crownfitsme:
First time I met them mother inlaw was acting nice(story changed after wedding ) and sister in-law reported me that I didn't wash plate,fetch water and I was looking there neighbour somehow ....

Were you innocent??

Step into their compound as a friend and came out with their daughter as a wife....


No hassles... no questions....


Even the ones we did not marry... i am always loved by them...

One of my ex mum attended my wedding.. she loves me too much. I remember how she use to give me and her daughter the living room upstair. and she will by then have sent someone to make food for me.

Sweet woman... my present mum inlaw respect me and she is a shy type too. She can do anything for me. Our conversation doesn't ever end...

Omo this topic is meant for me and I mean it for me I say oya make una read...I met my wife early 2015 and we started courting and all that,I met her elder sister when we got started cos I got my wife a brand new tecno h5 then and she was pressed on how she got the phone and I was called to come to verify maybe it was true...let's skip that...fastforward to early 2017 ,my wife was like 5 to 6 months pregnant, and have not met my in laws except that day I saw her elder sister...we were planning our introduction for both families to know each other when I received a call from the lady mentioned above that before the introduction holds I must come to KETU that very day she called me to meet certain family members cos they were angry that their daughter was heavy and they haven't seen me yet... O boy I only had 500 naira with me and based on my calculations, I knew it will take me from Akoka to ketu,to and fro...when I got to the lady's shop at ketu,we talked and discussed about my plans etc for their daughter, thinking that would be all cos the change I have left was 200 or 250 naira that will take me back to akoka,this lady told me that there are certain family members that lives close also and I need to go and meet them also...naso we enter bike and drove to a place called barracks inside ketu...I paid for the bike and my money got exhausted... Who I go tell shey name my Inlaw ni abi who...now read the last part... After I met my remaining in laws it was now time to go around 8pm..they escored me to where I will get a bike to the nearest bus stop at ketu but while they where imploring me to take a bike, because I was not with any money I had to use scope that they should not worry and that I will take a stroll to the bus stop cos I wanted to see the scenery of the area(see lie),when they turned back and we said our good byes ,if you see the Mario speed I used...I had to walk from kosofe in ketu to onipanu I swear..it was at onipanu I had to call a friend that if he doesn't come with a bike that I might die ooo...that was how I got home... I was completely drenched with sweat as if I just finished swimming...what could I have done I can't ask my in laws for transport fare lailai,am not used to entering bus without paying lailai,have never thought of begging people for money on the road cos I was stranded cos I was so well dressed nobody will believe I had no money on me...I guess my only option was to walk from kososfe to onipanu which I did...that was my first experience while meeting my in laws...thank you all

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Whizbuzz:
Omo this topic is meant for me and I mean it for me I say oya make una read...I met my wife early 2015 and we started courting and all that,I met her elder sister when we got started cos I got my wife a brand new tecno h5 then and she was pressed on how she got the phone and I was called to come to verify maybe it was true...let's skip that...fastforward to early 2017 ,my wife was like 5 to 6 months pregnant, and have not met my in laws except that day I saw her elder sister...we were planning our introduction for both families to know each other when I received a call from the lady mentioned above that before the introduction holds I must come to KETU that very day she called me to meet certain family members cos they were angry that their daughter was heavy and they haven't seen me yet... O boy I only had 500 naira with me and based on my calculations, I knew it will take me from Akoka to ketu,to and fro...when I got to the lady's shop at ketu,we talked and discussed about my plans etc for their daughter, thinking that would be all cos the change I have left was 200 or 250 naira that will take me back to akoka,this lady told me that there are certain family members that lives close also and I need to go and meet them also...naso we enter bike and drove to a place called barracks inside ketu...I paid for the bike and my money got exhausted... Who I go tell shey name my Inlaw ni abi who...now read the last part... After I met my remaining in laws it was now time to go around 8pm..they escored me to where I will get a bike to the nearest bus stop at ketu but while they where imploring me to take a bike, because I was not with any money I had to use scope that they should not worry and that I will take a stroll to the bus stop cos I wanted to see the scenery of the area(see lie),when they turned back and we said our good byes ,if you see the Mario speed I used...I had to walk from kosofe in ketu to onipanu I swear..it was at onipanu I had to call a friend that if he doesn't come with a bike that I might die ooo...that was how I got home... I was completely drenched with sweat as if I just finished swimming...what could I have done I can't ask my in laws for transport fare lailai,am not used to entering bus without paying lailai,have never thought of begging people for money on the road cos I was stranded cos I was so well dressed nobody will believe I had no money on me...I guess my only option was to walk from kososfe to onipanu which I did...that was my first experience while meeting my in laws...thank you all

