Hi, everyone. I wasn't sure where I should post this but this section seems like the best place.

Anyway, I needed your opinion on this matter. Today, on my way back from an errand, a car drove past me and the driver shouted from his car "I want to borrow your laps". My response reaction was too slow as I didn't even get a good look at the driver. Now that I think about it, I'm not certain what my response would have been tbh.

To help your judgement, I'd explain what I was wearing. A mid thigh gown that I supposed accentuated my legs.

I'm not sure why I'm posting this here or what I want from you guys, except that this is the first time ever someone has made such comments to me. I'm repulsed and irked by this.

Has anyone ever encountered such? How did you react? How did you deal with it?

Now we know you have good legs. Even though we still need photo/video evidence.

That's by the way though. You should be happy anyways. And if truly you are "irked and repulsed" as you say, then you should stop wearing revealing outfits not because you don't have a right to, but because you can't stop people from passing comments - both positive and negative. Besides, we have never heard that a girl died from being covered up. Cheers!

Yes ... But not my real legs tho... My third leg was complimented like that.

It happened I was urinating on a wall wen a beautiful girl walked by and said, Wow brother I for like borrow your stuff* I was shocked and couldn't move lol...

Sixfeetbelle:
Hi, everyone. I wasn't sure where I should post this but this section seems like the best place.

Anyway, I needed your opinion on this matter. Today, on my way back from an errand, a car drove past me and the driver shouted from his car "I want to borrow your laps". My response reaction was too slow as I didn't even get a good look at the driver. Now that I think about it, I'm not certain what my response would have been tbh.

To help your judgement, I'd explain what I was wearing. A mid thigh gown that I supposed accentuated my legs.

I'm not sure why I'm posting this here or what I want from you guys, except that this is the first time ever someone has made such comments to me. I'm repulsed and irked by this.

Has anyone ever encountered such? How did you react? How did you deal with it?

As long as its NOT love, sister go and pray and be very security conscious.

Were you deaf? A fellow human is complementing you NOT in a manner for love or relationship BUT for your body parts like as though you are an OBJECT.....

Do you not know there are CANNIBALS in naija?
Do you not know there are ritualists here?
Do you not know there are people who know the price of body parts?

Such sentence is a DARK SPEECH.... and no one can come here to make it seem harmless, else they are suspects.

Those who do baby factories use certain words too that can be used to identify their motives.

SEE, FOR YOUR OWN GOOD BE VERY SECURITY CONSCIOUS, GO AND PRAY FERVENTLY AND WATCH HOW YOU DRESS.

Am not taking this too serious... it is overly serious and the way naija is now, everything should be triple checked with caution.

So you opened a whole thread just to let us know you were cat-called?
Is this attention seeking?
Every woman gets cat called. There is nothing special about this occurence that needs a thread.

That's like peeing and then creating a thread so Nairalanders can help you analyse the fact that you just peed.

is that lap of the girl with a water gun chasing the boy? maybe he wants it for ritual purposes ....

This your advert strategy is legendary! So now we know you have a sexy laps, how much does it cost to worship inside

He is probably admiring your sexy thighs not sure though

I'm crazy about beautiful thighs and legs.
Those types that are fresh and well shaped. I don't care about beautiful face, but beautiful thighs and shapely legs....dayuuum!!!!

Sixfeetbelle:
Hi, everyone. I wasn't sure where I should post this but this section seems like the best place.

Anyway, I needed your opinion on this matter. Today, on my way back from an errand, a car drove past me and the driver shouted from his car "I want to borrow your laps". My response reaction was too slow as I didn't even get a good look at the driver. Now that I think about it, I'm not certain what my response would have been tbh.

To help your judgement, I'd explain what I was wearing. A mid thigh gown that I supposed accentuated my legs.

I'm not sure why I'm posting this here or what I want from you guys, except that this is the first time ever someone has made such comments to me. I'm repulsed and irked by this.

Has anyone ever encountered such? How did you react? How did you deal with it?

But that's what we get in brothels, so how else do u want to be addressed, dress d way u should be addressed. if u don't respect ur temple enof and protect it, then expectt all wild animals coming there to worship, except your r a forest urself, the natural habitat of wild animals.
He had seen a zoo where wild animals are resident, he wants to be kept in ur disease infested beautiful zoo.

2buffagain:
So you opened a whole thread just to let us know you were cat-called?
Is this attention seeking?
Every woman gets cat called. There is nothing special about this occurence that needs a thread.

That's like peeing and then creating a thread so Nairalanders can help you analyse the fact that you just peed.

