about knowing what they did maybe you should educate us and tell us exactly what went down

The burden to educate is on you and not me for choosing the role of the Devil's advocate.

That said, I agree with you that she could have been there for reasons other than sex; but it's nonetheless highly comprising for a married person to be in such a position no matter how you try to rationalize it.

I believe that if you got wind that your husband is in such a position, you'd go bunkers even before getting the full gist. Not so?

Baba no play ursef this is 2020... Mind your damn business

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Mind your business pls, you weren't paid to spy on her, even at that

Lamanii22:
I think I watched that movie yesterday on AM Yoruba last night...

Yeah, that's where I saw it. Very interesting. Please do you know the name of the movie. I will like to buy the CD. Lots of lesson in it.

jagojunior:
No one has said the OP should tell his friend that his wife went to have sex in the hotel. They're simply saying he should tell his friend that he saw his wife in the hotel with another man. That's all.

If she went there for a business, it's left for her to explain that to her husband.

Why the panic?

with all the insecure men we have in Nigeria? Damage first before control

sleekbae:
Loose hoes like your mother?

I don't wonno get angry wit u coz if i do, u will regret ever mentioning my sweet mum when i never mentioned u or ur mum. For ur info, if every woman is to be like my mum, women will still have value till eternity.

KingGBsky:
Tell me things a man’s wife and another man is doing in a hotel? Be true to yourself. Forget getting evidence.

Situations like these are questionable.. But there are other things people do in the hotel apart from... Having sex
.

Lamanii22:
Situations like these are questionable.. But there are other things people do in the hotel apart from... Having sex
.

Things like what? It don’t have names? For a married woman and a man? Please tell me the things.

If u don't tell ur friend! Ur heart will never rest, is better u tell ur friend about it then it's let for him to believe u or not, forget the issue of evidence of a thing, a yoruba adage says, obinrin ti o ba yan ale, ti ko ba para re yoi poko.... so if eventually the wife later kill ur friend due to her useless act, even God will never forgive u because u saw the danger that kill ur friend and u refused to tell him!

Business meeting..Room 101

Margy:
Better hurry tell your guy before she give am HIV

this one na true talk ooo

Romanoff:
Issues like this are very sensitive.

The woman might have covered her tracks so well that it will only take being caught redhanded before you can have a case.

2. You should have greeted her and called her husband on the phone immediately to say "guy, I just stumble on madam now now for so so so and so".....



3. If you and your best friend are very close, you shouldn't have an issue telling him what you saw, you can also advise him to be vigilant. If you don't, it means you're enabling her infidelity if she's unfaithful.

People
Like you are home breakers. And the next minute they see you with the man that just chase away his wife in bed commuting same sin he chase the wife away for.

If the woman is cheating it definitely means the man is also sleeping around

KingGBsky:
Things like what? It don’t have names? For a married woman and a man? Please tell me the things.

To talk business...

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Mind your business.

konvict0111:
The burden to educate is on you and not me for choosing the role of the Devil's advocate.

That said, I agree with you that she could have been there for reasons other than sex; but it's nonetheless highly comprising for a married person to be in such a position no matter how you try to rationalize it.

I believe that if you got wind that your husband is in such a position, you'd go bunkers even before getting the full gist. Not so?

I won't go bunkers because I don't share the view that sex is the only thing that goes on in hotels .
Once we hear hotels here sex jumps into our minds. We should cure ourselves of that.
It's not always what we think ! thanks
Nice talking with you

daddycee91:
Informing your friend means you care about his life. She could infect him with some STD that could shorten his life. Don't listen to people saying you should mind your business. If you friend gets aids for an instance from his wife, you would blame yourself for not alerting him early enough

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cases..it might just be a misconception

People are always fond of jumping to conclusions without proof. You don't even know what she was doing there. That man could even be a relative.

Snitch on her...damn nothing so disrespectful


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Jodha:
Do yhu know what she went to do with this other man in the hotel?....

Biko no go spoil person marriage based on misconception...

If you are married, I guess you will be comfortable having your husband visiting a hotel with a female.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Probably a business meeting. Just saying

Of course. Yeah right.

Jodha:
Do yhu know what she went to do with this other man in the hotel?....

Biko no go spoil person marriage based on misconception...

Na dem be dis