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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by inspirator1(m): 9:16pm On Mar 30, 2020
Romanoff:


Stop assuming sir. I'm a Christian and I will not fornicate, my body is God's temple and the Holy spirit lives there.

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But na divorce GOD dey clap hand for? Sometimes we give more than necessary advice.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 9:21pm On Mar 30, 2020
inspirator1:

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But na divorce GOD dey clap hand for? Sometimes we give more than necessary advice.

Not any time in my post did o say divorce is okay. No put word for my mouth, dakun.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Nobody: 9:41pm On Mar 30, 2020
Timson01:

Sister I want to asked a question did you marry your husband as a virgin if you did not seriously u are50 percent in for abig trouble in your husbamd s house because probably your former boyfriend can be better than your husband in bed which would cause havoc because you will always want that kind of experience you had with other men and if you don't get it you might be force to go outside,secoudly if you are a virgin then ur problem is smaller in that God will bless your union marriage is honourable to all and the bedleft undefiled as a wife lay tour complain to God who gave you the husband he is fairful and is interested in your marriage tell it to God both of you prayed about it God would not put two faithful people together just to see their marriage have issues,and I heard there are some sexual enhancement drugs men can take probably this can help your man Google them but.. sharap and take a deep breath!
ahn ahn!!! chomchomchomchomchom,, you no dey tire

Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Tboy1419: 9:52pm On Mar 30, 2020
I don't know why married pepole thinks its cool to bring their marriage problems to NL if her husband can't perform in bed I'm sure you knew that before you married him so why are you complaining now ? Useless women
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by dontrulee: 9:52pm On Mar 30, 2020
Romanoff:
See ehn, stories like this will not change the fact that God frowns at fornication. But there is something to be done, instead of running here to share this story, what have you done on your own?

Have you sat him down to ask him questions like "how long have you had this issue, why didn't you tell me, what steps have you taken to solve the issue, what do we do"?

These are questions you can ask him if you love him and are interested in the marriage.

If he deceived you into marriage even after knowing he can't perform sexually, the marriage can be annulled since it hasn't been consummated. Lawyers, correct me if I'm wrong o.

If you can forgive his deception, you both can seek medical counsel from a urologist on what his options and chances are.
what if the guy is a virgin and doesn't know that the problem existed before he got married?
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by dontrulee: 9:55pm On Mar 30, 2020
clevvermind:
won't you test your man before marriage. stop lying my sister.
Not all girls will test their husbands before marriage. for example my current foolish girlfriend who allows me to romance her but is against premarital sex. Las Las I will shift her womb and run away
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by dontrulee: 9:57pm On Mar 30, 2020
Romanoff:


Stop assuming sir. I'm a Christian and I will not fornicate, my body is God's temple and the Holy spirit lives there.

will you keep quiet?
all you holy holy people are hypocrites.
holy Spirit ko, dirty spirit ni.
I pray you don't have infertility issues in your marriage.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 6:40am On Mar 31, 2020
dontrulee:

will you keep quiet?
all you holy holy people are hypocrites.
holy Spirit ko, dirty spirit ni.
I pray you don't have infertility issues in your marriage.

Without Holiness, no one can see the Lord, you can say whatever you want, that's what His word says.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 6:42am On Mar 31, 2020
dontrulee:

what if the guy is a virgin and doesn't know that the problem existed before he got married?

They can both look for solutions. Just cause he can't perform does mean the marriage should be over.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by inspirator1(m): 7:27am On Mar 31, 2020
Romanoff:


Not any time in my post did o say divorce is okay. No put word for my mouth, dakun.
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"annulled"...is agreement and super-gluing right?
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 7:59am On Mar 31, 2020
inspirator1:

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"annulled"...is agreement and super-gluing right?