What an experience!

donstan18:

about to see next mouth inshallah

I decided to see my father in-law to declare my intention. I wanted to go with my friend or a family member but considering the fact that there were no chairs in their sitting room, i opted to go alone. You may ask me why. My wife had told me that the father was not too comfortable to receive visitors because of how his sitting room was looking like. I was to attend a colleagues wedding that same day, so i was neatly dressed and then i had a bag with me. When i got to their house, my wife came to welcome me, she then went inside to inform her dad. I waited for some minutes and then the dad came out. I stood up to greet him and he looked at me for some seconds and he said fine boy. I felt i had won his heart but no, there was more to come.
He asked his son to get me something to drink. Before the drink came, i brought out a wine from my bag and walked up to him and offered him the wine. He took it from me and kept it on the table.
I began my speech by telling him how and where i met the daughter and what i feel for her. I told him straight up that i wanted to settle down with the daughter. He asked me how old i was, i told him i was 32 yrs old and he said you look very young. He started interrogating me by asking where i work, the nature of my job, my parents etc. When i was done, he was just starring at me, shaking his legs. he will make some sound like hmmm, huh etc. Men and brethren, we stayed like that for more than 10 mins without talking to ourselves. I felt the ground should open and swallow me. At intervals my wife would come out to talk to the dad and then she will go inside. She was doing that to observe what was going on. Finally, my father in-law said to me ''son you are welcome".
Do you know that even after he welcomed me, he still had reservations. He said he didn't believe he was going to give out his daughter to an igbo guy. That will be story for another day.

Pcstradamus:
I decided to see my father in-law to declare my intention. I wanted to go with my friend or a family member but considering the fact that there were no chairs in their sitting room, i opted to go alone. You may ask me why. My wife had told me that the father was not too comfortable to receive visitors because of how his sitting room was looking like. I was to attend a colleagues wedding that same day, so i was neatly dressed and then i had a bag with me. When i got to their house, my wife came to welcome me, she then went inside to inform her dad. I waited for some minutes and then the dad came out. I stood up to greet him and he looked at me for some seconds and he said fine boy. I felt i had won his heart but no, there was more to come.
He asked his son to get me something to drink. Before the drink came, i brought out a wine from my bag and walked up to him and offered him the wine. He took it from me and kept it on the table.
I began my speech by telling him how and where i met the daughter and what i feel for her. I told him straight up that i wanted to settle down with the daughter. He asked me how old i was, i told him i was 32 yrs old and he said you look very young. He started interrogating me by asking where i work, the nature of my job, my parents etc. When i was done, he was just starring at me, shaking his legs. he will make some sound like hmmm, huh etc. Men and brethren, we stayed like that for more than 10 mins without talking to ourselves. I felt the ground should open and swallow me. At intervals my wife would come out to talk to the dad and then she will go inside. She was doing that to observe what was going on. Finally, my father in-law said to me ''son you are welcome".
Do you know that even after he welcomed me, he still had reservations. He said he didn't believe he was going to give out his daughter to an igbo guy. That will be story for another day.

Are you guys married now ?

BISIXCLUSIVE:
Those once that said I should swear and take oat if I won't betray their son all because I came from Abeokuta. Someone that already had a daughter in sec sch, I still over look that and show love, they never made mention of their son having child, they don't even know if he told me already, that means they are just been selfish and self-centered, only them but guess what? I have a plan for all of them, may their son no just do any mistake of marrying another person or impregnating someone out of wedlock, na that time they will see the reel Abk babe in me.

The parents didn't do well with such statements of you making Oath. Your words written above shows you deserve what the parents suggested and you are as well tarnishing the image of Abeokuta people. May God save us from Reserved Satan!

Yes we are.. Why do you ask?

larrypourl:



Are you guys married now ?

BISIXCLUSIVE:
Those once that said I should swear and take oat if I won't betray their son...

