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Akinowon123:
I just me this girl two weeks ago and I already liked her. I made my intentions known to her that I like her and we can be friends, because I believe from friendship we can take it to the next stage.

So, two days ago I asked her how Val will be and she told me she doesn't know the plan yet. I said if she would be free, we can go out. Immediately I said this, she told me she's not going anywhere and she will be available.

Fast forward to today. She told me she's ready around 12pm and I got the address of where she was. I met her with her friend, I immediately asked what's up with the friend. She told me she was going to somewhere else and we are heading towards her direction so we can all enter the same cab. Not long as I made attempt to stop a bus or bike, the friend waved us good bye that she is no more following us. We got to the eatery and I ordered food to be eaten but the girl said she won't be able to eat there that it should be packed. So mine too was packed, I told her we should head to my house so we can chill and enjoy what Val has in-store for us.

Immediately, she came up with a excuse that her friend will be waiting for her as they are going somewhere. I was disturbed and told her ' does that mean u will leave me just like that' . She left with the ordered food for both of us still with me and promise to come to my place. About 1 hour later she called and I gave her the address to my house.

5 minutes after she entered the room, she told me she won't stay long that her dad as been asking about her where about. I separated the food and drinks with other stuffs I bought and gave her her part. Few minutes later she stood up to leave, that was how she left for good.

I don't know if I am a mumu man for doing this or it's normal and I should give her time. Not like I wanted to sleep with her but just been together sharing memories and getting to know each other more better was my plan but I supposed she just acted smart to get what she wanted

What do u think guys??

funmisticqueen2:
Audio 11k

Romeo3:
12 million. Since you can't see the point.

He spent money he doesn't have to impress a girl for all the wrong reasons like vals day sex. Since you want it to be spelt out to you.

Ade24682:
Typical Nigerian. You were poor at being sarcastic, next time you trying to tell someone something in a twisted way, do it well.

Akinowon123:
I just me this girl two weeks ago and I already liked her. I made my intentions known to her that I like her and we can be friends, because I believe from friendship we can take it to the next stage.

So, two days ago I asked her how Val will be and she told me she doesn't know the plan yet. I said if she would be free, we can go out. Immediately I said this, she told me she's not going anywhere and she will be available.

Fast forward to today. She told me she's ready around 12pm and I got the address of where she was. I met her with her friend, I immediately asked what's up with the friend. She told me she was going to somewhere else and we are heading towards her direction so we can all enter the same cab. Not long as I made attempt to stop a bus or bike, the friend waved us good bye that she is no more following us. We got to the eatery and I ordered food to be eaten but the girl said she won't be able to eat there that it should be packed. So mine too was packed, I told her we should head to my house so we can chill and enjoy what Val has in-store for us.

Immediately, she came up with a excuse that her friend will be waiting for her as they are going somewhere. I was disturbed and told her ' does that mean u will leave me just like that' . She left with the ordered food for both of us still with me and promise to come to my place. About 1 hour later she called and I gave her the address to my house.

5 minutes after she entered the room, she told me she won't stay long that her dad as been asking about her where about. I separated the food and drinks with other stuffs I bought and gave her her part. Few minutes later she stood up to leave, that was how she left for good.

I don't know if I am a mumu man for doing this or it's normal and I should give her time. Not like I wanted to sleep with her but just been together sharing memories and getting to know each other more better was my plan but I supposed she just acted smart to get what she wanted

What do u think guys??

Akinowon123:
I just me this girl two weeks ago and I already liked her. I made my intentions known to her that I like her and we can be friends, because I believe from friendship we can take it to the next stage.

So, two days ago I asked her how Val will be and she told me she doesn't know the plan yet. I said if she would be free, we can go out. Immediately I said this, she told me she's not going anywhere and she will be available.

Fast forward to today. She told me she's ready around 12pm and I got the address of where she was. I met her with her friend, I immediately asked what's up with the friend. She told me she was going to somewhere else and we are heading towards her direction so we can all enter the same cab. Not long as I made attempt to stop a bus or bike, the friend waved us good bye that she is no more following us. We got to the eatery and I ordered food to be eaten but the girl said she won't be able to eat there that it should be packed. So mine too was packed, I told her we should head to my house so we can chill and enjoy what Val has in-store for us.

Immediately, she came up with a excuse that her friend will be waiting for her as they are going somewhere. I was disturbed and told her ' does that mean u will leave me just like that' . She left with the ordered food for both of us still with me and promise to come to my place. About 1 hour later she called and I gave her the address to my house.

