₦airaland Forum

Nooil:
Because he begged and begged like men in love so and she accepted like the natural woman she is

kunleweb:
The law. Na una our sisters no wan put head down. My mum has been complaining bitterly about how young ladies don't place value on their marriages in the past one week and it's been one divorce to the other all over the news. It's okay sha. Dakore can join the clubs of her sisters, HenShaw, Tonto, and Co. They can even have foursome for all we care. Women should take it easy on we men too

nextdoor84:
A wise man once told me;
Go for the money and not for the body!
When the time comes, you would meet someone who will take you for who you are!

HRHQueenPhil:
pls go for only 1 date with him so he wld let us hear word. Lol, u will find what u are looking for this year babe.. Amen
Congratulations

frozen70:
Your mum is right in her statement, some women are growing with the mentality that men should do all expenses at home

But I am against that, women have to contribute to support the men in family because its not easy to carry family load

Only the married one's will understand better

kunleweb:
My dear sister. I'm sure you can tell from the massive toll of divorces cases you come across in your field that it won't be wrong to say that lots of ladies of the younger generation have lost it

frozen70:
I wouldn't want to put the whole blame in the women, the men too has a fraction of the blame

But incompatible partners that lack understanding can never make a successful marriage

Thunderblasts:
Averagly rich..
What you don't know is that most girls from average rich homes Sabi gold digging more than the poor.
Besides choosing acting as a profession shows you she ain't cool-headed

victorian:
The reasons are not baseless o.

Yes alot of ladies will pray to be in her shoes but not every lady would want to be in her shoes.
For example : all through last year, suitors were coming but they all. Wanted me to close down my company and be a full time house wife.

Why? They were scared men will keep wooing me even after marriage and it's best to lock me up and not work. Just eat, fucvk, drink and breed babies.

Sighs
I was virtually crying to one old man who's my friend at my office building. I told him why are men like this?

Why should I close up what makes me happy, give me joy and keeps my brain working. And Just stay at home and be watching telemundo day in day out! But why are men this selfish!
Why must I shut down this part of my life, just because I want to marry!

It's not fair! I rather remain single ,keep running my company, meet people everyday than marry and just seat at home and keep getting fatter everyday with kids running around. Why cant I have both!

Guess what the old man said?

sharone21:
She is not averagely rich.....her dad was okay, just that like her father in law, money can dwindle(possibly retirement in her dad's case)....my Papa when no send me go Corona self, I know how much he pay for school fees.

Edmanpumpin:
Chief Harry Akande still remains stinkingly Wealthy in billions of Dollars.
Infact he just bought a Steel and metal company in Australia 100% few weeks back and his uranium & Gold mining licenses in Chad and Chile was just renewed last quarter of 2019 via his company AIC.
His crude oil and natural gas contracts with Sao Tome & Principe, Gabon and Angola still remains.

No comparison.

Saintmary:
What kind of a devil would ask you to shut down your ticket to future peace and financial freedom for whatever reason
Please keep forging ahead, a good man will come soon. Just keep weeding out the trash.
What did the old man say?

victorian:
My dear, don't mind those men o.
They want to make my life miserable, so they can have total control on how I receive money. So I can be at their mercy in marriage. Begging for money to buy pant and bra with other little things. So they can say don't u know I'm a salary earner? You are too demanding, wetin sef! Or Wait till end of month or til next two months, they've not paid us our salaries.

Mehn I can't live such controlled financial life. I have been working for many years without anyone controlling my money for me, I can't start living such controlled life at this level of my life. I paid for some new set of bags last week with my credit card, on Jumia. I know how happy and fulfiled I felt paying for those bags. The joy is immeasurable

But at last i saw the best of them all towards December last year and thank God he doesn't have such selfish archaic mentality. He's a free spirited guy like Myself.

The old man said, that's how most Nigerian men are and it's a pity I'm used to hustling and fending for myself. Although some women would gladly accept such offer and he knows I really don't want to stay at home just eating, drinking and fucvking.
He said I should dry my tears and God will give me a man who understands me and accept me for who I am. I shouldn't worry, I should keep praying for what I want. That there are some men who want their wife to work and attain greatness, mine will not pass me by.
And he was right. Mine didn't pass me by.



It's good for a woman to know what she wants and be patient about it especially choosing a life partner.

One of my female friends last year said, Vicky, why dont u just accept one of them, and lie that u will close down your company, but as soon as he marries u, you go back to work and whatever he wants to do let him do. At the end he has married you.
Las las he will give up and accept u and your work. I said I don't have strength to quarrel and fight early in marriage. Abeg I can't deceive anyone because I wan marry. If they can't accept my work alongside me, then it's no use, they can go and marry women who loves staying at home 24/7, gisting and watching zeeworld and telemundos

sharone21:
Men are in sizes...it is like comparing Jameel's dad to his father in law, Chief Mike Adenuga.