Hope they gave you some milk too

Sehindemi:
If I were the man I won't even allow my daughter marry you. You are too careless.

.. shut up .


he probably was nervous that day .. it happens

Well mine i haven't seen them facially but we have spoken on phone the issues there is that her mom and one of her uncle which is a person dont like the church i attend (c&s Ayo ni o). So they were against our courting but her aunty
and others dont have issues even her dad. What God is in support of no man can go against it surprisingly, one day she just called me and said her mom has agreed that she got a revelation from God, was so happy that God answered our prayers, but remaining the pastor, all my families love her so much than me their son.

Pcstradamus:
I decided to see my father in-law to declare my intention. I wanted to go with my friend or a family member but considering the fact that there were no chairs in their sitting room, i opted to go alone. You may ask me why. My wife had told me that the father was not too comfortable to receive visitors because of how his sitting room was looking like. I was to attend a colleagues wedding that same day, so i was neatly dressed and then i had a bag with me. When i got to their house, my wife came to welcome me, she then went inside to inform her dad. I waited for some minutes and then the dad came out. I stood up to greet him and he looked at me for some seconds and he said fine boy. I felt i had won his heart but no, there was more to come.
He asked his son to get me something to drink. Before the drink came, i brought out a wine from my bag and walked up to him and offered him the wine. He took it from me and kept it on the table.
I began my speech by telling him how and where i met the daughter and what i feel for her. I told him straight up that i wanted to settle down with the daughter. He asked me how old i was, i told him i was 32 yrs old and he said you look very young. He started interrogating me by asking where i work, the nature of my job, my parents etc. When i was done, he was just starring at me, shaking his legs. he will make some sound like hmmm, huh etc. Men and brethren, we stayed like that for more than 10 mins without talking to ourselves. I felt the ground should open and swallow me. At intervals my wife would come out to talk to the dad and then she will go inside. She was doing that to observe what was going on. Finally, my father in-law said to me ''son you are welcome".
Do you know that even after he welcomed me, he still had reservations. He said he didn't believe he was going to give out his daughter to an igbo guy. That will be story for another day.

ABEG ABEG ABEG IN THE NAME OF GOD COME AND COMPLETE THE STORY OOOOO BIKO!!!
THIS STORY REALLY GOT ME TENSED UP!!!! ABEG COMPLETE AM OOOOO

SO WHY DID HE NOT BELIEVE HE WILL BE GIVING OUT HIS DAUGHTER TK AN IBO MAN?

Pcstradamus:
Yes we are.. Why do you ask?

The story for another day got me. It's all good.

TeeTeem:
The parents didn't do well with such statements of you making Oath. Your words written above shows you deserve what the parents suggested and you are as well tarnishing the image of Abeokuta people. May God save us from Reserved Satan!

With everything I have achieved in my live, God knows I am not a bad girl, but I got realize my mother in-law wanted to reap where she didn't sow, she dumped my hubby and his brother for their father when they where teen,all because the baba has nothing again,their father being an Hausa man forgive and forget the scene just because his son wanted to get married, his life is improving, my hubby impregnated a lady in sec sch all because he lacks mother care, he couldn't further after sec sch, later when we met, I plead and help for admission so that he can further, even if it is Nd, all this scenario was behind this mother, why is she coming now to overthrown, all because baba was a quiet man, she was telling me to take oath.. that means she is scared of me not wrecking her son just like she did for grandpa.

Obinnau:
I already knew the pop on a personal level before. So when I got serious with the daughter, I called him over the phone and said 'sir I love your daughter and she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with" pop said "and you've discussed this with her and she is OK with it? I said yes sir. He said we can go ahead insofar his daughter and I have an agreement.
We are still together and planning marriage next year

As in, I already told my babe to send me his number, because I feel there will be less tension If I knew him personally before asking for his daughter's hand in marriage, beside I no too fear after all the man that married his other daughter is nothing to write home about, so I know by comparison I should fare well hopefully.

TeeTeem:
The parents didn't do well with such statements of you making Oath. Your words written above shows you deserve what the parents suggested and you are as well tarnishing the image of Abeokuta people. May God save us from Reserved Satan!

