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My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by clevvermind(m): 4:50pm On Jan 16, 2020
advice this sister.

My Newlywed Husband Cannot Perform In Bed.
What Should I do?


I have two objectives of sharing this pathetic story of mine, one, to educate every young single lady out there. Two, to seek advice on what to do.
Growing up as a young lady, I always look forward to that day I will get married to my own husband, have children and in a happy home. But what am currently seeing now is the total opposite of my wish.
I met Tunji during my NYSC service in Kwara State, he is a handsome young looking guy, smart and a banker at one of the new generation banks in the state.
Just a year into our relationship, he proposed marriage to me. It was a wonderful thing to me and a surprise as he did this on the eve of my birthday. Without wasting time, I quickly gave him a “YES” answer.
Three months later we got married. On our wedding day, we received so many blessings from both parents and wishes from loved ones but it seems none of the blessings and wishes is working in our marriage.
The episodes of the story started on my wedding night. As a young lady and a newlywed bride, I expected that night to be special (you know what I mean) but what I experienced was a total difference.
My newlywed husband cannot perform his duty as a man (sexually), I mean his pen!s did not rise at all. It was just like a rubber hose. what should I do?
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by finalboss(m): 4:52pm On Jan 16, 2020
But you are a guy nah??

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Tallesty1(m): 4:55pm On Jan 16, 2020
Goan buy this

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 4:57pm On Jan 16, 2020
See ehn, stories like this will not change the fact that God frowns at fornication. But there is something to be done, instead of running here to share this story, what have you done on your own?

Have you sat him down to ask him questions like "how long have you had this issue, why didn't you tell me, what steps have you taken to solve the issue, what do we do"?

These are questions you can ask him if you love him and are interested in the marriage.

If he deceived you into marriage even after knowing he can't perform sexually, the marriage can be annulled since it hasn't been consummated. Lawyers, correct me if I'm wrong o.

If you can forgive his deception, you both can seek medical counsel from a urologist on what his options and chances are.

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by clevvermind(m): 5:00pm On Jan 16, 2020
Romanoff:
See ehn, stories like this will not change the fact that God frowns at fornication. But there is something to be done, instead of running here to share this story, what have you done on your own?

Have you sat him down to ask him questions like "how long have you had this issue, why didn't you tell me, what steps have you taken to solve the issue, what do we do"?

These are questions you can ask him if you love him and are interested in the marriage.

If he deceived you into marriage even after knowing he can't perform sexually, the marriage can be annulled since it hasn't been consummated. Lawyers, correct me if I'm wrong o.

If you can forgive his deception, you both can seek medical counsel from a urologist on what his options and chances are.
won't you test your man before marriage. stop lying my sister.

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 5:02pm On Jan 16, 2020
clevvermind:
won't you test your man before marriage. stop lying my sister.

Stop assuming sir. I'm a Christian and I will not fornicate, my body is God's temple and the Holy spirit lives there.

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by StandUpGuy247: 5:04pm On Jan 16, 2020
Are you gay?

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Ekakamba: 5:04pm On Jan 16, 2020


May be being ga.y ain't your calling bruv. grin tongue

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by clevvermind(m): 5:05pm On Jan 16, 2020
Romanoff:


Stop assuming sir. I'm a Christian and I will not fornicate, my body is God's temple and the Holy spirit lives there.

i will not talk. all I will say is that let God help you not to marry an impotent man
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Nobody: 5:06pm On Jan 16, 2020
Romanoff:


Stop assuming sir. I'm a Christian and I will not fornicate, my body is God's temple and the Holy spirit lives there.


But you dey here dey complain. It is also advised to test before purchasing.

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Roselilly(f): 5:06pm On Jan 16, 2020
Just as it has been said above, you should talk with him as his wife gently. If its a medical condition, you find solution. If you love him, stay by him through it till you solve the issue.

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 5:06pm On Jan 16, 2020
clevvermind:
i will not talk. all I will say is that let God help you not to marry an impotent man

The God I serve who has seen my love and service to Him won't let that be my lot.