Lol, IKR! I bet the same guy was yelling out the window to someone else, just seconds later. Many ladies would have their egos crushed if they knew that guys are, for the most part, just entertaining themselves when they say & do these things. It's meaningless talk on their part, while she's taking it personally, examining it & feeling like the bomb Construction guys are the worst at it.

Sixfeetbelle:
Hi, everyone. I wasn't sure where I should post this but this section seems like the best place.

Anyway, I needed your opinion on this matter. Today, on my way back from an errand, a car drove past me and the driver shouted from his car "I want to borrow your laps". My response reaction was too slow as I didn't even get a good look at the driver. Now that I think about it, I'm not certain what my response would have been tbh.

To help your judgement, I'd explain what I was wearing. A mid thigh gown that I supposed accentuated my legs.

I'm not sure why I'm posting this here or what I want from you guys, except that this is the first time ever someone has made such comments to me. I'm repulsed and irked by this.

Has anyone ever encountered such? How did you react? How did you deal with it?

What else have you got other than that? Who knows, maybe you have been flirting with men out there.

Association of FINE LEGS with Ugly Faces will gather here. Its your thread

Sixfeetbelle:
Hi, everyone. I wasn't sure where I should post this but this section seems like the best place.

Anyway, I needed your opinion on this matter. Today, on my way back from an errand, a car drove past me and the driver shouted from his car "I want to borrow your laps". My response reaction was too slow as I didn't even get a good look at the driver. Now that I think about it, I'm not certain what my response would have been tbh.

To help your judgement, I'd explain what I was wearing. A mid thigh gown that I supposed accentuated my legs.

I'm not sure why I'm posting this here or what I want from you guys, except that this is the first time ever someone has made such comments to me. I'm repulsed and irked by this.

Has anyone ever encountered such? How did you react? How did you deal with it?

Picture of the laps or....

Now that we know you have fine laps, when do they open?

tripplephi:


As long as its NOT love, sister go and pray and be very security conscious.

Were you deaf? A fellow human is complementing you NOT in a manner for love or relationship BUT for your body parts like as though you are an OBJECT.....

Do you not know there are CANNIBALS in naija?
Do you not know there are ritualists here?
Do you not know there are people who know the price of body parts?

Such sentence is a DARK SPEECH.... and no one can come here to make it seem harmless, else they are suspects.

Those who do baby factories use certain words too that can be used to identify their motives.

SEE, FOR YOUR OWN GOOD BE VERY SECURITY CONSCIOUS, GO AND PRAY FERVENTLY AND WATCH HOW YOU DRESS.

Am not taking this too serious... it is overly serious and the way naija is now, everything should be triple checked with caution.

It's like you're reading my mind. I swear, my first thoughts were like this guy sounds like a ritualist. Then I thought I was taking it too serious and decided he must be a pervert. But for the simple fact this particular thought process came up is why I brought it up here.

Thank you Sir. I will take your advice to heart.

Lol. My belle o. This one is new and shocking. Don't know what to say but smh. Nigerians sha

emorse:
Now we know you have good legs. Even though we still need photo/video evidence.

That's by the way though. You should be happy anyways. And if truly you are "irked and repulsed" as you say, then you should stop wearing revealing outfits not because you don't have a right to, but because you can't stop people from passing comments - both positive and negative. Besides, we have never heard that a girl died from being covered up. Cheers!

On a normal, I don't dress like that. You'll hardly see me dress as such. But I thought since it was just an errand down the street, I didn't need to wear jeans in this hot weather. I even wore jacket to cover the top part of the sleeveless gown.

But you're right. I've learnt my lesson. I'll be more security conscious of how I dress.

Sixfeetbelle:


On a normal, I don't dress like that. You'll hardly see me dress as such. But I thought since it was just an errand down the street, I didn't need to wear jeans in this hot weather. I even wore jacket to cover the top part of the sleeveless gown.

But you're right. I've learnt my lesson. I'll be more security conscious of how I dress.

I have a thought that's somewhat different from the comments above. Can i continue?

gozzlin:
I'm crazy about beautiful thighs and legs.
Those types that are fresh and well shaped. I don't care about beautiful face, but beautiful thighs and shapely legs....dayuuum!!!!

I get that's your type and everything, but would you make that statement from a moving vehicle to a girl you see on the road?

Don't misunderstand me. I've had catcalls. I've heard guys mutter about wanting to smash that thing or date that girl, all sorts.

For this case, I'm surprised because I've never heard this line before and it made me worried that he may be a ritualist

It is not that I am against "lap borrowing", it is just that I do not like to read about it on Sunday morning when I'm in my spirit mode, or maybe recruitment mode.

