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Lalas247:
The Guy is sick

Don't mind him

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

Are you now asking for advice because you don’t know what to do or cause you want someone to push you and validate what you already think is the right thing for you to do?

Ok, go and BEG the fvckgirl to be faithful to a clown. When she forgives you, BEG her again to MARRY you; she’s the woman of your dream. YOLO, YODO.

Complex problem already setting in before marriage, bros let her go, you ain't ready at all,....... How did you do the days spent together without sex though,...... and why spent such days together when you're not ready for the thang

[quote author=Favoritefarmer post=85662287]I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

chaamn!!!

2. Competition with my family.


like are you serious you need advice after this?

Pastor to be... Just tell us the truth that it isn't attention you are seeking for like this.

You said you want to be a pastor and presently a Virgin, why did you go to social media to search for a prospective wife? You can as well order for your wife on jumia or konga.

Did you ask about her past and study things associated with her to enable you draw a conclusion if she will be suitable as a wife?

Why did u tell a non Virgin lady no sex before marriage? You have just wasted your scarce time and resources dating an incompatible being.

Better thank your God that you discovered this on time and not after you have married her.

Run away from her if you don't want to die untimely death.

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

You play the good guy role...remember those movies of the good guys, ending up well,.....sadly, reality of life is not like that.. life is games of thrones...it knows no good or evil....either u are good or not, you either win or die

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

Rubbish Rants. Take a Look at Ur Confused Life. This is how Most of u Claiming to be Pastors Ridicule God on d Alter by Your Lack of Character. How can U want to Marry a Woman who is not Spiritually Minded and Already d Signs of Causing to Follow Satan is Manifest but Ur Samson Spirit or Attitude is BLINDING UR GREEDY AND FILTY HEART. U are Very Carnally Minded and Spiritually Imbalanced to Toe this Path of Confusion. Liars are Clear Hypocrites.

Thegeneralqueen:
Just let the girl be biko.....How on earth can you accuse her of cheating when you've not caught her red handed

Of course women and supporting each other. So he should have assumed that the chat with the other man was a joke right?
U people just say rubbish. Rubbish that u can't even stomach. If u see your boyfriend sexchatting and exchanging nudes with another girl pls wait until u catch him red handed o...

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

Bro to be honest with you ,you are very stupid ; I mean extremely stupid.

releastaso:
OP don't be silly.
Do you really need our approval to call it quits with that mofo?
She's not on same plane with you.
What makes u think you could even satisfy her in marriage sexually?

Virgin girl with a non-virgin guy is considerable.

Virgin guy with olosho girl is a NO NO.

Be wise as a serpent. I think say u say u wan be pastor.
U no dey read bible Ni

Sense no go kill some guys here. You're indeed wise as a serpent my nigga

Thegeneralqueen:
Just let the girl be biko.....How on earth can you accuse her of cheating when you've not caught her red handed

A woman agreed to meet a man at a hotel na ludo dem wan go play for there

Facebook love

TheRealProphet:
Bros you need deliverance yourself


Well, imes is coming sha...The end of days. We hope that he'll be coming to clarify the truth about life; the truth of which is hidden to many people.

imes, we await your coming.

Bros..abeg ehn ..na who be imes??

czarr:
what more do you want from nairaland?....you want us to charge her to court?...use your head brother.

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The best answer so far

Bro.you need to pray hard and ask God for direction o,or you need to seek the face of God more since you are a pastor .pastoral work is even more delicate!...You need to go and discover yourself spiritually,.There is simple answer to this,dont be unequally yoke together with unbeliever ...God was angry with the children of Israel because He warned them never to marry the gentiles among them...How do you want God to answer that kind of prayer...Try and seek the face of God ,repent and wait for what His will for your life in marriage.

