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| I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Manadan0000(m): 7:32am On Jan 24, 2020 |
I've the intention of having a woman who i ll so much love and ve a serious relationship with but along the line i keep meeting girls with different things i can barely handle, the last one i met, i so much liked her but after a couple of days i just discovered she's a sex addict and takes weed. This lady looks so innocent that i can't imagine such a thing, the last one i had to walk away because her demands was becoming too much, even Atm no dy dispense 24/7 meanwhile am a hustler. The other lady i met has too much pride and i can't deal with a woman who's too proud and arrogant, most esp a boring woman who reply chats with k, yes, no, hi. What do i do? Should i leave this present lady before she kills me with sex because it's close to impossible to change a lady's sex libido and as well addiction to sex or weed. I'm so confused why i keep meeting the wrong people |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by InfernoNig: 7:38am On Jan 24, 2020 |
Are you paranoid  . Take a chill pill and heal your self of every thing messing with your emotions.1 Like |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by makydebbie(f): 7:38am On Jan 24, 2020 |
What's wrong with loving sex and weed? I'm not going to join the change your circle crew because you will meet different types of humans in every circle. 7 Likes |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by money121(m): 7:42am On Jan 24, 2020 |
Sorry bro I can feel ur pain |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Nobody: 7:54am On Jan 24, 2020 |
makydebbie: Nothing wrong but when it comes to settling down one has to find someone serious , though sex and weed might not mean one is not marriage candidate but alot of people here judge on that as a precursor to wayward living. I love sex and weed but can't Express that side, because I might not be considered 1 Like |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by BlackSeptember: 8:01am On Jan 24, 2020 |
makydebbie:Its not healthy for a lady to be a weed addict. People like that are only given to life pleasures and so don't make any effort for self development. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Nobody: 8:02am On Jan 24, 2020 |
Manadan0000: The change should start with you before you can make headways in a relationship and not in changing girls. Change your mindset about relationships and stop looking forward to sex when going into a relationship then you'll meet the right girl. Amend your ways and God will grant you your heart desire. Let us not be fooled, God is not mocked. Haha! 1 Like |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by makydebbie(f): 8:02am On Jan 24, 2020 |
BlackSeptember: It's not good for anyone then. It's not only ladies that need self development. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by AmazingDesigns: 8:03am On Jan 24, 2020 |
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| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Nobody: 8:05am On Jan 24, 2020 |
There are actually good women here, just that men tend to go for the flashy ones, me it is character anytime anyday o. Beauty fades one day. Finding good women depends on how you move. If you club and slay you will most likely meet slay queen, but if you attend seminar , conferences and meetup groups you will most likely find like minds. There's nothing like meeting a good woman, they will transform your life positively. I cannot date a woman who has nothing to offer or add to my life even though I don't need it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Davash222(m): 8:08am On Jan 24, 2020 |
makydebbie:I love you Debbie! |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Davash222(m): 8:12am On Jan 24, 2020 |
pcguru1:I can't leave a good girl cos she likes sex and weed! |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by makydebbie(f): 8:17am On Jan 24, 2020 |
Davash222:  |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by GoodnessB(f): 8:20am On Jan 24, 2020 |
Love is a choice not a feeling.Good women are still in existence, the question is where have you been searching? moreover, there is no such thing as a soulmate. Any two people can be together if they have one thing in common, they both choose to. If love was just a feeling it would never last for anyone. Feelings are fleeting. It takes a conscious choice to stay with someone when those feelings aren't there at the moment. It takes the choice you made in saying "till death do us part" seriously, even if you dont have butterflies. Real, true love, is a choice to say i will be here and treat you with the utmost love and compassion, even when I dont feel like it. |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Designerdollars: 8:57am On Jan 24, 2020 |
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| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Nobody: 9:09am On Jan 24, 2020 |
Davash222: That's not what I am saying, I'm saying people associate weed with hoodlums and touts , I smoke weed massively and I know how NL people judge me here for it before knowing me, you get what I mean. If you see a babe smoking weed and you didn't know her. You would assume slay queen or the rest till you find out she is good. If you have a good girl who smokes weed then it's no problem for you. |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by BlackSeptember: 9:51am On Jan 24, 2020 |
makydebbie:Exactly but we are using the story as a basis for our replies. Good morning |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by makydebbie(f): 9:58am On Jan 24, 2020 |
BlackSeptember: Okay. Morning dear. |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Manadan0000(m): 10:59am On Jan 24, 2020 |
pcguru1:This lady is responsible and cool even though she likes weed and sex alot, i don't even take alcohol not to talk of weed, so how do i cope with this lifestyle. |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Manadan0000(m): 11:00am On Jan 24, 2020 |
pcguru1:This lady is responsible and cool even though she likes weed and sex alot, i don't even take alcohol not to talk of weed, so how do i cope with such a woman when i want a serious relationship and we move live about 4hour distance away |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Nobody: 11:18am On Jan 24, 2020 |
Manadan0000: Mehn it's up to you what you can condone or not. We don't your babe so we can only say based on what you write. But is she faithful and thoughtful because some girls don't smoke weed or like sex but not faithful .all the best my brother 1 Like |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Nobody: 11:23am On Jan 24, 2020 |
Manadan0000: But I will tell you this , as I am a very blunt and open person, I have been smoking weed for the past 4 years and very good ar my job. But I can tell you for a fact that weed limits one's from their full capability. If I didn't smoke weed I would have not engaged in certain decision and prob had a much more better output in productivity. When settling down if one is not ready to quit then it means the person is not serious, that includes me also. It's a bad habit so I wont pretend to say it should be condoned. You guys need to have that conversation. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Manadan0000(m): 11:31am On Jan 24, 2020 |
pcguru1:Kudos for coming out plain, i really appreciate this. What kind of problems does taking weed lead to exactly?? Addiction right |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Nobody: 12:24pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Manadan0000: Well one thing I know it might help calm one down, but it also might add to de-motivation. And because the brain is used to that when relaxing, she might be extremely dependent on that for emotional issues. I smoke weed because I am erratic and think excessively so weed used to help me cope. But I stopped and substituted with exercise. The benefit of not smoking is tremendous. Constant smoking of weed make me paranoid and experience a state of lethargy and de-personalization. You should talk to her even if you are not going to end up with her. All the best I hope this helped. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Hmm |
| Re: I Can Hardly Sustain A Relationship, Fake Women & Gold Diggers Everywhere by Nobody: 12:48pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
makydebbie:You're right. 1 Like 1 Share |
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