OmoAlakija:
Because I fckd her in the a*ss while she was sleeping

Philomathhh:
Yes, I broke up with my boyfriend almost a year ago. He was the most amazing human I ever came across and still is. The reason why we broke up is still a bit vague to me (partly because, I was to leave the country and I felt he still had amazing years ahead of him), but I initiated it. I trusted him to the point that it never bothered me whenever he immediately snatches his phone from my hand; I never really had to bother about anything I find strange in his phone (not that I found any). He was loveable, caring, smart and the most handsome human I know.

After 4-5 months, we reconnected, and I have never experienced that level of pain in my life during the time we got talking. I was hurt that he wasn't mine anymore, and I could sense that he was hurt too. Each time we talk, I end up shedding a few drops of tears. I was almost acting like a maniac; stalking him on all his social media handles, connecting with the people that were his friends on social media, looking up each of his friend's bios, reading his diary on NL with the hope that he says he wants me back, or at least he misses me. I'm not the kind of guy who likes to express my emotions with him, and he never knew what I was going through at that point. I try to talk 'normal' and try to act like I care less about the whole situation. I was mad, I felt I was losing my mind and I had to see a psychologist. From what I got to learn from the psychologist, I realized that as long as we hold onto each other, as long as we are still in touch, we wouldn't give room for healing from the hurt. The psychologist said, "Sometimes, you meet the right person, it's just the wrong time." Sometimes the strongest thing you will ever do will be to let go of someone. It will be painful, you will suffer guilt, and you will second-guess yourself, but for your own sanity and quality of life, you just have to let go.

I had to delete his number and blocked him thinking I would heal, I was wrong. I'm sure he is over me now (I can tell from his diary), and I'm happy he's not hurting anymore (I remember him telling me how sad he becomes whenever I don't talk to him in a day, and instantly I became sad). The hardest part for me right now is getting along with any new guy. I have set him up as the standard; it's not like he had it all, but he was just perfect for me. Every guy I meet, I end up convincing myself that they aren't a quarter as good as him. The metric I use to scale them up is something I cannot still figure out. We are still pretty young, we've got a lot of years ahead of us. This phase for me might take long to fade off, but I hope that someday it gets to heal and I can meet someone who's half as good as the man I truly fell in love with.
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Unrelated : Since we stop talking, "These days" has become my favorite song--"I hope someday, we'll sit down together and laugh with each other about these days, these days."

Bulletproof:

Na Gay you be?

Divay22:

I'm not buying this. I total refuse.
I'm not an object for any man self satisfaction. I have so much potentials and ideas my brain can birth other than being seen as a mere sex object.

I'm sorry, this conversation is done and dusted for me. See you around some other time.

crackkhaus:

Unless you're Beyonce pretending to be a nairalander, I don't understand where this guts came from.

trilobite:
What she didn't have in looks she made up in character. Girl was so loving I never felt the need to cheat despite being surrounded by beautiful women in my base at the time.

Then she mentioned something about her HOD always giving her all her exam scripts days before her exams, I was like why would he do that?

Till there was an urgent need for her to spend one week with her uncle, and I shouldn't call her during that period else the man would report her to her parents.

Doing the maths I realized:
Uncle = HOD!!! That's why baby girl is on first class!!!

I removed her from mind, she tried to use sex to rope me back (many of them always do that) without success.

It pains me because I still haven't met a girl as selflessly loving as her.

philip0906:

Someone clearly used your head to play tinko, yet you claim she's seflessly loving? Does that make any sense to you?

MisterKings:
It serves her right but even if you could do something what exactly would you do

iamloyalty:


I want to commend u for this, u did the right thing. God first everything comes second because salvation is d best.
Beside if u had given in to his sexual advances he won't remain that Amazing remember say when guy sleep with any babe finish her value go reduce for he eye.

folake4u:
We weren't dating though but we wanted to try something but discovered we were both AS.
It was hard for me cos people were like "Y'all should just date in the meantime, you're not going to get married abeg" but I couldn't do that.
That'd be so selfish. Just had to tell him we can't do this.

