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A.. by MonTaNa92: 5:25am On Feb 15, 2020 |
A.. 1 Like |
Re: A.. by ideabuilder: 5:37am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Dump her and go make money. 9 Likes |
Re: A.. by 042BADDESTGUY(m): 5:44am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Op, u deserve better |
Re: A.. by Pubichairs(m): 5:46am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Is that why u are crying? I swear u be fowl Toto...such a weakling 4 Likes |
Re: A.. by Kenoxman(m): 6:08am On Feb 15, 2020 |
U see am now? when they tell u guys not to venture into a relationship while u are still struggling financially una no go hear. u ppl will be talking bullcrap of how love conquers all. Do u know what those small small money ranging from 2-5k u used to give her can do for u if saved overtime? Truth is u will struggle more if u dare venture into a relationship when u are not financially stable as a man. Too much pressure, no peace of mind, suspicion here and there. Infact if u were meant to stabilize in 2 years, it will take u additional 2-3 yrs becos of ur relationship. A lady can be 16, and broke but will still have a wonderful relationship but not so for a 30 yr old man. Get hold of ur emotions buddy. Na friends with benefits sure pass now cos body no be firewood. Friends with benefit too sweet abeg. 11 Likes |
Re: A.. by daddytime(m): 6:25am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Na which kind yeye marriage una dey discuss when una never fit handle ordinary boyfriend/girlfriend matter? 5 Likes |
Re: A.. by Azeh(m): 6:42am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Ogah my advice for u in order to escape un timely is to japa |
Re: A.. by yanabasee(m): 6:44am On Feb 15, 2020 |
You don't have to blame her...... Alot of times, we find ourselves dating someone we had high hopes of helping us and it turns out the other way. Op, your girl needs someone with some qualities that you don't have and that alone is a burden on her. The compatibility is not there.... Talk to her, renew your future plans and try to include her, make plans for her and she will readjust her stance on the relationship. And stop including her friend whenever you have issues with your woman. 1 Like |
Re: A.. by Stanfarrel: 6:58am On Feb 15, 2020 |
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Re: A.. by ecstasy357(m): 7:06am On Feb 15, 2020 |
MonTaNa92: Some of you can ask some really funny questions oooo You guys are not married, you've identified traits about her character you dont like.... And you are here in Nairaland asking WHAT SHOULD I DO? you are like that brother that went to LG store to buy TV, you find out that the TV is black n white, you went outside to asked passerby If you should buy the TV..... BROS, THE THING MAKE SENSE? 1 Like |
Re: A.. by Naomila: 7:09am On Feb 15, 2020 |
As long as you guys are not married,why should you deal with her? |
Re: A.. by Sankabson(m): 7:11am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Ogbeni! Wake Uppp!! |
Re: A.. by Nobody: 7:18am On Feb 15, 2020 |
I guess I will never understand why a man will be paying any money to a woman he is not married to; whether she is grateful for it or not. Bro, the courting stage is not a stage at which you should spend any money. At this stage, she should be the one trying to impress you that she is worthy of your admitting her to your home, not the other way around. This one is a gone case. Dump her then go and sin no more; by not making any such financial dealings in your next courtship. 4 Likes |
Re: A.. by mrphysics(m): 7:34am On Feb 15, 2020 |
You are just her sugar daddy bro. She won't even think it twice to dump you when she finds someone richer. You need no man or God's direction to know what to do. Because it is already very very visible to the blind. Why do we have to suffer these kind of emotional trauma's for ladies that clearly do not value us. Like people advised, focus all your energy in getting back to your feet. When I was in the university, I had most ladies do same thing over people who are already working. By the time, I left the university, things changed so fast, I went back to them, took my three points and left. In fact, I turned them to FWB while they see me progress speedily in life and regret their decisions. 3 Likes |
Re: A.. by Offpoint: 7:36am On Feb 15, 2020 |
I bring beers & food for all the singles in this thread, let's relax, drink and eat while we can. Op you said you'll be "Brief" and you call all that epistle "Brief? 2 Likes
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Re: A.. by Digmygold: 8:12am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Let us hear her own side of the story first. You excluded and deleted your own part. |
Re: A.. by Digmygold: 8:15am On Feb 15, 2020 |
ecstasy357: TVs,have no emotions. Humans do. Borrow sense. |
Re: A.. by Skmoda360(m): 8:29am On Feb 15, 2020 |
ideabuilder:You think it's easy to make money in Nigeria? Ask any struggling guys they will tell you in case I f you are swimming in money. 1 Like |
Re: A.. by Nobody: 9:13am On Feb 15, 2020 |
You're not sure you can settle for a girl you give 5k to and she's only complaining? That girl is a rear, better pamper her and appreciate her. Her type is almost instinct. |
Re: A.. by femi4: 9:59am On Feb 15, 2020 |
5k x 12= 60k No wonder, you are struggling. Kontinu...with your mumuness |
Re: A.. by ecstasy357(m): 10:19am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Digmygold: Certainly not gonno borrow from u..... peeps like will keep coming back here to ask stupid questions, WE AT THE CHURCH, SHOULD I SAY I DO? |
Re: A.. by Masterclass32: 10:54am On Feb 15, 2020 |
There's only one way. Run! |
Re: A.. by HRHQueenPhil(f): 11:23am On Feb 15, 2020 |
If you can only make it for our covenant day of open doors at the living faith church winners chapel tomorrow Sunday at the nearest one close to u or cananland Ota if u live in lagos.. Time is 7:45 and 9:30am service. God will give u wisdom to handle relationships and every aspect of ur life u need his touch. Make it a date and return with the key to being an overcomer |
Re: A.. by Jodha(f): 11:38am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Stop stressing yhurself unnecessarily...if yhu can't cope with her excessive nagging... quit nah.. Cause yhu sound fed up 1 Like |
Re: A.. by Digmygold: 11:53am On Feb 15, 2020 |
ecstasy357: Borrowing from an imbecilic goat will do because apparently that kinda brain is betrer than being a numbskull. You have no feelngs nor emotions doesnt mean we all have to be like you. |
Re: A.. by FunnyDude(m): 11:57am On Feb 15, 2020 |
grossintel: Is he her Dad? |
Re: A.. by victorian(f): 12:01pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Op the relationship is dead on arrival since the day she said, she had money but didn't borrow u out of trust issues. Just breakup and move on. Dating her no be byforce. It's not working. Both of u will keep hurting yourselves further. So stop! And let go |
Re: A.. by victorian(f): 12:08pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
FunnyDude: Is she his mother fo borrow him money for his biz? Can't he walk to the bank? |
Re: A.. by ecstasy357(m): 12:16pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Digmygold: You would know which brain is better, right?! I do fancy ya experience but I dont wanna live ya kinda life. I dont want u to be like me, that's too difficult for you. Just don't do stupid, that shit is easier. |
Re: A.. by Digmygold: 12:22pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
ecstasy357: I know the difference because a wise man can see through a numbskull who spews trash to claim relevant. Have you found an imbecilic goat for the brain transplant yet? Once you do i will know because you will start to sound a little coherent to fellow goat brained individusls. |
Re: A.. by alexmakaay(m): 12:24pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
MonTaNa92: we shall not only ignore your grammatical blunder.. you and your story inclusive. |
Re: A.. by FunnyDude(m): 12:26pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
victorian: Mad oo |
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