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Ifyjos:
I wish it was easier for me to do it but am very scared about the outcome

Years latter you'll wish you took the advice offered to you against the fear of outcome but then, it will be too late.

follow my advice and save yourself, for you have placed yourself at your sister's mercy. Now swallow your pride; go and beg to have your name erased..--proverbs 6:3

I was 14 when we started dating and very matured , he choose me because he knew I wasn’t childish like my other age mate. Anyways that’s a story from another day , right I’m thinking how to resolve this problem. I want my sister to be happy again

1Sharon:
That doesn't mean what he did was Ok.

He slept with a 15 yr old, he was 24. Why couldn't he approach a girl near his age?? Teen girls are more naive and easier to manipulate that's why.

The fact that you said he's 29 and doesn't have a career set up is troubling.

Thanks a lot

Abcruz:
Years latter you'll wish you took the advice offered to you against the fear of outcome but then, it will be too late.

follow my advice and save yourself, for you have placed yourself at your sister's mercy. Now swallow your pride; go and beg to have your name erased..--proverbs 6:3

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

good guy my ass...good guy will get a 15yr old pregnant..good guy will make someone that pays his daughter school fees to loose her job...good guy that is jobless..good guy ko bad guy ni....this one am seeing ifyjos,hope u not staying in Jos

Ifyjos:
I was 14 when we started dating and very matured , he choose me because he knew I wasn’t childish like my other age mate Anyways that’s a story from another day , right I’m thinking how to resolve this problem. I want my sister to be happy again

Lol ! ofcourse he will tell you that to make you feel special and off pant, that's the tactic.

You are naive and weren't matured.

Once you get older, you will look back and realise what I'm saying

Ifyjos:
She doesn't care about me because if she did want the best for me , she would would support me and my guy to be together and establish a business for us instead she wanted me to break up with him to become a single mom as if she would have marry me or even take care of my child the way her father does. That's something she cannot do because theres nobody that will take care of my child like her father. He has better plans but things are just difficult for him. He is a good man he can never ask me to kill any of my relatives because If that was the case then it would have kill my sister long time ago and I'm not stupid to do such things. Yes I know what we did was wrong but we only wanted revenge for her to feel the pain that she has been causing us but I just realised that it was the wrong path to take , which I'm regretting but that doesn't make us bad people please

Your sister should support you and your boyfriend to set up a business? Wait first....did you give her money, to keep for you? Or did she tell you to go and get pregnant for that guy? Are you okay at all?

Please get rid of this 'entitlement mentality', that you have. Your sister does NOT owe you money to set up a business.

In fact, anything she has done so far....has been done, out of compassion from her heart.

You ruined your own life at 15. So deal with the outcome.

Respect is earned, not given. Ask your guy to enrol and learn a skill like carpentry, mechanic work, tailoring etc. So that at least he would be able to cater for you and the child.

You too, go and learn hairdressing, or fashion designing or catering, so that you can be useful to yourself!

Ifyjos:
She was the breadwinner , she helped a distant cousin with money to start business, if she could help a cousin and why not me her blood sister? She doesn't pay my child school fees but she does help if my guy doesn't have the money and before we get the money we will receive insults just because we are poor and she was rich . I'm 20 and going to be 21 on march 28

And so what if she helped a cousin? Did that cousin get pregnant at 15? Or did that cousin continue to sleep with a smoker who drinks, and has no stable job?

By the way, isn't it her money? Can't she spend it as she likes? Were you the one who gave her the money?

Just listen to yourself. She has NO obligation to give you money, because you didn't keep anything in her hand.

Does your guy not have brothers and sisters or uncles and relatives that can spend money to open up a business for him? Why does it have to be your sister?

Ifyjos:
Thank you , it’s not easy for me

I understand. Don't be afraid you won't be disowned. They'll will be angry for a while but you'll certainly be forgiven.

Don't you see how worse your sister looks every single day?
Don't you see how depression has eaten deep into her flesh?
How long do you think she can live with this psychological trauma?
Do you think it is easy for her to bear?
Do you really want her to die and have her spirit hunting you?

