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gbami:
Am about doing a peternity test on my child... That's the real gist

Pls where can one get a paternity test done and for how much?

rosy1992:
A man who marries a virgin doesnt fall in this category.

primary virginity or secondary virginity?

ademijuwonlo:
That's a lie!

Really

Nice advice is good to do it on the 1st day or at age 1 when the child is young not when u hv spent all ur money on the child

Every real woman knows who really got her pregnant .... Cos they know and feels when the sperm goes down their system ...

rocken001:
But Mary did not lie to him and he was aware of what was happening

I’m not blaming Mary or Joseph. I’m only saying marrying a virgin is not a guaranty that all your children will be your biological children. DNA is the only credible way to confirm paternity and not virginity.

Una naa women really spoilt this world. Naa dem turn humanity back against God.

Chai! which kind wahala be dis now?

So many bastard out there contributing nuisance to the society.

Belafonte:
If you don’t mind, can you furnish us with your experience? Thanks

It's less than a month so it's t[o fresh to come out with,had to play along to save families from disgrace,advice is to always do test

cococandy:
According to you, a Nigerian girl is an olosho if she has sex outside of marriage but that guy’s post didn’t make sense to you because he’s asking for men to behave themselves in the same manner that they expect from women . Right?

Why won’t you people be raising other men’s children? You’re not ready.

A guy advice men to do paternity test to their children and the women are bashing him. It obvious that there are facts in the guy's post. I don't know what women here are scared of.

abdulizom:
THE WRITER IS TO A LARGE ESTENT RIGHT, MY FRIEND TRAINED ANOTHER MAN'S SON TILL HIS 17TH YEAR BEFORE THE MOTHER REVEAL TO HIM THAT THE CHILD BELONG TO A CORPER WHO CAME TO SERVE IN MY AREA AT THE TIME.
THE CORPER WHO IS NOW A SPECIAL ASSISTANT TO ONE NIGER DELTA GOVERNOR, I WON'T MENTION THE STATE.
HE CAME FOR THE BOY JUST LAST YEAR, HE APPARENTLY KNOW, BUT WAITING FOR THE PERFECT TIME TO CLAIM HIS CHILD.
WITHOUT REMORSE THE BOY RUSH TO THE MORE FINANCIALLY STABLE FATHER.
IN SHORT, THEY'RE LEAVING TOGETHER NOW

You mean with the woman too?

crafteck:
It's less than a month so it's t[o fresh to come out with,had to play along to save families from disgrace,advice is to always do test

It is well with you bro.

Winneygirl:
Nah... No one programmed marriage into your DNA.
You're just bitter because you need to do a paternity test where everyone else is seemingly living their lives without a care.

why is it only women attacking him?

DAVIDO VS PERUZZI

125diCalcitriol:
Give us d real gist behind this post.

BUT you already know that

You mean this generation's virgins that use alum and other stuffs ??

rosy1992:
A man who marries a virgin doesnt fall in this category.

Gwilym:
The average Nigerian boy gfrows up idolising men who sleep around and have kids all over the place, and women all over the place. After all, they are 'Men indeed'.

The average Nigerian boy is also unfaithful to his girlfriend...after all, men are 'supposed to be polygamous at heart' you know.

The average Nigerian boy scoffs at religious leaders who warn him or her against pre-marital sex, because 'they are all hypocrites'

The average Nigerian boy puts pressure on the average Nigerian girl, forces her to sleep with him 'because he has needs' then dumps her and moves on to the next girl 'because that babe was a slut'

OP...I am not insulting you. But your comment about Nigerian women , while partially true, is not complete without the contribution of the Nigerian male to the disaster.

Many of you men, sorry many of us men because I am a man myself, tempt young women into sex. When we get into a position of authority and money, we think it is high time we accquired a harem of young nubile girls. We help women in return for cash. And when we are young we force women to get it on with us, even when the woman is saying 'no sex till marriage'

And nationally, you people vote in corrupt leaders, who mess up the economy, and make it difficult for poor young women to provide for themselves and their familes....so we make them our prey.

