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StarUp:
From that video, you can tell why her husband decided to leave her and go for a "calm side chick"...THE DIFFERENCE IS CLEAR...no wisdom whatsoever on the part of the so-called-wife... I don't even pray for my enemy to marry that kind of wife.

Who want dat kind agbaya lady for a wife?

Husband snatcher as if her husband is a mere wallet.

The hubby don tire. Maybe it's the kids just keeping him with her.

You have no business with the side chick. Go face your hubby. He is a grown ass man who made a choice to play away. It may not even be true. This is assault and breach of public peace.

In developed countries the agbaya lady will be getting a criminal record. That can cost her her employment as a lawyer, doctor, judge, an accountant or other big positions. Lawless shithole.

makydebbie:
Sis long time oo, thought you left here.

I never left at all..
It juz happen that time I was busy coz i move to another country. I have to adjust with the new environment & my job kept me so busy as well

Happy New Year..

Nedublinkz1:
The faithful men have no money
And the rich one's are exploring

u dont need to be a rich man to cheat.all those okada men and bus conductors wey dey cheat on their wives and girlfriends are they millioniares .no matter d level wey u dey if u wan to cheat u go still see woman wey dey ur level wey u go carry

The mistress showed decorum throughout.

Adultery is wrong and she adknowledged that with decorum. I'm sure the man's wife would be impressed but not show it.

I can imagine her gisting with her friends

"I showed that stupid girl. That useless girl that is trying to snatch my husband. I finally caught them today. I really disgraced her. She will never forget. The girl no even bother fight me. She just throw her face comot, stand there like Statue of Liberty. I for show am shege".

QueenSuccubus:



See ooo! Chaiii... the wife has the right to go berserk especially when her family are suffering in terms of a husband's attention, basic needs, financial support coz the mumu guy is busy spending his time & money to other women

I juz don't get why a lot of men still wanna get married yet they know they can't keep their itchy d*ck inside their pants sha

Nawa ooo!

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If I was there, the entire scenario would go another dimension. Have you asked yourself if the woman satisfies her husband or play her role or bully her husband at home?
The assaulting woman should thank her stars. That is how people put themselves in harm's way? What if the assaulted woman knows kidnappers? What if the assaulted woman arranges her kid(s) to be kidnapped, for her senseless act of public ignominy? Many whats and ifs.
Wake up womenfolk!

QueenSuccubus:



See ooo! Chaiii... the wife has the right to go berserk especially when her family are suffering in terms of a husband's attention, basic needs, financial support coz the mumu guy is busy spending his time & money to other women

I juz don't get why a lot of men still wanna get married yet they know they can't keep their itchy d*ck inside their pants sha

Nawa ooo!

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If I was there, the entire scenario would go another dimension. Have you asked yourself if the woman satisfies her husband or plays her role or bullies her husband at home?
The assaulting woman should thank her stars. That is how people put themselves and families in harm's way? What if the assaulted woman knows kidnappers? What if the assaulted woman arranges her kid(s) to be kidnapped, for her senseless act of public ignominy? Many whats and ifs.
Wake up womenfolk!

StarUp:
From that video, you can tell why her husband decided to leave her and go for a "calm side chick"...THE DIFFERENCE IS CLEAR...no wisdom whatsoever on the part of the so-called-wife... I don't even pray for my enemy to marry that kind of wife.

Hahahahahahaha......see tinking..

QueenSuccubus:



See ooo! Chaiii... the wife has the right to go berserk especially when her family are suffering in terms of a husband's attention, basic needs, financial support coz the mumu guy is busy spending his time & money to other women

I juz don't get why a lot of men still wanna get married yet they know they can't keep their itchy d*ck inside their pants sha

Nawa ooo!

My Queen you nailed It....

StarUp:
From that video, you can tell why her husband decided to leave her and go for a "calm side chick"...THE DIFFERENCE IS CLEAR...no wisdom whatsoever on the part of the so-called-wife... I don't even pray for my enemy to marry that kind of wife.

I tell you ooo..she obviously is troublesome and nagging. See the calmness of the other lady despite the humiliation. The wife just shot her self on the foot.Her man don japa.

