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Martinez39:
Just seeing this. Here you go.

overdose those mofos bro lol

Michellekabod2:
this isn't quoting you. He made an assumption of your stance and I corrected him how is that arguing?did I quote you?
I didn't disprove or approve his point but made comparison to yours

who said anything about quoting anyone??

Know when to surrender to knowledge and truth and just say "okay". You won't die.

Michellekabod2:
this isn't quoting you. He made an assumption of your stance and I corrected him how is that arguing?did I quote you?
I didn't disprove or approve his point but made comparison to yours

I was listing based on my own opinion even though I said the truth that redpill men will agree with.

Edit: It's objective. Remember these are ladies that are not worth the ring. It's different from not worth being fvcked. We redpill men can hot fvck a sexy single mother or a hot tattooed hoe but we won't wife them.

ubunja:
who said anything about quoting anyone??

Know when to surrender to knowledge and truth and just say "okay". You won't die.

what is the truth and knowledge,so I can say an Okay to it
The points he listed here

Martinez39:
Ubunja knows that, objectively, there are women not worth the ring. These women are, in my opinion :
1) Land whales (overly obese women),
2) Used up products (women who have been ran through on many occasions by Chad and Tyrone during their 20s and are now looking for "good men" in the 30s, prostitutes).
3) Single mothers whose baby daddies are still alive (dating and marrying such is like playing someone else's saved game when you can start afresh. I won't go into other headaches of dating and marrying such women).
4) Feminists (they are stubborn, men hating, demonic leeches, profound hypocrites, lazy, and egoistic. They are career oriented instead of being family oriented since feminism taught them that the career women is more glorious and worthy than the house wife. They will not clean, tidy, or wash because they are "not a man's slave" and they are equal. Either he gets a maid or they share the chores but somehow they will not share the bills as the think it's the man's duty even though they are equal. ).
5) Smokers, prostitutes, drinkers, drug addicts, tattoo bearers etc. (A man must acquire premium products not substandard ones and used up ones. A prostitute has been used up. Smokers, drinkers, drug addicts, etc. are damaging their bodies and are not worth the investment.)

Or your point that says marry a virgin only and don't marry a single mother(no exceptions made)




Which should I say okay too?I wanna learn

Michellekabod2:
what is the truth and knowledge,so I can say an Okay to it
The points he listed here


Or your point that says marry a virgin only and don't marry a single mother(no exceptions made)




Which should I say okay too?I wanna learn

if you wanna learn you would learn. You just wanna argue. There was really nothing to respond to in Martinez39's post. You should have said Okay. Really. Cause its truth. Those kinds of women he listed, no self Respecting man would waste time with.

