i am an old nairalander but i created this new account to hide my identity. There is this lady I just started dating recently she is a student in one of Lagos higher institutions our relationship is barely a month old so as a result I want to overlook somethings that are happening be cause the relationship is just kickstarting so we can see how it goes before we set rules and regulations for the relationship and understand each other better .

But there is a problem when I first me this girl what I had in mind was just flings we had sex just three days after meeting I don't have a probl em with that I still like her she is very homely,beautiful and intelligent in fact she has all I want in a woman after sex we discussed a lot I ask her about her past relationships because I know that a girl as beautiful as her will surely have boyfriend(s) you know Lagos girls she told me she has a boyfriend but the relationship is complicated which is obvious she is cheating on her boyfriend with me .but here is the thing ,with her body language and actions I can tell she just wants to keep me as her school fuckmate And I don't want that I want something more meaningful I am very careful so I made sure I didn't invest emotionally in the relationship.
this is where I need advise; should I continue to be her fuckmate? or should I try and win her over from her boyfriend because I really like her.

matured minds please.

Bleep and keep fucking ,these whores aren't loyal

Goodmarlian:
i am an old nairalander but i created this new account to hide my identity. There is this lady I just started dating recently she is a student in one of Lagos higher institutions our relationship is barely a month old so as a result I want to overlook somethings that are happening be cause the relationship is just kickstarting so we can see how it goes before we set rules and regulations for the relationship and understand each other better .

But there is a problem when I first me this girl what I had in mind was just flings we had sex just three days after meeting I don't have a probl em with that I still like her she is very homely,beautiful and intelligent in fact she has all I want in a woman after sex we discussed a lot I ask her about her past relationships because I know that a girl as beautiful as her will surely have boyfriend(s) you know Lagos girls she told me she has a boyfriend but the relationship is complicated which is obvious she is cheating on her boyfriend with me .but here is the thing ,with her body language and actions I can tell she just wants to keep me as her school fuckmate And I don't want that I want something more meaningful I am very careful so I made sure I didn't invest emotionally in the relationship.
this is where I need advise; should I continue to be her fuckmate? or should I try and win her over from her boyfriend because I really like her.

matured minds please.

Why do you want the expenses of the cow, when the kpomo and milk are offered free?......

Re: Should I keep her as a fuckmate or date her? See Question for Matured Minds NL Jesus Should be Weeping by Now.

Keep her at your own peril. What she is doing to her boyfriend, she will do to you.

Elbone2:
Re: Should I keep her as a fuckmate or date her? See Question for Matured Minds NL Jesus Should be Weeping by Now.

Jesus, help our generation!!!

This is a "cryable" question, really.

If you win her from her boyfriend, you can't enjoy the relationship for long , she can be fucking her boyfriend behind and when you get to know about it, it will disturb you emotionally, just play along been a fuckmate with her

a lover should be loved and a player should be played, never love the player or play the lover ,

godofuck231:
a lover should be loved and a player should be played, never love the player or play the lover ,

This is deep

Brunicekid:
Jesus, help our generation!!!

This is a "cryable" question, really.

sometimes i feel like shedding tears for this our generation, no morals, no dignity. Everything has gone bad

Lexusgs430:



Why do you want the expenses of the cow, when the kpomo and milk are offered free?......

maybe he loves red meat too much hehehe

Asking if you should date a girl cheating on her boyfriend is like asking if you should hire an armed robber as your gate man.

What kind of question is this ehn

I aren't seeing any girl that is worth keeping in your story.

After yesterday's sermon, I decided to repent and not advise you to do evil. .

In my former self, I mean, as at last Saturday, I would have advised you to keep shinning the kongo because those ladies are not royal. Trust me, no amount of preaching or being good can save a 9ja babe from what she's decided to do. Now you are her fuckmate and that is who you will continue to be. If she has the intent of dating you, she would have done it already.