More reason the husband will hate her more, get more better bedroom skills, be more patient and understanding of your man, and see him love you back.

Very Wrong and unintelligent approach!

Will such reckless actions bring back her hubby to her?

The sad truth is....If the hubby is watching the video right now....he may start developing empathy for the side chic which could lead to him falling in love with her!

I am not in any way supporting the Hubby's philandering lifestyle which is irresponsible on his part but matters like these demand wisdom and a calm head not flexing of muscles and getting hyper emotional...!

The wife who should be the 'victim' in this situation has now tactlessly surrendered that tag to the side chic...

Common sense is indeed not common!

StarUp:
From that video, you can tell why her husband decided to leave her and go for a "calm side chick"...THE DIFFERENCE IS CLEAR...no wisdom whatsoever on the part of the so-called-wife... I don't even pray for my enemy to marry that kind of wife.

Calm side chick, i like that one.

You couldn’t have said it better. Women that do this are either jobless or have extremely low self esteem

And you think the solution is embarrassing yourself publicly like a jobless and low self esteem person?

midnighter:
its not Biblical. Just because the Bible gives allowances for it for cultural reasons, it doesnt mean God wants it for Christians.

If you check the instances in the Bible where polygamous relationships occurred you will see that God was using scripture to illustrate why its not a good idea.

An ideal Christian relationship is between one man and one woman, nothing more, nothing less

You admitted that bible gave allowances for it, for cultural reasons. What made it more acceptable than this.

I don't want to start elaborating on this religion call christianity.
I want you to study your bible very well and understand it very well also.
Let us leave religion out of bible for now.

midnighter:
its not Biblical. Just because the Bible gives allowances for it for cultural reasons, it doesnt mean God wants it for Christians.

If you check the instances in the Bible where polygamous relationships occurred you will see that God was using scripture to illustrate why its not a good idea.

An ideal Christian relationship is between one man and one woman, nothing more, nothing less

You admitted that bible gives allowances for cultural reasons. What made it more acceptable than this.
There is no where in the bible where God says it is not a good idea.
Yes , in new testament, there are instances where Paul mentioned it in his epistles that man should be husband of one woman.
This does not mean the people of old testament that practiced polygamy are not on the good book of God almighty.
Let us know that every religion on earth today is a tradition and custom of certain people.

The woman even looks better that the side chick. See side chick with her washed-out bleached skin.

Men are just scumbags.

Well...if the men continue like this, a time will come when there will be no decent woman left in this world cos it will now be do me I do you instantly with an 18 year old boy kwa. So, men continue. You know say na una own dey pain una pass.

gotnel:
You admitted that bible gives allowances for cultural reasons. What made it more acceptable than this.
There is no where in the bible where God says it is not a good idea.
Yes , in new testament, there are instances where Paul mentioned it in his epistles that man should be husband of one woman.
This does not mean the people of old testament that practiced polygamy are not on the good book of God almighty.
Let us know that every religion on earth today is a tradition and custom of certain people.

I didnt say God said it was not a good idea. I said that God has illustrated why it is not to be done with levity. When Solomon, Abraham and David married their extra wives, what now happened?

Just because it is culturally allowed or is "acceptable", it doesnt mean it is to be encouraged.

Cultural allowances were also made for slavery; does it make it acceptable

See, when an evil is taking place that is very entrenched in society, is it realistic to ban it completely or to put parameters in place to protect people as much as possible until your main purpose has been achieved?

Stop talking out of point to justify something that is not defensible. If you want to be polygamous then be it and stop trying to drag God into it to console yourself.

God did not construct the institution of marriage for polygamous purposes, deal with it! He only let people do that in the context of their social systems but always points back to His original plans for a man and woman in marriage.

