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victorian:
Read what I said to bigDhap.

Mehn I give up on his case. But it's amusing and strange .

First time ever to. Experience such in my life time

victorian:
Read what I said to bigDhap.

Mehn I give up on his case. But it's amusing and strange .

First time ever to. Experience such in my life time

namiji2598:
bros abeg vacant space dey? Am still unemployed and job hunting

czarr:
You seem to really like this guy.
Quick question.

Was he born with a silver spoon?

Did he attend a private university?

Is he a mummy's boy?

Does he have lots of sister's?

czarr:
You seem to really like this guy.
Quick question.

Was he born with a silver spoon?

Did he attend a private university?

Is he a mummy's boy?

Does he have lots of sister's?

DZTech:
I used to chat up ladies whenever opportunity arose; till one showed me d way (wrote about it here)
now, na moni b my bae!
I need a 2nd side hustle in my life!

like ur job, u need to plan both strategies and tactics-

strategies:
dis will work in shops, church, bus rides, ladies wears/hair outlets
plan a daily shopping list- 2, 3 items
get good business cards
always go out with ur cards & a pen
note supermarkets within walking distance of ur job and ur house
note foodstuff markets within 1 busstop of ur job and ur house
plan on shopping when it's less busy
u need tym to operate, until u bcom more confident and spontaneous
always dress down o! ur on a budget
but body spray is necessary

tactics:
ask 4 items out of stock (check 1st o!)
ask 4 gift ideas 4 ur mum or sister
write out of stock items, or wot d lady recommends on d card 4 her to call u with
"how can I thank u 4 ur help, would u like to go 4 a drink when ur off?" (meaning no pressure)
"sister, excuse me, do u know pastor's wife?" lol, ur reason is dt ur mum would like t meet with her; na lie?

I don try 4 u
happy hunting!

victorian:
Correct!!

Lefulefu please teach some of the guys here how to strike interesting convo with babes.

And I know of a rich fine calm guy who's so shy to woo a babe. He doesn't have any babe.

Sometimes I wonder if he's a virgin at 40. Honestly I just wonder most times.

E matter taya me, I swear.

BabbanBura:
Babe lecture the guy yourself nah - e go sink faster and easier. How u dey?

victorian:
How do I lecture him? When he's even dodging to woo me face to face? But in his mind, he feels we are dating already. Lol.
Until he's ready to face his fears, if not ? There is nothing I can do at this level.

I'm fine, doing great and u?

BabbanBura:
Yeah right, you can lead him on, or ask him "what does he wants" kinda question - that should open up that discussion and then do ya lecture.

Great to know you are, am cool too just that this slavery called work don fill me up to the neck, but all good sha!

idoms:
They say make money first before you pursue woman but what do you do in the meantime when you're still hustling for money. When sexual urges come I try to think of how I can make more money. Sometimes the urge becomes unbearable. I stopped watching porn and masturbating three months ago. I haven't had sex since September 2018 with an ashawo. I'm trying to improve myself by quitting all these bad habits but sometimes the sexual urges just becoming unbearable. There is only so much my willpower can go.
I am a single guy,I like to keep to myself. I have a job,I make 50k a month. I still live with my parents. I'm in my late 20s. I also do digital marketing on the side.
I don't know man. I don't want to go back to watching porn and going to ashawo house again. I want real woman.

victorian:
Yea I simply like him but not that deep.
He looks successful, calm , drives a Prado . He also looks like a mummy's boy even though he has other elder brothers.
I don't know if he was born with a silver spoon but yes he went to a private university , he works and he's into other buisnesses as well.

His brothers are more than his sisters . He's the last guy amongst the guys. And him and his immediate elder brother live in the same estate.

He's the quiet type and a beard gang for that matter.

I thought beard gang guys are bold and capable with women but it seems this one is the opposite.

Why do u ask these questions?

doggedfighter:
Vacant space dey where?.

idoms:
They say make money first before you pursue woman but what do you do in the meantime when you're still hustling for money. When sexual urges come I try to think of how I can make more money. Sometimes the urge becomes unbearable. I stopped watching porn and masturbating three months ago. I haven't had sex since September 2018 with an ashawo. I'm trying to improve myself by quitting all these bad habits but sometimes the sexual urges just becoming unbearable. There is only so much my willpower can go.
I am a single guy,I like to keep to myself. I have a job,I make 50k a month. I still live with my parents. I'm in my late 20s. I also do digital marketing on the side.
I don't know man. I don't want to go back to watching porn and going to ashawo house again. I want real woman.

idoms:
They say make money first before you pursue woman but what do you do in the meantime when you're still hustling for money. When sexual urges come I try to think of how I can make more money. Sometimes the urge becomes unbearable. I stopped watching porn and masturbating three months ago. I haven't had sex since September 2018 with an ashawo. I'm trying to improve myself by quitting all these bad habits but sometimes the sexual urges just becoming unbearable. There is only so much my willpower can go.
I am a single guy,I like to keep to myself. I have a job,I make 50k a month. I still live with my parents. I'm in my late 20s. I also do digital marketing on the side.
I don't know man. I don't want to go back to watching porn and going to ashawo house again. I want real woman.