hazard7:
Marriage is a wonderful institution. You will agree with me that there is nothing as sweet as having the right partner that gives you peace of mind. But sadly, our society has become "A Bonobo Masturbation Society" where marriages priority has been misplaced and turned into something else entirely. Not to worry at the end of this piece you will learn how to pick the right mate.
PREVIEW
You have two options: You will get married or you won't get married. If you will get married then this enlightenment is for you. I will not review whether or not you should get married but I will review how to pick the right wife.
Picking the right wife is of utmost importance. Marriage is a life-long commitment and requires a great deal of forethought. Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.
Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You've got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of an enlighten businessman for it to work. You've got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn't be left to chance (“love”) –you've got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.
Marriage isn't about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you
will provide B. If your wife doesn't, or won't, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.
Marriage is a contract and you've got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is reinforced. You cannot make the
best decision when you're emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school boy. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will marry just because he loves a girl. It takes rational,clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.
WHEN TO GET MARRIED:
The best time for a man to get married is after 30 years of age. At that age he has had a long time to live life, earn a reasonable amount of money and think of what he wants in a wife. Most men under 30 years of age aren't mature enough to make the best decision about who to spend their life with(but if you are one of the rare men under 30 that is matured enough to know what he wants then do what you feel like otherwise continue reading).
Now remember, 30 years old is the starting age to think of marriage. That doesn't mean you should get married at 30 or by 30. Anytime between 30-45 is a good time to tie the knot. Between the ages of 30-45 is when a man's marriage value is at its highest.
With all that done and dusted, let's talk about my favourite part of the enlightenment.
TOP 12 RULES ON PICKING THE RIGHT WIFE
1) SHE MUST BE YOUNG
The woman should be 25 years of age MAXIMUM. 22 is even better and 19 is the best age. A woman's body does not age well. You want the most amount of years with your wife having a tight, young, firm body. After 30 it goes downhill fast. At around the age of 31 a woman's beauty really declines fast.
It's a tradeoff, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years. Women do not age well. Single women over the age of 30 have wasted all their pretty years having a lot of random sex and now they want to find a beta male who will take care of them without having to give him any of her good years. Don't be that sucker.
A young body is especially important for bearing children. Old women cannot have and don't have healthy children. At
30 years of age a woman is already 15 years past her child-bearing prime.
(But, hazard I like talking to smart women. 20 year olds are stupid) sorry dude but her IQ won't grow much with age. A dumb 20 year old is a dumb 30 year old. The difference is that the 30 year old dumb woman is a lot more bitter and has a whole lot less to offer.
2) SHE HAS TO COME FROM AN INTACT FAMILY WITH ORIGINAL FATHER AND MOTHER
No step-mommies and step-daddies. Children from single mommy homes are 70%/100 not healthy. A mother simply cannot raise healthy children alone or with step-daddies. You want an emotionally healthy wife. Women who grew up with no original father or mother have too much emotional baggage and will not know how to act in a proper family setting.
3) SHE MUST NOT BELIEVE IN DIVORCE
If she mentions the word ‘divorce', praises a friend who got a divorce, or says divorce is an option then she is not a good mate. Throw her back in the water and go fishing some more. To make a marriage work, both the man and wife must think of divorce as no option at all.
4) SHE MUST BE IMAGE CONCIOUS
Every woman will gain a few pounds when they settle with a man. It's unavoidable. What is unacceptable is a woman
blowing up to whale proportions.
A woman who gets pig-fat after marriage is a disgrace to herself and her family. She must be aware of her image and keep her body trim for you. Women will always gain a few pounds after marriage, but there is a difference between a few pounds and one hundred pounds. Take a look at all the women in her family, if they are all pig-fat it's a good idea to walk away as fast as you can. You will have to see your wife
daily, you don't want to be seeing her as a cow for the rest of your life.
5)SHE MUST BE FAMILY ORIENTED NOT CAREER ORIENTED
This is going to be the mother of your children and the keeper of your house. An Enlighten man doesn't need two
incomes, he can provide, what he needs is a keeper of home and heart.
Two income households leave the raising of their children to expensive day cares and schools, and then mommy goes to work so they can afford to pay for day care and babysitters. (But hazard I don't want children -then don't get married. The only reason to get married is to have a family).