RiyadhGoddess:
I hope after her shameful attitude at the mall, she suceed in keeping her husband till death. I have seen men who left and never returned after such show of shame from their wives.
The woman looks like the women the book of proverbs 21:19 talked about.
A wise and Godly woman will not stoop so low to fight her husband concubine but rather, pray to God to win/have/arrest the soul/heart of her husband. If God can't have your husband, you as the wife can't have him either.
My opinion though...
#WarRoom

Your idea works, but at times it doesn't work. It might even be confrontation and attacks like this(Prov 21;22) will make the side chicks take caution and stay clear.

gotnel:
I don't want to start elaborating on this religion call christianity.
I want you to study your bible very well and understand it very well also.
Let us leave religion out of bible for now.

Lol you better go and study it very well yourself o, and please elaborate more because it will never be said that God wants people to be polygamous except the person is a charlatan and a liar.

Biblical quacks spreading wrong info everywhere smh

MiddleDimension:
i get it. but she brought it upon herself. if she hadn't allowed her emotions to get the best of her (i am not judging her anyway, since we all sometimes allow our emotions to get the best of us) and gone out to attack the suspected mistress with whom, in all fairness, she has no business with, this whole thing wouldn't be on the social media now and some people would not be calling her names.

take it out on your husband. he is the one going out. he is the one asking the ladies out. many times, they don't tell these ladies they are married.

i honestly don't think anyone in this world should be fighting for anyone who doesn't choose them on their own. if you are with me and you are cheating, the only thing i will do is ask you if that's what you want, if it is clear, i will leave you alone. yes, people will laugh at me and call me a loser. others will look at me with an eye of pity which is not an inspiring, uplifting or comforting thing at all. there also will be so much gossip flying around in the neighbourhood about me. but as time passes by, i will bounce back and no one will believe i have ever gone through such kind of experience before. it works!

Yeah, you are right.

99% of the time, its a waste of your precious time and energy. But so painful! Ahn..

zaccheus and cindarella.

QueenSuccubus:



See ooo! Chaiii... the wife has the right to go berserk especially when her family are suffering in terms of a husband's attention, basic needs, financial support coz the mumu guy is busy spending his time & money to other women

I juz don't get why a lot of men still wanna get married yet they know they can't keep their itchy d*ck inside their pants sha

Nawa ooo!

maybe women should stop becoming ice-cold, frigid and boring in bed the moment they get married. Even in a steady relationship, once the lady feels settled, the first thing that suffers is sex - probably the only thing the man enjoys with her.

Either that or you ladies would turn sex into a tool to force the man into doing your bidding. You want him to prefer that crap the wife does to the other lady with whom sex isn't a chore?

I have no idea why men are in a hurry to get into marriage when it is a man-made institution designed to exploit the man with little or no rewards.

Jewessgratitude:
The woman even looks better that the side chick. See side chick with her washed-out bleached skin.

Men are just scumbags.

Well...if the men continue like this, a time will come when there will be no decent woman left in this world cos it will now be do me I do you instantly with an 18 year old boy kwa. So, men continue. You know say na una own dey pain una pass.

see this one trying to pretend women aren't already expert cheats. They just don't get caught as easily because men do not snoop around very often and because women are the masters of deceit (and manipulation).

Those ladies the men cheat with, up to 99% are in other relationships (including marriage). Stop pretending to hate cheating when you simply hate being cheated on.

Saintmary:
Gbam

Nigerian women, make your own money oooo

The more money you have, the less of a god your husbands become to you

Start valuing yourselves ooooo
Make money oooo

I share with you, lets focus on career and business. We can not be dependent on them else....you already know

midnighter:
I didnt say God said it was not a good idea. I said that God has illustrated why it is not to be done with levity. When Solomon, Abraham and David married their extra wives, what now happened?

Just because it is culturally allowed or is "acceptable", it doesnt mean it is to be encouraged.

Cultural allowances were also made for slavery; does it make it acceptable

See, when an evil is taking place that is very entrenched in society, is it realistic to ban it completely or to put parameters in place to protect people as much as possible until your main purpose has been achieved?

Stop talking out of point to justify something that is not defensible. If you want to be polygamous then be it and stop trying to drag God into it to console yourself.

God did not construct the institution of marriage for polygamous purposes, deal with it! He only let people do that in the context of their social systems but always points back to His original plans for a man and woman in marriage.