idoms:
They say make money first before you pursue woman but what do you do in the meantime when you're still hustling for money. When sexual urges come I try to think of how I can make more money. Sometimes the urge becomes unbearable. I stopped watching porn and masturbating three months ago. I haven't had sex since September 2018 with an ashawo. I'm trying to improve myself by quitting all these bad habits but sometimes the sexual urges just becoming unbearable. There is only so much my willpower can go.
I am a single guy,I like to keep to myself. I have a job,I make 50k a month. I still live with my parents. I'm in my late 20s. I also do digital marketing on the side.
I don't know man. I don't want to go back to watching porn and going to ashawo house again. I want real woman.

idoms:
They say make money first before you pursue woman but what do you do in the meantime when you're still hustling for money. When sexual urges come I try to think of how I can make more money. Sometimes the urge becomes unbearable. I stopped watching porn and masturbating three months ago. I haven't had sex since September 2018 with an ashawo. I'm trying to improve myself by quitting all these bad habits but sometimes the sexual urges just becoming unbearable. There is only so much my willpower can go.
I am a single guy,I like to keep to myself. I have a job,I make 50k a month. I still live with my parents. I'm in my late 20s. I also do digital marketing on the side.
I don't know man. I don't want to go back to watching porn and going to ashawo house again. I want real woman.

Talib93:
D Ashawo na plastic doll? wey u dey shout "real woman" up & down

Jokerjr:
Dnt u know how to sweet talk

victorian:
Ok o


Eeyah it's well.

As the years go by, the work u feel is slavery will turn. Into something much better in Jesus name amen.

Ok have to sleep.

Tomorrow is another day. Sweet Dreams and

Enjoy the night ahead

victorian:
A considerable number of men feels intimidated around me, cos I look flashy.
So I think his own is over board.

And he looks all tus..h o but he's scared being around me, I don't even understand sef

Ok see o, on Vals day he sent a text to woo me and ask me to be his Val. And I was like can't he come over to my place and read the poem he typed and say it face to face, that can I be his Val? And be part of his future like the poem he typed said.

But he kept quiet and mumbled that he's held up somewhere but will send a gift across. Which he did through someone. A Lovely gift
Then he didn't show up, he then called later at night and said he will. Make it up To me by taking me out.

I then said will u be ready to ask me officially to be your gf face to face Orelse I won't date u. From then, this guy has been forming busy o :DLol
He will chat quickly every day and disappear
Oh jeez! Guys dey o

I was forced to ask him, guy is anyone forcing u to woo me?

Cause I don't understand what's going on. Seems u are dodging me, and u were the one who came to look. For me. But Since I said u will ask me out facially and not through text uv become Professor of busy

He then mumbled and said oh not like that and he's very busy and with time I will understand his busy schedules. I just laughed within me


Abeg the guy na huge case! Lol.

Damn!

victorian:
How do I lecture him? When he's even dodging to woo me face to face? But in his mind, he feels we are dating already. Lol.
Until he's ready to face his fears, if not ? There is nothing I can do at this level.

I'm fine, doing great and u?

idoms:
All my colleagues are male. I mostly keep to myself. I don't have much money to flex.

Russo35:
You need to explore bro.. I am not criticizing your way of life but for you to avoid what's called "mid life crisis" you need to experience some certain things.. Thank God you still have time on your side(God willing)..Explore the wild, bad and the good side.. Travel more.... See things from different perspective.. Mind life crisis what is that hmm I see

Lastly, Be open minded and Approachable

biGDhAp:
by spreading the rich ladies legs..

BabbanBura:
Thanks dear and amen. Goodmorning

Russo35:
You said u live with your parents(that's a plus financially), Work on a bugdet it won't hurt to hangout twice a month(weekends)..Look fresh and approachable..Don't stay glue to your phone the whole time, observe and strike, don't be scared of the NO you might get at first,with time it will get better

biGDhAp:
.. he still feels nervous around you . he probably does like you but doesn't know how to tell you.


you too be less intimidating around him now, if you really do like him that much ..

lastly how do you feel about helping him out, like does he really need to ask you out before you guys become an item. you guys should skip the the whole formality of him wooing you and just get down to business.. I'm pretty sure he'll come around.

victorian:
Its not my fault., I look the way I look and see o, I'm a simple dresser but fortunately anythinf I wear look grand on me.

No be my fault Biko, na as God create me.

No skipping wooing o. At least ask me, Princess will you be my gf and every other question he typed in the text he sent me.

Why send Text to woo me? It's absurd to me sha. I'm not a kid