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PeacefulBae:
Hello everyone, am kinda new here, I follow stories but am low-key as I hardly comment. D story is long but pls pardon my blunders.
Before I start, I'll do a brief intro, I have my National Diploma from Auchi Polytechnic, currently doing my B.SC program at d Federal University of Petroleum Resources, Effurun, Delta State.
So I started working in a sch, (I'll say like I was an office asst) around March last year. So there's this corper who was serving already b4 I came and I happened to share d same office with him, he was computer literate, so that kinda made us work together then we kick-started off as friends and everything was fine, he'll call me every other morning asking how my nyt was or just to know y I was running late or just to hear my voice b4 I resume work.
Barely weeks after, we started having series of arguments even over d slightest things, infact, we never agreed on anything.
Later on, we kinda had it going, but not smoothly, we'll be talking and he'll just jokingly say he's into me and all of that, we'll joke abt it and laugh it off. (Note: I didn't take it seriously)
Some time in August, the director of the sch were I worked called both of us to his office and asked for a laptop which was in d corper's possession, he would have ordinarily just asked me, but since he saw us work together all d time so he asked both of us. Ryt in front of the elderly man, I was quite and was waiting for d corper to answer d question. He told d director dat he suspects that d bursar took it home. I was shocked by his response so I left d office, he was behind me, while we were in d office, d director called d bursar on d phone and he told him he never took d laptop. D man called us back, reluctantly d corper told him he was with it. D director was angry, he complained that he has lost trust in me because I knew and i didn't tell him immediately he asked. That caused a serious issue as we didn't talk for a long time.
We later settled when he apologized. There were other things we argued abt so d r/ship wasn't going too well.
Around August, he started asking that I b his gf, he's aware that my ex-bf and I were having issues and broke up. The pressure was really much, i couldn't escape from it cos we see everyday. I spoke with a family friend and explained everything to him. (With time, I understood that he seemed like a good guy, he's a church guy and that's a complete opposite of me, he seems responsible too) He encouraged me to give it a try despite my constant complaints that I never felt anything for him, not even for once. So finally, I decided to accept based on d pleas from my family friend who encouraged me that it could work and I may get to like him with time.
Few weeks into, I wasn't getting it, if he kisses me, I don't reciprocate (me dah like pre-intimacy), everything was boring, we had sex only once and believe me, I never liked any bit of it.
So now, I decided to stop forcing myself, I called him ystdy and told him I can't go on with it. I told him I don't feel d same for him. He was hrt broken and I feel really bad.
I just need you guys to advise me, is that d right thing to do
My friend told me that because of d last hrt brk I had, I needed someone who loves me very much, which is this guy, but I don't feel d same and I don't know y.

op I don't even need ur kind for a girl friend, u sound so immature to me. The guy in the other way according to how u him is a dummy, him no fit be my type of guy. He found how that you had issue with ur x-boy friend and broke up and he quickly size the opportunity to friend while sharp guys like me in those days walk in to the relationship and played my game and melt her heart thereafter took way the babe to myself as e d hot And, ur churchy family member advised u to went ahead with the relationship though u knew you felt nothing for him and quicky u had sex with him, was that a kind of test before buy? Neither u or the nigga is smart.

Once I discover that a friend of mine finally born again and too churchy in ideas I push him one side. Those folks hardly use their conscience, except what the pastor preach. You can use their idea to do something meaningful. I'm not a bad person but I hate people who are too churchy in character

Chat me up I want friend you

Okay.

pennywys:
op I don't even need ur kind for a girl friend, u sound so immature to me. The guy in the other way according to how u him is a dummy, him no fit be my type of guy. He found how that you had issue with ur x-boy friend and broke up and he quickly size the opportunity to friend while sharp guys like me in those days walk in to the relationship and played my game and melt her heart thereafter took way the babe to myself as e d hot And, ur churchy family member advised u to went ahead with the relationship though u knew you felt nothing for him and quicky u had sex with him, was that a kind of test before buy? Neither u or the nigga is smart.

Once I discover that a friend of mine finally born again and too churchy in ideas I push him one side. Those folks hardly use their conscience, except what the pastor preach. You can use their idea to do something meaningful. I'm not a bad person but I hate people who are too churchy in character

Chat me up I want friend you

PeacefulBae:
Oga calm down okay, if you r frustrated, take it elsewhere. I have a business of my own, I pay my fees and settle my bills. So just calm down okay, if it was because of money, wat happened wouldn't have happened. So take a chill pill and mind ur choice of words pls.

U shud chill.. If u go to serve, is that how u will be giving every soldier, corpers and men at mammy market ur pussy to fvck for free.. Atleast charge them sumtin so it wunt be for free....


Hian

Okay. Noted.

Mymynd4u:
U shud chill.. If u go to serve, is that how u will be giving every soldier, corpers and men at mammy market ur pussy to fvck for free.. Atleast charge them sumtin so it wunt be for free....


Hian