Saintmary:
Very good decision. You will enjoy it later in life. Cheers

Edmanpumpin:
You mean Aliko Dangote.

victorian:
It's no use going on dates, I know will go nowhere. The man I have chosen and accepted to settle down with, went through a very costly test and he passed with flying colours. He proved to me, my God and to my dead parents wherever they are that he's capable to be my husband and father. Where every other man moved on cos of my working condition and one other condition. He didn't go. He stayed put and with a calm face and voice he said don't worry God will help me and it will be done and he did it exactly on Christmas day.
Such a young good looking quiet wealthy guy.

What else again do I want?

Which date do I want go again with another man?

It's no use my mind is made up with my delta Prince


This year is our year in Jesus name. Amen

unbitchable:
Dakore is 42yrs, you're close to hitting her age. dakore is an evening newspaper as you are. she is from the gutters, so are you. She's a gold digger similarly as much as you are. go and open a blog where you can paste your concocted versions, perhaps we may be interested. till then, go and get married and stop being a nuisance.

sharone21:
She is not averagely rich.....her dad was okay, just that like her father in law, money can dwindle(possibly retirement in her dad's case)....my Papa when no send me go Corona self, I know how much he pay for school fees.

Edmanpumpin:
Chief Harry Akande still remains stinkingly Wealthy in billions of Dollars.
Infact he just bought a Steel and metal company in Australia 100% few weeks back and his uranium & Gold mining licenses in Chad and Chile was just renewed last quarter of 2019 via his company AIC.
His crude oil and natural gas contracts with Sao Tome & Principe, Gabon and Angola still remains.

No comparison.

Thunderblasts:
So why is she dumping her hubby coz of no money?
Is she loyal @ that?

Legendguru:
So an igbo woman and Yoruba man I guess most of the Ibo Yoruba marriage crashes when the hubby pocket isn’t fattening anymore

bestofnollywood:
They were so in love with each other!

In fact, nobody envisaged that there would be a separation, not to talk of a divorce between Nollywood’s actress, Dakore Egbuson-Akande, and her husband.

But like some celebrity marriages, Dakore and Olumide Akande are no more. Just like a pack of badly stacked cards, the nine-year-old wedding crumbled and the centre cannot hold.

Signs that the wedlock was troubled surfaced online when the actress posted a photo where she wore bikini! Prior to that, she was sighted at the One African Music Fest in Dubai with her brother, Timini.

“The marriage had problems a few years back but the couple tried to make things work out. Many factors were responsible but Dakore became tired of not having enough money to throw around. Her husband, Olumide, who is one of a son of billionaire businessman, Harry Akande, is broke—the money isn’t flowing like when they met, courted and married. Olu lives off his dad and the economy isn’t as buoyant. Even Harry Akande is allegedly not as rich as he was,” reliable sources told Kemi Ashefon.

Many would recollect that Dakore was romantically involved with Olumide, for many years before they were pronounced man and wife at the Guiding Light Assembly, Ikoyi in 2011. A lavish reception that had in attendance elite members of the society was staged at the prestigious KFA Event Place in Lekki. Dakore’s father-in-law, businessman cum politician Chief Harry Akande brought to bear his social and financial clout.

“Olumide sacrificed everything for Dakore. Initially, when he made his intention known to family members that he wanted to marry the actress, hell was loose! No member of his family stood by him. To them, Olu could have gotten a good girl instead of an actress, who is tagged wayward and a gold-digger. He ignored all pleadings and advice. The handsome dude went for Dakore and they were married in 2011. They have two girls as products of the union,” source revealed.

Moreover, the quest for a third child must have allegedly put pressure on the actress who quit the movies long before she married Akande and after their two kids, they relocated to the United States of America. Well, Dakore’s mother-in-law wasn’t pleased with their lifestyle and wanted them in Nigeria where the couple can work towards giving her a grandson!

Meanwhile, Dakore had maintained that she was done with child-bearing. As a matter of fact, it was due to the imbroglio in their marriage that pushed her into acting again.

Not a few fans would be worried at this development because Dakore did all she could to keep her marriage intact—at least on social media. Not known to celebrate her wedding anniversaries on social media unlike some actresses, she revealed that she wanted a ‘private marriage and not one to be displayed on social media.’

In an interview two years ago, Dakore disclosed that, “My mother always say, ‘cover your yam and how you’re eating it.’ Like on his birthday, I just do maybe some posts on Instagram but we like to celebrate anniversaries in-house with the kids. We’ve been together for 11 years but married for seven years.”

Already, Dakore has moved out of her marriage and she is allegedly dating a Nigerian guy who is into entertainment and organizes big shows in Africa and other continents. Who knows the couple can still come back again.

Source: Kemi Ashefon Blog

http://kemiashefonlovehaven.com/?p=37924

DonJayrome:
Buhari has ended the regime of billionaire businessmen that their businesses are not known for anything but spending free government money based on the connection they had. That name Harry Akande rings a bell in those days.

bestofnollywood:
They were so in love with each other!

In fact, nobody envisaged that there would be a separation, not to talk of a divorce between Nollywood’s actress, Dakore Egbuson-Akande, and her husband.

