The reason is simple.

Someone who is not too good looking does not waste time trying to slay. They work on their inner person, which is what truly keeps a relationship strong and steady.

In contrast, those with good looks spend time on trying to maintain those looks, and hardly work on their inner person. That is why most fine men are arrogant and cocky, and the ladies talk and reason like people with no home training.

At the end of the day, a man seeks a woman who will keep his home, not one who spends hours in front of a mirror!

Offpoint:
Sense over beauty, I don't care how ugly you are... just have sense and have a low cut hairstyle... I'll sell my father properties for your sake.

guy,i have a thing for gal who rock low cut too .or corn row neatly done no be that type wey dem local barber dey carve like olosho own. and the record I don't like fair skin girl I'm a big fan of brown skin girl anyday.very sexy color

Unattractive people are bold they go for what they want unlike handsome guys and beautiful girls who prefer you to come to them.

Most times, you hear girls say I'm beautiful but guys don't approach me, do these ladies think marriages today is about the guys making all the moves is a 2-way thing. The handsome dudes concentrate too much on their look and lack the skills of wooing ladies they end up with women who approached them.

We know ugly guys got the best approaching skills because that's all they got.

Chi59:
Well that's true. Most guys are afraid to approach me, despite the fact I'm good looking. I think it boils down to stereotyping and low self esteem.
Character can't be measured by looks or the lack thereof.

Get away from here my friend..."I just hate this line that pretty girls are using lately" ...."they are afraid to approach me blah blah blah"....who are the "they"? So someone in a relationship now cannot admire pretty girls from afar or close by...is it a must they ask you out.....? Low self esteem my foot.....

BadRadio:
I just cant wrap my head around it. I ve observed overtime and I am still wondering how these things happen.

You see a very good looking dude/lady getting married to a not so physically appealing and compatible dude/lady.

ce

Peace of mind...no one will disturb the not so appealing partner for Sex.

Unattractive to you

Fulfilledmezu:
it's just pure physics, positive attracts negative and vice versa

Leave physics out of this, in life, positive attracts positive and negative attracts negative.
A marlian attracts another marlian.

When it's time to marry, you'll see that it takes more than physical appearance.

Chi59:

If I do that, then it'd show that I need your validation. But then I don't. I'd post it whenever I feel like, as I always do. Keep tabs on me.

Are you chipink?
I mean did you change your moniker from that to what you have now.

Have you not heard that unlike poles attract?

Just coz some ladies are already turning evening newspaper. If it's guys, age is no more on their side. They wanna procreate children on time. My point though

na true.

me for example, I like ladies with big boobs. yeah, I'm a boobs guy.


but, I won't marry a woman who gat big breast. it won't work.

reason is best known to me.



when the time to marry your wife or husband comes, you'd know that it is not only about beauty/handsomeness.


good thing is that a woman/man who is not that fine should marry who is finer.
fine man and woman can marry, while not fine woman and man can also marry each other, but the choice is yours.



you will understand better when it is your turn.

Skmoda360:

Get away from here my friend..."I just hate this line that pretty girls are using lately" ...."they are afraid to approach me blah blah blah"....who are the "they"? So someone in a relationship now cannot admire pretty girls from afar or close by...is it a must they ask you out.....? Low self esteem my foot.....

Looking for the sense in this comment...

Tmb78:
Are you chipink?
I mean did you change your moniker from that to what you have now.

No

Na Travis Scott and Kylie Jenner own dey bafull me

Most unattractive people are ambitious.

Chi59:

No

you write like her

An aunty once told me "when u want to marry better marry a beautiful girl". I asked her why, and she replied "the world is unfair to ugly people. Just look at the queue in the banking hall, twi girls tried to jump it to the head(not at the same time tho), one who was not too fine was shouted on and practically chased off, while the other a very beautiful and classy looking chic was silently ushered in by the men and the ladies on the queue just turned their heads away. That’s what ur kids will face if u marry an ugly woman".

Naturally, I have never seen reason to think her wrong!

EzePromoe:
The so-called unattractive ladies are so loyal especially when they're in a relationship with a handsome dude. They consider themselves lucky and give their all to the relationship. The fine boy sees a 'wife material' and goes for her.

Simple!!!

I disagree
Cos most of the time you notice the 'ugly' one in the relationship has the upper hand, more vocal not necessarily financially buoyant
It may sometimes have something to do with sexual activity

Chi59:
Well that's true. Most guys are afraid to approach me, despite the fact I'm good looking. I think it boils down to stereotyping and low self esteem.
Character can't be measured by looks or the lack thereof.

Av u tryb approaching them

Chi59:

Looking for the sense in this comment...

The point here is that you are definitely in a relationship but are looking for avenue to cheat hence the reason why you want some random guys to ask you out......low self esteem my foot....

vickydevoka:

Av u tryb approaching them

That girl dey lie bro....she is a one time bitch looking for attention.....

Tmb78:
you write like her

Interesting.

Then who will marry the urgly ones?

vickydevoka:

Av u tryb approaching them

Nigerian guys don't value been approached or toasted. They think you're a cheap fling, a chop and clean mouth. You know what I'm saying?

First of all, Is your pocket fine?

Skmoda360:

That girl dey lie bro....she is a one time bitch looking for attention.....

Mmmm... Still no sense. Stop disgracing yourself.

EzePromoe:
The so-called unattractive ladies are so loyal especially when they're in a relationship with a handsome dude. They consider themselves lucky and give their all to the relationship. The fine boy sees a 'wife material' and goes for her.

Simple!!!

50|50
Equation balance

Have you ever seen the positive side of the magnet attract the positive of another? They repel one another.

In English too

Two past tense don't go along. Na bad English.

I saw him do it

Not


I saw him did it




That was on a lighter mood.


Seriously there are lots and lots of beautiful people who married each other. Example is me and my wife.

When my children were small everyone wanted to carry them. They were so lovely to behold. Result of two beautiful ppl who married each other.

Money rules

Please use oshomele pictures

Stone03:
Handsome guys has so many reasons 1. They MUST have endured much from attractive girls during dating or flexing time and couldn't couple the stress of marriage with the pride and excesses of an attractive wife. 2. Majority of them have flexed with women with beautiful outlooks, now they want to settle for character. 3' The time to monitor the pretty wife isn't their. They too must have had their own share in going after someone's wife and wouldn't want such happening to them. 4. Beautiful women don't settle down on time because of the rush they get from guys. Most of them enjoy seeing guys crying and behaving weird for seeking their hands in marriage.There many reasons

Valid points