| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Winneygirl(f): 6:44am On Feb 11, 2020 |
Please let him be more involved in house chores.
Not just laundry, cleaning the house and running small errands. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:11am On Feb 11, 2020 |
Winneygirl:
Please let him be more involved in house chores.
Not just laundry, cleaning the house and running small errands.
.. He does all this little chores and small errands. Like go get this and that. |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by frozen70(f): 8:04am On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:
Happy Sunday my fellow nairalanders. Sure we all are cool?
Sorry to bother you all but I ve been worried since what transpired between myself and my son who will be 4yrs by June this year.
I was not able to go to church today due to the fact that I just came back from travel very late yesterday night.
So I was asleep when my wife and my two sons left for service. I woke up around some minutes after 12 noon and decided to wash some of the undies I wore during my journey.
As I was doing that,my wife and kids came back and my son rushed straight to my room shouting daddy daddy, when I answered from the bathroom and he came in and saw me washing,the question he asked me has been making me uncomfortable.
He said "Daddy,why are you washing? Are you a girl? Before he could finish that my wife walked in and said to him,Don't worry,very soon you will start washing your clothes by yourself but what got me more worried was his reply. He told my wife that he won't wash his cloths that it's girls that are supposed to be washing.
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Honestly,I'm worried,will he out grow this mentality?
Lalasticlala,I need a wide coverage,please. Am glad he voiced it out, if you don't handle him in a domestic way, he may grow up seeing girls are the ones to do house work not boys But relax, is too early for you to panic Once he clocks 4yrs, whenever he comes back from school, he must wash his undies pand and singlet or every Wednesday ne must was his pants and singlets for him and his brother Then on Saturdays he will repeat same He has to do it, he should start sweeping his own room, no matter how he sweeps it, let him pack it with packer and cone and show you Then you go and inspect the room and show him corners he didn't sweep well then let him sweep it again As you are starting this, get a cane and let him know you won't tolerate laziness from any of them Meanwhile anytime you are washing, let him watch the way you rub your hands on clothe, even you can allow him to wash your boxer's as you wash but you will do the real washing When he starts he would have been OK for gin to handle his own But don't remind him of what he said he will understand that as being a punishment for him Just engage him into washing stylishly 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Brazenbabe: 10:28am On Feb 11, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:
Such concern about wanting to change his mind shows a simp mentality. It IS the wife's chore. Tell him that he's right about that but a man can help out with the chores ONLY IF HE WANTS TO, while a man's real chore is about making money for the family.
Otherwise, your approach will empower his wife to make him wash her undies in future and he'll have you to thank for that. This is how you dolts "unsimp" yourselves into uselessness Your redpill brain cannot envisage that the 4 year old child would get married in the next 25 years at least Do you really think that this women belong to the kitchen and men belong to the office crap you people are struggling to hold onto would exist in the next 10 years? Take a look around you, is it only men that were affected by this keke and okada ban? Did you not see men and women protesting side by side (occupy Lagos protest) Everybody should learn how to wash clothes, everybody should learn to make money. It is a necessary survival skill. If a man washes his wife's panties, is is bad? No be him dey chop wetin pant dey cover? It is men like you that look after their wives after childbirth, cook for them, clean them up , hold the baby while she sleeps, they dont have two heads yet some of you are pushing an outdated narrative that makes you so useless to your partner that you cant boil water That why why your wives make useless shakara and refuse to cook when they are angry cos they know you are uselessly useless in the kitchen. Keep making yourselves irrelevant, Women are replacing you in the boardrooms, dildos are replacing you in the bedrooms Dont reinvent your selves please. Dont be a "simp". Mtcheeew 50 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by ireneidiva(f): 10:31am On Feb 11, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:
Such concern about wanting to change his mind shows a simp mentality. It IS the wife's chore. Tell him that he's right about that but a man can help out with the chores ONLY IF HE WANTS TO, while a man's real chore is about making money for the family.
