Originalsly:


Aspiring pastor..... selecting wife from Facebook. Are they not beautiful babes in your church? Did you ever read the part in the Bible where it said you must not be unequally yoked?....pastor wanting to marry an atheist?...but I know you can explain. You praying and fasting to[i]know God's mind[/i].... parents praying for guidance.... parents got answer... what did you learn?...pastor?

I advise you marry her..... never mind she would he sleeping around... the most important thing is that you will have a beautiful wife... and she will make beautiful children.... never mind they may not be yours.

OP the Great Originalsly that toured Amerika (New York) to be precise have advice you.

He doesn't comment anyhow, for him to comment on your stupidity.

Oga you need deliverance.

By the way, nor come Warri ooo, make I nor vex injure you.

Virgin Brain, vigin attitude and virgin thinking faculty.

Next time approach girl physically, Facebook is not the right channel.

Favoritefarmer:
During sex and he will take drug to prevent her being pregnant.
A married woman also reached out to me on facebook alleging that my girl is dating her hubby thou i abused the woman of lieing and the woman directed to her particular post. I confronted with her with it, she didn't denied but said no sex between them.
thirdly, she asked for hair and transport fares which i gave and she still asked another another guy and right when she was with me last sunday about to leave for her place she was chatting this guy, 'are we meeting today or not.'
You know my girl denied all charges.

She is your wife, it is your calling to deliver her from the spirit of dickenson, don't abandon her please, you need to deliver her and she will love you forever

Lies! Lies!! Lies!! Or should I say fake news! Or fake stories from unknown monikers that registered not up to a month ago.

I don't understand it and I'm hopeful that this is not a Nairaland problem; all these news about fake things that non existent women did. It almost feels like there is a covert image degradation campaign going on against women on Nairaland.

Frankly, I am bored and disgusted with it. There are 120million Nigerians; assuming half that number are women, how many of this number are doing hateful and disgusting things? that some oafs have been allowed to use Nairaland to spread their disgusting lies and propaganda?

I know my mother! I know my sisters, aunts and other female relatives. I know my friends mothers, their aunts and sisters. A lot of you here on Nairaland know your Mothers and female relatives, they are all good, hard working women who support their spouses and raise their children properly.

I refuse to let the antics of a few hungry, ill-bred women be used to ruin the reputation of millions of long suffering Nigerian women. Men get married everyday, more of those marriages thrive, than those that fail. What is wrong with Nairaland? Shame on all those who let these fake stories get pushed to front page because of readership and sensationalism.

If you are weak of mind, feel free to allow these concocted lies brainwash you into believing that there are no longer good women out there. We attract what we deserve, so feel free to fill your world with thoughts that there are no good spouses out there, whether male or female, while people dance to the alter and into great lives with spouses that are the stuff dreams are made of.

My 10cents...

Her pucci is demanding service, if you can't conduct the service, let better Pastor COZA the Congo

Favoritefarmer:
During sex and he will take drug to prevent her being pregnant.
A married woman also reached out to me on facebook alleging that my girl is dating her hubby thou i abused the woman of lieing and the woman directed to her particular post. I confronted with her with it, she didn't denied but said no sex between them.
thirdly, she asked for hair and transport fares which i gave and she still asked another another guy and right when she was with me last sunday about to leave for her place she was chatting this guy, 'are we meeting today or not.'
You know my girl denied all charges.

This your girl is a military minded negress

30 years and still a virgin..Lord ave mercy..baba....u go fit bang when d time comes to bang on ur first time when you marry


infact naija girls are insane creature so confused and untrustworthy not all of dem sha but a bulk percentage of them are just one mouth call girls

TheRealProphet:
Bros you need deliverance yourself


Well, imes is coming sha...The end of days. We hope that he'll be coming to clarify the truth about life; the truth of which is hidden to many people.

imes, we await your coming.

He is the one that needs brain resetting. Let him fast more, ulcer will soon introduce himself to him.

She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am

This is so funny. Even red oil no dey sleep all day

fear girls

czarr:
what more do you want from nairaland?....you want us to charge her to court?...use your head brother.