(But hazard I want a career woman) it doesn't matter, even if she is a career woman when you met she will not be when she is older. No woman wants to work but it takes some of them a long time to figure that out. They waste all their youth playing/working their career and then realize what a huge mistake they made and leave their jobs to take care of their (quite possibly retarded – that's what happens when old ladies have babies) child. How many 45 year old married female lawyers or other professionals do you know?
The women who work in this "affluenza" age do so because they have no choice and they whine about it every day of their life. They would give anything to leave their jobs and take care of their family instead.
No woman truly wants to work. Work is a man's world and always will be. A woman's work should be in the home taking care of the home and children.
6)SHE MUST BE A "GOOD"GIRL
She cannot be a drinker or a smoker or have any tattoos. She cannot have a party girl past, a olosho past, and she
cannot have gone out more than a couple times drinking.
You cannot turn a LovePeddler into a housewife. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely the marriage will end in divorce.
(But hazard are you saying all party girls, smokers and drinkers are Whores?Yes).
The fewer sexual partners your wife has had, the better. The ideal wife should be a virgin. Remember: The more sexual partners she has had the more likely you are to be divorced. If you think she needs help or that you are helping her and she is changing then you are being foolish and you are being played. It's going to end badly for you when you get married to a woman like this. Remember party girls are for fun,good girls for marriage.
Always pick a good girl. That means a virgin (or close), family oriented, pleasant, eager to help, a smiler, and patient.
7)SHE MUST RESPECT YOU
Women marry up and men marry down, since the dawn of marriage. If she looks down on you she will leave with your
money and your children for another man. You have got to be a man that she can look up to, admire, love and respect always.
SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE CHILDREN FROM ANOTHER MAN AKA SINGLE MOMS
In the animal kingdom when a Lion takes over a pride he kills the cubs of other Lions. Raising someone else's child is cuckoldry with your full knowledge and consent.
If you raise someone else's child you will be taking care of another man's seedling and there will always be another man in the picture. Be selfish and keep your wife and children to yourself. They should be yours and only yours. Don't settle for another man's leavings and sloppy seconds.
Here is what women with children do: They have unprotected sex with a alpha,get pregnant, and look for a Beta male to raise the bastard.
or..
She has already been married, had children, and then divorced the father and left. In each case the woman is unfit for marriage.
9)SHE SHOULD CHANGE HERSELF FOR YOU
When a woman is in love she will change herself to please and conform to you. Your favourite food will become her new favourite food and she will do things to please you she has never done or liked before.
A woman who doesn't change for you is a woman who does not respect you. Women are not men and should not be held to the standards of men. A man who changes his views on the whims of a woman is a sissy. A woman who changes her views on the whims of a man is a woman who is in love. She should not be degraded for that because that's what women do.
10)SHE SHOULD NOT BE MATERIALISTIC
Nigerian women this days have been indoctrinated since birth to believe in and embrace leeching. They have been
indoctrinated and instructed to believe that they are entitled to a man's money. This causes a great deal of confusion in their minds and, to put it plainly, many of them
are unfit for marriage and raising a family. Especially avoid women who all the thing they know about is money,money and money. If a woman cannot spend money wisely,then she don't deserve it. You should avoid women who have a lazy, entitled, “me-first” attitude.
11)SHE SHOULD BE A SMILER
She should smile when she sees you. Her eyes should light up. She should be excited each time she sees you and reward you with her beautiful smile.
A big, bright shining smile from a pretty girl is worth more than any university degree she has, worth more than any
job she has etc. You want a happy woman. You don't want a frowning, nagging, pessimistic bride. Always pick a smiling, warm, happy-go-lucky woman to share your life with.
12)SHE MUST GIVE YOU PEACE OF MIND
This is my favourite and most important law. "Even if you don't follow the rest of the law,you must follow this one".
I don't care how beautiful and elegant the woman is,if she can not give you peace of mind then I advise you to ditch her. She is not worth it.
A woman who gives her man peace of mind is like a radiant diamond that is outstanding among ten thousand others.
Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting but a woman who give her man peace of mind is worth more than gold.
CONCLUSION
If you have read this enlightenment thus far,you have demonstrated you are a person of high value and you want to improve your marital affairs. All I have to say is Congrats, cause this are the best rules you will ever see or get and they are well proven and tested. Getting married is a dangerous proposition – make sure you know how to swim before you dive in head-first.
If you are going to get married, do it the smart way.
If you aren't going to get married go ahead and have a beer.
Good luck and a happy new year.