Otherwise, your approach will empower his wife to make him wash her undies in future and he'll have you to thank for that. Rubbish. Before he gets married, who will do all that? 25 Likes |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by ireneidiva(f): 10:33am On Feb 11, 2020 |
fairfora:
Our kids live in an indomie generation. Most of them are super smart. I posted a video made by one of my sons recently on YouTube and the likes i received were amazing. Nobody really teaches them those stuffs the say or do at times.
I think the onus is on you to let him know that he needs to help out too when it comes to chores, to assist his wife when he grows to that stage. Teach him too by making him do it while you watch. My sons started bathing themselves, washing their socks and brushing their teeth from age 4 and now, they are all grown to do chores. We used to supervise them at first. I wash all my boxers and singlets because I feel nobody else can wash them as clean as I want them to be especially my singles and boxers. At times, I wash my clothes too, though through the washing machine and I do call them to watch me do that. Now they can do all that by themselves.
It is not 'assistance' for a grown up man to do chores with his wife please. He is just doing what needs to be done. 15 Likes |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Nobody: 12:48pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Brazenbabe:
[s]This is how you dolts "unsimp" yourselves into uselessness
Your redpill brain cannot envisage that the 4 year old child would get married in the next 25 years at least
Do you really think that this women belong to the kitchen and men belong to the office crap you people are struggling to hold onto would exist in the next 10 years?
Take a look around you, is it only men that were affected by this keke and okada ban? Did you not see men and women protesting side by side (occupy Lagos protest)
Everybody should learn how to wash clothes, everybody should learn to make money. It is a necessary survival skill.
If a man washes his wife's panties, is is bad? No be him dey chop wetin pant dey cover?
It is men like you that look after their wives after childbirth, cook for them, clean them up , hold the baby while she sleeps, they dont have two heads
yet some of you are pushing an outdated narrative that makes you so useless to your partner that you cant boil water
That why why your wives make useless shakara and refuse to cook when they are angry cos they know you are uselessly useless in the kitchen.
Keep making yourselves irrelevant, Women are replacing you in the boardrooms, dildos are replacing you in the bedrooms
Dont reinvent your selves please. Dont be a "simp". Mtcheeew[/s]
Restrict your rants to your maga boyfriend who did not train you well, woman. Did you really think I am at all interested in what you have to say? What do you have on offer that a $100 sex doll cannot offer a cleaner and less smelly version of? 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by cococandy(f): 12:59pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Nothing to worry about here. He’s still impressionable so it’s your duty to correct him.
As for Wondering about where he learned it from, kids learn things from everywhere around them not just the parents. I’ve had to correct my child on some opinions too that I’m sure she learned from her environment outside of the home.
Just keep at it. The important thing is to raise a kind, fair minded and compassionate human being. Everything else will sort itself out. 15 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by kestolove95(m): 12:59pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
After listening to d song it was not as if d child don't want to was but his skool uniform is not clean and he iron it yesterday to his own shoe and his mama pant is to big nd he wanted to use it... So am not bothered bcox DOA is alot of water |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Nobody: 1:00pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:
How Do I Make My 4years Old Son Understand Or S He Still Too Young
Happy Sunday my fellow Nairalanders. Sure we all are cool?
Sorry to bother you all but I have been worried since what transpired between myself and my son who will be 4yrs by June this year.
I was not able to go to church today due to the fact that I just came back from travel very late yesterday night.
So I was asleep when my wife and my two sons left for service. I woke up around some minutes after 12 noon and decided to wash some of the undies I wore during my journey.
As I was doing that, my wife and kids came back and my son rushed straight to my room shouting daddy daddy, when I answered from the bathroom and he came in and saw me washing, the question he asked me has been making me uncomfortable.
He said "Daddy, why are you washing? Are you a girl? Before he could finish that my wife walked in and said to him, Don't worry, very soon you will start washing your clothes by yourself but what got me more worried was his reply. He told my wife that he won't wash his cloths that it's girls that are supposed to be washing.
Honestly, I'm worried, will he out grow this mentality?