L'oruko Jesu.

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 5:07pm On Jan 16, 2020
Pourple77:


But you dey here dey complain. It is also ad advised to test before purchasing.







And if them ask you for form, you self go say you be Christian.

Na market you for go price tomatoes wey you wan buy, taste am for mallam basket before you pay.

May God have mercy on us all.

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by clevvermind(m): 5:11pm On Jan 16, 2020
StandUpGuy247:
Are you gay?
it is a sister that need an advice. help her.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by zexy2030(m): 5:16pm On Jan 16, 2020
Romanoff:


Stop assuming sir. I'm a Christian and I will not fornicate, my body is God's temple and the Holy spirit lives there.

When u r alone with ur crush, that time u will remember the flesh is stronger than knowledge

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 5:17pm On Jan 16, 2020
zexy2030:

When u r alone with ur crush, that time u will remember the flesh is stronger than knowledge

Oga, I see him three times a week.

Some men have mastered control, others just choose to make excuses for their shortcomings.

Adios.

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by GOFRONT(m): 5:18pm On Jan 16, 2020
Your husband cannot perform well in bed?? shocked shocked shocked

Madam, Say no more....

I don't know if u can Dm me your number.

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Happyguy201: 5:20pm On Jan 16, 2020
Don't why married pepole thinks its cool to bring their marriage problems to NL if hour husband can't perform in bed I'm sure you knew that before you married him so why are you complaining now ? Useless women

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by ranmoor: 5:23pm On Jan 16, 2020
Romanoff:


Stop assuming sir. I'm a Christian and I will not fornicate, my body is God's temple and the Holy spirit lives there.


If your body is actually God's temple, who are you to restrict people from entering his temple

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Kingosytex(m): 5:29pm On Jan 16, 2020
GOFRONT:
Your husband cannot perform well in bed?? shocked shocked shocked

Madam, Say no more....

I don't know if u can Dm me your number.


You see eh! One of these days you will get yourself into trouble. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Koredav(m): 5:30pm On Jan 16, 2020
Audio husband, audio pr**k, audio marriage. No be cool and man dt won't cheat on u dt u wanted and don't want sex before marriage. So u now see ur life grin cheesy cheesy
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by OnyesomJ(m): 5:40pm On Jan 16, 2020
Am a little confused is he she or he
Okay na She’male grin

Goan solve ur problem joor and stop Lamentinggringrin
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by timibare(m): 6:05pm On Jan 16, 2020
Shey u can pay?
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Gofwane(m): 6:05pm On Jan 16, 2020
ranmoor:


If your body is actually God's temple, who are you to restrict people from entering his temple
weyrey oh grin grin

Everyone is welcomed to the house of the Lord no matter your short comings grin

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by adeniyisamuel59(m): 6:06pm On Jan 16, 2020
Hey, unbelievable
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jan 16, 2020
Rubber hose ke Is that one not wickedness undecided

You guys dated for one year and you didn't use style to grab that place atleast to make sure it functions shocked

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by ranmoor: 6:23pm On Jan 16, 2020
Gofwane:
weyrey oh grin grin

Everyone is welcomed to the house of the Lord no matter your short comings grin
Abi na. The temple of the Lord is always open !

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by vibbb: 6:25pm On Jan 16, 2020
No problem without solution, seek the face of the Lord.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Gofwane(m): 6:27pm On Jan 16, 2020
ranmoor:

Abi na. The temple of the Lord is always open !
Just enter its gates with singing hallelujah grin
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by capnies: 6:43pm On Jan 16, 2020
Since the wedding nite have you not had sex with him? You said can't perform could mean he's not doing it well, or do you mean he does not have erection atall?
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by hashtagged(m): 6:48pm On Jan 16, 2020
Tallesty1:
Goan buy this
she is holding it with pride
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Liposure: 6:55pm On Jan 16, 2020
Romanoff:


Stop assuming sir. I'm a Christian and I will not fornicate, my body is God's temple and the Holy spirit lives there.

Chaste romanoff

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