This is an exact representation of what it takes to marry in this soiled, decadent world. Not many people would value this, but this is the bitter and abject truth. Not one of the points the op raised here can i fault even by a hair's breath. Not a single one. All terribly valid points.

It may look like girls who fit this bill are far and flung apart, but they exist, and a man, especially one that trusts God for a wife and has not had much philandering, has every right to a happy home, founded by a god wife. This is so key.

A million likes for this, op

People don't know that they are rules to follow when marrying a wife. You have to be clinical and objective. Whilst she has to be attractive to you, you must ensure you are logical in matching her with your required preferences.

Like the article said, a woman who gives you peace is wife material. Please never marry any woman who doesn't give you peace of mind, irrespective of if she ticks the other boxes. You will only end up miserable.

Martinez39:
Just seeing this. Here you go.

I kind of posted this 12 rule on a WhatsApp group. You needed to see bashing from the women. One had to ask me why I only posted for women and that I should post for men ni... Imagine as if I do men.

They brought in the usual you have sister and a mother.

Lol

Idk after prostituting their youthful age, they want to retire on men and a few men don't want that, now they are saying we are hurt and we should let go.

Omar09:
kind of posted this 12 rule on a WhatsApp group. You needed to see bashing from the women.

It's expected. They are allergic to truths like this.

One had to ask me why I only posted for women and that I should post for men ni... Imagine as if I do men.

Feminists and there equality- and sexism-seeking mind.

They brought in the usual you have sister and a mother.

Lol

Usual shaming tactics. That's their resort when they have nothing reasonable to say.

Idk after prostituting their youthful age, they want to retire on men and a few men don't want that, now they are saying we are hurt and we should let go.

Don't mind them. Men are beginning to wise up. Women are always ruthlessly using men, why can't men, at least, get a very good deal out of who they want to marry? Women want the best financial option yet they are angry when men want the best option in terms of looks and pussy. They are not to be taken seriously.

Martinez39:
After reading this thread, I got offended that he didn't mention me. How could he drop such truth bomb without inviting the crew? With this truth bomb, I could win any world war.

Hazard 7, kudos. If you can't have her in a best years, then you shouldn't have her at all. Only betas are the dumping grounds of evening newspapers. I am glad that people are beginning to put romantic love back into the trash where it belongs and restore marriage to the transactional status it has always had. This time around, instead of men being drunk on love and making selfless sacrifices to hypocritical career evening newspapers without getting anything in return, men will start getting as much out from their women as they are putting in. Kudos!

As for the bitter female up there disagreeing with you, let her eat her own faeces. #redpill4life

This is the best thread I've read this far this year.
Nothing but undiluted truth.

Martinez39:
Don't mind them. Men are beginning to wise up. Women are always ruthlessly using men, why can't men, at least, get a very good deal out of who they want to marry? Women want the best financial option yet they are angry when men want the best option in terms of looks and pussy. They are not to be taken seriously.

The day men make this their guide, that day will be glorious. But I'm afraid we won't get to witness that day.

Omar09:
I kind of posted this 12 rule on a WhatsApp group. You needed to see bashing from the women. One had to ask me why I only posted for women and that I should post for men ni... Imagine as if I do men.

They brought in the usual you have sister and a mother.

Lol

Idk after prostituting their youthful age, they want to retire on men and a few men don't want that, now they are saying we are hurt and we should let go.

Women do not like to be told the truth but they always claim they like honest men. That's is cognitive dissonance.

Martinez39:
Ubunja knows that, objectively, there are women not worth the ring. These women are, in my opinion :
1) Land whales (overly obese women),
2) Used up products (women who have been ran through on many occasions by Chad and Tyrone during their 20s and are now looking for "good men" in the 30s, prostitutes).
3) Single mothers whose baby daddies are still alive (dating and marrying such is like playing someone else's saved game when you can start afresh. I won't go into other headaches of dating and marrying such women).
4) Feminists (they are stubborn, men hating, demonic leeches, profound hypocrites, lazy, and egoistic. They are career oriented instead of being family oriented since feminism taught them that the career women is more glorious and worthy than the house wife. They will not clean, tidy, or wash because they are "not a man's slave" and they are equal. Either he gets a maid or they share the chores but somehow they will not share the bills as the think it's the man's duty even though they are equal. ).
5) Smokers, prostitutes, drinkers, drug addicts, tattoo bearers etc. (A man must acquire premium products not substandard ones and used up ones. A prostitute has been used up. Smokers, drinkers, drug addicts, etc. are damaging their bodies and are not worth the investment.)

6. Women with unnaturally coloured hair (either real or fake) and weird hairstyles like that Skrillex cut a few years ago
7.Women with unusual body piercings e.g tongue,navel,nipples etc
8.Women over 30.They are generally jaded and bitter.If they were that wonderful,they wouldn't be single at that age

hazard7:
Women do not like to be told the truth but they always claim they like honest men. That's is cognitive dissonance.