I need a wide coverage, please. But the boy asked a valid question na. Is nt it the duty of women, who are slightly less useful than men, to clean, wash and wait in za oda room?  |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Pheelz2020(m): 1:02pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:
How Do I Make My 4years Old Son Understand Or S He Still Too Young
Happy Sunday my fellow Nairalanders. Sure we all are cool?
Sorry to bother you all but I have been worried since what transpired between myself and my son who will be 4yrs by June this year.
I was not able to go to church today due to the fact that I just came back from travel very late yesterday night.
So I was asleep when my wife and my two sons left for service. I woke up around some minutes after 12 noon and decided to wash some of the undies I wore during my journey.
As I was doing that, my wife and kids came back and my son rushed straight to my room shouting daddy daddy, when I answered from the bathroom and he came in and saw me washing, the question he asked me has been making me uncomfortable.
He said "Daddy, why are you washing? Are you a girl? Before he could finish that my wife walked in and said to him, Don't worry, very soon you will start washing your clothes by yourself but what got me more worried was his reply. He told my wife that he won't wash his cloths that it's girls that are supposed to be washing.
Honestly, I'm worried, will he out grow this mentality?
I need a wide coverage, please. lolx.. too much of nickelodeon... WELL, YOU NEED TO TALK HIM OUT OF IT.. HE SHOULD START WASHING IMMEDIATELY, LET HIM KNOW HIS CURRENT MINDSET IS WRONG... |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by PrinceJoeWan(m): 1:03pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
A wife-beater in the making! I REST MY CASE JONNYSPUTE:
How Do I Make My 4years Old Son Understand Or S He Still Too Young
Happy Sunday my fellow Nairalanders. Sure we all are cool?
Sorry to bother you all but I have been worried since what transpired between myself and my son who will be 4yrs by June this year.
I was not able to go to church today due to the fact that I just came back from travel very late yesterday night.
So I was asleep when my wife and my two sons left for service. I woke up around some minutes after 12 noon and decided to wash some of the undies I wore during my journey.
As I was doing that, my wife and kids came back and my son rushed straight to my room shouting daddy daddy, when I answered from the bathroom and he came in and saw me washing, the question he asked me has been making me uncomfortable.
He said "Daddy, why are you washing? Are you a girl? Before he could finish that my wife walked in and said to him, Don't worry, very soon you will start washing your clothes by yourself but what got me more worried was his reply. He told my wife that he won't wash his cloths that it's girls that are supposed to be washing.
Honestly, I'm worried, will he out grow this mentality?
I need a wide coverage, please. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:03pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
.. cococandy:
Nothing to worry about here. He’s still impressionable so it’s your duty to correct him.
As for Wondering about where he learned it from, kids learn things from everywhere around them not just the parents. I’ve had to correct my child on some opinions too that I’m sure she learned from her environment outside of the home.
Just keep at it. The important thing is to raise a kind, fair minded and compassionate human being. Everything else will sort itself out. .. Thanks alot.I will put my eyes on him more from now. 3 Likes |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by TradeCorner: 1:04pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
crackkhaus:
Lol, I'm tempted to ask where he learnt that from.  You asked where they learn things from. I was at my buddy's house some years back and since the family and I was so good and I'm trusted they opened their family to me. Bro, one day like that the day I chose to make it my last day visiting their family I got the shock of my life. I was so shock and I'm having chills run down my spine remembering what happened. My friends youngest sister around 4-5years of age straffed me erotically and intensely. As she was making the movements,the shock froze me Cold. The moment I recovered the shock, I picked myself up ran out of the house and till today I never visit his house or go near him again. It's influence that causes such. I'm still on shock typing this 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by xrayj(m): 1:04pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
bukatyne:
Where did he get the mentality from?
Cut off the source and replace it by feeding him with what you want him to be.
The replacement is key. Nature abhors a vacuum.
U see your life 
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| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:04pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Pheelz2020:
lolx..
too much of nickelodeon...
WELL, YOU NEED TO TALK HIM OUT OF IT..
