Abasiokon:
Marriage is just a legal contract between a man and woman, the day you start investng emotion is the day you started losing. Just take marriage as a contract so that the day any woman refuse to uphold her part of the deal you simply dump her and contnue with your life.
Don't let anybody lie to you about romantic feelngs..there are just make believe, those feelings only exist in your head

dumbing a woman you got marraid to with your hard earn money is not that easy as you think, that is for those of us who are religious. a worldly man can change women like wrapper, because he pays noting for the woman. But men like my self who are religious cant have a women in our house confortably giving birth without pride price. And puting away our marriad wife, we consider the cost for marrying another dat if u can find a good one easily. Dats while we endure wit our wifes no matter how bad she is hopig one day she will change. I also must be very careful about whom to marry

Martinez39:
If she is pleasing her husband then no problem. Good day.

when a woman i marraid she is fulfilled already.

Single women over the age of 30 have wasted all their pretty years having a lot of random sex and now they want to find a beta male who will take care of them without having to give him any of her good years. Don't be that sucker.

The above statement is a generalization which does not apply to all SINGLE WOMEN. Some single ladies remain virgin till their 30's . I AM A LIVING WITNESS.

2) SHE HAS TO COME FROM AN INTACT FAMILY WITH ORIGINAL FATHER AND MOTHER
No step-mommies and step-daddies. Children from single mommy homes are 70%/100 not healthy. A mother simply cannot raise healthy children alone or with step-daddies. You want an emotionally healthy wife. Women who grew up with no original father or mother have too much emotional baggage and will not know how to act in a proper family setting.

That is another poor generalization. Many a children are raised by single parents and live healthy moral and social lives. Even some of those you score 70%/100 as not healthy still have have happy marriage.

3) SHE MUST NOT BELIEVE IN DIVORCE
If she mentions the word ‘divorce', praises a friend who got a divorce, or says divorce is an option then she is not a good mate. Throw her back in the water and go fishing some more. To make a marriage work, both the man and wife must think of divorce as no option at all.

Divorce is never the fear of a good Alpha Husband. Even when the woman threatens divorce here and there, the Alpha Husband doesnt give a damn because he knows what to do to make her moan in bed the next moment and forget she ever thinks of divorce.

5)SHE MUST BE FAMILY ORIENTED NOT CAREER ORIENTED
This is going to be the mother of your children and the keeper of your house. An Enlighten man doesn't need two
incomes, he can provide, what he needs is a keeper of home and heart.
Two income households leave the raising of their children to expensive day cares and schools, and then mommy goes to work so they can afford to pay for day care and babysitters. (But hazard I don't want children -then don't get married. The only reason to get married is to have a family).
(But hazard I want a career woman) it doesn't matter, even if she is a career woman when you met she will not be when she is older. No woman wants to work but it takes some of them a long time to figure that out. They waste all their youth playing/working their career and then realize what a huge mistake they made and leave their jobs to take care of their (quite possibly retarded – that's what happens when old ladies have babies) child. How many 45 year old married female lawyers or other professionals do you know?
The women who work in this "affluenza" age do so because they have no choice and they whine about it every day of their life. They would give anything to leave their jobs and take care of their family instead.
No woman truly wants to work. Work is a man's world and always will be. A woman's work should be in the home taking care of the home and children.

This is another wrong notion. Though not all women can balance family and career, some have succeeded very well both at family and career fronts.

6)SHE MUST BE A "GOOD"GIRL
She cannot be a drinker or a smoker or have any tattoos. She cannot have a party girl past, a olosho past, and she
cannot have gone out more than a couple times drinking.
You cannot turn a LovePeddler into a housewife. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely the marriage will end in divorce.
(But hazard are you saying all party girls, smokers and drinkers are Whores?Yes).
The fewer sexual partners your wife has had, the better. The ideal wife should be a virgin. Remember: The more sexual partners she has had the more likely you are to be divorced. If you think she needs help or that you are helping her and she is changing then you are being foolish and you are being played. It's going to end badly for you when you get married to a woman like this. Remember party girls are for fun,good girls for marriage.
Always pick a good girl. That means a virgin (or close), family oriented, pleasant, eager to help, a smiler, and patient.

