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Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?

Congratulations to you!

That's good news. Just tell them that they now have a grandson.

I came to realize that the reason why God said not to have sex before marriage was so that we(young people) would not make silly mistakes and mispriotize our lives.

If you had stayed in your house that night and masturbated wouldn't your life not be a whole lot better??

Anyhow you didn't give us adequate information, for instance which country are you studying in, are the fees affordable, If so, try and complete your education, at least have a bachelor's degree, it's important.

Tell your parents about the child, the fact that you've already given birth to her means you can't hide her, you made the choice to give birth, be an adult and bear the implications of your choice.

LoyalHustler:
Nonsense fake story.

So people could not see the lies in the poorly written Nollywood script.

His wife was 8 months pregnant and you fought with him so he Left angrily.
After three months you both met and he told you this same 8 months pregnant wife is already pregnant again.

Please Ladies in the house, is it possible to get pregnant again in less than two months after giving birth?

She never wrote “His wife was 8 months pregnant”, The Story stated that “the new born baby is 8months old”

Meanwhile the story is fake anyway, Lots of lies inside one story.

Nat404:
The fake part of the story was dropping out of school for three years.

The young lady is silly to have posted a fabricated story here.

Everything about the story is just too fake and yet people are wasting their time to contribute.

This one deep o..

My only doubt about this story is that if you drop out of school abroad, you will lose you status and hence, will be asked to leave the country.

Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?

You are heartless for destroying another woman's home, law of karma is real.

You were young and stupid, you made a mistake, life goes on,tell your parents, they may disown you for a couple months but they'll take you back eventually at least for the sake of your kid.

This is the kind of actions that breaks a father's heart.

Send the script to Tonto Dikeh, she may make sense out of it again (Nollywood).

EmekusTHEgreat:
When I became sexually active, I came to realize that the reason why God said not to have sex before marriage was so that we(young people) would not make silly mistakes and mispriotize our lives.

If you had stayed in your house that night and masturbated wouldn't your life not be a whole lot better??

Anyhow you didn't give us adequate information, for instance which country are you studying in, are the fees affordable, If so, try and complete your education, at least have a bachelor's degree, it's important.

Tell your parents about the child, the fact that you've already given birth to her means you can hide her, you made the choice to give birth, be an adult and bear the implications of your choice.

one of the best comment here so far

How can you send kid abroad and no background check up? I trust my people someone must visit you with the excuse of bringing 9ja food stuffs for you.

This is a fake story, how have you been living in US since three years you fell out of status as a student? And how were you able to travel home and come back with which visa? Make una dey fear God na, with all these unnecessary online lies and fake stories! Damn it

Davash222:
You can open your legs but you can't open your mouth to talk. Didirin.

hahahahahahaaaa! This guy!

Very funny story. Pls which country were you schooling again?

stupidity:
It's seems Seun is paying someone to post fake stories on this section. Something is not right.


Seun this is my area of specialty o!!! Employ me abeg, instead of wasting away here!!

guy u get sense. many stories that doesn't add up and many others that sounds too fantastic. EMPLOY ME TOO OH, SO I WONT BE BURSTING UR TRICKS

if i call you a disgrace to the woman race some will come for my head. they sent you to school overseas now this trash. stop causing your people pains. they did nothing to you. remember what goes around comes around. karma is real.

Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?

We've been there babe... Just prepare yourself to come back home. Buh if u don't wan2 come back u might as well declare yourself as prodigal daughter

Speak to your mum about it. She'll in turn tell your dad. As much as they'd be disappointed in you, you may also never earn their trust again.

That being said, they deserve to know the truth.

Omoluabi ti bo so wo aye.

The Same abroad that people go to and they change their family history forever, is the same one you went to and became a disappointment.

Too bad.

And the pricckk may not even be that good.

Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?

Wait oooo when u were doing the doing u didn't call us.. U enjoyed alone now u want us to advise you. Advise kee you there!!

One of the greatest prayers a bachelor or spinster can pray is to sire children with common sense and focus.

Common sense is not taught. It is inborn.

Dynamic33:
I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything

This line is what all single mothers use. Damn I get irritated when I hear such. Deep down, most wished they never had the baby.

GOFRONT:
He told you he was married but now divorced and then still living in the same apartment with her.......How else can a lie be more glaring and Obvious??.......Our girls and their vegetable seed brain sha!!!

Thank God it's a Man's World...

Women are moved by words while men are moved by sight

You are a disgrace to your parents. You have wasted there efforts and good plans they had for u. Stupid girl

Change ur Monika u r very sensible....sense no go kee u....

Hello Sis,

Please if your story is true just like you've narrated it,

Please, just don't come back, don't mind any body, they'll cope.

And if you must come back, please don't bring that young child back to this country, SHE NEEDS A GOOD LIFE.

Regards.

Don't they sell sniper where you are? You are gutsy or ungrateful, not sure which is more appropriate to describe you. You went home, left your child with a friend, had the mind to chat, laugh, huge your parents, eat mummy's food and couldn't call her aside and say, "please forgive me for I have sinned and am dying inside, I came home for a reason ... ." and take it from there. They saw you off at the airport, you pocketed the money they gave you and promised to email a beautiful diploma by the end of the year, waooo. Girl you get mind. It is bad enough that you dropped out of school while continuing to 'chop" their money, you get belle, born pikin, go Naija, didn't disclose your iniquities. Howe much do you love this your parents biko? That said, to err is human and to forgive divine, tell them as soon as possible and live with the consequences, hopefully they will forgive and don't go into cardiac arrest with this bombshell. How long do you intend to hide this? This is why they circumcise you people to chopoff that scratchy part, you needed one. Anuofia.

In as much the prodigal son's father can forgive him. Your case is not exceptional. It will pain your parents, but I'm sure they will forgive you. Better open up to them now.
.....biko.

noisy45:
You are a disgrace to your parents. You have wasted there efforts and good plans they had for u. Stupid girl

.....who makes you a judge? Obviously their plans on her was shattered. But what's God plan for her?

Hhansome:
Thank God i didn't read.

I just thank God I didn't read cos you are too emotional.