HE SHOULD START WASHING IMMEDIATELY,
LET HIM KNOW HIS CURRENT MINDSET IS WRONG... .. Ok bro 1 Like |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by idonhammer: 1:05pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
I don't get it, so what you all are saying is that after fueling my car,my wife's car,pay all the bills including her upkeep money and feeding money. I will still use the same hand to wash my undies? I swear all of una dey crase.You should be thanking God for giving you a smart son that reason like a real man. The day wife my will sit back and allow me to wash my undies by myself will be the end of the damn marriage. Quote me and be quarantined as coronavirus patient. 1 Like |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by bmdmixer: 1:06pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:
How Do I Make My 4years Old Son Understand Or S He Still Too Young
Happy Sunday my fellow Nairalanders. Sure we all are cool?
Sorry to bother you all but I have been worried since what transpired between myself and my son who will be 4yrs by June this year.
I was not able to go to church today due to the fact that I just came back from travel very late yesterday night.
So I was asleep when my wife and my two sons left for service. I woke up around some minutes after 12 noon and decided to wash some of the undies I wore during my journey.
As I was doing that, my wife and kids came back and my son rushed straight to my room shouting daddy daddy, when I answered from the bathroom and he came in and saw me washing, the question he asked me has been making me uncomfortable.
He said "Daddy, why are you washing? Are you a girl? Before he could finish that my wife walked in and said to him, Don't worry, very soon you will start washing your clothes by yourself but what got me more worried was his reply. He told my wife that he won't wash his cloths that it's girls that are supposed to be washing.
Honestly, I'm worried, will he out grow this mentality?
I need a wide coverage, please. this one is the issue, are u 20yrs of age? 1 Like |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by infogenius(m): 1:07pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
OP
I always thought women did all the cooking and house chores when I was a boy.
But all changed as I grew older.
By the time I got into university, I was a good cook.
No lady ever ate my food and remained the same, they all wanted more.
Life will definitely help him change that mentality. It's just a matter of time.
Just do all that is needed as a dad to help him grow responsibly. 5 Likes |
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| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Mazk: 1:07pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Wash your clothes more often to show him guys watch too. That is the only solution 4 Likes |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Ehibiggirl(f): 1:07pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:
.. It's not about simping. I do chores but I'm not a simp.Sometimes I even do the cooking if my wife is not disposed. That does not make me a simp bro. thank you very much for saying this. Your wife is blessed. I think you and your wife should engage your son in some little house chores so that he would understand early that keeping the house is everyone’s responsibility boys and girls alike. Thanks for sharing. 6 Likes |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Romanoff(f): 1:10pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:
.. It's not about simping. I do chores but I'm not a simp.Sometimes I even do the cooking if my wife is not disposed. That does not make me a simp bro. Na man you be. Teach your son to be like you. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Mazk: 1:10pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
bukatyne:
Where did he get the mentality from?
Cut off the source and replace it by feeding him with what you want him to be.
The replacement is key. Nature abhors a vacuum.
what you want him to be? You can't force someone to become what you want them to be. You will only end up breaking them |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by lonelydora: 1:10pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:
How Do I Make My 4years Old Son Understand Or S He Still Too Young
Happy Sunday my fellow Nairalanders. Sure we all are cool?
Sorry to bother you all but I have been worried since what transpired between myself and my son who will be 4yrs by June this year.
I was not able to go to church today due to the fact that I just came back from travel very late yesterday night.
So I was asleep when my wife and my two sons left for service. I woke up around some minutes after 12 noon and decided to wash some of the undies I wore during my journey.
As I was doing that, my wife and kids came back and my son rushed straight to my room shouting daddy daddy, when I answered from the bathroom and he came in and saw me washing, the question he asked me has been making me uncomfortable.
He said "Daddy, why are you washing? Are you a girl? Before he could finish that my wife walked in and said to him, Don't worry, very soon you will start washing your clothes by yourself but what got me more worried was his reply. He told my wife that he won't wash his cloths that it's girls that are supposed to be washing.
Honestly, I'm worried, will he out grow this mentality?