5 minutes after she entered the room, she told me she won't stay long that her dad as been asking about her where about. I separated the food and drinks with other stuffs I bought and gave her her part. Few minutes later she stood up to leave, that was how she left for good.

I don't know if I am a mumu man for doing this or it's normal and I should give her time. Not like I wanted to sleep with her but just been together sharing memories and getting to know each other more better was my plan but I supposed she just acted smart to get what she wanted

What do u think guys??

Akinowon123:
I just me this girl two weeks ago and I already liked her. I made my intentions known to her that I like her and we can be friends, because I believe from friendship we can take it to the next stage.

So, two days ago I asked her how Val will be and she told me she doesn't know the plan yet. I said if she would be free, we can go out. Immediately I said this, she told me she's not going anywhere and she will be available.

Fast forward to today. She told me she's ready around 12pm and I got the address of where she was. I met her with her friend, I immediately asked what's up with the friend. She told me she was going to somewhere else and we are heading towards her direction so we can all enter the same cab. Not long as I made attempt to stop a bus or bike, the friend waved us good bye that she is no more following us. We got to the eatery and I ordered food to be eaten but the girl said she won't be able to eat there that it should be packed. So mine too was packed, I told her we should head to my house so we can chill and enjoy what Val has in-store for us.

Immediately, she came up with a excuse that her friend will be waiting for her as they are going somewhere. I was disturbed and told her ' does that mean u will leave me just like that' . She left with the ordered food for both of us still with me and promise to come to my place. About 1 hour later she called and I gave her the address to my house.

5 minutes after she entered the room, she told me she won't stay long that her dad as been asking about her where about. I separated the food and drinks with other stuffs I bought and gave her her part. Few minutes later she stood up to leave, that was how she left for good.

I don't know if I am a mumu man for doing this or it's normal and I should give her time. Not like I wanted to sleep with her but just been together sharing memories and getting to know each other more better was my plan but I supposed she just acted smart to get what she wanted

What do u think guys??

marvin906:
you shot yourself...
you guy's have just know each other like two weeks and the best thing you could do was to bring her to your house on Val's day of all day's what do you expect her to think.
after leaving the eatery you should have redirected the meeting to another place aside your house

Akinowon123:
I just me this girl two weeks ago and I already liked her. I made my intentions known to her that I like her and we can be friends, because I believe from friendship we can take it to the next stage.

So, two days ago I asked her how Val will be and she told me she doesn't know the plan yet. I said if she would be free, we can go out. Immediately I said this, she told me she's not going anywhere and she will be available.

Fast forward to today. She told me she's ready around 12pm and I got the address of where she was. I met her with her friend, I immediately asked what's up with the friend. She told me she was going to somewhere else and we are heading towards her direction so we can all enter the same cab. Not long as I made attempt to stop a bus or bike, the friend waved us good bye that she is no more following us. We got to the eatery and I ordered food to be eaten but the girl said she won't be able to eat there that it should be packed. So mine too was packed, I told her we should head to my house so we can chill and enjoy what Val has in-store for us.

Immediately, she came up with a excuse that her friend will be waiting for her as they are going somewhere. I was disturbed and told her ' does that mean u will leave me just like that' . She left with the ordered food for both of us still with me and promise to come to my place. About 1 hour later she called and I gave her the address to my house.

5 minutes after she entered the room, she told me she won't stay long that her dad as been asking about her where about. I separated the food and drinks with other stuffs I bought and gave her her part. Few minutes later she stood up to leave, that was how she left for good.

I don't know if I am a mumu man for doing this or it's normal and I should give her time. Not like I wanted to sleep with her but just been together sharing memories and getting to know each other more better was my plan but I supposed she just acted smart to get what she wanted

What do u think guys??

Romeo3:
I was trying to come down to your intellectual level.

Ade24682:
Oga shut up. Go back and read what you wrote and see if there was an atom of Sarcasm there.

Akinowon123:
Lol. Send ur Aza pls

SavageMaster:
Children of these days. I don't know where you learn all these from.

You met someone two weeks ago, and wanted to know her better. Good. Which memories are you "sharing" with her, in your house? What happened to all the eateries in town? What happened to all the public places, amusement parks and so on.

Again, buying food and drinks for her doesn't give you the right to expect her anywhere near your house. Besides, you're not the first guy that is buying her food, neither will you be the last.