The ball is your court choose to speak the truth now and be forever free tomorrow maybe too late.

Ifyjos:
Thanks a lot

Are you promising me that you'll let them know the truth?

You behave like a kid. You father is sick instead of you to join hands with your to restore his health you are busy killing yourself and destroying your family for a guy who has no future. Your stupidity has no grade.

Abcruz:
Are you promising me that you'll let them know the truth?

Leave her. Let her do it anonymously

Honestly I don’t know yet but I will try. She is asleep next to me and I wish I can wake her up and confess , but my heart is beating faster

Abcruz:
Are you promising me that you'll let them know the truth?

Please you are not God and you have no right to say that he has no future because God is able to change his life in a minute and makes him rich

samworthyever:
You behave like a kid. You father is sick instead of you to join hands with your to restore his health you are busy killing yourself and destroying your family for a guy who has no future. Your stupidity has no grade.

Meliian:
Her sister got her locked up in a cell too! What are you people saying sef? What kind of sister does that? Can you order the arrest of your own family? Look, the both of them are culpable in this. The elder sister is every bit as sinister as the op. I hope they can forgive each other.

Why did the sister get them locked up, in the first place? The younger sister slapped her! And matters went downhill from then....

So was breaking off her sister's relationship using lies and manipulative actions, the best thing to do?

Couldn't the younger sister have reported the matter to elders in their family? My guess is that the older sister was antagonistic towards the younger sister's guy, because of what he did and his current lifestyle.

She must have told the girl to keep away from the guy on several occasions, but the guy and girl did not pay attention to her.

So the younger sister slapping her, was the last straw.

Ifyjos:
I was 14 when we started dating and very matured , he choose me because he knew I wasn’t childish like my other age mate. Anyways that’s a story from another day , right I’m thinking how to resolve this problem. I want my sister to be happy again

Lady, you're so rêtarded but you still function and it scares the hell out of me...

I swear I wish there's a way to identify such genetic/emotional/spiritual mishaps like yourself who lurk in our lives disguised as family & friends, ready to unleash destruction with little warning/provocation.

Go and do the needful by saying it the way it happened.




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Thanks a lot , I don’t want her to die but I just don’t know how to do it. I remembered the day he dumped her, she came home crying her eyes out and she asked me if I was behind this or if I know anyone behind , I strted crying (fake tears to improve my innocence ) and swear I didn’t do it that I would never hurt her , she said is okey she knows that’s I can never harmed her but if she found out about the idiots that did it , she will never ever forgive him/ her , now am scared how will she feel knowing I was the one and pretended as if I’m innocent. I have been taking care of her since for her not to have any ideas it’s me but i think if she found out she will forget all the good things that I did for her and she will just hate me and all the family will be against me . It’s almost 4am and my mind is not at peace

Abcruz:
I understand. Don't be afraid you won't be disowned. They'll will be angry for a while but you'll certainly be forgiven.

Don't you see how worse your sister looks every single day?
Don't you see how depression has eaten deep into her flesh?
How long do you think she can live with this psychological trauma?
Do you think it is easy for her to bear?
Do you really want her to die and have her spirit hunting you?

The ball is your court choose to speak the truth now and be forever free tomorrow maybe too late.

victorian:
Anyways that's how some families are, so I'm not surprised with what the Op said.

The elder sister made a huge mistake living in the same house with all of them.

Assuming she had left the house for this evil younger sister and go stay. Elsewhere, where none of them can trace and ask her for help. Wouldn't she be married and still with her bank job by now?

Anyways Op, u can confess to her fiance that it was all planned to teach your sister a lesson but at the end the fiance will still not marry your sister, because he will see how wicked and evil u are, then wouldn't want his unborn children to be stained by your wickedness.
If Pastor tell the elder sister that her enemy and the source of her troubles live in the same house with her and she should leave her family and go far away? Won't people say the pastor is fake?
But that's exactly what happens in some families out there.