If you see the way they were reasoning it, men you'd baffle. I later told them it's just a rule, you can either live by it or break it, your choice. Still they said I'm bitter and started giving me advice and some shit... Lol

hazard7:
Marriage is a wonderful institution. You will agree with me that there is nothing as sweet as having the right partner that gives you peace of mind. But sadly, our society has become "A Bonobo Masturbation Society" where marriages priority has been misplaced and turned into something else entirely. Not to worry at the end of this piece you will learn how to pick the right mate.
PREVIEW
You have two options: You will get married or you won't get married. If you will get married then this enlightenment is for you. I will not review whether or not you should get married but I will review how to pick the right wife.
Picking the right wife is of utmost importance. Marriage is a life-long commitment and requires a great deal of forethought. Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.
Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You've got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of an enlighten businessman for it to work. You've got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn't be left to chance (“love”) –you've got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.
Marriage isn't about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you
will provide B. If your wife doesn't, or won't, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.
Marriage is a contract and you've got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is reinforced. You cannot make the
best decision when you're emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school boy. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will marry just because he loves a girl. It takes rational,clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.
WHEN TO GET MARRIED:
The best time for a man to get married is after 30 years of age. At that age he has had a long time to live life, earn a reasonable amount of money and think of what he wants in a wife. Most men under 30 years of age aren't mature enough to make the best decision about who to spend their life with(but if you are one of the rare men under 30 that is matured enough to know what he wants then do what you feel like otherwise continue reading).
Now remember, 30 years old is the starting age to think of marriage. That doesn't mean you should get married at 30 or by 30. Anytime between 30-45 is a good time to tie the knot. Between the ages of 30-45 is when a man's marriage value is at its highest.
With all that done and dusted, let's talk about my favourite part of the enlightenment.
TOP 12 RULES ON PICKING THE RIGHT WIFE
1) SHE MUST BE YOUNG
The woman should be 25 years of age MAXIMUM. 22 is even better and 19 is the best age. A woman's body does not age well. You want the most amount of years with your wife having a tight, young, firm body. After 30 it goes downhill fast. At around the age of 31 a woman's beauty really declines fast.
It's a tradeoff, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years. Women do not age well. Single women over the age of 30 have wasted all their pretty years having a lot of random sex and now they want to find a beta male who will take care of them without having to give him any of her good years. Don't be that sucker.
A young body is especially important for bearing children. Old women cannot have and don't have healthy children. At
30 years of age a woman is already 15 years past her child-bearing prime.
(But, hazard I like talking to smart women. 20 year olds are stupid) sorry dude but her IQ won't grow much with age. A dumb 20 year old is a dumb 30 year old. The difference is that the 30 year old dumb woman is a lot more bitter and has a whole lot less to offer.
2) SHE HAS TO COME FROM AN INTACT FAMILY WITH ORIGINAL FATHER AND MOTHER
No step-mommies and step-daddies. Children from single mommy homes are 70%/100 not healthy. A mother simply cannot raise healthy children alone or with step-daddies. You want an emotionally healthy wife. Women who grew up with no original father or mother have too much emotional baggage and will not know how to act in a proper family setting.
3) SHE MUST NOT BELIEVE IN DIVORCE
If she mentions the word ‘divorce', praises a friend who got a divorce, or says divorce is an option then she is not a good mate. Throw her back in the water and go fishing some more. To make a marriage work, both the man and wife must think of divorce as no option at all.
4) SHE MUST BE IMAGE CONCIOUS
Every woman will gain a few pounds when they settle with a man. It's unavoidable. What is unacceptable is a woman
blowing up to whale proportions.
A woman who gets pig-fat after marriage is a disgrace to herself and her family. She must be aware of her image and keep her body trim for you. Women will always gain a few pounds after marriage, but there is a difference between a few pounds and one hundred pounds. Take a look at all the women in her family, if they are all pig-fat it's a good idea to walk away as fast as you can. You will have to see your wife
daily, you don't want to be seeing her as a cow for the rest of your life.
5)SHE MUST BE FAMILY ORIENTED NOT CAREER ORIENTED
This is going to be the mother of your children and the keeper of your house. An Enlighten man doesn't need two
incomes, he can provide, what he needs is a keeper of home and heart.
Two income households leave the raising of their children to expensive day cares and schools, and then mommy goes to work so they can afford to pay for day care and babysitters. (But hazard I don't want children -then don't get married. The only reason to get married is to have a family).
