₦airaland Forum

victorian:
What do u expect from a billionaire family, who wants to look good in the eyes of the public!
And it's not like she comes from a wealthy aristocratic home anyways.
They will always say, what will make them look good in the eyes of people.
This Akande family live in the eyes of the public. Everything they do, must align with what's acceptable in their circle of clicks and in the eyes of the public.
They are like the royal family of England. Too many rules and regulationsto abide to, as a wife.

If a wife coming in, is not used to such rules and regulations in her own quaters, she will eventually Run and leave the husband, not even divorce sef! Because they won't grant her one

Money is not the issue here.

The Akande are not broke!

Her lifestyle was simply over controlled and that's where cracks will form and start growing until everything collapse.

franchasng:
Goodluck made so many Yorubas rich and some richer than they were yet they hate him.

Go and ask Femi Otedola, Harry Akande, Mike Adenuga, Kola Aluko, and so many others. Now look at them now, most of them are gradually going down while Dangote, BuA and co are getting richer because of their brothers that have been occupying the federal seat of power for years.


When I speak, listen and learn, I am not your ordinary Nairalander, so don't argue with me okay

kunleweb:
Street bro. Na code. Una too dey beg money na. O sha fe ko pa ra e. Unto street things

fatymore:
She bleeped up if she has started dating someone else

victorian:
Cutting off dada, is not trimming of hair.

Do u know how it feels to cut off that thing? Especially when the person is not ready for it? But has to do it, all to look reserved and corporate in the eyes of the public. She's more like a gypsy kind of lady before her wedding to Akande .

Immediately after wedding , she assumed a different personality .

But Just let her be herself with the hair thing, it won't harm anyone in the marriage. Don't stop her from working. It won't kill anyone in the marriage.

PerseDew:
I can't guess anything out of the usual. Pls what did he say?

Roroapple:
Money will only get u d type of woman u want but struggle will get the type of woman u need

bukatyne:
As in.

I don't see the problems to warrant a split.

zmpp:
kindly stop typing nonsense everywhere. misery truly loves company

GamalNasser:

kunleweb:
You go like amebo ehn

PerseDew:
it is only normal to guess or ask after she has asked us to guess.

LongThickPenis:
I suspected when I saw her kissing RMD recklessly in the drama Castle and Castle on Ebony life TV.

victorian:
I'm not surprised.
I was expecting it anyways

I'm surprised they lasted this long!

.when a carefree woman is overly controlled in an aristocrat marriage, just to please everyone in the marriage especially the parents of the man. Just give her some few years, all hell will let loose if the parents of the guy, do not wear off their hold in the son's marriage.

Red flag I saw : She cut off her dada, that one alone ehn? It's finished in that marriage. Even though she agreed to cut it off. One huge part of her died already on that spot but the husband will not know the damage he has done to her inner being, just to please family and make her look the ideal wife in the eyes of the public.

Then making her a full time housewife? When she's a busy bee? So someonelse will not snatch her from him? I laugh in Chinese!

So tell me, Was she not snatched in the end? She couldn't even wait to be divorced properly before dating another guy, whom I believe will be a free spirited guy.

Guys what you fear most in marriage and try everything possible to make sure it doesnt happen, will eventually happen. It's life. Don't allow your fears over take the running of your once loving and smooth relationship before u guys get married.

All I see here is a free spirited woman who has set herself free from bondage called marriage. She thought she will be free like when she was single. She didn't know she will tied to all sorts of rules and regulations by the family. What a shock for her!

She's not going back to that family again she's gone for good.

Everything is not all about money.

franchasng:
Goodluck made so many Yorubas rich and some richer than they were yet they hate him.

Go and ask Femi Otedola, Harry Akande, Mike Adenuga, Kola Aluko, and so many others. Now look at them now, most of them are gradually going down while Dangote, BuA and co are getting richer because of their brothers that have been occupying the federal seat of power for years.


When I speak, listen and learn, I am not your ordinary Nairalander, so don't argue with me okay

kunleweb:
You're conflicting issues and confusing yourself. Answer me if you had a guy as rich as Dakores husband would you operate on the same level even after marriage?


Whatever what a lady won't accept in marriage she should turn it down before marriage. Dakore if she drops this guy for the reasons quoted then fits the description of a gold digger. Forget about white washing it. It is what it is. She's a classy gold digger who took advantage of a guys goodness and messed him up after taking all the benefits she could get

NobleAngell:
OmG. I loved those two. I remember when they were dating, there was a rumor that the guy's mother didn't like her. He went ahead to marry her and now that they have parted ways, the woman seems to have played a role in that.

franchasng:
Olumide is not at loss, he can still marry a hotter, younger chick if he so wishes....as for Dakore, it was expected long time ago, in fact she tried lol

Harry Akande was a very very wealthy man before Mama Peace/Goodluck dreamt of joining politics.
Pls stop the tribalistic sentiments abeg.








Meanwhile, Goodluck empowered and enriched so many Yorubas but because of their sworn hatred for Igbos and Igbo progress, they allowed Tinubu to mislead them just because Goodluck refused to make Wale Tinubu Petroleum Minister to enable Tinubu allocate free oil blocks to himself and family members like he is allocating lands to himself in Lagos.


Now look at how the former Yoruba billionaires are crumbling like packs of a joker card, from Olumide's billionaire father to GLO Adenuga to Kola Aluko and so many others I cannot list here.


What goes around comes around, you say you will continue to fight and betray your closest brothers from the east in order to serve your known enemy from the north, e concern me, 2023 will teach una more lesson about Nigeria

kunleweb:
Modern Nigerian woman and her inability to stay put in a marriage. Tueh

kunleweb:
Don't mistake unruly for being free-spirited. Being free-spirited is seeing no big deal if one has to trim hair to make the marriage more conducive.