I need a wide coverage, please. My 4-years old daughter always ask me most Saturdays whenever I help wifey in house chores "Daddy, are you a Mummy that you sweeping and mopping?" See, it's even good he saw you doing it. He will grow to change his mentality unknown to you. Most stuffs I do at home, I saw my dad do them 7 Likes |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:12pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
lonelydora:
My 4-years old daughter always ask me most Saturdays whenever I help wifey in house chores "Daddy, are you a Mummy that you sweeping and mopping?"
See, it's even good he saw you doing it. He will grow to change his mentality unknown to you. Most stuffs I do at home, I saw my dad do them .. Thanks bro. 1 Like |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by pmoye(m): 1:12pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
You should not be worried. You should be happy that he voiced that out to you. What you need to do now is not to argue with him, but to give him experiential re-education. Make sure you start washing more with him; give him a small bowl, throw his pant inside and give him soap and water, while you wash together with him. He will love it, but importantly he will gradually learn that each person (boy or girl) must have basic skills to take care of himself. Don't limit it there, make sure you introduce him to all chores including cooking, cleaning and so on. Build him into a real man who is not just able to fend for his own, but can also take care of himself and his household. If your wife/gf has a full time job like you as a man, then house chores belong to both of you as well. JONNYSPUTE:
How Do I Make My 4years Old Son Understand Or S He Still Too Young
Happy Sunday my fellow Nairalanders. Sure we all are cool?
Sorry to bother you all but I have been worried since what transpired between myself and my son who will be 4yrs by June this year.
I was not able to go to church today due to the fact that I just came back from travel very late yesterday night.
So I was asleep when my wife and my two sons left for service. I woke up around some minutes after 12 noon and decided to wash some of the undies I wore during my journey.
As I was doing that, my wife and kids came back and my son rushed straight to my room shouting daddy daddy, when I answered from the bathroom and he came in and saw me washing, the question he asked me has been making me uncomfortable.
He said "Daddy, why are you washing? Are you a girl? Before he could finish that my wife walked in and said to him, Don't worry, very soon you will start washing your clothes by yourself but what got me more worried was his reply. He told my wife that he won't wash his cloths that it's girls that are supposed to be washing.
Honestly, I'm worried, will he out grow this mentality?
I need a wide coverage, please. 5 Likes |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Mazk: 1:13pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO:
After you and your wife have explained to him that doing the laundry is a chore both male and female should be able to do very well, make sure he sees you as many times as possible on your subsequent laundry sessions.
If you find your neighbours doing their laundry or spreading their clothes, show him. But very importantly, start getting him to take care of his own laundry... washing a handkerchief, his boxers/pants, etc. A child can always be re-psyched. at 4? |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by PrinceJoeWan(m): 1:13pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Brazenbabe:
This is how you dolts "unsimp" yourselves into uselessness
Your redpill brain cannot envisage that the 4 year old child would get married in the next 25 years at least
Do you really think that this women belong to the kitchen and men belong to the office crap you people are struggling to hold onto would exist in the next 10 years?
Take a look around you, is it only men that were affected by this keke and okada ban? Did you not see men and women protesting side by side (occupy Lagos protest)
Everybody should learn how to wash clothes, everybody should learn to make money. It is a necessary survival skill.
If a man washes his wife's panties, is is bad? No be him dey chop wetin pant dey cover?
It is men like you that look after their wives after childbirth, cook for them, clean them up , hold the baby while she sleeps, they dont have two heads
yet some of you are pushing an outdated narrative that makes you so useless to your partner that you cant boil water
That why why your wives make useless shakara and refuse to cook when they are angry cos they know you are uselessly useless in the kitchen.
Keep making yourselves irrelevant, Women are replacing you in the boardrooms, dildos are replacing you in the bedrooms
Dont reinvent your selves please. Dont be a "simp". Mtcheeew
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| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by witworth(m): 1:13pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
The boy needs to be rich otherwise he will suffer a lot from less expensive shits |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Sterope(f): 1:13pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
I don't understand the people shouting 'assist' on top of your own underwear  12 Likes |
| Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by sylve11: 1:14pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Your son is an old soul. I hope you understand me?  |