I am not the type, I dated for 7 years before taking me to alter, for that year, if he will walk away he would have done that for long, his mother made me realize she is wicked, though she hasn't been showing that after our wedding, I know it's because we keep a long distance, she doesn't deserve any accommodation in my house, except the father who single handedly raise his son's, the mother came from no where to think she can dominate my home, no, even my husband is trying to avoid her, because the closeness is not there.

Fkhalifa:

Since bobo is the cool type, carry on then and good luck..
Abeg for the sake of him, overlook slight mistakes

No show them that egba side o.

I can never hurt my hubby, he is everything I want in a man, the mother wants unnecessary attention that she doesn't deserve, I will rather care for my father in-law that take of them.

BISIXCLUSIVE:
With everything I have achieved in my live, God knows I am not a bad girl, but I got realize my mother in-law wanted to reap where she didn't sow, she dumped my hubby and his brother for their father when they where teen,all because the baba has nothing again,their father being an Hausa man forgive and forget the scene just because his son wanted to get married, his life is improving, my hubby impregnated a lady in sec sch all because he lacks mother care, he couldn't further after sec sch, later when we met, I plead and help for admission so that he can further, even if it is Nd, all this scenario was behind this mother, why is she coming now to overthrown, all because baba was a quiet man, she was telling me to take oath.. that means she is scared of me not wrecking her son just like she did for grandpa.

Anybody saying trash about you doesn't really know what life is all about!!! your mother In-law isn't a good person at all I'm sorry to say this!! and I would like you to just play cool and try as much as possible to be neutral in your dealings with her....cos she's not a good person!!! her type will want to be dictating how you run your home!!! thank God you have a lovely and smart husband so " KOLEWERK " ...she's very irresponsible and has nothing to offer!!! please as for your father in-law do take care of him!!! cos he is a good man!!! you will enjoy him all the days of his life!!! ...by the way for you to make sure your husband goes back to school really means and shows you're a strong woman ...who Everyman needs!!! woman wey go stand put her leg for ground to make sure things work out for her husband herself and una children!!! ... madam your husband Bet9ja ticket don enter jaweee!!! cos you be better jackpot!!! you would push your husband to go places!!!

I'm not married ...but I constantly and daily discuss about marriage with my dad for the past 7yrs now!! and I've learnt a lot!!! I'm 28yrs of age , just finished Nyscast year October ...I'm hoping to get married in 3yrs

BISIXCLUSIVE:
I am not the type, I dated for 7 years before taking me to alter, for that year, if he will walk away he would have done that for long, his mother made me realize she is wicked, though she hasn't been showing that after our wedding, I know it's because we keep a long distance, she doesn't deserve any accommodation in my house, except the father who single handedly raise his son's, the mother came from no where to think she can dominate my home, no, even my husband is trying to avoid her, because the closeness is not there.

Wait o!! she thinks because she gave birth to him automatically she's entitled to motherly rights!! lols she's funny!!! someone who lost that privilege and rights the day she left her children!!!

assuming it was greener on the other side, she wouldn't have come back I mean never ...and she would have been giving testimony that God delivered her from her husband and her So called children!!!

BISIXCLUSIVE:
I can never hurt my hubby, he is everything I want in a man, the mother wants unnecessary attention that she doesn't deserve, I will rather care for my father in-law that take of them.

Chai!!! Chinekeeeeee!!!! see better wife!!!

lordally:


Wait o!! she thinks because she gave birth to him automatically she's entitled to motherly rights!! lols she's funny!!! someone who lost that privilege and rights the day she left her children!!!

assuming it was greener on the other side, she wouldn't have come back I mean never ...and she would have been giving testimony that God delivered her from her husband and her So called children!!!

God bless you , exactly my point, it was even roasy and greener according to what i heard,the baba was a boss at Mikano then,she wrecked him after he retired,that was how she left for her state ( Edo). I was suppose to be enjoying my relationship but I was not, I was busy acting like a mother, he was 25 then, I encourage him to go to sch, to stop wearing some certain cloth, to change how he speaks, etc now one mother from no where wants to dominate our life now that we have a good job to cater for ourselves.

lordally:


Anybody saying trash about you doesn't really know what life is all about!!! your mother In-law isn't a good person at all I'm sorry to say this!! and I would like you to just play cool and try as much as possible to be neutral in your dealings with her....cos she's not a good person!!! her type will want to be dictating how you run your home!!! thank God you have a lovely and smart husband so " KOLEWERK " ...she's very irresponsible and has nothing to offer!!! please as for your father in-law do take care of him!!! cos he is a good man!!! you will enjoy him all the days of his life!!! ...by the way for you to make sure your husband goes back to school really means and shows you're a strong woman ...who Everyman needs!!! woman wey go stand put her leg for ground to make sure things work out for her husband herself and una children!!! ... madam your husband Bet9ja ticket don enter jaweee!!! cos you be better jackpot!!! you would push your husband to go places!!!