(But hazard I want a career woman) it doesn't matter, even if she is a career woman when you met she will not be when she is older. No woman wants to work but it takes some of them a long time to figure that out. They waste all their youth playing/working their career and then realize what a huge mistake they made and leave their jobs to take care of their (quite possibly retarded – that's what happens when old ladies have babies) child. How many 45 year old married female lawyers or other professionals do you know?
The women who work in this "affluenza" age do so because they have no choice and they whine about it every day of their life. They would give anything to leave their jobs and take care of their family instead.
No woman truly wants to work. Work is a man's world and always will be. A woman's work should be in the home taking care of the home and children.
6)SHE MUST BE A "GOOD"GIRL
She cannot be a drinker or a smoker or have any tattoos. She cannot have a party girl past, a olosho past, and she
cannot have gone out more than a couple times drinking.
You cannot turn a LovePeddler into a housewife. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely the marriage will end in divorce.
(But hazard are you saying all party girls, smokers and drinkers are Whores?Yes).
The fewer sexual partners your wife has had, the better. The ideal wife should be a virgin. Remember: The more sexual partners she has had the more likely you are to be divorced. If you think she needs help or that you are helping her and she is changing then you are being foolish and you are being played. It's going to end badly for you when you get married to a woman like this. Remember party girls are for fun,good girls for marriage.
Always pick a good girl. That means a virgin (or close), family oriented, pleasant, eager to help, a smiler, and patient.
7)SHE MUST RESPECT YOU
Women marry up and men marry down, since the dawn of marriage. If she looks down on you she will leave with your
money and your children for another man. You have got to be a man that she can look up to, admire, love and respect always.
SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE CHILDREN FROM ANOTHER MAN AKA SINGLE MOMS
In the animal kingdom when a Lion takes over a pride he kills the cubs of other Lions. Raising someone else's child is cuckoldry with your full knowledge and consent.
If you raise someone else's child you will be taking care of another man's seedling and there will always be another man in the picture. Be selfish and keep your wife and children to yourself. They should be yours and only yours. Don't settle for another man's leavings and sloppy seconds.
Here is what women with children do: They have unprotected sex with a alpha,get pregnant, and look for a Beta male to raise the bastard.
or..
She has already been married, had children, and then divorced the father and left. In each case the woman is unfit for marriage.
9)SHE SHOULD CHANGE HERSELF FOR YOU
When a woman is in love she will change herself to please and conform to you. Your favourite food will become her new favourite food and she will do things to please you she has never done or liked before.
A woman who doesn't change for you is a woman who does not respect you. Women are not men and should not be held to the standards of men. A man who changes his views on the whims of a woman is a sissy. A woman who changes her views on the whims of a man is a woman who is in love. She should not be degraded for that because that's what women do.
10)SHE SHOULD NOT BE MATERIALISTIC
Nigerian women this days have been indoctrinated since birth to believe in and embrace leeching. They have been
indoctrinated and instructed to believe that they are entitled to a man's money. This causes a great deal of confusion in their minds and, to put it plainly, many of them
are unfit for marriage and raising a family. Especially avoid women who all the thing they know about is money,money and money. If a woman cannot spend money wisely,then she don't deserve it. You should avoid women who have a lazy, entitled, “me-first” attitude.
11)SHE SHOULD BE A SMILER
She should smile when she sees you. Her eyes should light up. She should be excited each time she sees you and reward you with her beautiful smile.
A big, bright shining smile from a pretty girl is worth more than any university degree she has, worth more than any
job she has etc. You want a happy woman. You don't want a frowning, nagging, pessimistic bride. Always pick a smiling, warm, happy-go-lucky woman to share your life with.
12)SHE MUST GIVE YOU PEACE OF MIND
This is my favourite and most important law. "Even if you don't follow the rest of the law,you must follow this one".
I don't care how beautiful and elegant the woman is,if she can not give you peace of mind then I advise you to ditch her. She is not worth it.
A woman who gives her man peace of mind is like a radiant diamond that is outstanding among ten thousand others.
Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting but a woman who give her man peace of mind is worth more than gold.
CONCLUSION
If you have read this enlightenment thus far,you have demonstrated you are a person of high value and you want to improve your marital affairs. All I have to say is Congrats, cause this are the best rules you will ever see or get and they are well proven and tested. Getting married is a dangerous proposition – make sure you know how to swim before you dive in head-first.
If you are going to get married, do it the smart way.
If you aren't going to get married go ahead and have a beer.
Good luck and a happy new year.