Your purpose is already defined. You want to know her better and see if anything will work out between both of you. What if it finally doesn't?

As for the lady, I think she is wise. You can't place such demands on someone that is not your wife. I think she has her boundaries, and you must respect it if you want to maximize this friendship.

Finally, the headline of this thread is misleading. She didn't scam you. Today's atmosphere is already charged. It's not everyone that "celebrates" Valentine. Maybe she agreed to go out with you today just out of courtesy, while at the same time trying to maintain her guard, to avoid stories that touch

Romeo3:
if you're too fvcking dumb to comprehend how's that a problem of mine?

Ade24682:
Lol. Dumb trying to be sarcastic. See the number of likes there, it’s going to tell you, how dull you are. Pray this doesn’t get to FP. Then you know how dumb you are.

Romeo3:
You're so stupid you clamor for likes. Likes are for stupid people like you. If it was left to me, likes would be removed. I guess your life revolves around people liking you. Pathetic asswipe.

Ade24682:
Lol. E pain am
I just went through your comments. You go about fighting and cursing on nairaland. Kids.

Romeo3:
What a _moron!

I'm your God and I own you for you to go thru my comments when I give zero fvcks about you... I value and have more regard for my toilet paper than I'll ever regard you in this life. Why don't you follow me so you're updated whenever I make a comment since you are so desperate to kiss my arse.

Ade24682:
Lol kiddo

Romeo3:
Thats my boy... I've reduced your miserable existence to posting just 2 words.

Fvck off my mentions and stay there... Son of a thousand fathers.

Akinowon123:
I just me this girl two weeks ago and I already liked her. I made my intentions known to her that I like her and we can be friends, because I believe from friendship we can take it to the next stage.

So, two days ago I asked her how Val will be and she told me she doesn't know the plan yet. I said if she would be free, we can go out. Immediately I said this, she told me she's not going anywhere and she will be available.

Fast forward to today. She told me she's ready around 12pm and I got the address of where she was. I met her with her friend, I immediately asked what's up with the friend. She told me she was going to somewhere else and we are heading towards her direction so we can all enter the same cab. Not long as I made attempt to stop a bus or bike, the friend waved us good bye that she is no more following us. We got to the eatery and I ordered food to be eaten but the girl said she won't be able to eat there that it should be packed. So mine too was packed, I told her we should head to my house so we can chill and enjoy what Val has in-store for us.

Immediately, she came up with a excuse that her friend will be waiting for her as they are going somewhere. I was disturbed and told her ' does that mean u will leave me just like that' . She left with the ordered food for both of us still with me and promise to come to my place. About 1 hour later she called and I gave her the address to my house.

5 minutes after she entered the room, she told me she won't stay long that her dad as been asking about her where about. I separated the food and drinks with other stuffs I bought and gave her her part. Few minutes later she stood up to leave, that was how she left for good.

I don't know if I am a mumu man for doing this or it's normal and I should give her time. Not like I wanted to sleep with her but just been together sharing memories and getting to know each other more better was my plan but I supposed she just acted smart to get what she wanted

What do u think guys??

funmisticqueen2:
Audio 11k

MedicH:
Why does 11k about 30$ seems like a lot to u?

funmisticqueen2:
don't be a dick this evening.

Akinowon123:
I will later preach the word of God after sharing memories.

Romeo3:
11k? Are you fvcking kidding me? No vex bro...


You're broke.

Being broke isn't a crime. We all get broke. But you aren't allowed to be broke and stupid at the same time. Else you wouldn't be here crying over your "loss".

Akinowon123:
Was never hard before. I be bad boy, me self know. It will only take me some steps to sleep with her but I just like her. I need a relationship with her, so I want to take it slow.

I get format Wella, na she go beg to insert it but na. Let's spread love today

Timson01:
Your problem is you are too forward yes you don't want to sleep with her but you are creating scenarios to make her think you want to sleep with her,first you just met her ,u hardly know each other you have not even created trust I meant she has not trust you enough and you are thinking of making her follow you to your house just like that because you bought food for her,baba it doesn't work like that dating is like playing football you have to pass move dribble before you can score,and two stop been too forward hasty to spend for a girl you can as well subscribed to a life where you will spend everyday ,first impression matters dude ,.there are other ways to prove you love someone too much spending at the end you create a negative impression about yourself

funmisticqueen2:
don't be a dick this evening.

Romeo3:
if you're too fvcking dumb to comprehend how's that a problem of mine?