In Nigeria, men are more faithful than women. This is the unspoken hidden truth

eazzzy1:
Asking if you should date a girl cheating on her boyfriend is like asking if you should hire an armed robber as your gate man.

but brother which girl come loyal seff even the one that claims she loves you seff is will still cheat on you they are all the same.

Very soon she'll get pregnant... and won't be certain who the father of her baby is.

This is how it plays out when guys end up taking responsibility for children that aren't theirs. In your case, you're lucky you already know there's another guy in the picture.

In your very best interest, call it quits. If she can't be decisive about who she wants to be with, she may never make a good partner.

Goodmarlian:
i am an old nairalander but i created this new account to hide my identity. There is this lady I just started dating recently she is a student in one of Lagos higher institutions our relationship is barely a month old so as a result I want to overlook somethings that are happening be cause the relationship is just kickstarting so we can see how it goes before we set rules and regulations for the relationship and understand each other better .

But there is a problem when I first me this girl what I had in mind was just flings we had sex just three days after meeting I don't have a probl em with that I still like her she is very homely,beautiful and intelligent in fact she has all I want in a woman after sex we discussed a lot I ask her about her past relationships because I know that a girl as beautiful as her will surely have boyfriend(s) you know Lagos girls she told me she has a boyfriend but the relationship is complicated which is obvious she is cheating on her boyfriend with me .but here is the thing ,with her body language and actions I can tell she just wants to keep me as her school fuckmate And I don't want that I want something more meaningful I am very careful so I made sure I didn't invest emotionally in the relationship.
this is where I need advise; should I continue to be her fuckmate? or should I try and win her over from her boyfriend because I really like her.

matured minds please.

Op follow your mind.

Why must u hide ur identity before posting

She cheat with you now, she'll cheat on you later. If you can cope with that. Continue

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Goodmarlian:
i am an old nairalander but i created this new account to hide my identity. There is this lady I just started dating recently she is a student in one of Lagos higher institutions our relationship is barely a month old so as a result I want to overlook somethings that are happening be cause the relationship is just kickstarting so we can see how it goes before we set rules and regulations for the relationship and understand each other better .

But there is a problem when I first me this girl what I had in mind was just flings we had sex just three days after meeting I don't have a probl em with that I still like her she is very homely,beautiful and intelligent in fact she has all I want in a woman after sex we discussed a lot I ask her about her past relationships because I know that a girl as beautiful as her will surely have boyfriend(s) you know Lagos girls she told me she has a boyfriend but the relationship is complicated which is obvious she is cheating on her boyfriend with me .but here is the thing ,with her body language and actions I can tell she just wants to keep me as her school fuckmate And I don't want that I want something more meaningful I am very careful so I made sure I didn't invest emotionally in the relationship.
this is where I need advise; should I continue to be her fuckmate? or should I try and win her over from her boyfriend because I really like her.

matured minds please.

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Goodmarlian:
i am an old nairalander but i created this new account to hide my identity. There is this lady I just started dating recently she is a student in one of Lagos higher institutions our relationship is barely a month old so as a result I want to overlook somethings that are happening be cause the relationship is just kickstarting so we can see how it goes before we set rules and regulations for the relationship and understand each other better .

But there is a problem when I first me this girl what I had in mind was just flings we had sex just three days after meeting I don't have a probl em with that I still like her she is very homely,beautiful and intelligent in fact she has all I want in a woman after sex we discussed a lot I ask her about her past relationships because I know that a girl as beautiful as her will surely have boyfriend(s) you know Lagos girls she told me she has a boyfriend but the relationship is complicated which is obvious she is cheating on her boyfriend with me .but here is the thing ,with her body language and actions I can tell she just wants to keep me as her school fuckmate And I don't want that I want something more meaningful I am very careful so I made sure I didn't invest emotionally in the relationship.
this is where I need advise; should I continue to be her fuckmate? or should I try and win her over from her boyfriend because I really like her.

matured minds please.

Your days are numbered!!!