His pennis would have settled this a long time ago.

rubbish .. who knows if you're not well down there !

No sex with you doesn't mean she can't have sex

fastseo:


Ur parents saw negative and u didn't care anything about that.

Bro please look for a man of God or someone who can see beyond the physical... I mean in a bible believing church.

Another area is about your dreams. Watch your dreams observe the kind of dreams u have.. Are u seeing animals like snakes, bat's, etc which are symbols of some entities from the other side, dirty water etc.

Please and please since u said u are a pastor or want to be one due to ur calling..

Finally.. Know that this world is full of wickedness of various kind, evil everywhere. A girl that have no regard for the world of God.... Will hardly be free from spirits

Bro, when someone’s girlfriend see snakes in her dreams sometimes and most times she doesn’t remember her dreams. What do you think could be the spiritual issue?

You are the architect of your ordeal. U don't even know what u need. If u are really spiritual as claimed, u needn't bother us here. The signs are obvious. U need to know someone well to propose marriage. My brother, don't be deceived by out- word appearance. Eg, big yansh, fair, ebony black, big breast to mention a few. That kind of a girl will send u to your early grave. Better call a spade a spade. Thank you.

brother as a Christian u are a spiritual being if at all u are a real one sir. as a spiritual being u need to know how to make choices. Christian picks a wife from his spirit not the street. what is a girl u are not yet married doing in your house for a good over a week and more times like that repeatedly. Bros look for a spiritually matured mentor. read book that can help you grow in spirit. we all learn as Christian have pass this your stage I can tell u that the girl isn't your wife. grow up son

Wales Adenuga Production will like this

Op is the present day Hosea. Lol.

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

.....no sex before marriage implies no marriage at all. Get that.

Man of God fine ur way out

As long as she aint a virgin no more, no sex till marriage is bulls#!t no sex doesn't mean she's can't have sex, she's probably banging her ex, never agree to such crap cuz the one she once had sex with is still capable of having his way with her under ur nose. So don't fool urself believing that no sex before marriage crap, if that's the case you're just a close friend nothing more.

yarimo:
if H+I = HI find +

Assignment.

Dis one na dodoyo.

First and foremost you need someone with a calling. Every other thing you wrote here is irrelevant.

You have a calling so you need someone that is like you, not the one that will pull down your glory.


You don't have a wife yet. Keep looking. Keep praying. Ask the Lord to give you a woman with the physical and mental attributes you are attracted to, but ask Him to give you one of His daughters.

It's very possible to get a saved sanctified heaven bound sexy beauty. Don't make the worst mistake anyone can make. Cheers

kunlesufyan:
Baba! The answers are right there in your face... No dey tell woman say you wan marry am at the first stage of the relationship.

That is because promising marriage is becoming somewhat to them.

czarr:
what more do you want from nairaland?....you want us to charge her to court?...use your head brother.

lmao

Hmmm

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

Kudos to you for keeping your virginity dude,it shows how disciplined and principled you are and even give me that confidence that many newer generations of religious leaders are going to be original(which we think is going into extinction) and not fake.
But you should have gone for an equally disciplined girl and not a used engine . There are many beautiful young virgins like yourself around that would give you beautiful and good children. I know how it feels when one falls in love but you need to discard her before she gives you heart break,there types are not good for marriage

daddytime:
Wife her...

Something must kill a man.

She is your own Calvary

Bros, harmattan dey do me strong thing for lips: abeg, I no wan laugh.

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

You need someone who will support your pastoral and spiritual life

That's what you should look out for

Op just Bleep her and dump her and stop disturbing us

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

Bros,don't forget there are many virgins with that beautiful face(even more beautiful than your girl's),big boobs(bigger than your girl's),big ass and wide hips(even bigger and wider than your girl's),there are many virgins that are far sexier than your girl and they would love you to the moon and back. Don't underestimate that saying 'there are many fishes in the ocean'. There are many lovable good girls around bro,don't let your girl's look deceive you,there are many that are better than her physically,mentally and behaviourally

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

Come forward for counselling bro, pm me