Thank you. My problem with the people of today christianity is that they picks the doctrine deam fitting to suit them from the same old testament of the bible, while condemning another doctrine from the same old testament and saying it is of old.

I am a husband of one woman and not proposing for another one. Doe, taking care of another woman who need someone to help her situation.

But any other man who have the courage and willingness to be an husband of two or more women is not derailing , and should not be condemned as the Christians portrays it.

this kind of tin happened in my area sometime back. d married woman confronted d side chick . 2 weeks later,d side chick was found dead in front of her gate. people rumoured it was d woman or her children dat stabbed her to death. Las Las d case was unsolved

gotnel:
Thank you. My problem with the people of today christianity is that they picks the doctrine deam fitting to suit them from the same old testament of the bible, while condemning another doctrine from the same old testament and saying it is of old.

I am a husband of one woman and not proposing for another one. Doe, taking care of another woman who need someone to help her situation.

But any other man who have the courage and willingness to be an husband of two or more women is not derailing , and should not be condemned as the Christians portrays it.

Are you a nomadic agrarian? Do you need billions of children to help you farm your land and gather wealth?

Do you live in a time of war when there are drastically less men available to marry than women?

Is your population facing extinction?

Is there no other option for the woman other than marrying as a second wife, being sold into slavery or entering prostitution in order to stay alive?

Those were some of the reasons that God refrained from banning polygamy, and if you and your Number 2 do not satisfy those conditions then you are to be condemned, shekina!!!

nuti:
This is totally wrong
I can see the reason the woman is losing her husband to someone else.

1.you can smell her dirtiness from here! She probably hadn’t taken her bath or even brushed her teeth in that buba she is wearing

2. You can tell she is troublesome and never keeps her cool, compare her with the other woman that keeps her cool and keeps her mouth shut in all that, hence the man is attracted to her.

3. Even when pacified by a passerby and asked to calm down, the tendency was to ignore all pleas, such a hothead.

I in NO means support the man’s behavior but I suspect that the listed above is part of the reason the man is cheating

you are totally wrong to have made such a conclusion on a woman you have never met before.
you dont know what married women pass through when their husbands are seeing another women.

Why can't married men respect themselves and build their home. You are busy polishing another man's to be wife, whereas ur kids and wife are looking tattered, when will men learn for Christ sake..

QueenSuccubus:



See ooo! Chaiii... the wife has the right to go berserk especially when her family are suffering in terms of a husband's attention, basic needs, financial support coz the mumu guy is busy spending his time & money to other women

I juz don't get why a lot of men still wanna get married yet they know they can't keep their itchy d*ck inside their pants sha

Nawa ooo!

midnighter:
Are you a nomadic agrarian? Do you need billions of children to help you farm your land and gather wealth?

Do you live in a time of war when there are drastically less men available to marry than women?

Is your population facing extinction?

Is there no other option for the woman other than to be sold into slavery or prostitution in order to stay alive?

Those were some of the reasons that God refrained from banning polygamy, and if you and your Number 2 do not satisfy those conditions then you are to be condemned, shekina!!!

;

The system remains as of old.
Nothing has changed. The new system that warrants men to caters for more than one woman has changed from what was obtainable before.

Yes, people of nowadays are not farmers who needs battalion to works on the farms but the situation of the world today still demands that one man should be responsible for many ladies if you are comfortable and capable.

The fact remains that single ladies prefers married men as mutual and romantic friends. Particularly the single mothers who are facing serious discrimination from single guys .

Been a second wife doesn't mean being sold to slavery.
Bear with us o yee married women. There are too many women out there that desired and deserved to be married but partners are not forthcoming from the single guys due to economic issues.

The only way to survive is through friendship with the married men who are economically buoyant to care for their needs.

If all the married men withdraw from keeping another lady and been responsible for her upkeep, there will be big trouble in the world.

QueenSuccubus:
I never left at all..
It juz happen that time I was busy coz i move to another country. I have to adjust with the new environment & my job kept me so busy as well

Happy New Year..

Awwn okay, glad you're fine.

Happy new year sis.