Favoritefarmer:
During sex and he will take drug to prevent her being pregnant.
A married woman also reached out to me on facebook alleging that my girl is dating her hubby thou i abused the woman of lieing and the woman directed to her particular post. I confronted with her with it, she didn't denied but said no sex between them.
thirdly, she asked for hair and transport fares which i gave and she still asked another another guy and right when she was with me last sunday about to leave for her place she was chatting this guy, 'are we meeting today or not.'
You know my girl denied all charges.

See Brother

Brother wey mumu

You don't have sense and I don't think you can lead a congregation.

God no call u oo...do something else.


Sometimes I wonder if some guys are really MALE.

Op I have been there before.Never date a girl who don't value what you value hoping they will change.You will be disappointing.

Favoritefarmer:
During sex and he will take drug to prevent her being pregnant.
A married woman also reached out to me on facebook alleging that my girl is dating her hubby thou i abused the woman of lieing and the woman directed to her particular post. I confronted with her with it, she didn't denied but said no sex between them.
thirdly, she asked for hair and transport fares which i gave and she still asked another another guy and right when she was with me last sunday about to leave for her place she was chatting this guy, 'are we meeting today or not.'
You know my girl denied all charges.

And you are still saying "my girl"?

D thread is quite long so I don't expect u to see dis, but if u do

Note: you may be making a big mistake taking dat girl as ur future spouse. U really need to seek d face of God and ask for His perfect will for u.
Understand dat long lasting peace of mind is what u get when u get His perfect will, if not, dis might just be a sure way to an early grave....

we still have stupid men this days.it is clear your bitch you call girlfriend has been fucking behind ur back.she is a sex hawker. you are a virgin dating a non virgin an you expect her not to Bleep.she go Bleep other guys black, blue and red ur eyes go clear maybe from snchapp.you better dump that bitch before we hear another news say you commit suicide.there is no need trying or forcing yourself to change a prostitute.who quote me should hug transformer.

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

Your LIES don't Just Add up

Bro, The Bible strictly warns against marrying a person that isn't of the same faith. don't be "Unequally" yoked with unbeliever pls and pls. God help you marry your kind of person (prayerful, spiritual etc)for two are better than one, and for the sake of your children.

Over 2.5 4 betking virtual

czarr:
I expect you to hold her to the same standard you hold yourself, how can you be a virgin and still friend a non virgin girl? it means she has more experience than you....she go use your heart play betking

I am impressed by your no sex before marriage. If I may ask, are you born again? If yes, you need a God fearing lady who shares the same belief with you but they are hard to find.

Just let her go. This type will cheat on you even in marriage.

Favoritefarmer:
During sex and he will take drug to prevent her being pregnant.
A married woman also reached out to me on facebook alleging that my girl is dating her hubby thou i abused the woman of lieing and the woman directed to her particular post. I confronted with her with it, she didn't denied but said no sex between them.
thirdly, she asked for hair and transport fares which i gave and she still asked another another guy and right when she was with me last sunday about to leave for her place she was chatting this guy, 'are we meeting today or not.'
You know my girl denied all charges.

I'm guessing you just feel the need to come on the internet and pour your heart out to strangers.
Because I don't understand what you hope to receive as response after all these...
Every body has sense here. Don't you have your own sense?

Bro naso then they do,my own Auchi Edo babe mama wil be d 1 begging guys to meet her in a guest house 4 short time,I wil rather use my money to Bleep Olosho than giving it to Nigeria ladies...

And so what,is she your wife.

Op you are a real big time mugu

Agreeing to a girl no sex till you both get married


And you expect her to take that with you.

A lady will act as if nothing is happening but in the real life of her something tangible is happening

@ OP you are a real big time mugu

So men like you still exist

Once again mugu fall guy woman chop

kunlesufyan:
Baba! The answers are right there in your face... No dey tell woman say you wan marry am at the first stage of the relationship.

Na big time mugu
Na their type Dey send money for transportation for woman for Facebook to come visit

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

You are still addressing her as your beautiful girl

Chai you have started this year with stupidity already I prays it won’t end such

Mugu fall guy woman chop