I'm not married ...but I constantly and daily discuss about marriage with my dad for the past 7yrs now!! and I've learnt a lot!!! I'm 28yrs of age , just finished Nyscast year October ...I'm hoping to get married in 3yrs from now to my girlfriend I've been dating since 2017.....

Thank you my brother, i pray God grant you a God fearing lady, that will stand by you, you know my presentation earlier could make ppl think I am bad, hmmm, as Yorubas will say , eni ti sango batojue wole koni bawon b'oba koso, I have pass tru alot in my entire 28 years, I will rather fight for what will give me peace of mind, my mum became a single mother of 4 because she was unable to fight and stand on her ground as a first wife, and that will never happen with God by size, I will block anything blockable, reject anything rejectable , the future of my kids is what dictate my nite. I stand to be corrected anytime.

BISIXCLUSIVE:
Thank you my brother, i pray God grant you a God fearing lady, that will stand by you, you know my presentation earlier could make ppl think I am bad, hmmm, as Yorubas will say , eni ti sango batojue wole koni bawon b'oba koso, I have pass tru alot in my entire 28 years, I will rather fight for what will give me peace of mind, my mum became a single mother of 4 because she was unable to fight and stand on her ground as a first wife, and that will never happen with God by size, I will block anything blockable, reject anything rejectable , the future of my kids is what dictate my nite. I stand to be corrected anytime.

Hahahaha action lady!!

BISIXCLUSIVE:
God bless you , exactly my point, it was even roasy and greener according to what i heard,the baba was a boss at Mikano then,she wrecked him after he retired,that was how she left for her state ( Edo). I was suppose to be enjoying my relationship but I was not, I was busy acting like a mother, he was 25 then, I encourage him to go to sch, to stop wearing some certain cloth, to change how he speaks, etc now one mother from no where wants to dominate our life now that we have a good job to cater for ourselves.

Her plan no go work!!! but nawa ooo so you influenced the way he speaks and how he dresses hmm so girls would have said " this one is not my type and then move on to find another never existing Mr perfect "

is it that you saw the potential in him

Ajikawo84:
it was just like a job interview for me series of questions that cut across sciences, humanities, foreign affairs and other facet of human endeavors

did u go with calculator and a four-figure table??

CarlosTheJackal:
Fatymore kilode when will you have the last one?


Please do quick let's come for Owambe

She's 34 already, must have gotten married

Sehindemi:
If I were the man I won't even allow my daughter marry you. You are too careless.

Oga kuro joo, mr perfect

OlawaleBammie:


She's 34 already, must have gotten married

I am.just 3

fatymore:



I am.just 26

Aahh, fatima..ahhhh

ok let do the calculations...

15yrs ago a man wanted to marry u but u japa ..., dat is fine..

Not forgetting dat u just concluded ur secondary school days den....that is epic..

now u re 26...oohh sweet 26,... i wish i can have u

26-15=11... am confused here, how were u able to finish secondary school by eleven?? wen did u finish primary??

Ok, let assume u defy the odds, but at 11yrs, ur breast just dey develop na, never even get areola self.. how come man dey pursue u upandan??

AM CONFUSED HERE.

OlawaleBammie:


Aahh, fatima..ahhhh

ok let do the calculations...

15yrs ago a man wanted to marry u but u japa ..., dat is fine..

Not forgetting dat u just concluded ur secondary school days den....that is epic..

now u re 26...oohh sweet 26,... i wish i can have u

26-15=11... am confused here, how were u able to finish secondary school by eleven?? wen did u finish primary??

Ok, let assume u defy the odds, but at 11yrs, ur breast just dey develop na, never even get areola self.. how come man dey pursue u upandan??

AM CONFUSED HERE.

You won't understand