The wickedness and evil done against each other is just too much!

Anyways what's my own sef! Op continue with your evil o, later in life u will pay dearly for it.

A lot of families are like this! Smiling in each other's faces while secretly working for destruction via diabolical and other criminal acts!

I cant believe she is ur sister...dat ur manfriend must be really bad sha. How come someone dat smokes, drinks, ruins someones marriage, makes u slap ur elder siater, makes u go to prison, has no job and cant train his child is a good man in ur sight. This means if u re God even osama bin laden will make heaven.

Ifyjos:
I was 14 when we started dating and very matured , he choose me because he knew I wasn’t childish like my other age mate. Anyways that’s a story from another day , right I’m thinking how to resolve this problem. I want my sister to be happy again

He "chose " you? The guy ruined your life and you are acting like he did you a favor!

You are not well my dear. That guy is an extremely bad influence on you. Your sister sees that, i wonder why you don't.

That man will use yiu or your daughter for rituals one day. Mark my words.

Make peace with your sister and your family now before it becomes too late.

Meanwhile your sister's ex is a fool and doesn't deserve her. He had no evidence and dumped a girl he wanted to marry because of calls. Yeye boyfriend.

Yes it is her money and she doesn’t owe me anything, but what can’t she mind her business and let me and my guy be in peace?

CeterisXVII:
Your sister should support you and your boyfriend to set up a business? Wait first....did you give her money, to keep for you? Or did she tell you to go and get pregnant for that guy? Are you okay at all?

Please get rid of this 'entitlement mentality', that you have. Your sister does NOT owe you money to set up a business.

In fact, anything she has done so far....has been done, out of compassion from her heart.

You ruined your own life at 15. So deal with the outcome.

Respect is earned, not given. Ask your guy to enrol and learn a skill like carpentry, mechanic work, tailoring etc. So that at least he would be able to cater for you and the child.

You too, go and learn hairdressing, or fashion designing or catering, so that you can be useful to yourself!

And so what if she helped a cousin? Did that cousin get pregnant at 15? Or did that cousin continue to sleep with a smoker who drinks, and has no stable job?

By the way, isn't it her money? Can't she spend it as she likes? Were you the one who gave her the money?

Just listen to yourself. She has NO obligation to give you money, because you didn't keep anything in her hand.

Does your guy not have brothers and sisters or uncles and relatives that can spend money to open up a business for him? Why does it have to be your sister?

Yes she is my sister , same mother and father. my guy is not jobless , he is a car washer and hard working

obazie:
I cant believe she is ur sister...dat ur manfriend must be really bad sha. How come someone dat smokes, drinks, ruins someones marriage, makes u slap ur elder siater, makes u go to prison, has no job and cant train his child is a good man in ur sight. This means if u re God even osama bin laden will make heaven.

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

Why would you do such to your blood

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

Witchcraft Spirit everywhere. Repent or Perish.

I did it out of anger which I regret, that’s why I came here seeking advice

shege45:
Why would you do such to your blood

I fear people like the OP. Not necessarily from the first post but from all her responses up to this page.

Prettiedame:
You should turn this into a movie. Blood Sisters

Omotola and Genevieve

Director: Tchidi Chikere

this sound like an epic moive scripts . forget it this is your ticket to better money /

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

The thunder that will fire you and your maniac boyfriend will gather from the east, west, north and south and will show no mercy except you and your boyfriend correct this gross wickedness.

Even a witch is not this wicked.

Pray nothing happens to that innocent woman with bright future you people wickedly destroyed for opposing what is wrong.

Oh well

Ifyjos:
Yes she is my sister , same mother and father. my guy is not jobless , he is a car washer and hard working

Does he have his own place? Can't you go and live with him ?

He doesn’t have his own place yet but soon. How can I go and live with him when he hasn’t paid my pride price yet ?

1Sharon:
Does he have his own place? Can't you go and live with him ?

Women are something else...

Ok sir

ikennaiteogu:
You are a wicked soul. Your sister doesn't deserve what you did. Better confess and change your ways.