Baba how many of your Sisters fit into these descriptions People fail to realise that every strategy in life is a possible trap. Any woman can fake all those things you wrote up there till she gets a ring.

I am an egalitarian but I personally agree with ur list , women can be whatever they want but my wife but fulfill at least 80% of what u listed but the issue is how can u find such person?

Abasiokon:
Baba how many of your Sisters fit into these descriptions People fail to realise that every strategy in life is a possible trap. Any woman can fake all those things you wrote up there till she gets a ring.

it seems you are experience

Jewessgratitude:
When i started reading this piece, i thought the op knew what he was doing until I saw No.s 1, 4, 9 and 10. That was when I knew he lacked sense.

@No. 1
How can you say a lady of 30 is in her bad years and all the silly things you talked about her up there?
Does the woman body fade with age? Then you dont know anything. Those are just mere speculations.
Have you not seen a 14, 16, and 20 yr olds with loose and faded body? They are everywhere. So your judgements are just myopic.
For your info, a 30 and 40 year old lady can still give birth to the healthiest baby.
My elder sis had her last child in her 40s and the boy is smarter than you and is very strong and intelligent.

As for the "pig fat" aspect you talked about, ive seen men whose choice is a that pig fat. They can't date a slim or moderate size lady unless shes fat. So another senseless rule of yours.

A woman should change her likes for what the man likes to show respect?
Is she into slavery or marriage.
So if she doesnt like beans because it purges her, she should continue eating it cos her hubby likes it until she stools to death?
Couples will always find a way to sort out to their preferences.
Op have a rethink and delete this post.

Everything you wrote here is your dumb opinion.

u actually have a point tho

hazard7:
Thanks for your opinion but I don't think you are in the right state of mind. Go and sort yourself out

Coconut head. He even lifted everything verbatim without editing. Mr plagiarism

Alfather:
it seems you are experience

I've seen terrible things Man

On point!!!!!!
Thegeneralqueen I know you are trying your possible best to beg me to marry you, do you possess all these qualities?? Ohh, sorry It skipped my mind that you're an unrepentant feminist.

Abasiokon:
I've seen terrible things Man

there is this woman my uncle got marraid to. Before the marraige we were ask our self if the woman is from heaven, she was just too wonderful. After the marraige she put off her sheep clothing and cause a querel in the family. When we interogate her, she said. (them don already marry me noting una fit do). My uncle borrowed money for the marraige. We went back to our home and vow not to community wit her or her husband. This just give me sence to choose a wife, pretentious ladies every where

Many of these redpillers here are plagiarists, seeking cheap popularity. This particular case is one too many to disclaim by the Op.

I will be back later to drop my critical view on the issues raised in the post.

Greystone:
hazard7

Give credit to the original source or else this is simply plagiarism.
I knew I had read this article somewhere before.