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2buffagain:
So you opened a whole thread just to let us know you were cat-called?
Is this attention seeking?
Every woman gets cat called. There is nothing special about this occurence that needs a thread.

That's like peeing and then creating a thread so Nairalanders can help you analyse the fact that you just peed.

You can choose to interprete my post however you choose, but I know what I'm talking about.

If someone has ever made a weird comment to you that you've never heard before or been told of, it may raise red flags. Perhaps some other girl has been told that before so it's a norm now. I haven't and it gave me concern. I suppose if it happens again then I can begin to ignore it and such.

But then again, I expected the female population to offer candid and helpful advice on this post. Thank you

healthserve:



I have a thought that's somewhat different from the comments above. Can i continue?

You may.

Why do you sef need special permission? It's not like you're paying for the special treatment?

XhosaNostra:



Lol, IKR! I bet the same guy was yelling out the window to someone else, just seconds later. Many ladies would have their egos crushed if they knew that guys are, for the most part, just entertaining themselves when they say & do these things. It's meaningless talk on their part, while she's taking it personally, examining it & feeling like the bomb Construction guys are the worst at it.

I guess people's perspective of events will always differ. I get what you're saying and I brush off lewd comments and catcalls as much as possible.

It's the way he blurted it out :can I borrow your laps? that made this different.

You're right though. I am making a mountain out of a molehill

Sixfeetbelle:


I get that's your type and everything, but would you make that statement from a moving vehicle to a girl you see on the road?

Don't misunderstand me. I've had catcalls. I've heard guys mutter about wanting to smash that thing or date that girl, all sorts.

For this case, I'm surprised because I've never heard this line before and it made me worried that he may be a ritualist

Lol, I do not think he's a ritualist. Nigerian ritualists don't need female thighs. I think the private parts are more sought after by them.

I am almost hundred percent certain that he is one of us that love beautiful thighs, it's just that his way of conveying his infatuation with your thighs was highly unconventional, uncivil and uncouth. I guess words failed him. Some guys are not just good with words. I wouldn't do that if I saw a lady with extremely gorgeous thighs walking along the road. I will at most ogle and move on.

BTW, are your thighs in any way similar to the ones below?

gozzlin:


Lol, I do not think he's a ritualist. Nigerian ritualists don't need female thighs. I think the private parts are more sought after by them.

I am almost hundred percent certain that he is one of us that love beautiful thighs, it's just that his way of conveying his infatuation with your thighs was highly unconventional, uncivil and uncouth. I guess words failed him. Some guys are not just good with words. I wouldn't do that if I saw a lady with extremely gorgeous thighs walking along the road. I will at most ogle and move on.

BTW, are your thighs in any way similar to the ones below?

Thank you for clarifying that. I guess he was being uncivil and it was just a catcall. I've sha learnt my lesson.

Your question: no ooh. Local girl does not look like this. These ones are fresh.

Sixfeetbelle:



Thank you for clarifying that. I guess he was being uncivil and it was just a catcall. I've sha learnt my lesson.

Your question: no ooh. Local girl does not look like this. These ones are fresh.

Hmm, I know you're being modest here, but it's okay.

I don't think the sorta thighs that made a fully grown, seemingly sane man to scream out loud 'babe abeg borrow me your laps ehhh', is anything other than fresh, gorgeously-shaped thighs.

its a compliment, he probably like your legs (hot legs).

Sixfeetbelle:
Hi, everyone. I wasn't sure where I should post this but this section seems like the best place.

Anyway, I needed your opinion on this matter. Today, on my way back from an errand, a car drove past me and the driver shouted from his car "I want to borrow your laps". [/b]My response reaction was too slow as I didn't even get a good look at the driver. Now that I think about it, I'm not certain what my response would have been tbh.

[b]To help your judgement, I'd explain what I was wearing. A mid thigh gown that I supposed accentuated my legs.

I'm not sure why I'm posting this here or what I want from you guys, except that this is the first time ever someone has made such comments to me. I'm repulsed and irked by this.

Has anyone ever encountered such? How did you react? How did you deal with it?

The local boy who made the statement is a rude boy who likes what he saw, speak before thinking and ran away before you could replied to his "compliment".

[s]When did the event happened, you narrate your story at past 1am and you claimed it happened same day, are you a ghost? I guess the event happens between 12am and 1am. What are you doing outside alone at this time[/s].

I hope it's not the same guy you dey chase with a water-gun in your profile picture.

Instead of you to say thank you for the compliment. My friend, your laps look borrow-able. Lend them to him.

I have heard things but this one is just too funny.

Anyway, like we say here, picture of the laps or...