But like some celebrity marriages, Dakore and Olumide Akande are no more. Just like a pack of badly stacked cards, the nine-year-old wedding crumbled and the centre cannot hold.

Signs that the wedlock was troubled surfaced online when the actress posted a photo where she wore bikini! Prior to that, she was sighted at the One African Music Fest in Dubai with her brother, Timini.

“The marriage had problems a few years back but the couple tried to make things work out. Many factors were responsible but Dakore became tired of not having enough money to throw around. Her husband, Olumide, who is one of a son of billionaire businessman, Harry Akande, is broke—the money isn’t flowing like when they met, courted and married. Olu lives off his dad and the economy isn’t as buoyant. Even Harry Akande is allegedly not as rich as he was,” reliable sources told Kemi Ashefon.

Many would recollect that Dakore was romantically involved with Olumide, for many years before they were pronounced man and wife at the Guiding Light Assembly, Ikoyi in 2011. A lavish reception that had in attendance elite members of the society was staged at the prestigious KFA Event Place in Lekki. Dakore’s father-in-law, businessman cum politician Chief Harry Akande brought to bear his social and financial clout.

“Olumide sacrificed everything for Dakore. Initially, when he made his intention known to family members that he wanted to marry the actress, hell was loose! No member of his family stood by him. To them, Olu could have gotten a good girl instead of an actress, who is tagged wayward and a gold-digger. He ignored all pleadings and advice. The handsome dude went for Dakore and they were married in 2011. They have two girls as products of the union,” source revealed.

Moreover, the quest for a third child must have allegedly put pressure on the actress who quit the movies long before she married Akande and after their two kids, they relocated to the United States of America. Well, Dakore’s mother-in-law wasn’t pleased with their lifestyle and wanted them in Nigeria where the couple can work towards giving her a grandson!

Meanwhile, Dakore had maintained that she was done with child-bearing. As a matter of fact, it was due to the imbroglio in their marriage that pushed her into acting again.

Not a few fans would be worried at this development because Dakore did all she could to keep her marriage intact—at least on social media. Not known to celebrate her wedding anniversaries on social media unlike some actresses, she revealed that she wanted a ‘private marriage and not one to be displayed on social media.’

In an interview two years ago, Dakore disclosed that, “My mother always say, ‘cover your yam and how you’re eating it.’ Like on his birthday, I just do maybe some posts on Instagram but we like to celebrate anniversaries in-house with the kids. We’ve been together for 11 years but married for seven years.”

Already, Dakore has moved out of her marriage and she is allegedly dating a Nigerian guy who is into entertainment and organizes big shows in Africa and other continents . Who knows the couple can still come back again.

Source: Kemi Ashefon Blog

http://kemiashefonlovehaven.com/?p=37924

victorian:
I'm not surprised.
I was expecting it anyways

I'm surprised they lasted this long!

.when a carefree woman is overly controlled in an aristocrat marriage, just to please everyone in the marriage especially the parents of the man. Just give her some few years, all hell will let loose if the parents of the guy, do not wear off their hold in the son's marriage.

Red flag I saw : She cut off her dada, that one alone ehn? It's finished in that marriage. Even though she agreed to cut it off. One huge part of her died already on that spot but the husband will not know the damage he has done to her inner being, just to please family and make her look the ideal wife in the eyes of the public.

Then making her a full time housewife? When she's a busy bee? So someonelse will not snatch her from him? I laugh in Chinese!

So tell me, Was she not snatched in the end? She couldn't even wait to be divorced properly before dating another guy, whom I believe will be a free spirited guy.

Guys what you fear most in marriage and try everything possible to make sure it doesnt happen, will eventually happen. It's life. Don't allow your fears over take the running of your once loving and smooth relationship before u guys get married.

All I see here is a free spirited woman who has set herself free from bondage called marriage. She thought she will be free like when she was single. She didn't know she will tied to all sorts of rules and regulations by the family. What a shock for her!

She's not going back to that family again she's gone for good.

Everything is not all about money.

wristbangle:
I read the article and paused at point when the family members of Olumide Akande warned him about his choice to marry Dakore.

I now have a clearer picture of an adage that says what an elder sees that made his eyes socket deep can make a child go blind.

I congratulate male celebrities who settled for ladies with contented and humble background.

She ( Dakore in Dubai) is advertising herself for the next maga who will finance her upkeeps. Nigerian actresses are the worst set of ladies to marry. Exceptions are Omotola, Mercy Johnson and very few to mention.

Same story for chika Ike, Tonto, etc. Pathetic, glutinous and parasitic set of hungry ladies.

Culin:
How can some sit down and write such disgusting things about another fellow human, and even allow other people to comment with insults and distasteful things. You call it rumour but spewed so many things like you had evidence, only quotes from people that can't even be verified. Haba it's 2020 please lets fear God and not ruin others because of ordianary blog views. Even if they're divorcing, do you have proof that all this distasteful things you said about the woman is the reason?

cococandy:
Sigh