It was a hard thing for me to do.

Divay22:
Lol Broke kwa na only broke they fit identify broke sha

Homeboiy:




Like I said earlier, gf wey no ft recharge cal him guy na broke girl

so that one no be gf


This our chat don de sweet oo

Divay22:
Lol The chat don end self

Homeboiy:




Happy new month

U no de go church?

franchasng:
yes oh, very important than any other quality


Big bombom and killer shape over brains, who woman brain help

Ogunnnowos:
why do I keep having the feelings that you talking abt my girlfriend? She is also currently in the same issues now nd the same amount.

Divay22:
Same to you. Ehn for church, I go try go sha
And you?

Homeboiy:



I no de go today

Divay22:
It's a new month o

franchasng:
Mba oh.......firm breast and big clapping buttocks over brains, who woman brain help I ask again oh

Homeboiy:



oh na true oo


I for go but I no remember


which church u de attend?

Divay22:
RCCG you can still go. It's not late yet

XhosaNostra:


Zulu guys find Xhosa girls hard to handle. They say we're difficult & stubborn lol. Typically, they prefer not to deal with us. Anyway, there was a thing called Mfecane, where Shaka Zulu & his warriors went on a rampage, killing people & taking over other tribes. The Eastern Cape shares a border with KZN, we're literally on each other's doorstep. But he never came to the Eastern Cape because we may not be as aggressive as the Zulu, but we never back down or bow down to anyone. I actually read somewhere that he didn't particularly like the Xhosa. He thought they were arrogant, stubborn etc. Xhosa are very friendly & accommodating people (not a single xenophobic attack in the Eastern Cape), just don't overstep your boundaries with us because we will fight to the bitter end.

omotola90:
it's a past activity or is he still cheating??

Exodora:

The cheat is a continuous activity my dear.

XhosaNostra:
We weren't really dating, just getting to know each other, but I was still unsure about him because he was short & kind of boring. He was eligible in every other aspect though- educated, extremely intelligent, good paying job, nice flat, a great cook etc. What made up my mind about him was something I'm sure many people wouldn't consider such a big deal. I found him a little cowardly lol. He was scared of dogs. He actually shrieked when two little ones were coming at us! I was like, um okay, no, he's not for me. I like guys with a bit devil may care in them, not one that screams like a banshee.

XhosaNostra:
We weren't really dating, just getting to know each other, but I was still unsure about him because he was short & kind of boring. He was eligible in every other aspect though- educated, extremely intelligent, good paying job, nice flat, a great cook etc. What made up my mind about him was something I'm sure many people wouldn't consider such a big deal. I found him a little cowardly lol. He was scared of dogs. He actually shrieked when two little ones were coming at us! I was like, um okay, no, he's not for me. I like guys with a bit devil may care in them, not one that screams like a banshee.

rex444:
my dear sometimes fear does not necessarily mean U r a coward ....buh still on still , I'd rather be the coward oooooo this life wey dey sweet like say tomorrow no dey... [b]I cannur coman die because I want to show [/b]power...hehehehe

XhosaNostra:


I get that. But I don't like a man to be over-the-top about it. I'm not a shrieking female myself, so I expect a man to have some composure.

SpartanKing:
The language is very interesting. How do I learn it?

XhosaNostra:


I know Orchards. Ok, ketlo spinela round in the near future. LMAO @ kea phapha. In person I'm a bit reserved though, so don't be surprised. Phapharing usually comes much later. See you soon

Sure, babe.

koffos:
.. that was one sissy dude.. s. a guys are weaklings, holy lord.. what kind if a man gets scared of little dogs .. we Nigerian men are not even scared if tigers not to talk of dogs .. baby come down here and lemme show how much devil may cry not care we are..


now my question from yday. have you melons on your chest??