It looks like she's the one who's keeping you as a Bleep mate. All these school girls self, if your girlfriend is still a student the lord is your strength.

Goodmarlian:
i am an old nairalander but i created this new account to hide my identity. There is this lady I just started dating recently she is a student in one of Lagos higher institutions our relationship is barely a month old so as a result I want to overlook somethings that are happening be cause the relationship is just kickstarting so we can see how it goes before we set rules and regulations for the relationship and understand each other better .

But there is a problem when I first me this girl what I had in mind was just flings we had sex just three days after meeting I don't have a probl em with that I still like her she is very homely,beautiful and intelligent in fact she has all I want in a woman after sex we discussed a lot I ask her about her past relationships because I know that a girl as beautiful as her will surely have boyfriend(s) you know Lagos girls she told me she has a boyfriend but the relationship is complicated which is obvious she is cheating on her boyfriend with me .but here is the thing ,with her body language and actions I can tell she just wants to keep me as her school fuckmate And I don't want that I want something more meaningful I am very careful so I made sure I didn't invest emotionally in the relationship.
this is where I need advise; should I continue to be her fuckmate? or should I try and win her over from her boyfriend because I really like her.

matured minds please.

well it all depends on your age and social strata in the environment. For a guy BTW 18 and 26 well you can still be thinking of having a girl as a forkmate and all, but if your 27+ please you're expected to be more mature and future orientated Dan been used by a girl for pleasure. If she has a bf, it means your chances of getting a std is higher Dan sexing a single lady. A friend once told me a girl who at 25 doesn't know how to stick to one guy at a time will be a hoe forever, you should never wife a hoe nor have one as a gf.

PrimadonnaO:
Very soon she'll get pregnant... and won't be certain who the father of her baby is.

This is how it plays out when guys end up taking responsibility for children that aren't theirs. In your case, you're lucky you already know there's another guy in the picture.

In your very best interest, call it quits. If she can't be decisive about who she wants to be with, she may never make a good partner.

Mr OP, if you wise, take this advice as the 11th commandment. The babe get guy and it's obvious she no dig you as bf material. As a bad guy, you don dagger the babe, blank her, block number and hunt for another. No time for trying to keep her. Stop simping

U Beta friendzone her, she's a player n a cheat.

Why do you guys always put yourselves in these messy situations? She already has a BF, yet she's sleeping with you & you're stupid enough to want to exchange roles with him, which means you'll be the one she'll be cheating on with the next guy with a hardon If you're a human vibrator, then continue sleeping with her.

namiji2598:
Why must u hide ur identity before posting

none of your business man.

XhosaNostra:
Why do you guys always put yourselves in these messy situations? She already has a BF, yet she's sleeping with you & you're stupid enough to want to exchange roles with him, which means you'll be the one she'll be cheating on with the next guy with a hardon If you're a human vibrator, then continue sleeping with her.

you wunt understand I was okay with being a vibrator before but since I clocked 27 everything just changed about me even I am surprised it's really me bothering about a ladies love like this something I rarely do years back.

Goodmarlian:


you wunt understand I was okay with being a vibrator before but since I clocked 27 everything just changed about me even I am surprised it's really me bothering about a ladies love like this something I really do years back.

Get a hold of yourself lol. She's in a relationship with her BF, she told you about it. Which means she values it & possibly sees a future with the other guy. You on the other hand, she only wants as a sex buddy, know your place & leave it at that. I'm surprised the BF part is not a turn off for you. How can she possibly see you as a potential when you're allowing yourself to be breadcrumbed like an ant? Have some dignity.

PrimadonnaO:
Very soon she'll get pregnant... and won't be certain who the father of her baby is.

This is how it plays out when guys end up taking responsibility for children that aren't theirs. In your case, you're lucky you already know there's another guy in the picture.

In your very best interest, call it quits. If she can't be decisive about who she wants to be with, she may never make a good partner.

its not that easy when you are in my shoes you will know.

Realtizzy:
This is deep

o brother, preach!