Read up what an annulment is.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by freethesheeple(m): 9:22am On Mar 31, 2020
Romanoff:


Stop assuming sir. I'm a Christian and I will not fornicate, my body is God's temple and the Holy spirit lives there.





hahhahahaha Holy spirit lives in ur body??..Hahhaahah..Let them make ur husband dick rise naaaaaa...Ndi Religion
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by wallymore(m): 10:38am On Mar 31, 2020
Iyawo... U didn't test your husband dick, whether big or small or slip...u dated for years u could not romance your bf or have sex before the marriage night...I sowi for u. I'm very sure u too are not a virgin. Now u are here to complain wen u for sample the dick well before yes I do.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Nobody: 10:42am On Mar 31, 2020
Rubber hose kwa?
God save us celibates o. Hmm...
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by lotman4real(m): 10:59am On Mar 31, 2020
Hmm ! ...this was wat an ex said some yrs back... Now she's thinking of cheating...I remember telling her to taste this guy ..she was busy saying I'm a changed person now and we both Christian,Christian!...?and u now so honey to cheat hmm.. Its well.
Romanoff:


Oga, I see him three times a week.

Some men have mastered control, others just choose to make excuses for their shortcomings.

Adios.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by lotman4real(m): 11:00am On Mar 31, 2020
Hmm ! ...this was wat an ex gf said some yrs back... Now she's thinking of cheating...I remember telling her to taste this guy ..she was busy saying I'm a changed person now and we both Christian,Christian!...?and u now so honey to cheat hmm.. Its well.
Romanoff:


Oga, I see him three times a week.

Some men have mastered control, others just choose to make excuses for their shortcomings.

Adios.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by dontrulee: 12:44pm On Mar 31, 2020
Romanoff:


Without Holiness, no one can see the Lord, you can say whatever you want, that's what His word says.
one question I have for you.
have you seen the Lord?
how does he looks like?
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by vac888(m): 3:04pm On Mar 31, 2020
Your spouse not having erection and not satisfying you in bed is not the end of your marriage,sex and your lives. There are so many things that attributes to a man not performing in bed. I will state 4 critical issues that could be causing such situation. All of these are true experiences that i have witnessed and observed:

1. Excess sugar content in your body
2. Too much masturbation
3. Venereal disease
4. Dirtiness from the girl/woman
5. Mindset

Solutions: These solutions would be explained below, they can also help those that don't stay long in bed:

1. See your doctor
2. If you are good to go by your doctor, then these solutions would help:
2a. Have your bath before love making
2b. Let him use his hands on your private part for 10 -15 mins
2c. Use his penis to touch your clitoris for 15 secs
2d. Take enough water before sex
2e. And finally,there is a natural oil, antibiotic and the third one cant be mentioned that would make him stay longer and have full erections.

Lets chats more www.hightaughts.com
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 3:48pm On Mar 31, 2020
dontrulee:

one question I have for you.
have you seen the Lord?
how does he looks like?

I've told you my own. Let them who have ears, hear.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by zexy2030(m): 4:22pm On Mar 31, 2020
Romanoff:


Without Holiness, no one can see the Lord, you can say whatever you want, that's what His word says.
which church do u worship in
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Nobody: 4:32pm On Mar 31, 2020
Romanoff:


Stop assuming sir. I'm a Christian and I will not fornicate, my body is God's temple and the Holy spirit lives there.


grin Alot of people don't know yet that the most difficult task is not CHASTITY before marriage. Infact it a piece of cake very easy to deal with since you have never had sex. I SWEAR TO GOD!!! THE REAL CHALLENGE IS IN MARRIAGE. AFTER YOU HAVE TASTED IT AND IT HAPPENS THAT YOUR PARTNER IS MESSING UP BIG TIME. THAT IS THE REAL CHALLENGE!!! SEXUAL FUSTRATION IS REAL IN MARRIAGES. HOW MANY ARE MEN AND WOMEN OF GOD WHOSE HORMONES DEFY THE HOLY SPIRIT. That's the reality. Romanoff.

Am not supporting FORNICATION. Am only telling you where the real challenge lies. Many who didn't fornincate ended up commiting ADULTERY.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 5:08pm On Mar 31, 2020
zexy2030:

which church do u worship in

There's no need to say which church I worship. My church won't qualify me for heaven, my walk with God is what will.