Many of those women who sleep around, while some of them are obviously in it for the evil , do it because of pressure from the men in their lives. And after when they get pregnant or abort...we refer to them as sluts...and then we do it again with them.

You want women in Nigerian to change...without having the men and by extension the society to change. What you are experiencing is the result of that.

P.S Something tells me you are not telling us the full story. Also, when we tell you people not to have fun before marriage...you people laugh at us as holy holy.

PS2 Many Nigerian women keep their marital vows. You married a hoe because you went 'to that far country'

You wrote long paragraphs of bullcrap! Everyone has the right to cheat, I personally don't give a Bleep but ain't no men pinning other women's children on other women, so men cheating is a lame excuse for this evil You can't compare them because they are not the same thing.
Having another man raise another man's child
through deceit is evil.

Sonny454:
She mo pe oloshi ni e?

...Will u spek English & stop acting like a Homebase Nigeria for
..gaddddemit..
...& then u complain we Londoners say u Homebase people struggle wit English!!(shaking my head)

bmdmixer:
and her name was mary

Mary still born pikin wey no relate to joseph

rosy1992:
A man who marries a virgin doesnt fall in this category.

Don’t be two sure.. Eve was once a virgin wvm Delilah

gbami:
If you are in my position...what would you do if they are not yours?..Be honest..

relax....all will be well. Don't stress yourself up with what people are saying. "enu a'raiye l'ebo".

Is there anything new under the sun again?

Mftivi:
You wrote long paragraphs of bullcrap! Everyone has the right to cheat, I personally don't give a Bleep but ain't no men pinning other women's children on other women, so men cheating is a lame excuse for this evil You can't compare them because they are not the same thing.
Having another man raise another man's child
through deceit is evil.

Evil is evil. You sleep with someone not yours, it's evil. You raise someone's child, it's evil. Select your own evil.

Mftivi:
You wrote long paragraphs of bullcrap! Everyone has the right to cheat, I personally don't give a Bleep but ain't no men pinning other women's children on other women, so men cheating is a lame excuse for this evil You can't compare them because they are not the same thing.
Having another man raise another man's child
through deceit is evil.

Evil is evil. You sleep with someone not yours, it's evil. You raise someone's child, it's evil. Select your own evil.

I support what Gwilym wrote absolutely.

TheWalkingMind:
Replied ma'am.

Not a friend of Facebook, but one got to do what one has got to do.

Hi.
I just replied you now on fb.
Come over, lets get started. Hope you saw the PM I sent you.

Ryan03:
NO, according to Belafonte trust but be watchful. Even the Bible said be wise as serpent and harmless as dove

So you find out, you divorce her?

I speak for myself.

Kirinwa:
So you find out, you divorce her?

I speak for myself.

You mean you wouldn’t divorce your wife if you found out that not only was she having affairs in your marriage, she even brought a bastârd home to you and passed it off as yours?

You must be a “real man”.

Belafonte:
You mean you wouldn’t divorce your wife if you found out that not only was she having affairs in your marriage, she even brought a bastârd home to you and passed it off as yours?

You must be a “real man”.

Marriage is not for kids. I know it would be painful but I believe I can forgive her.

I don't pray for that though but its the mindset I bring to the table.

rosy1992:
A man who marries a virgin doesnt fall in this category.

Fake virgins are many now. It cost little via surgery

Kirinwa:
Marriage is not for kids. I know it would be painful but I believe I can forgive her.

. Sorry sir

I don't pray for that though but its the mindset I bring to the table.

Good luck to you

gbami:
...Bitch read between the line... idiot...I never said marriage is deception...lying about the father of a child is deception...
Bitter... Having a blast while I'm reading the comments...Bitch get off my small dick stop following me like hungry hoe...Carry your frustrated cheating sef to stress my life...

Maybe that's why your wife cheated on you.... You and that your small dick