"How to Pick the Right Wife" by Victor Pride

Some screenshots of the original article.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://boldanddetermined.com/pick-the-right-wife/&ved=2ahUKEwjJ8N_RzuzmAhXCi1wKHQTqDdcQFjAKegQIARAB&usg=AOvVaw1o95cktOvaW_B2rTW-ZvwP&cshid=1578232680033

Alfather:
there is this woman my uncle got marraid to. Before the marraige we were ask our self if the woman is from heaven, she was just too wonderful. After the marraige she put off her sheep clothing and cause a querel in the family. When we interogate her, she said. (them don already marry me noting una fit do). My uncle borrowed money for the marraige. We went back to our home and vow not to community wit her or her husband. This just give me sence to choose a wife, pretentious ladies every where

The chameleon act is inherent in every woman. I hope your uncle has sent her packing? The mistake many men in Nigeria make is thinking that marriage is such an eternal, sacred, and secured bond that must maintain by all means to the very end even if it means putting up with a very terrible wife. This has given women the false sense of invincibility in marriage — they think they can misbehave once they get married and nothing will happen.

Marriage is no such security and a new wife who is misbehaving can be kicked out. What has been spent on the wedding is not a good excuse to put up with nonsense. If a new wife is misbehaving, send her out. Stop making these h0es feel like marriage makes them invisible and they can misbehave and be toxic without being kicked out.

Martinez39:
The chameleon act is inherent in every woman. I hope your uncle has sent her packing? The mistake many men in Nigeria make is thinking that marriage is such an eternal, sacred, and secured bond that must maintain by all means to the very end even if it means putting up with a very terrible wife. This has given women the false sense of invincibility in marriage — they think they can misbehave once they get married and nothing will happen.

Marriage is no such security and a new wife who is misbehaving can be kicked out. What has been spent on the wedding is not a good excuse to put up with nonsense. If a new wife is misbehaving, send her out. Stop making these h0es feel like marriage makes them invisible and they can misbehave and be toxic without being kicked out.

i have my own life to live noting concern me. The best thing i will do is to learn from their mistakes and have clearer understanding in dealing with women

Alfather:
there is this woman my uncle got marraid to. Before the marraige we were ask our self if the woman is from heaven, she was just too wonderful. After the marraige she put off her sheep clothing and cause a querel in the family. When we interogate her, she said. (them don already marry me noting una fit do). My uncle borrowed money for the marraige. We went back to our home and vow not to community wit her or her husband. This just give me sence to choose a wife, pretentious ladies every where

Marriage is just a legal contract between a man and woman, the day you start investing emotions is the day you started losing. Just take marriage as a contract so that the day any woman refuses to uphold her part of the deal you simply dump her and continue with your life.
Don't let anybody lie to you about romantic feelings..there are just make believes, those feelings only exist in your head

Nice write. Although I don't agree with some of the points listed, I have picked the ones that made some sense and are true..

Another silly post from wannabe primal males

I have save this post and copy it to my diary… I will need it in few years from now when I planned getting married.


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Alfather:
i have my own life to live noting concern me. The best thing i will do is to learn from their mistakes and have clearer understanding in dealing with women

Na so. Here is an excerpt from your post

...After the marraige she put off her sheep clothing and cause a querel in the family. When we interogate her, she said. (them don already marry me noting una fit do). My uncle borrowed money for the marraige.

Anyway, I wasn't asking you to get involved in your uncle's marriage. I only dropped some redpill and hoped he had sent her away.

Martinez39:
Na so. Here is an excerpt from your post

Anyway, I wasn't asking you to get involved in your uncle's marriage. I only dropped some redpill and hoped he had sent her away.

my uncle is on her side, this lady that have bad characters knows how to please their husband very well because she knew how she suffered before she got marraid, but To her husband relative she boost very well and have no regard for them. We nor go fit take panadol for another man headache, since my uncle love her and refuse to put her away, we let them be.

Alfather:
my uncle is on her side, this lady that have bad characters knows how to please their husband very well because she knew how she suffered before she got marraid, but To her husband relative she boost very well and have no regard for them. We nor go fit take panadol for another man headache, since my uncle love her and refuse to put her away, we let them be.

If she is pleasing her husband then no problem. Good day.