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by dontrulee: 5:21pm On Mar 31, 2020
Romanoff:


I've told you my own. Let them who have ears, hear.
lol, you see... even you have not seen the Lord and know how he looks like with all your holy spirit that you have.
you're just confused..
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by michealoluwaseyi(m): 5:22pm On Mar 31, 2020
i know for sure dat my girlfrend will already be pregnant before i even ask of her house address,i dont knw why people like to postpone happiness if having sex with ur partner will make u happy fire down,why wait till ur wedding night
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by dontrulee: 5:23pm On Mar 31, 2020
Romanoff:

I've told you my own. Let them who have ears, hear.
simple questions, you can't give a definite answer. let him who has brain think. many Christians have brains but don't think. disillusioned folks everywhere. what a confused set of people
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by shege45: 5:27pm On Mar 31, 2020
Romanoff:
See ehn, stories like this will not change the fact that God frowns at fornication. But there is something to be done, instead of running here to share this story, what have you done on your own?

Have you sat him down to ask him questions like "how long have you had this issue, why didn't you tell me, what steps have you taken to solve the issue, what do we do"?

These are questions you can ask him if you love him and are interested in the marriage.

If he deceived you into marriage even after knowing he can't perform sexually, the marriage can be annulled since it hasn't been consummated. Lawyers, correct me if I'm wrong o.

If you can forgive his deception, you both can seek medical counsel from a urologist on what his options and chances are.
you frown at fornication but encourage divorce.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by michealoluwaseyi(m): 5:32pm On Mar 31, 2020
dontrulee:

what if the guy is a virgin and doesn't know that the problem existed before he got married?
even if the guy is a virgin,haba he does not need to be told that when his dick does not rise up or when he does not wake up with an erection .he shud knw that there is a big proablem,been a virgin does not make one silly
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by cerpvad(m): 6:18pm On Mar 31, 2020
Bad market. Your case is not the first. There are also many cases of women who disappointed the husband in bed at their wedding night.

Wait for three years. Then you can go to court to iron out the issue
clevvermind:
advice this sister.

My Newlywed Husband Cannot Perform In Bed.
What Should I do?


I have two objectives of sharing this pathetic story of mine, one, to educate every young single lady out there. Two, to seek advice on what to do.
Growing up as a young lady, I always look forward to that day I will get married to my own husband, have children and in a happy home. But what am currently seeing now is the total opposite of my wish.
I met Tunji during my NYSC service in Kwara State, he is a handsome young looking guy, smart and a banker at one of the new generation banks in the state.
Just a year into our relationship, he proposed marriage to me. It was a wonderful thing to me and a surprise as he did this on the eve of my birthday. Without wasting time, I quickly gave him a “YES” answer.
Three months later we got married. On our wedding day, we received so many blessings from both parents and wishes from loved ones but it seems none of the blessings and wishes is working in our marriage.
The episodes of the story started on my wedding night. As a young lady and a newlywed bride, I expected that night to be special (you know what I mean) but what I experienced was a total difference.
My newlywed husband cannot perform his duty as a man (sexually), I mean his pen!s did not rise at all. It was just like a rubber hose. what should I do?
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Romanoff(f): 6:19pm On Mar 31, 2020
shege45:
you frown at fornication but encourage divorce.

Please educate yourself on an annulment.
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Martinez39s(m): 6:25pm On Mar 31, 2020
clevvermind:
i will not talk. all I will say is that let God help you not to marry an impotent man
Didn't you people go for a medical check up before the marriage? Did you people discourse this?
Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by shege45: 4:36am On Apr 01, 2020
Romanoff:


Please educate yourself on an annulment.
annulment is also a legal term. ok let me rephrase my question , you frown at fornication but encourage annulment? I thought marriage in church was till death do part

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Re: My Newly Weded Husband Cannot Perform In Bed. by Nobody: 5:27am On Apr 01, 2020
Romanoff:


Stop assuming sir. I'm a Christian and I will not fornicate, my body is God's temple and the Holy spirit lives there.

Aunty who we go ask if you are still a virgin? Liar!

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