You cannot condemn all girls who had had a dirty past. Many a girls survive their wayward live and end up having blissful married life. The best thing is for such ladies to marry within their social circles and their husbands are sexually satisfied more than husbands who marry a virgin. The ideal wife is not neccessarily a virgin. Some ladies married as virgin cannot satisfy their husband in bed. This is worst when such a lady remains virgin till her 30s before getting married. At this stage, she has developed vagina hypoplasia as result of not putting her vagina into use for a many years. This can constitute sex problem in the marriage. And a marriage with no sexual satisfaction would soon head for the rocks. I prefer to marry a repentant Olosho girl to a virgin in her late 20s and mid 30s.

SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE CHILDREN FROM ANOTHER MAN AKA SINGLE MOMS
In the animal kingdom when a Lion takes over a pride he kills the cubs of other Lions. Raising someone else's child is cuckoldry with your full knowledge and consent.
If you raise someone else's child you will be taking care of another man's seedling and there will always be another man in the picture. Be selfish and keep your wife and children to yourself. They should be yours and only yours. Don't settle for another man's leavings and sloppy seconds.
Here is what women with children do: They have unprotected sex with a alpha,get pregnant, and look for a Beta male to raise the bastard.
or..
She has already been married, had children, and then divorced the father and left. In each case the woman is unfit for marriage.

Not all SINGLE MOMS are unfit for marriage. Calling single moms unfit for marriage is tantamount to attacking the image and reputation of single mums. Rather, it is the issue that makes them become single mums that should be properly addressed. Some single mums have learnt a great deal from their past errors and would make a good wife. Regarding the children of single mums, raising another man's children is not a war crime. Those children are humans too and deserve to survive. You will be making the world a better place by taking those chilfren in and raise them in case their father is not waking up to his fatherly responsibilities. If she is a SINGLE MOM and she has my physical and behavioural specs, I will marry her.

9)SHE SHOULD CHANGE HERSELF FOR YOU
When a woman is in love she will change herself to please and conform to you. Your favourite food will become her new favourite food and she will do things to please you she has never done or liked before.
A woman who doesn't change for you is a woman who does not respect you. Women are not men and should not be held to the standards of men. A man who changes his views on the whims of a woman is a sissy. A woman who changes her views on the whims of a man is a woman who is in love. She should not be degraded for that because that's what women do.

It is not imperative that a woman change herself for you. This statement is too selfish. What Alpha husbands do is that they convert her interests to fun and roll together with it.

10)SHE SHOULD NOT BE MATERIALISTIC
Nigerian women this days have been indoctrinated since birth to believe in and embrace leeching. They have been
indoctrinated and instructed to believe that they are entitled to a man's money. This causes a great deal of confusion in their minds and, to put it plainly, many of them
are unfit for marriage and raising a family. Especially avoid women who all the thing they know about is money,money and money. If a woman cannot spend money wisely,then she don't deserve it. You should avoid women who have a lazy, entitled, “me-first” attitude.

Not all women are materialistic. For your information, some men are more materialistic

11)SHE SHOULD BE A SMILER
She should smile when she sees you. Her eyes should light up. She should be excited each time she sees you and reward you with her beautiful smile.
A big, bright shining smile from a pretty girl is worth more than any university degree she has, worth more than any
job she has etc. You want a happy woman. You don't want a frowning, nagging, pessimistic bride. Always pick a smiling, warm, happy-go-lucky woman to share your life with.

Alpha Husbands do not wait for her to smile, rather, the make her smile. Alpha husbands are the smiles of their wives.

hazard7:
Marriage is a wonderful institution. You will agree with me that there is nothing as sweet as having the right partner that gives you peace of mind. But sadly, our society has become "A Bonobo Masturbation Society" where marriages priority has been misplaced and turned into something else entirely. Not to worry at the end of this piece you will learn how to pick the right mate.
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You have two options: You will get married or you won't get married. If you will get married then this enlightenment is for you. I will not review whether or not you should get married but I will review how to pick the right wife.
Picking the right wife is of utmost importance. Marriage is a life-long commitment and requires a great deal of forethought. Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.
Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You've got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of an enlighten businessman for it to work. You've got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn't be left to chance (“love”) –you've got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.
Marriage isn't about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you
will provide B. If your wife doesn't, or won't, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.
Marriage is a contract and you've got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is reinforced. You cannot make the
best decision when you're emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school boy. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will marry just because he loves a girl. It takes rational,clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.

Marriage isn't about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you
will provide B. If your wife doesn't, or won't, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.

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