Being unruly is seeing little sacrifices that can be made to make a. Marriage work as being treated badly. You have it wrong. Stop misleading the young girls. On the thread.


Many ladies are praying for what she's throwing away rather in bad fate. Your sons will need wife and if we mislead or allow young ladies get mislead how would our sons get good wives.


Tell me is it right for a woman to leave her marriage for baseless reasons. Whatever happened to for better for worse. Babe stop supporting wetin no get head




Am I not right? LilMissFavvy

franchasng:
Olumide is not at loss, he can still marry a hotter, younger chick if he so wishes....as for Dakore, it was expected long time ago, in fact she tried lol










Meanwhile, Goodluck empowered and enriched so many Yorubas but because of their sworn hatred for Igbos and Igbo progress, they allowed Tinubu to mislead them just because Goodluck refused to make Wale Tinubu Petroleum Minister to enable Tinubu allocate free oil blocks to himself and family members like he is allocating lands to himself in Lagos.


Now look at how the former Yoruba billionaires are crumbling like packs of a joker card, from Olumide's billionaire father to GLO Adenuga to Kola Aluko and so many others I cannot list here.


What goes around comes around, you say you will continue to fight and betray your closest brothers from the east in order to serve your known enemy from the north, e concern me, 2023 will teach una more lesson about Nigeria

victorian:
You asked a question, the same question my late dad asked me when late Princess Diana of England had an accident with her lover in the same car, they were driving in. And at that moment she was about leaving everything behind, her marriage, her sons and her husband the Prince Charles. But because the family of Charles could not bear the shame, people knew the accident who took Princess Diana life with her lover was masterminded. So I told my dad but why did she want a divorce from Prince Charles, they are very powerful family in England and so rich with lots of rules.

My dad said if u were in her shoes and brought up in a low class family, I will behave like her too.

He said but because I Was brought up differently with certain rules and regulations. I know I have to behave at all times. I know I can't go partying anyhow, I know I can't dress anyhow, I know I have to watch my every move publicly because I know the family I come from. I know i have to understand my husband cannot be at home everytime playing love, because he has so many commitments out there to keep the family running. I know I can't just walk away from my marriage just like that. I know I have to consider the kids and what people will say.


So if were married to Akande. I will stay.

I don't have dreadlocks

I don't party

I don't club.

I like social club, I can attend once in a while.

I don't want to be an actress

I don't like the limelight.

I'm a very private and shy person even though I appear different online.

I believe in family and I believe in increasing the wealth and stability of the family.

I'm not a lady who will get worked up if u don't call me everyday. It's not a must you do.

Im more into expansion of the family's wealth, character and strength, than calling me to say love words everyday. I don't have time for frivolities.

So for someone like me, I will be working by the side in my fashion biz and yes still stay married to him.

franchasng:
Olumide is not at loss, he can still marry a hotter, younger chick if he so wishes....as for Dakore, it was expected long time ago, in fact she tried lol




Meanwhile, Goodluck empowered and enriched so many Yorubas but because of their sworn hatred for Igbos and Igbo progress, they allowed Tinubu to mislead them just because Goodluck refused to make Wale Tinubu Petroleum Minister to enable Tinubu allocate free oil blocks to himself and family members like he is allocating lands to himself in Lagos.


Now look at how the former Yoruba billionaires are crumbling like packs of a joker card, from Olumide's billionaire father to GLO Adenuga to Kola Aluko and so many others I cannot list here.


What goes around comes around, you say you will continue to fight and betray your closest brothers from the east in order to serve your known enemy from the north, e concern me, 2023 will teach una more lesson about Nigeria

omlueh:
So if the woman must lose her life she should still sticks to better and for worse, why are you guys these wicked, so your sister should remain and die in a marriage that is not working out all in the name of for better and for worse.hmmmmmmmmm

Amanda4life:
The mother Inlaw caused the crash. She was pressuring them to give her a grandson.

DAkore tried.

Some mother Inlaw and grandson are like 5&6

As if they are the ones that gives child

Culin:
How can some sit down and write such disgusting things about another fellow human, and even allow other people to comment with insults and distasteful things. You call it rumour but spewed so many things like you had evidence, only quotes from people that can't even be verified. Haba it's 2020 please lets fear God and not ruin others because of ordianary blog views. Even if they're divorcing, do you have proof that all this distasteful things you said about the woman is the reason?

victorian:
I'm not surprised.
I was expecting it anyways

I'm surprised they lasted this long!

.when a carefree woman is overly controlled in an aristocrat marriage, just to please everyone in the marriage especially the parents of the man. Just give her some few years, all hell will let loose if the parents of the guy, do not wear off their hold in the son's marriage.

Red flag I saw : She cut off her dada, that one alone ehn? It's finished in that marriage. Even though she agreed to cut it off. One huge part of her died already on that spot but the husband will not know the damage he has done to her inner being, just to please family and make her look the ideal wife in the eyes of the public.

Then making her a full time housewife? When she's a busy bee? So someonelse will not snatch her from him? I laugh in Chinese!

So tell me, Was she not snatched in the end? She couldn't even wait to be divorced properly before dating another guy, whom I believe will be a free spirited guy.

Guys what you fear most in marriage and try everything possible to make sure it doesnt happen, will eventually happen. It's life. Don't allow your fears over take the running of your once loving and smooth relationship before u guys get married.

All I see here is a free spirited woman who has set herself free from bondage called marriage. She thought she will be free like when she was single. She didn't know she will tied to all sorts of rules and regulations by the family. What a shock for her!

She's not going back to that family again she's gone for good.

Everything is not all about money.